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wife with other men - ahhhrrrggghhh - If you are going to be swingers the first thing you need to do is set boundaries for each other, if you are worried she is going to something you may not agree with sit down first and talk about what is ok and what is not!!! You can both enjoy this life style and not have to worry about jealously for example only play together. Go to parties, have another couple over or go to there place, etc. If that would be easier for you then you both are there and both in the fun. To be in this lifestyle you MUST TRUST YOUR SPOUSE!! you can't look at this as cheating because you are both committed to each other you are just sharing you sexual lives with other to fulfill a need no one in this lifestyle is looking for a new life long love just friends and fun. Make sure you talk to each other and express why you are worried set limits you both are comfortable with!!!!! If you don't think you can over come being jealous this life style is not for you!!!
New "Cliques" Forum - - [quote=FUCKADOODLEDOO]IDK the hubby and I have gone to parties and M&Gs and there is a lot of cliques however, I (the Mrs.) will involve myself in em all LOL. Iam a total people person the hubby not so much. IDK I just love partying and having fun and meeting everyone for sure LMAO.
I couldn't agree more. When we go to the m&g's we mingle with anyone we want to. If they're in a group, you walk in and say hi. From what I can tell, it's what you're supposed to do. We don't put ourselves in any given clique other than we are swingers. Other than that, everything is worth some exploration.
Las Vegas - - We have only once gone to Vegas and spent a whole week and it was not in conjunction with any lifestyle take over or anything like that. We didn't go to any sex clubs. We did set up a temporary profile in a Vegas tourist hook-up site for swingers that we think is gone and met a couple that way we passed on. We recommend not staying in your room tethered to your lap top or smart phone trying to hook up. We did have some great sex with fun people while we were there. People, normally vanilla, are not all that vanilla while traveling and travelers in Vegas maybe a bit more so. The lobbies, coffee shops, pools and bars in the better classier hotels are fun if you are the sorts that can strike up a conversation, be playful and see where the conversation goes. Have fun!
Do you have be like Barbie to be wanted? - - what i will tell you is that on these sights lots of folks look at the pics and judge the book by the cover. I know for fact that alot of folks don't even bother reading the profiles some may read part. We have had more fun in local clubs ( swingers type clubs ) where you get a mix. Confidence is a big thing and it doesn't take much to shake it. Just remember this is a place to attempt to meet folks , try to find some local groups or clubs that get together and see if that works for you. If you do go to a club do not be a wall flower again nothing happens if you sit on the sidelines... I will agree with everyone else tho, most of us got into swinging as a couple and 99 % of the guys are gonna want to participate not just sit on the sidelines.
Identifying Swingers! - Lots of talk and now some action! :) - I thought the necklace was beautiful & bought one the night of the christmas party. I have people ask me about it & where i got it. I'm glad that you put this up. Thanks..
can we swing and still not be in sin ? - - Since I've been sucked into the swirling vortex of this thread, the only way I can feel like I haven't been robbed of the last 1/2 hr (give or take) of my life is to add my .02 Ok, I know I could just chalk it up to that which doesn't kill me only makes me stronger, but adding my input seems more satisfying.
I'll start off by saying that if you are doing this much research regarding religions and what they allow or don't allow regarding sexual activity it has to make me wonder if you're seriously considering converting to another religion just to save yourself the guilt of sin brought upon by whatever religion you happen to be at the moment. All religions have been formed and molded over the years by people. People who are not perfect, who have their own agendas. A sense of right and wrong doesn't come solely from religion. Many religions would like you to think that in an attempt to keep you in their camp and they'll be more than happy to tell you what is right and wrong for the rest of your life (in case you can't think for yourself).
But if you have to switch religions just so that you can sleep at night after a fun-filled evening of swinging, you have some other things to figure out. Or perhaps you should just start you're own religion, where you can make all the rules. In any case, I think its fairly safe to say that most religions believe quite strongly that those of us engaging in the swinging lifestyle are sinning by engaging in immoral activities, just cuz they don't use the actual word sin, doesn't mean anything. Its just more politically correct these days to say immoral. In any case though, they most certainly believe that we (swingers) will most definitely be going to a very special level of hell, a level reserved for... (sorry, narrowly avoided an obsure pop culture reference)
As for me, yes I believe there is a God. And one of the few things that I think is accurately stated repeatedly in the bible is to love thy neighbor and I'm more than happy to spread the love around in whatever way/shape is available to me.
If That's What You Are Into Video - Just seems perfect for swingers - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pY8jaGs7xJ0
Cheating spouse? - Signs, cause and effects - Bottom line we ALL (despite some arbitrary "vow" we made) basically get up each morning and decide to be with this person TODAY. It's pretty much a day to day contract and like it or not your spouse can also opt out at any time. And throwing swinging into the mix DOES add additional stresses and OPTIONS for a spouse to cheat or just leave (a concept that I think some singles don't quite grasp...
because they simply aren't risking anything like that by swinging, but that's another conversation). If a partner cheats then you and you alone get to decide if the relationship is worth fighting for or not and then proceed from there. I find it quite odd that in a room full of people who flaunt society's conventions (swingers) there are so many who have such absolutes as there only options and that the penalty for cheating is immediate death (of the relationship).
Freakin' Spell Check at Least - It is included in the browser. - all we have to say is ............ REALLY?????????
you kidding right your on a swingers site complaining about peoples grammer
Close minded swinger "Open" Lifestyle...... - - Posted By: ULUVBIGBLKDICK Posted on:
Jan 19, 2006 - 8:36 am
Whites only swingers?? Death to all single males?? and now NO NAKED MEN ON CAM CHAT?? (only if your married and single females which is encouraged)
How close minded is this swingers world becoming or has it been this way all along??
AND YOU CALL US RACIST I THINK YOU ARE A BIG ONE
I THINK THERE ARE ONLY SO MANY CAM WINDOWS THAT YOU CAN CAM ON
HERE.I tried to get on cam one day and there where like 6 guys on and the rest where
couples on not one offer to give it up.
i think its called swingers NOT swinger