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Single male in this lifestyle.. - I have questions for couples and single females. - At the risk of restating for the millionth time...
Cold hard truth time, JOSH. Single guys in the lifestyle are a dime a dozen (that's a really old fashioned way of saying there are a LOT of you). And believe it or not you all claim you're super spiffy dudes (you're not...not all of you anyway). If you all WERE super duper All American boy-next-door stud muffins you'd have girls falling all over you and we wouldn't be having this (single male) conversation for the bazillionth time.
So let's do the math. There are a LOT of single guys in the lifestyle (despite some who would argue that singles aren't really swingers). There are fewer couples in the lifestyle and even fewer single ladies (again despite that 'swingles aren't swingers' argument). So even factoring in the fact that ALL swinger females are insatiable minxes who have sex almost continuously there just isn't enough time in the day for them to get around to fucking each and every single guy. Sorry, man.
My advice to you, and you aren't gonna like it, is to take all those amazing qualities you possess and find a hottie of your own that you can go out into the wild world of swingdom and share with other people. Swinging really is a couple centric activity. There's a reason it used to be called "wife swapping" and people wearing like disco clothes and gold chains and stuff used to go to key parties. Can you imagine the chaos that would have ensued if a bunch of single guys threw their keys in the bowel at a key party?
ps- If you'd rather not find a woman to swing with and prefer to keep your single male status my advice to you would be to grow a very thick skin, become more patient than a Buddhist monk and never ever ever come across as desperate or WORSE pissy that you don't feel like you're getting your fair share of hot swinger tail.
Nuendo - Battle of the bands - ok fellow swingers, we need your votes! It seems a band came outta no where and is no leading by 40 votes! Please if you wouldnt mind, go to http://www.klzxfm.com/greatunsigned and vote for N-U-endo !
Mike & Denise
GB group - Interest - [quote=CHEFFETTE][quote=MYOHMY][quote=CHEFFETTE]Straight men are afraid that bi or gay men will treat the straight men the way straight men treat women; it's so obvious when they avoid them at every opportunity, yet delight in a bi or gay woman - they know they're more likely to physically overpower a woman's actions.[/quote]
That's a mind-cranker there. While I suppose that could sometimes be the case, males who score a zero on the Kinsey Scale may just be creeped out at gay/bi males because they aren't sexually attracted to them and can't relate at all. Not because they fear that some guy will bend them over and rock their anus without permission.[/quote]
Are these men equally creeped out by females they don't find attractive, so creeped out they refuse to be in a room w/ them when everyone is naked and there for nothing but sex? Of course not. Funny that the thing you imagine immediately is the anal rape of a straight man by a bi/gay man, the standard homophobic trope that it is despite an almost complete lack of it happening comparatively; do you think that's the only way women are treated by men?
It's interesting to me that you call my statement a mind-cranker, then mention Kinsey - Kinsey's body of research intending to be a mind-crank all on its own. [/quote]
I am heterosexual. I am not homophobic. I am not worried that someone might think me bisexual or gay just because I have bisexual or gay friends and or associates. In our profile we only checked no to homosexual males because they would not be interested in Mrs. Delicious sexually and I would not be interested in them sexually. So why would we hook up? Bisexual men are not a problem because they will enjoy playing with the wife and if they get a bit of an extra thrill because there is another man or men in the room good for them. Heterosexuality, homosexuality and bisexuality are all normal and healthy sexual behaviors. [b]Rape or any other form of non consensual force, be it physical or emotional are not in any way shape or form normal or healthy.[/b] So having kind and considerate bisexual men, in the room during playtime or even kind and considerate homosexual men in the room enjoying each other would not be offensive to either one of us. It would not excite me but it would not disgust me. Mrs. Delicious is excited by men, so she admits it would be arousing. I am aroused by women so watching two women together excites me. What's the difference? In the end if a man enjoys watching a woman having sex with a man other than himself he is not altogether anti-man. If he prefers watching a woman having sex with a man possessing certain physical attributes he must admit, he has in a way a form of preference, as to the men he enjoys watching pleasuring a woman or in the case of swingers, his wife. Guys think about it the next time you are watching pornography. If a man, all alone, with nobody to judge him, has no desire to watch gay pornography he is either 100% or almost 100% heterosexual. That would be me, I am heterosexual. Mrs. Delicious is bisexual and enjoys the ability to be sexually attracted to and to sometimes sexually enjoy a wider variety of people in this world. We all have to accept who we are before we can accept others for who they are.
NEW RIDING CLUB - LOOKING FOR MEMBERS - We are starting a new riding club in north west ohio to be know as SRC ( swingers riding club) . Any one in the area that would like to join please let us know if you are interested.
weight approperate - - well I know this is going to start a shit storm.
But we look at it like this
1..sexstarved husbands and he's running the show.
2..he wants some strange pussy,but god forbid she gets any.
3..then you have the real swingers that could careless either way.
personally to us whats good for him is good for her.
you know who you are, so don't kidd yourself.
and as beening height and weight proportionate
thats rare for most swingers.
my hubby's a voyuer he rather watch then play,
you can kinda say he likes sloppy seconds LOL
Forum disagreements and swinging (was Something for Lefty) - - You know what??? I thought this was a swingers forum. A place to meet people and make friends. What on earth are you doing bringing war and politics in here? Politics is just like religion. Everyone has their own thoughts and beliefs and it's their right to. My thoughts and opinions are that this forum is no place to discuss either. Seems that some start these kinds of threads just to start heated and argumentitive discussion. Also by the persistance i see, they also like to hear themselves talk. Well why don't you take it to a political forum and give us a break. We'd like to read about things here that bring about a little sunshine in our lives. Your precious Mr. Bush hasn't done that since day one.....war or no war.
coffee shops??? - - Sunset Coffee used to have local swingers and poly people meet there most every week. There was often a bunch of young, non pushy, non literal, non denominational Christians there as well. We actually took part in a few really open and friendly conversations because the tables are close enough we could hear each others conversations. http://www.mysunsetcoffee.com/ is the link. Not sure who meets there these days. Coffee is pretty good too.
Gen. Coling Powell is voting for Barack Obama... - Breaking news this morning on Meet The Press - A good deal of the constituency, of the right are racist pigs. It's one of the largest reasons why I would never join the GOP. Even when I voted more 'right' when I lived in Oregon, I never affiliated. What I find funny are all the registered republican swingers. A party that would condemn you for your lifestyle choices and would love to see you in jail for it. I just don't get it. I lived in the South and I will never move back. I've also decided that I refuse to support a party that tries to enforce Christian dogma on the populous despite the 1st Amendment, take away our right to search and seizure despite the 4th and the while banging the drum of the 2nd Amendment. Last time I check anyone can get a firearm. Can you say the same thing about the 1st and 4th? NO!
May 2014 Swinger's Cruise out of Los Angeles - Mexican Riviera Cruise for Swingers. - Looking for any Swingular members who are going to be on the cruise. It would be nice to know some couples prior to going.
Is it just us, or do you see it too? - - When we started down this road almost a year ago, we were quite worried. As we walked up to the restaurant to meet that very first couple, our hearts pounded as we wondered if we might be making the biggest mistake of our lives. We worried that perhaps "swingers" might amount to nothing more than a motley collection of pervs and freaks. The excitement of possibilities kept us going though, and we're so glad now that it did.
We have met some of you, and although we find you all to be quite diverse, we seem to notice a running pattern of traits that most (perhaps all) of you hold in common. Although the sexual chemistry may or may not have been there for all four of us at the time, every one of you that we have met has seemed well above average to us, on a number of levels. Almost invariably, we walk away from meeting you holding you in high esteem.
Self-confidence is a good illustration of our point. Most swingers seem self assured to a degree that other people often lack. There are many other such traits that we have noticed in swingers. Don't get us wrong. We know you have your flaws too, but we're painting with a broad brush here.
So our question is simply this; Is it just us? Are we imagining this about all of you? Are we wrong and you're all really just schmucks, or, is it possible that swinging (speaking generally) attracts a different sort of person?
We can hear what some of you are thinking right now, so let us state that we are just swingers like you. We conduct no research for anyone anywhere. We are simply surprised by what we think we've found.
Therefore, after meeting so many who seem to be such extraordinary people, our curiosity is killing us. We no longer think that we are just, by pure coincidence, happening upon "all the good ones". Either you are generally who we perceive you to be, or we're just perceiving this whole thing incorrectly.
We want to know if it's just us, or do you also see a pattern of traits among the swinging population (besides sex) that seem common to them?
Can't wait to hear what you have to say about this.