Iowa Swingers on Swingular

Iowa Swingers

Iowa Swingers on Swingular

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Curious Question - - Hi all, my hubby and I are going to be moving from DC to Reno, NV. very soon. From what Chris has told me is that there is not alot out there as far as "Big" cities that we are used too. SO... I was just curious as to why there are so many Swingers in the general Salt Lake City area. and don't get me wrong, there appear to be LOTS of exemptionally beautiful people out there, so its just a curious question for the uninitated. Thanx for the time.:p

What is wrong with being a bi male? - - I've always had trouble with the fact that as swingers we are supposed to be open minded and different from vanilla people but when it comes to bi men we are so homophobic, as a group. It's OK, more than OK for a woman to be bi but men have been shunned as bi, in the lifestyle for as long as I can remember and we've been in the lifestyle for about 18 years now. At a hotel after party in a room there were 8 of us and one person made a comment about one time he was doing a woman who wanted him to pull out and cum on her chest. When the time came he cummed at her chest and caught her husband on the stomach. This brought about several comments from the other men in the room none positive and one said that would do him in for the night... Shit happens when there are a bunch of people doing what feels good. What's the problem. As far as bi men go it has long been a stigma that they could or were more prone to disease than a guy who is not bi. Women, even bi women have stayed away from bi men because they think one has a better than average chance of catching some dred STD. While bi and gay men are in the forefront of the HIV thing bi men, in the lifestyle are, I would think, are quite a bit more careful about using protection and who they play with. From my comments some might think that I'm bi, bi curious, or other unknown by me phrase. I am basically straight but definitely not homophobic. Someone said here that when you are in a pile it doesn't matter who is giving head if it feels good....regardless of what sex they are. I've used this example many times on various sites we have been on. Men who are bi do not want to cross the line and try to turn straight guys. Most are quite respectful for your preferences. Now all we have to do is get the notion that they are somehow dangerous, i.e., STD wise and that they want to turn straight guys. Might be some but I've met a number of straight guys who we find are not that arrow straight when you get to know them. They'll tell you when they find out that you are friends regardless of their preferences. I think that through sites like these that bi men are becoming much less a thing to be shunned or afraid of. Remember that bi women are as much a threat to your manhood and as much a danger about STD's as bi men. Remember we are supposed to be OPEN MINDED in the lifestyle.

Why did you join Swingular? - Wondering what brings people here - Someone turned us on to the site, and we are trying to make new friends in the Tampa area. Lots of swingers here in Florida, and we look forward to meeting you. R & C

Looking for an attorney in the lifestyle - Question - I don't honestly think you would need an attorney. Most swingers clubs opperate as just a house that holds parties. Unless you are serving alcohol you shouldn't need license of any kind. at the door, you have donations, not entry fees. The only place i know that did have an operating license was in San Diego, THAD's. The owner had to file suite against the city and county to get the councilman and law enforcement to stop harrasing him. The city finaly gave him a license as a "Sexual Encounters Club" but not allowed to serve alcohol. Anyone that brought alcohol had to put it in a fridge and could take out their own alcohol anytime they wanted, but the helpers couldn't serve the alcohol.

Las Vegas - - We are planning our trip to Vegas and want your opinion - please rank the below and tell why... What is the best Swingers destination in Vegas: Couples Oasis Red Rooster The Green Door Power Exchange Purrfect LV Other?? ... Our hotel room will be HOT on March 7th and 8th ;-)

Swinger Bracelets - Swinger bracelets - Swinger bracelets Has anyone used these swinger bracelets or had any experience with them? They seem like a good idea for couples the travel!! People in the lifestyle have a way to recognize other swingers. With colors signifying your comfort level in swing activity. A great way of starting conversation or letting other couples know you

mans best friend - ok now we have seen the girls ,,lets see you pet - Interesting, all dogs, no cats. I guess swingers have enough love for everyone, and everything.

Lifestyle in news - - Can you believe one guy in the article compared swingers to pedophiles?!

Where are the Bi couples??? - - XPLORR94248 I guess I am trying to be optimistic trying to think of a rational, logical reason for such 'foaming at the mouth' fear, trying to come up with a reason that I can understand. quite frankly I do not understand it. I don't understand why the value of a person changes based on external or internal genitals, if you think about it just on a logical basis, the only function of 2 sexes is the ability to mix DNA and produce variation in offspring. so it would seem that sexual stimulation for reasons other than procreation, logically, there should be no distinction between male and female. but evolution only cares about what produces successful offspring that can go on to further reproduce, bringing up the question, what is the evolutionary function of homosexual males? I have read some scholarly papers proposing an evolutionary basis for bisexuality. but I digress I would have thought that people would have grown out of irrational fears, and would have thought that swingers would be more open and experimental with sexuality. but if bi males scare them or make them unhappy and they choose not to participate with any, well it is their right. even though it is rare he participates at all, we listed our guy as bi curious, and we still get more offers than we have time for, and about 30% are couples. maybe a suggestion to the OP would be to more photos, some videos, etc. anything to draw more profile views, if only 1 out of 1000 are a good match for them, if they only get 10 views a day, they will have a long wait between matches.

First time? - - Well said by doers...I think its normal for different approaches to this as well. We've been members on here for quite sometime now, but we really havent done anything in this while...I guess we wouldn't call ourselves "swingers" either but we do enjoy going to the occasional party/event from time to time and catching up with old friends...both of you need that communication as one maybe "ready" whereas the other may not be...that being said...the one that feels "ready" should never be pushy...just take it slow...have fun..and in time, things will happen ;)

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