Iowa Swingers on Swingular

Iowa Swingers

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Un Cut Cocks - What do the ladies think of uncut cocks? - I just read a thread on another forum about this issue. The forum is LPSG, which stands for Large Penis Support Group. Anyway, the thread was a poll for female members to answer as to whether or not they would circumsize their future male children. The poll also included the women's own opinions about sexual preferences for cut, or uncut cocks. The female members voted for uncut in both regards. While some of these female members are into swinging, most of them are up for monogamy, so the poll results may not ve relevant for swingers. I can understand your situation, but this year I actually started desire to be uncut. I believe that the extra skin has a purpose, just as pubic hair has a purpose. I do recall reading that it provided a tad bit more stimulation to the vaginal walls during penetration.

When You're Shopping the Scene... - - Yeah, it'd be kinda cool if there actually WAS some kind of universal accessory or a signal that swingers could use to ID each other out in the vanilla world. And many have tried over the years but nothing has ever really caught on (back in the day, more than a few women wore necklaces of an apple with a bite out of it). And even if something DID actually catch on, and people wore it or whatever to identify other swingers, how long do you think it would take for the internet to make that fairly common knowledge? We went to a swinger's convention in San Diego a number of years ago. The group had taken over the entire hotel and property and nobody was allowed in without a special wristband. It took about 4 hours for most of the hotel staff to learn what those wristbands meant. By the next day, people at nearby hotels, restaurants, and shopping centers had heard the news and as you passed people they would glance at you and then immediately glance down at your wrist. By that evening, most of the swingers were becoming so self-conscious that they were attempting to hide the wristbands beneath watches and bracelets. A few even pulled them off their wrists, if they were loose enough, and then put them back on when re-entering the property. So, as nice as it would be to know for sure who other swingers are, it would kinda defeat the purpose of what many of us state in our profiles...that we're discreet. I suspect that about 10% (if even) would wear a black ring and about 90% wouldn't for fear of being outed as swingers. YMMV

Las Vegas - - We have only once gone to Vegas and spent a whole week and it was not in conjunction with any lifestyle take over or anything like that. We didn't go to any sex clubs. We did set up a temporary profile in a Vegas tourist hook-up site for swingers that we think is gone and met a couple that way we passed on. We recommend not staying in your room tethered to your lap top or smart phone trying to hook up. We did have some great sex with fun people while we were there. People, normally vanilla, are not all that vanilla while traveling and travelers in Vegas maybe a bit more so. The lobbies, coffee shops, pools and bars in the better classier hotels are fun if you are the sorts that can strike up a conversation, be playful and see where the conversation goes. Have fun!

Where are all the private parties? - where are the private parties. - hi there. We have also been looking for a party. If you look up kentcheney on this site, he may have some suggestions. We are very new at going to parties and so we may try a few meet and greets this weekend... plus we want to find some couples to talk to, who may have been to hedo11. We are thinking of going there, or a place like that, next Spring or Summer and want to get ideas on where to go, how they are, etc.. We also may be going to habits tonight. Another couple emailed us and said some swingers go there, and the club is having it's one year anniversary. We have never been there, however, we also have free time right now and decided to get out... we may even try the party that kentcheney is having this weekend - if we get our nerves to drop down a notch.. hope this helps M & D

Too Young to be Taken Seriously? - - [quote=REN]My husband and I are interesting in joining the lifestyle, starting slow. However I've noticed the majority of people here are older. We both are twenty, is this too young to be taken seriously in the lifestyle? Should we keep at it, or come back in 10-20 years. I do understand if people want their partners to be old enough to have an adult beverage with them. But perhaps it is the maturity level? Maturity level is different for everyone. There are twenty year olds who act years older than they are, and sixty year olds who act younger than we are. To each their own I guess. I'm not asking to have everyone be my friend right now. I'm just curious as to what people think about younger swingers. What is your opinion about say twenty-five or younger couples?[/quote] I think you two should keep at it as well. :) You are young and full of energy. Most of us older swingers wish we had the open minds, you do, when we were your age. There are plenty of people that you can connect with both old and young, that don't pay attention to the age thing. With respect to being close friends, you will have factors like experience and maturity factors that come into play. You're at a different stage in your life than older people and more often than not, this can limit your interaction and ability to identify. That being said, you should keep going. If someone's too old (in their mind), to hump ya, then they're just plain ole too old. hahaha ;) Good luck and have fun. D

A party in Naples - anyone interested - Well we would LOVE to since Naples is our home town of 20 years!!! Unfortunately we won't be visiting then and we are moving to NC in 2 weeks! Anyone wanna welcome some Utah swingers to the great state of NC??? D and B P.S. Beard...one day, yes we will meet :-)

Reject Affair Match - Cheaters are not swingers - yeeouch! Man o' man... the move to a swinging lifestyle is a move toward my personal 'big 3'. Honesty, Openness and Oneness. Its an intentional move away from and rejection of lying, cheating and deceit. Been there, done that, no possible good can come from it. I am surprised that Swingular has accepted this advertising and I encourage them to rethink this decision and reject this and other adds that promote lifestyle choices that are in direct opposition to the ideals of swinging. Even if cheaters are haning out on swinging websites Cheating is not Swinging. Dave

The only problem... - - What really amazes me is how many people are 69. We belong to this and a few other sites and there are TONS of couples who are EXACTLY 69 years old. What are the odds?!!? Must be like THE sweet spot (age wise) for swinging. ;-) So do old swingers get like a swinging pension when they retire? Is there an AARP for old swingers? Can you get a Jazzie with a Sybian attachment on the seat?

Google a profile name. - - Interesting note. Google someone's profile name that has posted or responded to a few FORUMS or so. Go down a page or two and you will see the title, "SWINGERS" in blue letters. Click on it and it brings up that forum post. Without a password request! Then click on the profile picture and you get a view of that profile! IS THIS CASE FOR EVERONE? Is this site available for anyone to view profiles and forum topics at a single google search? Just want to make sure it's not just my computer. I did log out, clear my history and cache before doing this.

How has swinging made your marriage better? - - Communication (REAL communication) is the key but still it's not enough if someone really wants to stray or outright leave. There's been an interesting discussion on another swing site we're on about some of this topic and an old timer on there (who's now divorced) brought up something that we found interesting and that seems to be fairly ubiquitous in the lifestyle. It turns out that most women who have been in the lifestyle for a decent length of time have at one time or another (multiple times for Ms. Evil and some of the ladies we've known for some time) been told by a play partner (more often by a single male or even more often a vanilla guy...lot's of swingers seem to get a thrill out of vanilla hunting I guess) that if they were THEIR partner they would NEVER share them with another man. Think about that for a minute. With the way most women are raised and the messages society pounds into their heads about love, romance, fidelity, etc., how powerful are those words are. In fact let's take a little poll. Are there any women who've been in the lifestyle for, say, at least 5 years and play fairly frequently who have never had a guy tell them or insinuate that? Just curious.

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