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New York Swingers

New York Swingers on Swingular

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SWING CLUBS - - This seems like a pretty standard thing for a swingers site and would be a welcome addition, especially if there's a chance to rate and/or offer comments on clubs. This would probably also be a big help in getting more couples validated, if there's a common place to meet someone. Actually, anything in the "info" section would be nice. Administrators, any idea when some of the proposed additions will be made? :)

Thought on "E" - - We firmly believe that everyone should have the right to choose. People should be able to do whatever they want with their own lives. It's funny because people do look down on swinging or swingers yet we all meet here, exercising our right to choose our own lifestyle. Why should it be different with anything else ???? Swinging irresponsibly is very dangerous and can lead to stds that can ultimately end in death. Its quite possible that something may occur even if you thought you were playing it safe. Same with drugs ,they can be risky as well, and there isn't anyway to safeproof yourselves 100%. I think that everyone should just go on living their lives the way they see fit and not judge anyone else for the way they choose to live theirs. Mrs. Crunk

BBW Couples in Salt Lake Area? - Newbies - Hey guys, My wife and I are completely newbies to the swingers lifestyle, we have had couple of threesomes fmf and some soft swap with another couple. We would like to find and develop friendships with BBW females and BBW couples, and take it to the next level. We have the idea of making friends in/out bedroom and have lots of fun. We have tried Craiglist before with no luck we realized theres nothing safer than this. Feel free to message us, send us a friend request. Thank you.

A Place to Play - I have a new hot topic to discuss - Here in Utah most AirBnB's have rules againts inviting guess and having parties, not to mention to be quite and no loud noice after 9:00 PM, so that might not be a realistic option... however we like from time to time rent a double room suite, but it only works when real swingers attend...

Condoms - Always Required? - - I'm curious to know what members here think about condoms. Of course, most members always require condoms, and say so in their profiles. But I've met more than a few people who don't always require condoms. At one party, I met a woman who hooked up with several men throughout the night, without ever using a condom. I was amazed at their recklessness, even if I understood why people preferred the sensations of bareback sex. What's even more amazing about condoms is that they are far from foolproof. I once heard the analogy: a condom is like a raincoat in a rain storm - you still get wet. I've personally experienced condoms fall off or break. Yet I've met many people who act as if, once the condom is on, they are virtually invulnerable. It would be preferable for the woman to be (additionally or alternatively) on birth control, although that won't help prevent STD transmission. Also, it seems that swingers almost never use condoms, or other protection, for oral sex, even though (as far as I know), some STDs can be spread genital-to-mouth (or vice versa). I don't think that I've ever seen a woman going down on a guy with a condom on, in real life or in porn. Do you always require a condom? If not always, when? With people that you know well? What other precautions might you take? Have you ever met or heard of a person in the lifestyle catching an STD? Or, more shockingly, getting pregnant? What happened?

Positive Media Attention - KUTV should have read this - A lot of metaphorical ink was spilled in recent weeks about how awful the KUTV piece on swingers is/was. Thought you all might all appreciate this Op-Ed in the news magazine The Week (one of the most prestigious mainstream news mags) ... sometimes the media does portray things in a positive light. Kudos to the Portland couple for their articulate defense of the lifestyle. http://theweek.com/articles/583977/journey-from-stayathome-mom-sexual-adventuress

Cuckolding - - Enjoying seeing one's wife/partner have sex with another man (despite the definitions one usually finds in the vanilla world) doesn't reach the level of what true cuckolding is or has come to mean, especially in the context of the lifestyle. While there definitely IS a small subset of swingers who enjoy cuckold-type play it often involves more of a humiliation vibe directed towards the husband and sometimes even some bondage as well, i.e. husband tied up and "forced" to watch wife fucked by a more virile man, etc. while being told how inadequate, small, unmanly he is compared to the "bull". This misconception of mainstream swinging denoting a cuckholding component for married male swingers is not only way off the mark but it's also a little dangerous in that it far too often gives a very false picture of what the scene actually is to many single males who then treat women/couples accordingly. This, in turn, perpetuates the stereotype of the single male who doesn't really "get" what the scene is about and leads to trashing ALL single males. We've been AMAZED over the years at how many single males think that married male swingers are cucks when that couldn't be further from the truth.

Naughty Dreams - Let's hear some naughty dreams - I had a naughty dream over the weekend. Ms. Evil and I were, like, at this swing party with SO many super hot couples. They were all just really fun, cool, amazingly sexy people and we were, like, totally taking pictures of them and stuff...I mean, like, even while some of them were doing crazy, sexy things! At one point during the party, everyone gathered around near the basement dungeon and this beautiful dominatrix brought out her "slave" completely covered in a black cloak. Hot sexy music started and she slowly uncovered her victim to reveal a stunning, completely nude young woman who looked so sweet and innocent yet, simultaneously, just oozed sensuality. The gorgeous young lady just stood there submissively, with her head bowed and eyes closed as her Mistress slowly and expertly tied her with various ropes in intricate patterns that, if it's even possible, accentuated the amazing curves and angles of her luscious body. We were, of course, taking pictures the whole time, and even a video! It was by far one of the sexiest dreams I've had in a long time and I did NOT want to wake up! My swinging dreams are usually about, like, being on scary a swingers cruise or at a hotel takeover and realizing that, like, my parents are there and we are trying to avoid them and running around hiding and stuff. But maybe the naughtiest one was that time when I dreamed we walked into a swing club and everyone inside actually turned out to be gerbils, dressed in Civil War-era period costumes. That dream got REALLY kinky! [em]Emo_97[/em]

ok questions for you laytonites....or anyone... - most people know my part time job... - I'm really curious too. I have run into people at parties that I knew outside the lifestyle, and ran into people in the real world that we recognized from the site. I would like to know if any research has been done as too how many couples in Utah are swingers (or a member count for this site that diversifies states) and what percentage of couples are swingers (I'm guessing it has to be higher than people generally think because of my experiences. Perhaps 20%). Anybody hear of any documented research that answers either question.

Holier than thou? - Holier than thou? - I'm curious as to why anyone here would think that just because people are on a swingers site they would be any different than the mix of people you will find walking around the mall. Since the beginning of time/man/whatever you want to call it/believe people have segregated themselves into groups, cliques, and we've all been on one end or the other of these. It's just a fact of life folks, and being here on a swingers site isn't going to change that one bit. You'll find people you like, you'll find people you lust after, you'll find people that annoy the shit out of you, and you'll find people you'll dislike. Just as in your day-to-day contact with everyone else in this world. I think when you just accept the fact that not everyone will be your cup of tea, nor you theirs, life is just a lot easier. So they won't email you back...doesn't that tell you all you need to know? Also, maybe it's nice to remember that not everyone communicates in the same way. Maybe, just maybe, that couple that isn't emailing you not because they are snobbish but because they are shy, or they just don't communicate the same way you do. Of course, maybe I'm just completely full of shit ;)

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