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Illinois Swingers

Illinois Swingers on Swingular

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Racist Cops In The South - Trooper uses racial slur and threatens to kill a fleeing man. - Umm...I do believe this thread was posted under the "Just Talk" category, instead of any other category that specifically refers to "Lifestyle" chat of any kind. Therefore, one would be led to believe that Swingular does indeed entertain a variety of forum topics that may not be specific to swingers. Hence, the category offered by Swingular: "Just Talk". :) J

Male traveling to Phoenix possible relocation where to play? - I'm traveling to Phoenix with the possibility of moving there when to play? - Guys and Dolls 4025 n. 39th ave, west side of town, just south of Indian School Rd, turn off ISrd south 300 feet left side, closed in parking area, play on property. also www.clubencounters.com www.clubdiscretions.com www.myprivatehouse.com Just search google, phoenix adult clubs or phoenix swingers

The thin line in the sand. - Where does "cheating" begin? - I wrote this somewhere else...but hopefully it fits here. "Fidelity. What is it? Most of you (some of you) might think I'm gonna come off as a hypocrite on this one. But please, bear with me. Fidelity is a key issue with me in relationships. It's one of the only lines that exist that is an instant kill switch. I've been in relationships where I've had to pull that switch and watch the bodies fall. Then again, I look at the insane stance I take in my "Sexual Play" life. Swingers. Kink that plays with submissives. Dangerous, flirtatious chat. Both Domme and I have regular communication with past lovers. Yet...faithful. How does that make sense you ask? Even when "Swinging" or involved in Kink "play" we always play together. Our communications are open. And in the end it all comes down to one very simple thing. Trust. So where does that leave Fidelity? As a personal choice between two consenting adults." That's my line...hope it helps! -Mr. K_T

Polyamory - polyanorous couples. - We have been in a Poly relationship with another couple for 2 years. There have been lots of great times and some rough times we have had to work through. It takes a completely stable marriage for the spouses and tons of open and honest communication from everyone involved. Both marriages are going on 20 yrs+ Every poly situation is different. Some have very strict rules, however we chose not to have rules. We just have mutual respect for one anothers marriages and each individual relationship between the four of us. If it ended today, I would have no regrets what so ever. Our lives have been enriched beyond belief and our marriages are stronger and happier than ever. I have learned so much about love, relationships, communication, and myself during these last couple of years and I wouldn't change a thing. We started out as Swingers and still have Swinger friends, but we are emotionally and sexually faithful to our partners. Five years ago, I could never fathom loving anyone else besides my husband. The other couple's kids are grown and we still have 2 at home. We will not tell our children the extent of our relationship with our couple until they are out of High School. Some Poly people blend homes and families. We chose not to do that, but do not judge those who do. Poly relationships are very challenging to say the least. It can be wonderful as well. Just my bit :)

Opening your marriage - How did the conversation come up? - It was pretty much a mutual idea. We both grew up in very strict religious (Yes, Mormon.) households. We took each other's virginity on our wedding night after a rather weird ceremony in the temple. Immediately we decided that we REALLY liked sex. We started discussing our fantasies and both wondering what we might have missed out on growing up and not being able to explore sexually like many of our less religious peers. We also enjoyed reading and telling each other erotic stories in bed. One day a few years after we got married, while living back east, I wandered into an adult bookstore to grab the latest Penthouse Letters and a cheaply printed "magazine" of adult ads for swingers caught my eye. I bought it and took it home. We'd read, of course, about swinging in Penthouse Letters but had never really considered that people actually DID it. Not too long after that, after MUCH fantasizing, we found ourselves parked outside a small house party, chugging Bartles and Jaymes, and daring each other to go in. That was in 1989! [em]Emo_12[/em]

Memorial Day Weekend - Las Vegas Anyone? - Long weekend -- Let's make the most of it! - We are planning on going to Vegas for the Memorial Day weekend. We're looking to sun, fun, water (pool or otherwise), and play! 1. Which hotel do you recommend for partying and/or meeting swingers? 2. Who else is going or interested in meeting there? 3. Or...would you recommend on making the trip to Lake Havasu? Ideas, thoughts, invitations, and fun ideas welcome! We have Fri to Mon off and want to make the most of it. (Evildoers --- we will be deeply disappointed if you don't have something amusing or funny to say....please add your 2, er, 25 cents!) :) Thank you all for your input and ideas. (So many fun and good people here!) [em]Emo_16[/em]

Fantasizing about Foursomes - interesting advice - Interesting article inside - Reminds me of our ? to the forum. which was are swingers more spiritual than others vanilla couples? ANSWER: Not nessecary but what the relationship of spiritual not to be mistaken for religous by anymeans, does for any person or couple is absolute mindblowing and is incredible. Spirituality definitly strengthens an indiviual when a couple are truely HERE AND NOW, AWAKE, IN THE PRESENT MOMENT, etc.. call it what you like but not religous lol. The out come of any relationship sexual, friendly, business, etc.. that you cross among has no bearing on your choices. It has enhanced Tre and I's relationship to levels never dreamed of and we dream big NOW. so I say that if a couple breaks up over swinging well it was just meant to be and they only put the thrusters in it. It would have been the outcome for any reason in the future if they didn't swing too. "So remember this ,,,Everythings happen for a reason and there is no such thing as an accident" kisses, Jessica and Tre smile truth is truth:D

Have you ever met anyone TRULY crazy in the lifestyle? - - OK so we're not overly qualified to answer, as we're quite new and haven't gotten to know anybody very well yet at all, but I do have some observations to add. Are we all nuts? NO. some are, some aren't. Many "normal" folks may think we're abnormal, crazy even. I mean, we don't exactly run around telling everybody we like to see our spouses pleasured by others, that isn't a very "Christian" or "normal" thing in society's eyes. It doesn't make us crazy. Adventurous? YES Thrillseekers? YES Different? YES Insane? NO Case in point: It's my observation that most swingers ride motorcycles. That puts them definitely in the first 2 categories. There are a ton more Bikers that are completely Vanilla and totally sane, some may say "Different" because riding isn't everybody's thing. (We're scared to death of riding, and probably never will know the serenity and enjoyment it brings most.) As far as meds go, remember this is the Zanax capitol of the world right here in the land of Zion. Not to mention the number of swinging active LDS members, other church-goers, retirees, well-paid professionals, business owners, and hard working blue collar folk. So the cross-section of society really is still there. Obviously by profiles you will find different strokes for different folks in the sexuality department, and on a Vanilla dating site, you get the same. We have members here who are octogenarians, and others who are barely old enough to get into clubs. Crazies? sure you bet, there has to be. Just as with everything else, a certain percentage of any group will be a beer or two short of a sixer. I think that's why many here are hesitant, if not reluctant to entertain the thought of a hook-up with somebody they know from the web, but haven't met in real life. We definitely fall in that category ourselves. How many booty calls really get answered? Alot of times your mailbox gets stuffed with candor, friend request, and maybe a few cell #'s, but when the brass tacks fall, they end up lying there. It's good to know that Evildoers hasn't ever feared for their lives, with their experiences over the years. The few couples we have met with one-on-one have seemed completely normal, honest, and respectful, regardless of whether or not they (or we) felt any attraction sexually. So I guess we're doing OK, and we're both excited to meet new people as often as we can. That said, I'm going to take my meds and get some shut-eye ;) ~Torque

friends - - [quote=BLACKMAN01]firenice69- alot of people like the friends first , or just friends part of ls as well , alot of people on here are on my fb and are real freinds that ill never get to play with and im ok with that , [/quote][/quote] [quote=MR_TRIXIEE]Alot of people that we have meet on here are friends without benefits... for one reason or another we just have never pushed it to the next level... but I would say alot of couples on here are friends with more couples then just sex buddies... But to each their own for what they are looking for... you can find it all here.... [/quote] [quote=SUMINDYFUN]We are platonic friends with more Swinger couples that we have NOT played with, than those that we have. Some Swingers really enjoy the social aspect of the Lifestyle and enjoy the company of other open minded friends.[/quote] [quote=COWBOYOPIE85]I think having friends and not sleeping with them is good for the sole. I have quite a few couples and singles on here that I havnt done anything with, but hang out. Thats the main reason I use the site. The people on here are awsome to be around and if sex happens with them then it does, If not then I made some really good friends that I can hang out with on the weekends and watch the crashes in Nascar. You cant limit yourself to meeting people here just for sex cause it starts to make it frustrating and no fun. Just meet people to be friends with them and if there is a attraction then go from there. [/quote] Yeah. What they said. I am not on swingular for mindless fucking. I'm here cuz I'm a perv....basically I love [b]watching[/b] others have sex (live, webcam shit bores me to tears) and I like an occasional 3sum with a select woman. I have made some really good friends here - and a few of them have turned into playmates. I have also had playmates that are now JUST friends. Actually, at this moment, everyone is JUST a friend (no benefits) while I finish healing physically/emotionally from the last 3 months. I'm really lucky to have good friends who see more then just a cum receptacle. If you can't find a friend in a community, then I have to wonder what you are hiding and why you (you as in general, not just the OP) find the need to self protect and deny yourself an opportunity to connect on a different level then just "wham, bam, thank you m'am". Just my 2 cents. I'm going to go back to drinking my coffee now. It's too early in the morning to be thinking this hard. :D

Obvious Misunderstanding - - Don't let it get to you. As has been pointed out people will talk shit...just don't let it affect you. It was probably someone who got pissed cause you wouldn't fuck 'em. We've had people accuse us of similar over the years. Or claim that we weren't "real" swingers simply because we wouldn't fuck them or because we didn't swing in the exact manner that they did. It's all BS. If you guys are happy and fulfilled and on the same page FUCK everyone else (well, not literally-lol) :-)

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