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How to get over your hang-ups - - This was posted on the net and felt it was worth a fun read for a swingers posting, even though is was targeted to the mainstream of life. The advice given was a good theraputic read for all who desire to better themselves and their partners in this lifestyle. How to get over your hang-ups There are a lot of reasons that sex can be complicated. First off, different people have different drives, desires and expectations. Then there's the fact that we all carry baggage from childhood, past relationships and previous encounters. Add to this that our culture creates hang-ups about how we look, what we feel and how we act on it, and it's no surprise that what goes on in the bedroom can be a recipe for confusion. But it doesn't have to be. If you let go of your inhibitions - and these seven deadly sins of sex - you may find yourself in a closer, more intimate relationship

Swinger cruise - YOLO cruise on Carnival Legend (April 26th) - Hi everyone, As many may already know, YOLO cruises is having the first ever swingers-only cruise leaving out of Tampa this coming April 26th. My wife Josee an I will be attending and hope to see many of you come along as well. Josee & Marc

Party group for select couples and sexy singles - Who's interested in a party group just for attractive couples near SLC? - [quote=JEFFSMITH1972]In the meantime, maybe we can setup another group for people with higher than average IQs: the MENSA Swingers! It'll be perfect, they're typically more socially awkward anyways, ergo they would feel more comfortable around each other![/quote] Oh, that is funny. However, the MENSA types being so analytical, they'd never get down to business. Probably think it through too much. ;) Mav

HELP!!!!!!!!! I guess we need to work on our profile - - Maybe you could add a coupon for a free bowl of soup? That's always a big hit around the holiday shopping season. If that doesn't work, be sure to add the lines about how in love you are with each other, how you are DD free and expect to stay that way, you are looking to spice up your great love life, and be sure to write NO SINGLE MALES!!! 3 times all in CAPS so people know you are REALLY serious... You don't want any of those sneaky little bastards squeaking through the cracks. Oh yeah, don't forget to dress up your profile with those fancy MySpace backgrounds. Include a picture of your sportscar, boat, and two-headed squirrel that you caught while on your exotic vacation in Rexburg ID... these all get extra points. Last but not least, you gotta have a closeup shot of your genitals. Who says that once you've seen 10,000 knobby/dried up peckers, they all look the same? When in doubt, look at the profiles of other popular people on this site, read their clever ads, and do the old "copy and paste" routine. Just don't copy their pics, people may be disappointed when they are expecting Ben and Jennifer, and they end up meeting more common folk. Warning: Don't copy our profile. It is down right stupid and was obviously written by an ignoramous. The bottom line... profiles are pretty much all the same. Writing some clever literary prose ain't gonna get you laid. The only thing I've got going for me is a hot wife (bait), alcohol (to relax the spouse of the guy who wants to fuck my wife), and chloroform (to disable the other guy's wife when she finally decides "there ain't no way she's 'taking it for the team' with that crazy bastard! " Oh yeah, one more thing.... I also was smart enough to move away from Utah to a place where there are good swinger clubs, lots of hot sexy swingers, and our law-makers aren't a bunch of old white haired guys, in funny underware, who think a good time involves green jello and an accordian player! I gotta tell my former neighbors... I've been to "The Place" and it definitely is NOT in Utah. (Note: the Cirque at Snow Bird and Catherine's Area at Alta might be the closest exception to that last statement) I hope that was helpful. Good luck with your profile. :D

single men - - I'm gonna toss my 2 cents in here just because I happen to have spare change .. EASTTENNCPL hit the nail pretty much on the head with their statement to not expect anything; but it really does apply more to single men than others. While it is true that there are overwhelmingly more single male profiles here than others, there are actually underwhelmingly few 'active' single males. By 'active' I mean: Socializes openly with others (men, women, and couples alike), participates in forums (other than to complain about how single males are treated), frequents the chat room (other than just to hit on pretty women), and/or are actively involved in swinging community events. Most of these things are really just a simple matter of being there without any expectations. On the flip side, every couple and single female user on here knows that to openly seek single males is an invitation to a torrent of spam. By spam I mean unwanted communications, i.e.: anonymous friend requests, emailed cock-shot pics, etc etc .. which is the ultimate source of the single male stigma. They instead resort to browsing through profiles and responding to what's pretty, only to receive a jack-ass in reply. The problem seems to stem from the perception that this is a 'hook up' site. When treated as such, it tends to behave as such. In the sense of Supply; what we end up with is a population of potential quality single male members who are squelched and masked by a tidal wave of idiocy. Then in the sense of Demand; we end up with a population of jilted single male seekers who are almost afraid to put forth active effort in seeking those members who readily meet their desires. The solution lies in utilizing the site for what it is: a social networking site. It's much like Facebook, MySpace, or LinkedIn. The difference is that this site's specialization is Swingers. You get more value out of a social networking site by being .. 'social'. If you're social you tend to be actively involved. When you're actively involved, you tend to get noticed. When you start to get noticed.. well, Problem meet Solution. Sorry for the novella.. like I said, had some spare change.. Alex

cartoons fuckies - - Marge & Homer are swingers!!! I had no idea.

Swinging and Children Don't Mix With Me, What about You? - Unforgettable experience - I have to say, having children and trying to meet with couples can be very hard on your lifestlye. Family always comes first in my book, but it doesn't seem like every parent thinks that, which is why I'm letting you know why they should start thinking about it. We thought that maybe if we could meet with a couple that also have a child or has children, that we could have a better, lasting relationship and have other things to enjoy with these couples, besides just swinging. Well, one couple didn't work out with us and I don't know how to go about letting them know they were wrong in what happened. I'm the only one that even seemed to get upset about the situation and I wanted to get others opionion to make sure I don't owe an opology to them. Here's what happened..... Me and my husband met with a couple at a swingers club, which was off-premise, and we talked some and explained we had children and that we wanted to meet with couples, but it was hard with younsters and it was also hard to find a reliable and trusting babysitter to be able to enjoy the night out. They the told us they had a child and that if we wanted to talk more and get to know each other better, that we could come to their home for a dinner, with our kids. Now...we explained up front that we don't play seperate and we definitely did not play if we had our children with us. They said that it wouldn't be a problem, no hank-panky with kids around, because they too had a small one. This sounded really great to us, because we thought we found a good couple to be friends with and have some extra benefits too, if we wanted. Well, things started out okay. We were greeted at the door by the family, and our kids was introduced to their child, and was showed some computer games and such to play. That gave us time to talk a little to the couple and was shown the outside of their home and such before dinner. After dinner is when everything went WRONG. First, I had to go to the bathroom. Well, while I was gone to the bathroom, the Mrs. decide to give my hubby a tour of the rest of the house, mainly the extra bedroom....and when I asked the hubby where my hubby was, he said.."Don't worry about them, they'll be okay for awhile"...well, that really ticked me off, especially knowing our children were now mixed up in this...and our oldest asking where his daddy went with that lady.....that was about the last straw for me....but I was in these peoples home, not mine, and I respect others homes, but in this situation, I was ready to leave, and without my other half....because he too knew our rules of playing. Well, when the Mrs. and mine came back up, my other half knew I was mad, but for some strange reason, he felt like he had to still play around with her, and in the same room all the children were in!!!! Not to mention, she couldn't keep her hands off him, which was not making my situation of trying to calm down any easier. When I finally got my hubby alone, I "very persistantly" told him me and the kids were leaving...NOW..and if he was smart he had better be out the front door before me or I would leave him there, and I truely meant it. I was so angry and hurt by all of the happenings around me, I thought that if this is what it's like to try and swing...FORGET IT...my nerves or marriage weren't going to stay together if this is what I had to look forward to everytime. My hubby didn't get out the door before me..he was too busy kissing the Mrs good-bye....and I mean french-kissing..... but, thank Goodness I got the kids out the door before me....and that didn't help out any on his part, believe me. We stopped swinging for many years after that because of trust with one another and with other couples saying one thing and then doing another. This particular couple apparently feels that nothing was wrong with what happened, and actually contacted us again after many, many, many years after this incident happened. I'm not one either to "shun" anyone, but this expereince really bothered me then, and still does, and after them contacting us again, through an e-mail, not by phone, it makes me wonder about my feelings on the matter. Am I wrong to feel this way, even after all these years? I do trust my husband NOW, after the bad expereinces, because there was one more after that, but it took alot of talking, yelling, and regaining a trust that is hard to achieve after something that drastic that involved your kids in the process. I e-mailed them back, but I know it was short and blunt, nothing mean, I don't do things like that, but what if they try again to contact us...what do I say? Any help/advice/opinions is appreciated. Hope no one ever has to expereince something like this...most marriages would never have lasted unless you really had a great understanding with your mate, and we put ours to the test and passed.......barely.

Church Swingers, are they out there? - - That is the only web site I know of. I know there are some churchs that are more open then others. We have a frined that is a Minster that is in the lifestyle. R

Game ON....which sign is Hornier...(is that a word?) - zodiac signs of swingers? - I don't believe in astrology or base myself or anybody else upon when during the year they were born, but just for random stats... I'm a saggittaurius. He's a scorpio. I don't feel either one of us fit into the description given for either sign except for perhaps the fact that we're both horndogs. But that's prolly why we're swingers. We're very open-minded adventurous horndogs. :P

Planet fitness Bountiful - Anybody go? - We're there at least 4 or 5 times a week. There are actually quite a few swingers who work out there but you'll have to figure out which ones are and which one's aren't for yourself. We've found that walking up to random people and making obscene gestures or pantomiming sexual intercourse or masturbation is the easiest way to weed out the ones who aren't really serious swingers. [em]Emo_12[/em]

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