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Deviantdoctors Orgy SATURDAY SEP 12th -
Deviantdoctors Orgy SATURDAY SEP 12th -
Dear Fellow Swingers,
Our next orgy will be 9pm, Saturday, September 12th. We limit the participants to those who are HWP, aren't allergic to rules and are able to leave the drama behind. If you are interested, send us a note and be sure we are able to see pictures of HIM & HER. This often requires a Friend request. Don't be shy! Prior to contacting us we ask that you READ ALL OF THE INFORMATION BELOW to make sure you are comfortable with our requirements.
Looking forward to hearing from you!
XOXO,
M&K
Here is the basic gist for those of you who have not been yet...
We find orgies refreshingly enjoyable. So many of the Utah "lifestyle" events are only social and filled with people who don't really know what they want in the lifestyle. At our orgy everyone who shows up gets naked and comes planning to have sex others at the event. We play a really fun and competitive game, usually trivia with boys against girls, that get's everyone naked within about 45 minutes. Our firm rules make it enjoyable and safe for everyone. The orgy atmosphere allows you to choose who they want to play with, without any pressure to play as a couple. No more need to achieve the near impossible four-way match. You may move about throughout the evening if things are clicking with who you started with. Nerves are very common. Overcoming them is part of the excitement.
You must arrive between 900 and 930. At 930 the doors will be locked and the night will begin. We recommend arriving closer to 900. After everyone mixes their drinks (BYOB), we will play the game. Men vs. women. Each time either team loses, they must remove an article of clothing. Once all of one sex is naked, we rearrange the room and the play begins. We ask that you come prepared to get COMPLETELY NAKED and for HETEROSEXUAL SWAPPING. Same-sex and play with your partner is fine, but in addition to hetero swap play.
CRITICAL RULES - ALL INDIVIDUALS, PLEASE READ THOROUGHLY...for the enjoyment and safety of all, you will be asked to leave if choose to not follow them.
1) Keep drinking under control. No getting drunk to where you are not in control.
2) No drugs on premises. If you indulge, do so before you come.
3) No means No AND Ask BEFORE you touch.
4) No surprise guests. If you have a couple you wish to come, they must contact us and be approved by us in advance.
5) No single males.
6) Everyone plays the game and everyone get naked. If you don't want to play, at any point, you are welcome to leave.
7) Protection will be used by all unless playing with your significant other. Condoms will be available, however, if you have special condoms you like we recommend bringing your own.
8) If you tell us you will be coming, follow through. If you "no show" you will not be allowed at any future events with us. However, notifying us in advance, even if it's last minute, lets you off the hook. Just keep us informed and be your word.
9) Don't post on Swingular or elsewhere that you are coming. Part of the magic of the event is to be totally surprised at who is there. Don't ask us either. You have to trust us that we will only allow attractive, high quality people to come.
10) Arrive before 930pm.
11) You will be required to sign a Non-Disclosure and Release of Liability document upon arrival. If you would like to view the document in advance, email us and we will send it to you.
What really defines a TRUE swinger? -
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We don't think single males OR females are swingers... if they are considered "swingers", then EVERY single person on this planet is a swinger. ;)
tired of the B>S> -
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The only chance we have of meeting fakes is if the couple at the club or party turns out to be transsexual dwarfs and were fooled by their elevator shoes making them look taller. We have been around this stuff a good while. Actually we have never tried to meet a couple on this website, we gave that approach to meeting long before this website came to be. (I know my ass doesn't look that old but it is trust me)
Fakes have always plagued these boards, it was FAR WORSE when you didn't have the verification systems in place and while these are good they are still not a guantaree you are dealing with the real deal. The now infamous "Christylynn" was certified as a "real couple" and technically they were a "real couple" just not what you had planned on. You can e-mail someone back & forth till your fingers bleed but your will not truly know what's behind door number two until they walk through the door.
The best way to try and eliminate fakes and flakes is obviously to meet them in person. The only way to hope to be successful is NOT to plan an evening out with ONE COUPLE. We are fortunate enough to have a variety of swingers clubs and organized lifestyle parties in our area to use as a place to meet where we can not only see the couple we can SEE the couples interaction. (This is the part that helps you avoid the flakes) This works great for people like the original poster who lives in West Palm Beach Florida and this is what I recommend.
For those who live in Alta, Utah (Pop.304) this approach is not so good. You fine folks in Alta will probably have to do a little more on-line work to round up some party people. (Just start with real seal at MINIMUM and work it from there...good luck.
Stainless Steel Kitchens? -
Stainless Steel Kitchens? -
We are thinking that we want the cabinets themselves to be stainless but the counter top to be some other material because it is more likely that scratches or stains will occur on the counter tops than on the cabinets or the appliances with exception of the stove. Stove tops (like swingers posting in the forums) can take a lot of abuse if you cook a lot. Some wear and maybe even some scaring is bound to happen. We are looking more for low maintenance functionality and dependability than high maintenance glamour that you are afraid to touch or that has a quick break down once you actually start to cook. We just love a kitchen that just screams use me harder, harder, yes please. As I said earlier we are more like an adventure base camp than the Ritz Carlton. The designer we know and trust and so far are planning on using has a team he works with it seems but we can pass anyone's name along to him and yes we will be discrete. So far he has never had a request for a steel kitchen so we are looking mostly for someone that has access to the steel cabinetry and some experience in installing steel kitchens. We are still open to other options so long as the durability might be comparable.
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We moved from utah to colorado springs and it's like there are no swingers here lol
3 some!! -
Just curious -
So based on the fact that it's a swingers site.... Most of us to some degree. However the variations on the theme of m
Swingers cars??? -
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Gremlin! Lucky! Those cars are awesome, but I guess you already know that!
sluts? what? -
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There is a book called "The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities" written by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy that defines Slut in a positive light. They might be using slut in that context. The book has been very popular with swingers for quite a few years.
West Jordan Utah???? -
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we thought everyone in park city were swingers so we bought here.....guess we should have bought in west jordan :D
A paradigm shift - polyamory -
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Hitting the topic of Poly.... I am poly my wife is not. We swing. I have a lady friend, spice if you will who is also married and her husband is not poly and they do not swing. We, all 4 of us are fast friends and both my wife and her husband have no problem with her's and my arrangement. THey also know that We swing. Now how did that person come into our life.. we met and became friends almost immediatly. I fell in love with her but am sill "IN love with my wife as well. I< we, like to become friends with people before we jump into the sack with them... BTW they both know that we swing. Could I fall in love with another woman, definitely.. Could I fall for a woman who we might swing with....I could and have. No biggy...If she is not into that I understand... Not everyone can handle the situation
Some one mentioned that jealousy are natural.... Only in the sense that by example we are programmed to them, just as we are not "taught " not to eat other people but we kind of get that impression...Canibalism(sp) is not acceptable any more than is marrying ones own sister or brother. Possessiveness is about owning somthing that is not yours to own. No one owns anyone else and especially not their spouse. Is it natural to own a person? I say no. Somehow when people get into a relationship the idea creeps in that says that the other person is your exclusive property. One need to put that aside if one is a swinger. As for jealousy.... Jealousy is a combination of both possessiveness and ones own insadequacies. Maybe one could describe that as fear.. Fear that she or he will meet someone better. Fear that we are not good enough, etc etc etc. So Jealousy is a reaction to these fears and the possessiveness not a true emotion at all. Everyone thinks of Jealousy as an emotion, which it is not.
So polyamory is very possibly with swinging but may purists of poly will say that poly and swinging are difinitely two different things... Maybe but they can exist simultaneously.
Just a note; More than 60% and I've seen figures up to 77% of all married couples, and I'm sure that it extends to LTR's as well...maybe even swingers, are at some time in their life engaged in serial monogamy..; i.e., either cheating or getting ready for the split-up. Isn't this a simpler form of or something like poly? ... THink about that....
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