Iowa Swingers on Swingular

Iowa Swingers

Iowa Swingers on Swingular

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Verified "Real" People - - [quote=SINGLELOGAN][quote=GENERICCPL][quote=DE2OFUS]calling him out in an effort to ruin his ability to take full advantage of his membership on this site was wrong. He was honest with you when you spoke and now, because of some unwritten "honor code", you want to call him out by name. THAT is wrong.[/quote] We agree as well. If we wanted to be judged by the morality police we would have stayed active in the LDS Church. Anyone in this lifestyle who has the nerve to judge others should get out of the lifestyle and go back to church where you can judge others. We don't want to be judged for our sexual pursuits and we feel it's not our place to judge others, be it cheaters, bi-sexuals, transgenders members of Oprah's book club... People have to live with their own decisions and consequences and answer to their own God not our God or our morals. I am making a PERSONAL judgment call. I don't care if you call it morals, decency, or just definition. If he is cheating on his wife he is NOT being honest. If anyone in the lifestyle is having sex with a man or woman in this situation, they are not swinging, they are cheating on the persons spouse. I know some people who are ok with cheating. I know some people who are not. It is a judgment, and it is right an necessary. We each have the right AND responsibility to choose what and who we are ok doing. This isn't about being morality police, this is about being ok with yourself and who you play with.[/quote] Sorry folks, you are wrong. This is not a "who is cheating on their spouse" site. This is a swingers' website. A site designed to allow persons to have sex with other persons who are not their legal spouse. The question is, "verified REAL people". The gentleman in question, who INFORMED the young lady who started this post that he was married and cheating, was apparently VERY real. It is not up to you to call this man out as someone to stay away from. It is ENTIRELY up to you whether or not you want him to have sex with your wife, KNOWING he is married and cheating. Else, where do we draw the line? Is it up to me to send a note to the entire community if I believe your wife had a hygiene problem? Should I call her out by name in a forum and label her as someone to stay away from? I think not. The question was whether or not the guy was real...he was...and, again, probably more "real" than most of the people on this site.

If you're going to blame your customer - At least remove the evidence it's your fault. - [quote=EVILDOERS]I'm the poster child for every fucking error message, connection problem and browser fuck up imaginable on my POS laptop and I don't have any problems at all. And FWIW I'm on another swing site that's MUCH more expensive than Swingular and there are just as many people complaining about these issues and more. I know a guy who does I.T. for the other swing site and it's a fucking nightmare trying to deal with every possible combination and configuration of OS, browser, server, and ISP out there. Not downplaying the problems you're having, just sayin' it's kinda like a ginormous swing party with uber hot young cuties, old fat farts, drama ridden noobs, posers, maybe a bunch of polys who don't know they aren't really swingers anymore, and about a thousand creepy single guys from Craigslist and then expecting each and every one of them to just get along famously and then play Twister on a huge Twister mat with a dude who only speaks Mandarin Chinese spinning the spinner and calling out the color and body part combos.[/quote] Oh this was such the proper depitction of the situation... LOL... @Perma-Bachelor: I think it's time to instatute some form of time out for those that can't seem to log off and have no activity going on with the site..

Happy 6/9 - Best day of the year - Happy 6/9! Congress is voting on making June 9 National Swingers Day. Post your favorite 6/9 photos!

Ever Been Roofied At A LS Party?? - - No we have never had anything like this happen. If it is happening it needs to stop. That sort of activity is highly unethical, selfish and illegal. We do not want to associate with sociopaths or psychopaths and anyone drugging or attempting to drug someone, without their consent or knowledge fits into one of those two categories of people and needs to go to counseling and or jail. If anyone wants to speak up in defense of such activities please do so, so that all the good event organizers and all the ethical swingers can see who we need to block and avoid. XANADUME we are sorry that you had the experience and we wish you the best.

Meeting Couples - How to approach - We travel a lot and see couples we would be interested in getting with. Since we know of no way to determine if they are swingers does anyone have suggestions how to approach or bring up the subject> Ralph and Fae

eureka ride - - Doug Wright would have a fit if he knew there was swingers in the group :)

Looking for Advice - Recently coming back into the LS - [quote=Kinkycouple123]Hello! So I just have a question. We were in the LS about two years ago.. and since getting back into it, it seems like what we want is not as accepting ( or that we aren't actual swingers). We aren't a full swap couple and I feel like that hinders us from meeting new people and just getting out there. While I enjoy watching my husband with other women, I have no desire to be with anyone other than my husband. Is this weird? We have talked to a few couples who just question why were are in the LS at all. They have said that what we are looking for is a "tall order" or that "we aren't actual swingers" which I can understand to a point.. but isn't this site for people also looking to explore their sexuality in a safe place with no judgements? I would love some feedback or advice if anyone else in a similar situation because at this point I don't feel welcome. Thank You![/quote] I think what you are "looking for" is not a surprise... you want a Unicorn... now, asking a couple to "loan" you their female half ( with nothing in return to the other male ) ... yeah, long shot on that for sure. Good Luck in your search.

La2016 - Need advice - I agree with what lookin4fun369 says, but you also need to be prepared to be approached by couples if you venture out into the event space. What you're looking for based on your profile is the same thing that the majority of swingers are also keeping an eye out for... The elusive unicorn. Yes these magical creatures do exist, but they are difficult to corral. There are many that can be found behind the lcd of your computer screen, but to actually entice one into a dinner date, followed up with play time can be seemingly impossible at times! In fact... We had one completely disappear after making a dinner date just hours before this very night!!! Yes... We had communicated for several days and she made the arrangements... Only to disappear in a trail of glitter. Do not be discouraged, as your quest will certainly take you on the adventure of a lifetime... But keep in mind... Sometimes it's the journey, not the destination that the excitement lies. Best of luck!

How close is too close - - If you have problems in your marriage, swinging is not going to fix them. I think the excitment of swinging will, perhaps, camoflage them for a short time. But in the long run if there are problems the level of trust that is required to swing -- just will not be there. But I wonder how our statistics compare to the general public? Are swinging couples getting divorced at a higher or lower rate? Comparing our swinging friends with our vanilla friends, the swingers seem far more happy with and into their mate. The scenarios and issues raised by this question, happen in and out of swinging. Remember the joke -- "my wife ran off with my best friend, and boy I am going to miss him". That is a vanilla life joke. We all need to take care to respect the intimate relationship between other swinging couples. We should all expect others to respect our relationship with our spouse. But in the end, if you trust each other enough to swing successfully, then I think the other issues of life will prove to be fairly easy to handle together.

Salt Lake Arts fest. - Wouldn't it be fun to get a bunch of us to meet up in the beer garden and take on the art festr - 7946437 bracelets are the swingers "live strong" type bracelets.... The numbers are the letters corresponding if you were texting...

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