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Do you mix your vanilla and lifestyle friends? - - Though I have to add that we have been to a few parties/bbq's where it has been mixed...never really turned out that well cuz everybody knows after a few drinks us swingers can't keep our hands to ourselves or our own partners...hehehe

Help With Wife - Wife has fantasies but is super hesitant to experiment. - Personally I think you might be a little too eager (can't blame you, we all were when we started) and pushing just a little too hard to make her fantasy a reality. Rather than trying to find a way to get around the "Catch 22" of her fantasy maybe just explore it more verbally and see if it evolves into some kind of scenario that she is comfortable with that more easily can happen in the real world. The most successful swingers we know, ourselves included, arrived at where they are by being open and supportive of each other's fantasies and desires without forcing them in any way. In other words, be patient, explore your fantasies verbally and maybe role play, a LOT, with each other before you jump into anything that either of you isn't quite ready for. You might be surprised as you fantasize openly and honestly how your fantasies might evolve and become something that you eventually can and will make a reality. You know your wife better than anyone and maybe she does need a little nudge but most of the swingers we've known over the years who've crashed and burned did so because one partner pushed the limits too fast and didn't wait for the more hesitant partner to catch up. In our case we were quite surprised and what our fantasies morphed into when we really dug deep and talked about the truly deviant (by local standards anyway-lol) aspects of our fantasies. Sorry, I know that's probably not the kind of advice you were hoping for but it's been our observation over a rather lengthy swinging career. Another thought, if you're bound and determined to make your first swinging experience a MFM, is to find a guy who is okay with just watching you two play or maybe getting involved in some soft swinging...i.e. back rubs and or touching but no intercourse. We were soft swap for the first year or two of our swinging life and it was great fun and took the pressure off until we were ready to take the next step. Best of luck! edit- Sorry about what now seems like a long rambling response. In my defense it was pre-coffee. [em]Emo_79[/em]

Idea for this website - An official seal of approval for single males - As a long time member of this website (first as the couple "Tequilarose"), I have to say that being a swinger is not exclusive to couples. Swinging means you don't adhere to the exclusive sexual norm ie. 1 on 1 monogamous relationship. A couple is only one facet in the swinging lifestyle. I would also like to add that couples that aren't into single males have a wide variety of reasons for not wanting them. Sometimes it's a fear/insecurity, from the male in a couple, that some guy will come along that's a better lover and take his lady away. Sometimes it's the woman of the relationship that doesn't want another guy, but another woman. For whatever the reason, it comes down to individual choice. If someone doesn't want something, they shouldn't be forced. That being said, I think the same courtesy should be extended to those that wish to entertain singles. If a couple wants a single male or a single female wants a single male, they have every right to be here. If you want a "couples only" section for the website or your party, then go for it. :) Just know that when you say things like, "singles aren't swingers" or "you don't belong here", it really only makes you look and sound like an insecure bigot. How about we allow everyone with a fantasy come here and get what they want. The "Us and Them" thing is not in a true open-minded libertine's vocabulary. If you don't want single males, don't fuck 'em. No one's forcing you to do anything with them. If you don't like the inconvenience of rejecting them, start your own website and disallow them. Otherwise, FUCKIN' DEAL WITH IT! ;) D

Cuckolding - - Enjoying seeing one's wife/partner have sex with another man (despite the definitions one usually finds in the vanilla world) doesn't reach the level of what true cuckolding is or has come to mean, especially in the context of the lifestyle. While there definitely IS a small subset of swingers who enjoy cuckold-type play it often involves more of a humiliation vibe directed towards the husband and sometimes even some bondage as well, i.e. husband tied up and "forced" to watch wife fucked by a more virile man, etc. while being told how inadequate, small, unmanly he is compared to the "bull". This misconception of mainstream swinging denoting a cuckholding component for married male swingers is not only way off the mark but it's also a little dangerous in that it far too often gives a very false picture of what the scene actually is to many single males who then treat women/couples accordingly. This, in turn, perpetuates the stereotype of the single male who doesn't really "get" what the scene is about and leads to trashing ALL single males. We've been AMAZED over the years at how many single males think that married male swingers are cucks when that couldn't be further from the truth.

WHERE'S THE FUN IN PARADISE - Where are all the fun swingers in Hawaii - I've been back in Honolulu now for almost a month, and hardly see any forum postings about parties or get togethers here in paradise. What gives people? Isn't Hawaii supposed to be paradise? Fun in the tropical sun? If there are any parties or get togethers I sure would like to know. I'm respectable and very respectfull of others. I know the proper etiquet in a party situation. Just hoping that people who are swingers that might travel here know where to go for fun.

FSP "Meet and Greet Dance Party" - Meet and Greet - Florida Swing Party!!!!!!!! San Carlos Lounge February 20th, 2009 The Friendly Members Club A no pressure evening of fun! Come to 18911 S. Tamiami Trail, Fort Myers (41), San Carlos Lounge from 9:00 p.m. till 1:30 a.m. This is a straight bar and It's Ok To Be Sexy! Sexy is fine in public, nude is not:) This is not like many other Meet and Greets you may go to. When you get there, come up to the DJ and tell him you are here for the party. Kimi will introduce you to the other swingers in the room so you won't have to sit there and try to guess who else may be in the LifeStyle :) Warning: They like their music loud at San Carlos, and smoking is allowed. We hope you will all sit at a large table to get to know each other! We'll be playing all genres of music and requests are welcomed as always! Drinks are very reasonable, and no cover charge, but please don't drink and drive. Come out to party and dance with us!

Scuba in Ventura California - Scuba Divers like it wet and deep. - I am a scuba diver spending my birthday diving Anacapa and Santa Rosa off California. I will be there the night of April 10th and leaving Sunday morning the 13th. While there ,I have 7 dives planned during the day but have my evenings free and would love to to make Birthday plans with some of the Ventura Harbor area Swingers. Anyone have an idea of some good Birthday plans? Contact me.

Don't You Hate When..... - List the things that annoy you. - Besides me, list some of the things that really annoy you. Let me start this one by saying... I really think it's childish when someone writes you an email in private, saying all the things that they want to get off their guilty little chest and then they put a block on me, so that I cannot reply. What are these people like 12 years old? Apparently, following the "Why so much hate in the swingers world" thread, the racial comments that followed and my thoughts on the situation, another floridian couple (I won't mention names), thought I was directing my comments toward them. So, they decided to write me and tell me how wrong I was about them and that I must be hiding my picture because it may apply to me and all this nonsensical crap, only to block me from telling them, they had nothing to do with my remarks. I would just like to ask these idiots that, if what I said didn't apply to them, why did they get so defensive??? It appears as though the truth may have hurt these two tolerant and progressive people. Why write me, trying to justify to me how you're not racist and that black guys in the Florida area are arrogant and "put themselves up on a pedestal? Here is what they wrote me:


Originally wrote in thread: "perhaps TEQUILAROSE was confused by my statement, I stated that alot of people have fetish's but I do not know alot of white couples that are interested in black men..." Email One: "do not dare accuse me of racism, i have heard of your attacks in forums from other people on this site, it is extremely taboo to say you are not interested in black, and black men seem to love to place themselves on a pedestal, i live in tampa, i know ALOT of black people and honestly i have alot of exposure to them but i have no interest and i voiced what i have noticed in the swing world and i made it clear it was my opinion but do not attempt to play the racist card with me, keep in mind its not nearly as taboo to say your not interested in chinese, mexican, cuban, italian, however its not taboo for a black person to say he or she is not into interracial, its a double standard and its wrong." Email Two: "by the way, i do not see your husbands photo, it seems like racism is a sensitive subject for you, since you seem to wear it on your sleeve, is there a reason for the hostility thats closer to home?" WTF?
Just to kill any presumptuous suspicions that some of you may have, I will say that this couple is from the Riverview, FL area and not Palm Coast, FL area. This mean Kristylynn did not write this. That's the best way to put it without violating someone's privacy. So don't draw any conclusions. Anyway, I am interested in hearing some of the things that piss you guys off in the lifestyle. So write it down. All I ask is that you not mention any names, 'cept mine. I could give a fuck. I think they best way to understand people is to find out what makes them tick and what ticks them off. No pun intended. -D-

Any Suggestions for Tampa Bay? - - There is a Trapeze swingers club in Tampa I believe.

Where we focus our attention - Chill out Scully! The sex is out there! - [quote=SKICOUPLE]You take a great point of view about swingers and their attitude towards others. Of course most swingers would not discuss politics or religion when attempting to create a sexy adventure with others. I mean why create a situation for disagreement...nothing sexy in that. Perhaps swingers are more respectful of others as they would wish to be treated that way also. We have wonderful swinger friends that we disagree with politically yet it never seems to dampen our interactions. There are circumstances where anger can add something to a sexual encounter but not often. Maybe revenge sex (very nice indeed), make up sex or break up sex can turn an angry situation into a sexy situation but not often. Its all about attitude and what you hope to accomplish, for us its fun and happy swinging adventures. No disaggreement or contention just respectful people looking for some fun.[/quote] I think that perhaps there in a tendency for some people to try and belong, by adopting the prejudices, that might be voiced by the people they are trying to get acceptance from. People who may be a bit less stable emotionally might take that to extremes. Happens in politics and maybe it happens just a bit within the lifestyle community. If the in group that they want to belong to does not prefer a certain type of appearance, gender preference, sexual preference, whatever, they will go out of their way to insult and sort of persecute those sorts of people to try and find favor within their target group. We have gone to meet and greets, where we have been approached by people, who rather than just honestly letting us know they were interested, they spent more time telling us what losers their perception of the majority of the other attendees were and how we were more like them and not like the rest of the crowd. They point out some commonality we might seem to share with them. We don't attend a meet and greet to develop a sense of superiority or inflate our or their egos. We let them know we are very much like the crowd in many ways. When we are really in the moment and really connecting with anyone or anything, do we think in terms of our ego? Or do sublime moments remove us from the burden of ego? Ego can make wall flowers of any of us, if it overrides our curiosity, humanity and sense of adventure. Maybe sex can be such a sublime healing event that all those differences and all the self labeling that seem so important get reframed. Do we see realty more clearly in the afterglow?

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