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When does interest become pushy??? - - I've been thinking of this topic a lot since it first came out. I appreciate all of the comments made. EVILDOERS said, "Confidence is sexy", and I agree. I see a coupe of things here worthy of comment. First, in this game, women are totally in control. Sex is probably the strongest power position they have. All men want it, women control it. When they say no, or not interested, it's the end of the line for a man. HOW they say it is different. And how a man receives the rejection is different. Anybody who knows me social or professionally would never characterize me as shy. I'm outspoken and engaged most of the time. Because I've been rejected less than politely for advances in the swingers scene before, and after a lot of retrospection didn't deserve the rudeness of the rebukes, I'm a little more reserved, maybe even gun shy.
The fact is, in this lifestyle, no matter how good you are, sooner or later you're going to get rejected. The person doing the rejecting may have had a bad day and be less than polite, but it also could be that you're not handling rejection well.
Recently at a meet and greet I made an advance that seemed more than just welcomed, almost asked for, but was politely refused. I misread the signals, obviously. That happens to all of us at some time or another. The lady was polite in her refusal, and I think that's the key. I think at some time or another we all will give signals that welcome an advance, but do so in error. When an advance comes that we don't want we can reject it, but doing so politely is key. It's simple common courtesy. If the person making the advance persist, then something stronger may be necessary. Again, common courtesy would be to desist when told to do so.
It's all about treating people with respect. We're in this lifestyle to be sexually connected with others. Advances are generally, but not always, welcome and expected. We need to be polite and respectful in both our advances and rejections, whichever side we're on.
Swingers cruise BVI or Bahamas - Couples interested in a cruise? - Hi there.
We are planning to make a cruise around the BVI's or Bahamas next year March/April. If we find enough couples we can charter a 10 passenger catamaran and have lots of fun together. We plan a trip for 3 weeks and you can join us for 1,2 or 3 weeks. We think that we can cover the chartercosts with US$2400.--/US$2700.-- per couple/per week. Any couple interested? Also couples having experience with swinger cruises in the Caribbean are asked to tell us there stories. We already have sail-swing-charter experience in the Med!
Bea and Alex, Morefun@chek.com
From UT? - So many from Utah - Utah is full of "closet swingers"
can we swing and still not be in sin ? - - Since I've been sucked into the swirling vortex of this thread, the only way I can feel like I haven't been robbed of the last 1/2 hr (give or take) of my life is to add my .02 Ok, I know I could just chalk it up to that which doesn't kill me only makes me stronger, but adding my input seems more satisfying.
I'll start off by saying that if you are doing this much research regarding religions and what they allow or don't allow regarding sexual activity it has to make me wonder if you're seriously considering converting to another religion just to save yourself the guilt of sin brought upon by whatever religion you happen to be at the moment. All religions have been formed and molded over the years by people. People who are not perfect, who have their own agendas. A sense of right and wrong doesn't come solely from religion. Many religions would like you to think that in an attempt to keep you in their camp and they'll be more than happy to tell you what is right and wrong for the rest of your life (in case you can't think for yourself).
But if you have to switch religions just so that you can sleep at night after a fun-filled evening of swinging, you have some other things to figure out. Or perhaps you should just start you're own religion, where you can make all the rules. In any case, I think its fairly safe to say that most religions believe quite strongly that those of us engaging in the swinging lifestyle are sinning by engaging in immoral activities, just cuz they don't use the actual word sin, doesn't mean anything. Its just more politically correct these days to say immoral. In any case though, they most certainly believe that we (swingers) will most definitely be going to a very special level of hell, a level reserved for... (sorry, narrowly avoided an obsure pop culture reference)
As for me, yes I believe there is a God. And one of the few things that I think is accurately stated repeatedly in the bible is to love thy neighbor and I'm more than happy to spread the love around in whatever way/shape is available to me.
FREE STAY! Swingers Party in the Caribbean at our beach house on - We would like to host a few couples at our beach house in Culebra, Puerto Rico. - we want more info! what is the closest airport?
Royal Night In Hell - after party Oct. 26 - Well, we can agree that at any of our parties there will be sexy swingers that love sex and that is nothing to complain about. I hope everyone enjoys their parties and stay safe.
HOT BIG HOUSE PARTY-games, get naked,play, ORGY room---SAT.the 1 - - Hi everyone
We are hosting a big house party, This is going to be on SATURDAY the 17th and we would like to have you cum, This party is for REAL SWINGERS, We are having a birthday party for Ray and we would like to make some new friends, This party is a PLAY PARTY with rooms to have fun in so bring on your fantasy and meet some real great swingers, ........THIS IS FOR COUPLES AND SINGLE WOMEN .....single men by invite only......Would you like to cum....This will be at a friends home ( Kent Cheneys )in DRAPER.......NOT IN MAGNA....We hope to have this party as often as possible.
Miami Peeps!! - - I just moved to Florida. What is around the Orlando area for swingers?
Rules to hooking up - - Maybe we all ended up swingers because we don't play games. Sounds like everyone was as surprised by these revelations as we were. We are all here for the same thing, no need to dance around it.
New couple Questions - - How and why did you start swinging?
We actually started out by her only playing with girls! loking for the ever elusive bi female whome dont exist usually. we have had several encounters over 11 years. with those mystical creatures
but we actually started to lax our standards and get together with couples no swapping girls play and same room sex, then we swapped,, It was fun we tried it again it was horrible, we tried it a third time it was OK... hmmmm we found a great couple and exclusively were swingers with them then they got divorced. so we took a three year break. actually had quit the lifestyle.
she decided to give it another go. but with different rules
How often do you actually swing? maybe 4 times a year. sometimes more sometimes less
depending on our schedules who we are hooking up with.
And what kind of relationships do you usually start? We see a lot of people looking for 'friends and maybe more'. Do you find friends that you hang out with outside of the swinging lifestyle? Or just friends that you hang out with inside the swinging lifestyle? Or just sex partners? we have made some great friendships and would never give that up we can party just the adults or adults and kids. everyone knows how to behave when it is required.
we look for friends and on occasion we sleep with our friends.
above all we communicate and talk about what and who we want to do to each other we are very open our swinging life has no rules. we can do whatever we want so long as the other party is aware and approves. there have been some times where some people just dont mix well
sometimes me and the female make a great connection,, sometimes her and the male make a great connection but nothing on the other side of the couple.