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Where are all the guys pictures at? - - OK.......................... Now I think we know why alot of MEN don't POST Pics because they (as in 99%) feel their COCK is the best part of them and that's all they want to show off. AS for most here in TEXAS we've discovered that MOST THINK they are so important in their respective jobs that if they got discovered out they were Swingers they'd lose their jobs. We personally feel it more along the lines of being plain ugly or just FAT, and they are afraid they'd scare away any possible playmate. BUT................... that's our opinion!!! Male Half here........................ No wonder people always say we only think with the little head. I'm asshamed too even be male at times. I for one have a mind that I actually use and I can't say that for alot of others here so far. OH WELL

New couple Questions - - How and why did you start swinging? We actually started out by her only playing with girls! loking for the ever elusive bi female whome dont exist usually. we have had several encounters over 11 years. with those mystical creatures but we actually started to lax our standards and get together with couples no swapping girls play and same room sex, then we swapped,, It was fun we tried it again it was horrible, we tried it a third time it was OK... hmmmm we found a great couple and exclusively were swingers with them then they got divorced. so we took a three year break. actually had quit the lifestyle. she decided to give it another go. but with different rules How often do you actually swing? maybe 4 times a year. sometimes more sometimes less depending on our schedules who we are hooking up with. And what kind of relationships do you usually start? We see a lot of people looking for 'friends and maybe more'. Do you find friends that you hang out with outside of the swinging lifestyle? Or just friends that you hang out with inside the swinging lifestyle? Or just sex partners? we have made some great friendships and would never give that up we can party just the adults or adults and kids. everyone knows how to behave when it is required. we look for friends and on occasion we sleep with our friends. above all we communicate and talk about what and who we want to do to each other we are very open our swinging life has no rules. we can do whatever we want so long as the other party is aware and approves. there have been some times where some people just dont mix well sometimes me and the female make a great connection,, sometimes her and the male make a great connection but nothing on the other side of the couple.

One Penis Policy - Do you it in Your Marriage? - I know a guy, that is a former midwest big city policeman. In the short time I have known him, I have discovered that he seems to be, a racist, sexist and homophobic. Or at least he seems compelled to come off that way. He seems a bit perplexed, that here is Utah, he is not finding very many people who are willing to embrace him with open arms. He will say things like he is okay with gay marriage, but personally it makes him sick. In the short time he has been here, I have witnessed some progress. After he made just such a statement, I asked him, if he said that because he really is sickened by the homosexuality, or because he wanted to make sure I knew he was a heterosexual? He actually thought about that out loud and said. (I'm paraphrasing to the best of my recollection, what he said) "I guess I don't need to say something like that around you. You have gay friends and they probably don't tell you they are sickened by heterosexuality do they? I am used to working with guys that are expected to say something derogatory about all sorts of people. Live and let live. Maybe moving here is what I needed. Maybe the people here are better than where I came from. It's not what I expected. Maybe it's better?" Step at a time, step at a time. We have had similar exchanges about racism and sexism. Anyway, swinging and how swingers define things like fidelity are still perhaps a bit further removed from the American social collective consciousness discussions, as are subjects like racial equality and equality for the LGBT community, where open healthy activism abounds, and yet still so many people harbor prejudice.

i got threatened with sexual harrassment - - Let me put it very simply for you in the next few phrases. Don't squat where you eat Don't dip your pen in the company inkwell Not to be harsh on you but you did ask for it. When at work, if you talk of swingers it would be like "WTF are you talking about?. You mean people that sit on swings or swing dancing or those people that have sex with each other in a group?". We will NEVER tell you we swing nor will we even admit knowing anyone who does. Unless we do see you swap at a party, in our eyes you are not swingers and we will never reveal ourselves to you. We avoid those who insist on rubbing it in the faces of others that they are swingers. We don't want to be guilty by association. Even if we know you are swingers, we will mention names only if we think you need to know and then, only first names. No cities, towns, dog's name, etc, etc. If you are ever "outed", we will be "OMG!!! They do that???? I never knew".

MEET AND GREET - ALT PATHWAY MEET AND GREET IN TAMPA - ALT PATHWAY Friday AUGUST 7TH 9:00 PM Until 2am Ladies Drink 2 for 1 YOU HAVE BEEN WAITING AND YOU HAVE ASKED SO M & M PARTIES ALONG WITH SHYLATIN HAVE LISTENED. WE HAVE CUM TO TAMPA!! YES YOU HEARD IT RIGHT WE ARE HERE WE ARE HAVING OUR FIRST TAMPA MEET N GREET!! IF YOU HAVE EVER BEEN TO ONE OF OUR PARTIES YOU KNOW WE MAKE EVERYTHING ABOUT THE PEOPLE!! WE ARE REAL SWINGERS THROWING SWINGER PARTIES!! WE INTEND TO MAKE EVERYONE COMFORTABLE AND HAPPY!! ALT PATHWAYS IS A GREAT RESTAURANT AND STILL HAS THAT LOUNGE/CLUB ATMOSPHERE!! FROM A NICE COZY SECTION AROUND THE BAR TO SIT AND ENJOY CONVERSATION. TO A STEP DOWN AREA WHERE THE MUSIC WILL BE JAMMIN THE LATEST MUSIC. DJ MISA AND MR SHYLATIN WILL KEEP THE DANCE FLOOR PACKED. DONATIONS FOR THE EVENT ARE AS FOLLOWS: COUPLES: $15.OO SINGLE MALES: $25.00 SINGLE FEMALES: FREE A $5.00 COUPON FOR FOOD WILL ALSO BE GIVEN AT THE DOOR!! SO CUM MAKE A NIGHT OF IT ARRIVE A LITTLE EARLY EAT DINNER THEN SIT BACK GET TO KNOW SOME NEW ONES CATCH UP WITH SOME OLD FRIENDS AND THEN GO PARTY ON THE DANCE FLOOR. LOCATED 1 block East of 275 off of Bush Blvd. The address is 810 E. Skagway Ave - Tampa, Florida - 33604 . The restaurant phone # is 813-932-7400. C YOU ALL THERE M & M/SHYLATIN PARTIES www.mmparties.com PLEASE RSVP BACK AT THIS EMAIL P.S THIS JUST IN IF YOU ATTEND OUR MEET N GREET THIS FRIDAY YOU WILL RECEIVE A TICKET TO A FREE ENTRY TO ANOTHER PARTY FOR LIFESTYLERS ON SATURDAY IT IS THE GRAND OPENING OF NEW TAMPA CLUB!!! DONT MISS OUT!!!!!!!!!!

Discretion, the better part of valor - I love that saying - It's a tough one. Women will ALWAYS get more action here than men. Sex is theirs when it comes to power and control. The "you can only get as much as I can get" has never worked for us. But our situation is a little different in that I travel a ton for work so when I'm home I can't see spending what little time I have with someone else. And being on the road, I don't have time to get any action. So the equality in playing separate isn't there. As a result, Mrs. Sexperimentor doesn't play without me unless it's another woman. That's her choice and a bone thrown to equality, which I appreciate. As for the issue of not playing because you're afraid you'll run into a playmate in your vanilla life... To me that's horse pucky. The person you run into will be at just as much risk as you of being "outed". You'll have a lot more in common than a whole lot of other people you meet. And if you have a little discretion about who you play with, you'll have similar attitudes on how to conduct yourselves in a vanilla situation. Actually, I don't think we have EVER, in all the years we've been doing this, just run into anyone we've played with. There are people we've known to be swingers but haven't played with that we've run into, one lady I run into frequently, but life in the lifestyle has never even been discussed in vanilla settings. I hope this isn't your situation, but the last couple I knew that would play separately but not together, with a story told essentially the same way you told yours, didn't end well. She was more interested in having other romantic relationships than she was in maintaining her marriage. Frankly, while playing without my wife is fun, and we share the tales and details afterward, I'd really rather play as a couple. Our playing together has enhanced our relationship and that's what I'd encourage you to do. Mr. Sexperimentors

Swingular poll for members - I would like to poll the members on the follwoing items - Mr. Hunt... Hate to see you go...Mrs. Hunt is one of the bright spots of my day...Sorry guy...Not into dudes!!! BUT the reality is that 2 things are going on here: 1.) you get what you pay for. When you got a $20 for life membership, did you expect to get all the bells and whistles? Did you expect encrypted everything? Did you expect that everything you said or did in here was safe? Personally, I did not. but I am one who does not care about somone knowing what I do on the weekends. 2.) Do you think that your friends, family, co-workers do not know what you do on your weekends? Come on...I am sure you display all the characteristics of other swingers. You have friends who come to visit wearing alluring clothing. You go to clubs, yet no one outside of the swinging community sees you in the clubs. PLEASE DO NOT TAKE THIS AS AN ATTACK ON MRS HUNT...but who typically gets breast augmentations, ESPECIALLY when they are the vision of perfection? AGAIN...Do not take that as an attack on Mrs. Hunt...thought she was a goddess without change...but she has her reasons...so I support her decision... Do I think you are over-reacting? I do indeed. but that is your decision. Hate to see you go, but if you feel you must, then you must.

Cruise - pricing - You guys are really bitching about paying $2000 for two people for a 7 day lifestyle takeover cruise? I heard Utah people were cheap but come on. Let's break that down per day... $285... per couple... per day... We've been many places that aren't nearly as nice as being on a cruise with 2100 swingers and paid a lot more than that for just hotel rooms. Throw in car rental and food and you're out even more. So what if you're paying $600 more than what they charge for a regular cruise... you don't have to worry about children and you're around people you can actually have fun with. Sounds like the extra money is worth it to me. And have you ever been on ANY vacation when you fly? Add in airfare, liquor, tips and gratuities as well. You're not getting those things free on most other vacations anyways. Did you go to SwingFest? The rooms there were $300 a night! So if you can't afford this cruise, don't knock the people who put it together, we've been waiting for something like this for a long time and they deserve to make a bit of money off this because I'm sure it wasn't easy. And you're probably the ones who bitch about there never being any events or parties for lifestylers, then when someone puts one together, you bitch about it because they make a dollar for their efforts. We'll be on the cruise and we'll be glad to see those who aren't cheap on there with us.

Late Night Television Ad for Swingular - Anyone interested? - [css]background:url('http://www.artofadambetts.com/images/postgraphics/downloads/desktopbgs/LeatherHoles-Apple.png');color:white;[/css][quote=XPLORR94248]Have you explored whether TV will take ads for a swinger site? And would an ad cost about the same nationally as in a local market? Cable and satellite have channels which sell toys and such as well as the W network with the canadian lady sexologist on Sunday nights...National and international coverage at least US and Canada...Just a thought that I'm sure you've probably thought of and explored already... [/quote] The ad would be so discrete, it wouldn't mention anything about swingers so the networks wouldn't have any problem accepting it. We would rather target one market at a time to concentrate the membership in that area which in turn would 'blow up' in itself. Once we achieve that, we would move on to the next area. However, we will be launching a huge Canadian campaign once we finish the new site because it will be ready to support a Canadian membership. [size=200][b][color=#09549f"].~Admin~.[/color][/b][/size]

Swingers in a vanilla bar... - - Dr. Ziggy... How would someone approach a couple in a vanilla bar if you suspect (or know from a reliable source) that they are swingers? (And the wife/gf seems to be quite friently.)

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