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searching for... - - hummmm just so we dont get crucified for diferent aspects of this post we will kinda poll first to see if the majority is open to the vanilla aspect in witch it is conveyed.....
I grew up in utah brighamcity.. then i moved to live with other relatives in eden (above ogden for those who dont know).... we lived on a dairy farm and were a close family... yes LDS.. not to mix or go pro or con... but that was how it is.... to the point.. I am in search of the siblings i grew up with... they may or may not still live in utah... probably ogden.. clearfield area.... to my knowledge not swingers but i havent seen them or had contact for about 25 years....So who knows... but the main point there is enuf peeps from the northern utah on this site someone will know them if they are still in the area... wether it be friends, co workers or in the same ward. question is are we going to be crucified for mentioning their names on here (even tho its not sexually related) as a attempt to locate them? Dennis
Funny Idaho News - - [quote=EVILDOERS]Yer right as usual. Toilets are what NASA needs. Some of them million dollar toilets. We can be the official supplier of commodes for the International Space Station. Wait, toilets are ceramic, right?[/quote]
It is more about gas permeable ceramics that allow the escape of non life sustaining gases (I think that must mean farts and exhaled carbon dioxide) and at the same time hold in oxygen and such. The stuff could be used to line the exterior walls of bathrooms in swingers facilities so that the next occupant is not suffocated by the last occupants expulsions. Think there was a thread about that sometime back.
The males of couples I need your help!! - I am trying to understand my husband and male pride.But been that I am not a male this is hard.So please help. - First: We were childhood sweethearts. (At the age of 12.) We are best friends. We have been together for 10 years,been married for 8 years.For the ten years we have only be with each other.Before we were togrther I had been with 5 men (I do mean men.When I was a teen,I went out with men : 18 to 23.) Before we were togrther he had been with 7 girls.I was with one woman and Chris was there but we had to stop before we got started.(she only when down on me and Chris was watshing but then I told him to go down on her,so he did.Then we had to stop because someone was try to come in the room.We were at a house party.This is why we are here.
Second: We are in the same place regarding swinging.I only want to be with another woman.I do not want to be with another man.(We both are not ready to have another man with us.)I just thought it would be easyer to fine a couple to do what we want.Then to find a single female.Because every where I go everyone is saying the samething " There are not as many single females looking for coupls as there is couples looking for single females."Please reread the post.It saids that We want to be with a single bi-female..... I only want the women to play and the men to watch......
Third: Nothing can get in the way of our marraige.We would never leave each other.We have been through too much together.At 18 we got back together and we had our frist miscarrage.At 19 we had our frist son and our son and I almost die and we had our second miscarrage and was told by a DR. that I could not have any more children.For 4 year we had sex maybe once a month because it hart to have sex.(When we had sex it was over real fast because he did not want to hurt me.)He never steped out on me.He never thought to step out on me.at 23 we had our second son.What ever was wrong with me was gone because it did not hart to have sex any more.At 25 we had our daughter and I almost die having her.For the past 2 years we have wild sex almost every night.After having kids we finely got our sex life back.Now if only I can get my body back. LOL <(That is a joke Chris loves my body)
Chris is the best man out there for me.I should know because I have been looking for a husband since I was 16.All the men I went out with only cared about themselves and what they could get.Chis cares about me and trys to give me everything I want.THAT IS WHY WE ARE HERE.Because he is trying to give me what I want.He is the type of person that would give you the would if he could.
Just so you know we as a couple have researched the swingers lifstyle for a year before we as a couple decieded to join the swingers lifestyle.
We wrote this together.I just typed it .
Candy & Chris
who's Online - - Just an FYI on this topic from the source. In response to MAYBEMOR's statement, we do not use deception, nor do we create fake profiles. We have never done that and never will. We've been around for 10 years, all the profiles you see are accumulative up to this point. Because most of the members are lifetime members, we are not obligated to remove inactive profile with lifetime membership status. However, we do remove non-lifetime, non-paying members after 6 months of inactivity.
How do you know we aren't creating fake profiles? You don't. You just have to take our word for it I guess. Being around for 10 years has it's privileges. For one, our member base is big enough that creating fake profiles doesn't do us any good. It would actually hurt us since nobody on the other end would be responding. Second, we are in the top 10 of all swinger related search results. We don't need to create fake profiles since we are getting tons of new members each day anyways. Just search for 'adult swingers' or 'swinger ads' on Google and see for yourself.
As for Who's Online, there is a 4 hour window from the last time you have any activity and then the system will delete you automatically. The way the internet works, there is just no true way to tell you are online without constantly hitting the server with requests which would end up slowing down the website for you and everyone else. So we keep you in the system just in case you are away from your computer and you still want people to know you are available. Thus the 4 hour window.
As for chat, if you see someone listed in the chatroom list before you open chat, it's because they probably logged out of chat but left the chat window open. The website and chatroom are on two different platforms and do not communicate with each other. We have to use the chat window as a mechanism to tell us who 'may' be in the chatroom. This system relies on the last person in the chatroom to clean out the database information for those that were in the chat room and since they are that last ones, it will keep them showing, even if they aren't there.
Also, if someone is in the chatroom and leaves for a moment, the chatroom will kick them out. Since the chat window is still open, it will show them on Swingular as in the chatroom.
So this isn't a matter of deceptive practices, it's a matter of mechanics.
Isn't It All About Marketing? - Interesting what people post in profiles and pictures - I find all aspects of the lifestyle interesting. One of the most interesting is what swingers post on these types of sites - who they are, what they are looking for, and their public and private pictures.
Isn't it all about market ourselves? I will not make any judgmental remarks here, because we should not be judgmental in the lifestyle; however, sometimes I wonder what they are trying to communicate.
Because I am a professional website designer I probably look at things differently, also because I am a voyeur I like to see good quality images - ones that show me something about what can be expected in sexual play.
I also wonder if I am reading/seeing more in things that are posted than are really intended - i.e., personality, intelligence, playfulness, etc.
Thus my questions:
Do people take the time here to make a good impression?
Are they trying to open doors or to close deals?
Do they do well at marketing themselves?
Do you have opinions about what is good marketing on a swinger site?
Charles for Lauri and Me
Ugly people and swinging - - Considering that what attracts one person to another varies wildly from person to person, its amazing that you can make a blanket statement about "ugliness" and "attraction" which you clearly ASSume pertains to all swingers.
Also just turning down a couple cuz you personally don't find both individuals in a couple attractive, without discussing with your partner whether or not they might be interested is just rude unless you are both bi and you know that well what they like.
Black Ring, Right Hand - How to tell if someone's a swinger - We used to go to the occasional lifestyle takeover/trip and would invariably be issued a wristband upon arrival so that we could get into events at the hotel or resort. It usually took about half a day for word to leak out, first among hotel employees and then later the general public, that swingers were around the area and that they could be identified by their wristbands. I guarantee if the black ring thing took off that very soon there would be multiple internet stories as well as likely regular news outlets that "swingers" wear black rings on their right hands and there goes any anonymity. The VAST majority of swingers would then not dare wear the accessory for fear of being seen/identified in public as a swinger. MUCH easier to just attend private swinging events where you have a reasonable assurance that all or most in attendance are indeed swingers rather than spend a lot of time cruising the bars or whatever looking for people wearing black rings. [em]Emo_67[/em]
THE NEED TO RANT - Things that piss you off. - People who insist on behaving like high schoolers. Name calling, snide remarks and megalomania have no place in the supposedly "open, non-judgmental" world of swingers.
Verified "Real" People - - [quote=SINGLELOGAN][quote=GENERICCPL][quote=DE2OFUS]calling him out in an effort to ruin his ability to take full advantage of his membership on this site was wrong. He was honest with you when you spoke and now, because of some unwritten "honor code", you want to call him out by name. THAT is wrong.[/quote] We agree as well. If we wanted to be judged by the morality police we would have stayed active in the LDS Church. Anyone in this lifestyle who has the nerve to judge others should get out of the lifestyle and go back to church where you can judge others. We don't want to be judged for our sexual pursuits and we feel it's not our place to judge others, be it cheaters, bi-sexuals, transgenders members of Oprah's book club... People have to live with their own decisions and consequences and answer to their own God not our God or our morals. I am making a PERSONAL judgment call. I don't care if you call it morals, decency, or just definition. If he is cheating on his wife he is NOT being honest. If anyone in the lifestyle is having sex with a man or woman in this situation, they are not swinging, they are cheating on the persons spouse. I know some people who are ok with cheating. I know some people who are not. It is a judgment, and it is right an necessary. We each have the right AND responsibility to choose what and who we are ok doing. This isn't about being morality police, this is about being ok with yourself and who you play with.[/quote]
Sorry folks, you are wrong. This is not a "who is cheating on their spouse" site. This is a swingers' website. A site designed to allow persons to have sex with other persons who are not their legal spouse. The question is, "verified REAL people". The gentleman in question, who INFORMED the young lady who started this post that he was married and cheating, was apparently VERY real. It is not up to you to call this man out as someone to stay away from. It is ENTIRELY up to you whether or not you want him to have sex with your wife, KNOWING he is married and cheating.
Else, where do we draw the line? Is it up to me to send a note to the entire community if I believe your wife had a hygiene problem? Should I call her out by name in a forum and label her as someone to stay away from? I think not. The question was whether or not the guy was real...he was...and, again, probably more "real" than most of the people on this site.
WHere the fuck did manners go? - - My wife and I are on different ends of the pole with this one sometimes. She does not always respond when she is not interested. One reason for that is the fact that she gets bombarded on other sites with mail from single males, even though her profile clearly says she is looking for a bi female. Even when she says "no thanks" some people still persist. So I think, and this is just my opinion, that some people mistake the term "bi-female" for "easy POA". That makes a lot of people a little irritated after a time, and they simply don't bother responding. If I greet someone, it is normally not because I am trolling, it is normally because they have interests that I or my wife share in common with them. If I don't think someone is a good fit for us, I don't see any problem shooting the breeze a bit. It just never progesses to a conversation about sex. It seems that some people, I repeat, some people, have associated swinging with strictly sex, and it seems like people don't want to just meet people any more. I know a lot of us live very busy lives, and we get together with fellow swingers when we can to "let our hair down", but let us not lose sight of the fact that we all come together on forums like this to make friends and talk with people that understand what we do. As friends, it would be nice if we were politely sent away, but sometimes people just don't do that. They may feel bad about it, and just not say anything, or they may be fed up, and just not bother. We shouldn't take offense either way. Some people just don't feel like dancing.
So, with that, if I email you, and you tell me to scram, my pride may sting for a bit, but I will move on, and you will not have to present a dissertation on why we are not appealing to you. You shouldn't HAVE to do that.