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Other than the SLC spice party? - Who's not going? - We're not going
I agree With D&T please Express your opinions it gives me something to read LOL
Having never been to a spice party I cant Judge an actual spice party. I went to a party with the same crowd and felt like I was at a middle school dance where I just wanted to be a wallflower and pretend I wasnt there. Very Clicky, I am sure If I became a regular there and got to know some of the people I am sure that would change. But I dont want to. I will point out that I felt the same way at my first party from another group..
However in the crowd we prefer to hang around Its the same way (we're like Arent those the spice party people Ewwww !) Just kidding ! we dont really. However we dont go out of our way to go over and chat with these people either. We have met Robert and Jen, (got our VIP LOL) and M & M and well all the other couples everyone is picking on here and they all seem nice enough Are we a match as swingers and potential sex partners Nope leave it at that the reasons are obvious. I am way too much man for them to handle LOL...
Happy new year to all our friends tip a few back for us We're homebound NYE this year Blew the wad on christmas.
South Florida Mar.23-Apr.5 - - John (Tech).
Platos has been out of business as a swingers club for about 6 or 7 years.
Trapeze is the biggest and best club in the Ft. Lauderdale area.
Whats concidered BBW? - - As swingers maybe we would like to think that the only reason monogamy became so prevalent and popular in western society is because religions, governments and a male dominance ploy all worked together as a mean to achieve power and control etc., etc., and for that reason all other forms of sexuality have been subject to persecution. I think there is a valid argument and facts to support the theory that the enforcement of monogamy is somewhat conspiratorial and not all based on the idea that it is the ultimate good or best relationship. However, perhaps, it is, socially also somewhat advantageous, in that it is so much easier to be polite. We all work and socialize with people that we hold in high esteem that we do not find sexually attractive. In a monogamous world where sex is usually not on the table for consideration, in interpersonal relations, the offense of rejecting and the pain of rejection are avoided. I think that removing sex from consideration in so many social interactions has perhaps, provided for some level of peace and has, perhaps, promoted the general welfare. So to be a swinger, and happy, do we, perhaps, have to be a bit more enlightened than the average Joe or Jane?
Because sex drive originates from our primitive brain, which is not rational, we do not have absolute control over what we find sexy. So what we reject and what we accept are somewhat out of our control. Perhaps, all we should expect from our higher brain function is all the added color and dimensions to sex we can oh so enjoy. That is a lot and that is what makes the primitive urges so much more fun for us, I would speculate, than for any other species. So what 99.999999995 of humanity share is a primitive urge for sex. Preference is subject to and more fully experienced by our unique higher brain function and all the abstracts of preference. Never-the-less, we do not seem to be able to ever completely escape a certain level of primitive hard wiring and perhaps a certain level of social conditioning too. We all want to be accepted and fit. Devotees of the joys of BBW, given the chance will fulfill all their primitive needs in a sea of wonderful expansive abstractions that will color the experience and make it somewhat sacred. Same goes for most any other preference save those that ignore the needs, wants and safety of their partner. Hence those hard wired to be gay, can and should and I hope do swim in a sea of gay fulfillment. Those that are hard wired heterosexual can and I hope do, swim in a sea of heterosexual fulfillment and those bisexual will swim in their own sea and so it goes for those that yearn to swim in the sea of BBW or any other preference. To be an enlightened and a totally happy citizen of the swing community, perhaps, we should remember that albeit the water is just dandy in the sea in the which we choose to swim that the water is just as dandy in the pools we are not predisposed to enjoy.
If someone, decides, that they really want to swim in a different pool, well that is their preference and if being comfortable in the pool requires they make a few changes, then, perhaps, the best thing we can do is wish them well and support their decision. Choosing to change is after all a preference we all, should perhaps, respect and support.
Small Penises in the Lifestyle - - Being a guy who is 'blessed,' I can tell you a few things:
1.) I am [b]NOT[/b] user friendly...A little bit hard to handle for some.
2.) THere are some playgrounds I am not invited to, anal is [b]NEVER[/b] offered nor OK'd.
3.) Once people know about my size, I become a walking penis.
4.) Do NOT believe what people say about size, the ruler used by swingers is missing, on average, about 3-4 inches on them, so a 12 incher is really 8 or 9...
Polyamory - Any thoughts on an exclusive 3 or more partner relationship? - One thing to help is swinging is not poly and poly is not swinging. They are two distinct differences. Swinging is about the physical aspect - sex (and friendship of course), while poly is about love (poly - many, amory - love -- many love).
Many people who live in a triad or a poly relationship started off as swingers, but due to the emotional conflict between many "typical" swingers, chose to go into a more poly lifestyle.
Ok, here is a lot of information here:
Just a little of what I know on the subject. Is it possible, yes, but there has to be a clear understanding, a very strong love and a willingness from all involved to address any issue that arise.
The same could be said for an open relationship; works for some, not for everyone.
Destiny's July 22nd Basement Party - On-premise swingers basement party at Destiny's Basement - Destiny's Basement is ready and waiting for you all to have some great fun among great people, and the basement is the perfect place for first timers and couples that don't like big crowds, or are just curious on how people play.
Where: 1028 Williamson Chapel Road, Maryville, Tennessee 37801
When: July 22nd-Saturday night
Time: 8pm until 2am...maybe longer
Party info: BYOB, ON-premise with no pressures.Rules on web-site:
If you can't drive and like to camp-out, you're welcome to pitch a tent. The bathroom in the basement will be available all night, after the party.
Hope to see youins Saturday night, on the 22nd.....your friend and hostess, Tammy
If you need any questions answered, please e-mail me or call. Take Care, Play Safe, and Enjoy Life.
It's an age, old, question. - No, I'm NOT 94.... - Meh. Fuck who ya wanna fuck and don't fuck who ya don't wanna fuck. It's all about mutual attraction and we all get to decide what parameters we will incorporate in choosing fuck partners. Be it age, common interests, body size/shape, or just simply sexual attraction. We can't help but remember when we were n00bs and people would occasionally get upset when we didn't want to fuck them. We called it the "You're a swinger, I'm a swinger." syndrome and it boiled down to some people not taking polite rejection well. We were often accused of not being "real swingers" if we didn't hop into the sack with someone simply because they also happened to be swingers, regardless of mutual attraction. People all too often seem to get butt hurt very easily simply because someone declines to bump uglies with them. Put on your big boy (or girl) panties, pick yourself up and move on. There are FAR worse things in this world than a particular person or persons not wanting to have sex with you. If someone rejects your sexual advances just give them a polite curtsey, a little wink and tap dance off the stage.
Rant over....Seacrest out!
Only 12 couples within 100 miles on our search - Just using the search criterion of :non smoking, slim or athletic, 35-55, couples, soft swap yes, st - [quote=BADBOY8P]Maybemor this is one of the most rude post I have read in 3 years of being on swingular !!!! I want to know what makes you think just because people smoke that they are not fit ...... So because your a soft swap couple does this mean your not a swinger ???? Its judgemental people like you that make this lifestyle full of drama !!!! Oh just sayin
I dont think I ever made any comparison to fit physical looking form and smoking.
And no we are not swingers. Just life explorers.
Exclusive Couples - couples who are committed to another couple - Ok! You have heard from someone who is poly....ME. But we are still swingers and no one expects us to be exclusive either.... anymore than we expect them to remain true to us and us alone. Polyamorous is a conjunction of a Greek and a Latin word. Means to love more than one.....I don't fall in love with everyone that we have sex with but I do have 2 secondary relationships. One woman is separated and we met her in the lifestyle.. We love, yes WE love her as much as people can feel love. The other were seeing what swinging was about and came to a club that we attend. The lady and I started talking and then on line and we discovered that we loved each other. I stopped by their house and talked to her husband and we, that couple and us are great friends and she and I are lovers.... and everything is open and above board. Recently while I was in the hospital from a heart attack, they came to visit everyday. So poly really isn't about swinging at all but there are poly people in swinging who are looking for exclusive relationships... I let people know that I'm poly because if the lady and I hit it off...... I don't want any surprises... BUT I never go looking for that type of loving relationship in the swinging community, i.e., "the lifestyle"
I think that some people use the word without a true understanding of what poly really is... Poly can involve sexual relationships but those are based on love not sexual recreation. My wife is not basically poly however, she loves that lady who is not attached as much as I do... so in a way she may be poly but does not wish to define herself that way.
When talking about poly and swinging one has to make a distinction as to what people are looking for in a relationship. And, let's not kid ourselves...swinging and sex with people outside of your marriage or relationship is really a relationship aleit maybe a short lived one but one all the same.
I'm just a person who can and does love more than one person. Like being hetro or BI or whatever..... that's just part of my make up.. I have chosen to be a swinger and if it lead to something I hope that I have let people know ahead of time and found out their feelings on that possibility... If they are not open to that but are sexually attracted, then we can keep it on that basis and I simply have to be aware. I think it can best be analoged to a couple or one of the partners in a couple being bi. They find a couple to play with but that couple are not bi or have no curiosity in that bent.... So they play and the bi part is never an issue because they discussed it beforehand and everybody was fine with the situation....
I belong to a poly group here in my state. the group is more a discussion group although they get together once a month and every mon or Fri to discuss poly issues. Most of the people who are in that group, over 300, will say that poly and swinging are two entirely separate issues and they are totally unrelated. There are a number of members, both single and couples, who are also listed on swinger sites....They are looking for sexual companionship and maybe, if it happens, loving relationships... So poly and swinging are not so exclusive nor does it mean that poly swingers are only looking for LTRs any more than bi women will only play with couples who have bi women in them.... Being poly of Bi ain't an issue...playing is...
There may be some who are in the lifestyle to find lovers... Easy to find out and make a decission about....
Swingle males. What's in it for you? - - Interesting. Thanks for the feedback. So are a lot of the chicks in the hookup scene cray cray? "Copping a pregnancy on the sly" is pretty low. Is it that common? Also, the "stranger danger and blind sexual incompatibility" seems like it would be more or less equally as prevalent in the lifestyle. Not to mention STD's stalkers and cheats. What makes you think swingers are inherently more trustworthy in any given situation?