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Swinger Study Survey - - One of our members is a doctor and is doing a study on swingers. He asked if we could post the survey for our members to participate in. Here is the link:
New to swingular!!!!! - - My husband and i are new swingular and i was just woundering if you fellow swingers can give some pointers on how to get people ot talk to you:q
Any feed back would be great..
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Male on male - Not sure if this is where this goes, but male on male tonight only. - i'm obviously supportive. i'm amazed that so many supposedly free thinking male swingers on Swingular project such a homophobic attitude. and i'm sure every bi guy on here has been contacted by the male half of a supposedly str8 couple looking to get some MM action on the side. one of the best things about being bi is to learn how much fun it is to GIVE a blow job. i used to think that women were doing me a favor by going down on me. know i know why so many women love it. i've also met women who just wanted me to invite a second guy so they could watch two guys go at it. and women who thought they were dating a str8 guy until he undressed and saw that he was wearing women's underwear. i guess what i've learned is there is a lot more variation in human sexual behavior than i thought when i was younger. obviously the majority of people are more comfortable with the opposite sex...but that doesn't make MM or FF play wrong or ever the slightest bit unusual. imho.
What is your fondest sports memory - - Yeah, I know this is a swingers site but since the boring Monday football forum went off with no drama I thought why not stay on a lighter topic the sports enthusiests can enjoy.
So when I see them selling dvd sport follies or greatest moments in sports on tv one thing always comes to my mind. That would be watching the 1980 USA Olympic hockey team beat the Soviet Union for the gold medal. Finland was also a very strong team that year and we were not expected to win. It truley was a miracle on ice.
There are so many memorable moments in sports, so what is the one that comes to your mind first? Maybe an undefeated season, a career ending injury, Tom (who is this kid) Brady taking over for Drew Bledsoe and leading the Patriots to the super bowl.
swingers defined - - CDI has been doing funny vids for quite a few years and they're all hilarious. He's been a swinger for quite a few years and is a member of another site we're on. Check out their earlier vid on how to become swingers. I think it's called "The Lifestyle and You." Too fucking funny!
Swingle males. What's in it for you? - - Interesting. Thanks for the feedback. So are a lot of the chicks in the hookup scene cray cray? "Copping a pregnancy on the sly" is pretty low. Is it that common? Also, the "stranger danger and blind sexual incompatibility" seems like it would be more or less equally as prevalent in the lifestyle. Not to mention STD's stalkers and cheats. What makes you think swingers are inherently more trustworthy in any given situation?
Porn - - (from Terry)
We have to remember that the people making porn aren't doing it for our actual personal pleasure or even our entertainment. They're in it as a business. So they want to pump out, as quickly as possible, whatever will have the largest audience. Or what they think will have the largest audience. I think that's why they do so many shots of the guy's dick pumping in and out of her pussy or her ass, so many shots of just her face and his dick while she's sucking it, of the girl's tongue in the other girl's pussy, etc. Apparently, either that's what really does it for most people or it's what they think does it for most people.
I find 5 minutes of a dick pumping a pussy, or of the other kinds of things I mentioned, boring. Yeah, I do want to see the actual "sex", but I also want to see the people, not just the parts of them that are involved directly in whatever sex act it is. I want to see how they feel, how they react to each other. And I want to see what led up to the sex act, how they got there, and not one of the ridiculously phony scenarios that most porn vids use.
But we also have to remember that we're a minority. Even with all the diversity among swingers, we do have one thing in common, which is a different overall attitude towards sex than that which those living in the vanilla world have. If that weren't the case, we .wouldn't be here. There wouldn't even be a lifestyle, because it would be what everybody did. So it isn
The road less traveled less tested - Is swinging still in its infancy and what is it anyway? - [quote=EVILDOERS]Jesus Titty Fucking Christ! Anyone have the CliffsNotes for this bad boy? Or maybe someone can put it on Books on Tape? [em]Emo_67[/em] [/quote]
It just goes to prove that swingers do not necessarily get more sex. Apparently he has not had any lately. Will some one please give that man a head job.
jealousy - - Ugh. So sick of people saying "if you get jealous, you're insecure and shouldn't be in the lifestyle!" Jealousy, like love, comraderie, happiness, hate or fear--it's an emotion. A natural response to stimulus. It can be pleasant to some, unpleasant to others. The truth is that each of us has (maybe only your first time?) felt the sting of a little bit of jealousy-whether we admit it or paint it as something more PC, it is what it is. A little human emotion. The key is how you deal with it-do you allow it to effect you, ie let your body and it's imperfections dictate how you view reality? If so, then you probably should take a step back from this particular lifestyle. However, if you're one of many of us who admits to small twinges of jealousy and yet can get over it, enjoy watching their partner receive pleasure and still rest easy knowing they are their partners number one priority, then you're probably ok.
IPeople who consider swingers part of some sort of "elite" group of society who are above natural pitfalls of human emotion annoy the hell out of me. Just sayin.