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VALIDATION - - yes definately when it comes to a site like this where there are so many phonies. well maybe some aren't phony, but not swingers either, and some are here just to watch lol
What makes a Man a swinger? - Do they all start out that way? - When I, Mr. Horny, was single and met my ex I never knew of anything like swinging. One of my neighbors was a swinger and I didn't know it. Wish I would have, she was a hottie! I was raised thinking that it was only a one woman world unless you cheated. With the ex, she actually brought the thoughts out of bi women and what can be done for satisfying my fantasies of seeing girl-girl action, besides in pornos. After our split, I was just a whore sleeping with as many women as I could without being tied down. That was all fine until I met Mrs. Horny. She rocked my world and it was back to a one woman world. Once we got our relationship going and started to talk about fantasies I suggested to her to get into swinging, not for me being able to play with other women, but to help her live out her fantasies. She was skeptical about it wondering about how I would feel about seeing her with others, but I was content with it all since I had swung before.
So in my opinion, most men aren't normally swingers, it comes from seeing and learning. With the digital age and almost everyone has access to find anything on the internet, men are now becoming more and more into swinging. Also you gotta think too, if it's against their religion some won't go against that even if they have the urges.
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looking for couples who want to be dominated - Couples domination - [quote=LOVEWIVES10]I want to come over and use you both; you both will do EVERYTHING I say! I may spank you or both of you; I might take either or both of you in the ass; I may make one or both suck my dick and lick not only my balls but my ass; I will humiliate you both.[/quote]You may not use us LOVEWIVES10,
You may not even stick it in.
We will not lick your cock and balls,
Nor lick your ass, from which sperm falls.
You will not take just one or both,
To you we give this solemn oath.
You cannot spank, you silly elf,
You only humiliate yourself!
So if you like it in the ass,
The swingers here, have too much class.
Look farther East, for one to pork,
Cuz isn't your mama from New York???
Vegas Bound March 23-25 - - There is also a Swingers Luau party on Saturday the 24th. I think it is ok to post the link if not admin please delete if necessary.
Denver Scene - - Mon Chalet is a pretty unique deal there. Its an old motel thats been rehabbed into a decent motel that caters to swingers. Mirrors, theme rooms but the cool thing is a decent indoor swimming pool with 2 or 3 hot tubs. All naked of course. So, starting out naked in the water or hanging out poolside is a pretty nice way to start. People are there to hook up or do what ever they do, same as here, and craigslist is just a place that some couples or singles just post that they will be there, or that they are looking for xyz and will have a play room at Mon Chalet. Its like a swinger takeover of a motel with a private pool
What does Bi comfy mean for a guy? - I wish Swingular had some definitions? - I have listed myself as straight because I am heterosexual. I kind of assumed that bi-curious means you are thinking about trying bisexuality for yourself but have not yet done so and that is not me.
I kind of assumed that bi-comfortable means you are comfortable with some bisexual interaction that involves you personally being sexual, to some degree, with another man and I really am not.
I am not homophobic or bi-phobic. If bi-comfortable means I have no problem with bi-sexuality or bi-sexual people then I am bi-comfortable. I would also be heterosexual comfortable, homosexual comfortable and transgender comfortable.
We really do not have a problem with the male or the female half of a lifestyle couple being bi-sexual. My wife being bi-sexual, if she is attracted to both halves of just such a couple could enjoy having sex with both halves of the couple. We have been there and done that. I would only want to have sex with the women in the room but if the other man is bi-sexual and understands I will not be having sex with him then it is just the same as if he were heterosexual. No means no and yes means yes and in a room full of swingers it would seem the bi-sexual people have a better chance of getting a yes. If you focus on the pleasure you will not be having when there is no you cannot fully enjoy the pleasure you will and are having when you get a yes.
I'd like some advice.....really, I'm serious. - - We've always gotten a chuckle while running into co-workers on this site, or we discover they are swingers. This has happened quite often, and it's remarkable what a fun common interest it is to have with someone with whom you've only had a working relationship.
As for the play part, we rarely if ever approach or intimate that we'd like to play with them, and let them approach us.
Swingers should not be embarrased about being in the lifestyle, and if they are...one must quetsion "why"?
This is also assuming that if they prefer discretion, those with whom they associate will not let the proverbial cat out of the bag.
Even though they may not be seeking single males, why can't you still maintain a friendly relationship with them; undoubtedly the chances of running into them at meet n greets, or house parties exists.
You never know, they may get a good chuckle as well. Just be polite, and not approaching like the cliche, stereotyped single male expecting sexual favors from them.
Log in Issue - I am not a robot - Yeah, if I didn't think it was ALL about Swingular trying to block any apps that they don't own I wouldn't worry about it that much (or whine apparently). But it's laughable that anyone would seriously think they're doing it to protect security on the site...at least as far as preventing hordes of unscrupulous spammers and/or Russian identity thieves from taking advantage of swingers. It wasn't all that long ago that you could Google your screen name and get directly into the site.
But as long as I'm whining I'd LOVE it if Swingular would, like most other MODERN internet sites, block people from sending identical spammed e-mails to multiple members. It's not that hard to do. I know that might harsh the buzz of a few single dudes who are just too darned busy to personalize an e-mail to a specific couple and find the shotgun approach a far simpler way to get their brand out there (or at least shoot for a sexual ROI of 1% or so). At very least it would be cool if Swingular would (like a paid fitness site I'm on) have a little counter at the bottom of the page that tells me how many other members received an identical e-mail from the same person writing me. Of course other sites just save me the trouble and automatically send spammed e-mails directly to a separate spam folder. [em]Emo_96[/em]
Radio show on Swingers! - - dammit! how'd they find out about my secret circus elephant husband!? i thought what happens in vegas was supposed to stay in vegas. :S