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Friend collectors or swingers -
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[quote=COUPLE801801]We agree.
#1 we dont accept blind friend requests
#2 if we take time to message you and you ONLY send back a friend request, dont wast our time.
#3 if you are on our friends list, we do kinda expect to keep in touch even if its periodically.[/quote]
I think those are pretty common ideas here. We take it a bit further in that we only keep people in our friends list if we have a rather immediate desire to meet up (next few weeks); with covid, that has kept our friends list very small.
Other activities? -
Do you only meet swingers for sex? -
With some of the folks we have met it was sex only and the relationships didn\'t last. The couples we have met with recently have also gotten with us for other activities. They have helped us put up Christmas lights, had dinner and done a lot of other things that don\'t revolve around sex. Of course we don\'t pass up on the sex either. :-)
We have heard about it many times........... -
Couples that are swingers -
UTBIPLAYMATE, See how you guys are? If you would have been around none of this would have happened. LOL LOL :p Thanks you two! You are also a great couple without drama and only fun times.
Who started it? -
Who/How/How long? -
Before we were in the lifestyle, we went to Hedonism. Nothing happened, but it started an itch that I knew I had to scratch one day if I could convince my wife. Years later at a vanilla party with friends and being drunk, I inadvertently mentioned we went to Hedonism. Our best friends picked up on that and asked if we were swingers. To our astonishment, they told us that they were in the lifestyle and encouraged us to consider it. A few months later, the wife and I went to Sea Mountain in Palm Springs and I told her that I wanted to watch her have sex with another guy. Later that day, she introduced me to a guy and stated that he would be the guy she would have sex with. So, it happened and I loved it. I told my friend who then helped me set up a profile on a swingers website and shortly afterwards, we met another couple from it for our first couples experience. The rest is history. BTW, that initial profile has undergone 1000 revisions as our strict rules were eventually eliminated. Haha!
Swingers circle -
Whats with them -
He likes to get the word out about his parties. Other sites limit how many times he can post his ads, so he is taking advantage of the situation. With all the fun stuff to do in Vegas, I'm sure its hard to fill up the parties. He has asked us if we would do the parties in UT, still working on the details. We've been to 3 of the orgy parties. 2 of them were pretty good and 1 was not too good, only 1 other couple attended besides us.
What is up with Utah?! -
Swingers in Utah and nowhere else? -
SWINGERS??? In UTAH??? REALLY???
would someone kindly introduce us to a few so we can try swinging?
We have met alot of really sexy people here... but swingers?
NO WAY...
Isnt it against the law?
Mon chalet -
Swingers motel -
Aurora Colorado
We liked the mon chalet cause it had room there wasn't sure if Scarlett did but for sure will be checking it out
What really defines a TRUE swinger? -
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[quote=T4REAL69]Now to your question if you want to know what defines a swinger then go to a dictionary and look up the definition. Don't have one allow me "Swinger- One who engages in uninhibitedly in sexual activity" see there you go....swinger defined! Webster II New College Dictionary 1995
Note the definition has nothing to do with sexual preference, marital status or any of the other shit that others want to throw in there to make it fit in their pretty little boxes.
Perhaps you would have been best served if you had ask the question what does being a swinger mean to the individual? Had you asked then each person could give their perspective which is pretty much what you are going to get anyway. [/quote]
On behalf of all SINGLE SWINGERS, thank you.
Something to consider -
No means no online too. -
Our experience has been that they will be even MORE "pushy in the flesh". People who don't take rejection well, no matter how gently or politely it's offered, are a HUGE red flag to us and we will go far out of our way to avoid interacting with them in any way. In the past we grudgingly accepted a few offers to meet someone who repeatedly requested it despite our better judgement and almost immediately regretted it. We now simply ignore repeated Friend Requests from people who we've responded to previously or those who don't take the time to read our profile (okay at least skim it) and know what our preferences are. Almost invariably these repeated FR's are just spammed out anyway. We have yet to meet anyone in person at, say, a party and have them take issue with the fact that we declined a previous offer to meet or didn't respond to their repeated emails. Assholes are assholes no matter whether they're swingers or not.
Search abilities for international swingers. -
Just a suggestion. -
We will be adding capabilities to search by country soon.
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