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Illinois Swingers

Illinois Swingers on Swingular

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Reply or don't reply for requests to meet? - - Their emotional response probably has more to do with their over all experience with the lifestyle than to anything you said or didn't say did or didn't do. Here goes my thoughts..... People have a hard time emotionally disconnecting. People can be irrational. Sometimes we do not know why the react as they do but then we do not know the back story. They, or we may be associating something they, or we said with a whole lot of experience that had nothing to do with our or their intent. Our primitive brain functions which include release of the chemicals that color emotions have full access to our prefrontal cortex where we have the power of reason. With all the reasoning capability our prefrontal cortex manifest, it has very, very little ability to turn off our more primitive brain. The pathways just are not there. So our primitive brain has full chemical access to our bodies and higher brain but our higher brains do not have equal access to alter our primitive brain and emotional responses. So we have an emotional reaction, which our reasoning cannot turn off, so in order to try and make our minds match the emotion we are feeling we alter our reasoning. It is called making a mountain out of a mole hill. This loss of reason manifests as irrational behavior and can lead to resentment and negative premeditations such as revenge and violence. Sex drive is emotionally charged. Sex chemicals defy reason more than most and so do the chemicals associated with anger. So the brain function design flaw can make the emotion verses reason imbalance more dramatic when sex is involved. Knowing that, Swingers should recognize that just because you feel angry it does not mean you should be angry. If you let negative emotions color your reason you may be acting irrationally. Drama, drama, drama is what you get. Our rational, reasonable minds are capable of unbelievable accomplishments. Through the scientific method we have cured many, many diseases, we fly all over the globe, we travel and live beyond our atmosphere and under the sea, we share and communicate with small hand held devices and we even form internet social groups that revolve around specific shared interest. The sphere of accomplishments is too long a list to name let alone full understand. No one person can understand or master one, one millionth of all that has to be learned and mastered to make all this happen. So we are capable of incomprehensible collaborative efforts. And yet, we fight and we bicker and we accuse and we are sometimes unreasonably suspicious. Reason without emotion is perhaps safe but not much fun. We want to experience emotions with friends and lovers. The secret answer to successful social interaction almost seems to be to master the art of recognizing when something is positive and healthy and then let the flood gates open up jump in and be overwhelmed and if something is just not right to back off physically but to also emotionally disconnect. The something that is just not right, that may be leading you into angry, sad, or fearful paths may be more within you than without as well. If what is inside you is ugly or afraid emotionally and you let that color your reason then that may be all you can see in people and the world without and you get caught in a vortex of anger or fear. People think they become emotional because of their paranoia but in fact they become paranoid because they were negatively emotional and then the paranoia fed the emotions and on and on. I have attached a link to a video I found this week quite by accident that speaks to this and quite a bit more. For you that are into physics professionally or as amateurs, that will enjoy scrutinizing the math, as far as the math goes, to me I see where this is going but the statement is made

Swinger (7946437) Bracelets. Who wears them? - - [quote=NASTY4U2]I say everyone should just have one color. Talk to them if they are wearing the bracelet and if you don't click. It would be like not clicking on here. We only have a little of what were into or willing to try on our profile. So we talk with the other couple to find out. So its the same thing. Just in person.[/quote] I agree completely - one clearly identifiable color would do it. The object is to identify yourself as a Swinger to other Swingers - PERIOD! Once that's established, you can engage in conversation and work out the intricate details. The purpose is to connect with others through a common bond that identifies you as a member of the Lifestyle. There's NO need to advertise your preference for Coke over Pepsi, or chocolate over vanilla.

Wedding ring pics - Just something alluring about those. Care to share? - Good heavens! What have you against wedding rings in on-topic photos? I find them a bit reassuring, even homey. They are a testament, in a way, to the fact that swingers are just people who enjoy a different sort of recreation.

becoming a poly couple - wanting another woman to join our family - Prolly not a swingers site. There are actually poly communities on the internet where you can start exploring but be forewarned, a lot of polys abhor the notion of swinging almost as much as the vanilla world does.

FSP "Meet and Greet Dance Party" - Meet and Greet - Florida Swing Party!!!!!!!! San Carlos Lounge February 20th, 2009 The Friendly Members Club A no pressure evening of fun! Come to 18911 S. Tamiami Trail, Fort Myers (41), San Carlos Lounge from 9:00 p.m. till 1:30 a.m. This is a straight bar and It's Ok To Be Sexy! Sexy is fine in public, nude is not:) This is not like many other Meet and Greets you may go to. When you get there, come up to the DJ and tell him you are here for the party. Kimi will introduce you to the other swingers in the room so you won't have to sit there and try to guess who else may be in the LifeStyle :) Warning: They like their music loud at San Carlos, and smoking is allowed. We hope you will all sit at a large table to get to know each other! We'll be playing all genres of music and requests are welcomed as always! Drinks are very reasonable, and no cover charge, but please don't drink and drive. Come out to party and dance with us!

Pregnancy - Wife thinks when she's pregnant girls won't find her sexy - [quote=STGEORGE][quote=CHEFFETTE][quote=STGEORGE]Not sure about the girls, but I have a total pregnancy fetish.... Invite me![/quote] Seriously, why do people do this? 'I am the opposite of what you're looking for but if there's a woman who wants sex I have to try and have sex with her.'[/quote] Seriously, why you wanna judge me... That would be like me saying "Serious, why would this woman be on a swingers website?" She don't like women, she wont play with couples, she isn't a unicorn, she doesn't want partnered fwbs. See how that works, when you judge others? "I'm seeking reliable, honest and frequent FWB situations (hence not looking outside a 30 mile radius of my ZIP) w/ single, intelligent men (if my Interests weren't clear I DON'T PLAY W/ COUPLES and am NOT a fabled Unicorn) where everyone involved can be themselves, like/tolerate corny jokes and unequivocally accept not being exclusive. Humorless need not apply. NO partnered sex partners, AT ALL. If us bumping into your SO together is likely to get you dumped, or if you share intimate residence or reproduction w/ a female, that's partnered as far as I care. I don't want to be caught up in other people's relationship issues; I have a broad definition of cheating b/c I have a deep love of honesty."[/quote] Judge away, I'm on a swingers website b/c there are far more men trying to get laid w/o the burden of a relationship than anyone anywhere could ever possibly want. I'm like a pilot fish and couples are the sharks; I've never pretended to be anything but, nor have I tried to get at someone who isn't interested in me. You, on the other hand, catch the merest suggestion of a shiny pussy and regardless of whether you're welcome or not you start begging for a crack at it. There are hundreds of men just like you, doing the same thing all day every day on Swingular. I'm one of many haters single men have on here b/c of the desperate actions of guys like you, who have 'no problems finding anyone', which perfectly explains your drooling after this pussy from another time zone. Some couples DO like MFM fun; but this one made clear they are looking for another FEMALE. Or did your brain shut off processing after it detected a female potentially interested in sex and go into mindless pursuit mode? (I love to read my own carefully edited profile anyway, so thanks for sharing it.)

who on swingular tans naked - - I was thinking of starting a thread about swingers/nudists. But this seems like a ggod spot for my question as well (hope it isnt a thread-steal - not the intention). I've been curious how many swingers are actually practicing nudists (not talking about around home or other private practices)? I'm sure there are legitimate research numbers out there. And hopefully, someone in the well-informed populace here usually has answers. We are, and find THAT lifestyle most enjoyable. I guess the other obvious question would be how many nudists are swingers? For the heck of it, my guesses: swingers who are nudists - about 10% nudists who are swingers - about 20% No tan lines here - although I must add that tan lines can be very sexy :) !! swingers who are practicing nudists (

Florida swinging - Swinging in Florida - Ampussy - you are not too old!! not for us, anyway. but other than that, what you say is true, this site is pretty dead, we hear from a lot more people on the other sites, but for the most part it's just talk. if you want to meet real swingers, you have to get out and meet them face to face. by far most of the people that we regularly party with we originally met at a club or meet-n-greet, not online.

Who is going to Younge swingers week HEDO? - anyone going? - [quote=SEXYCPLNWYO]Oh but you look so young and sexy!!! [/quote] Its all about how you feel! Yep, left the apostrophy off because too lazy to put it in!!!!

North Ogden Police - Need a fitness program - Dear EXPERIENCED_VIRGIN, It has EVERYTHING to do with this website. Who are YOU to decide who DUSTY finds attractive? As far as I know it's not illegal to have sex with chubby cops as long as you identify yourself as a swinger first...and no donuts change hands. Now if you're in Hawaii it's (for the moment) still 100% legal for cops to have sex with hookers and/or single male swingers. They're considering a law to change that. The hooker part anyway. As to the OP's question. I would encourage your buddies in blue to maybe try CrossFit or Zumba depending on what kind of workout wear is flattering to their individual physiques. Also, you could encourage them to order from the "Favorites Under 400" menu. Most of the items are still deep fried (yeah, like donuts) but they're only 400 calories (if you leave off the cheese, the sauce, the buns, and eat like half of it). They also serve salads at McDonalds. Watch those high fat salad dressings though. Best to just pour a little of your Diet Coke on the lettuce. And DUSTY, you go ahead and love who you want, when you want. Out and proud! [em]Emo_80[/em]

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