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2 tickets for Tampa Bay Escapes - Clearwater/Tampa, FL available to anyone who wants to travel - This is a big swingers convention with lots of opportunities to meet new and exciting playmates....don't let these tickets get away! They're getting hard to come by!
Habits tonight?? - We would love to dance - [quote=BMSHELL]How many of the people at habits on a given Saturday night are swingers? How do you know who to hit on? =)
That's part of the fun...always wondering and watching. We usually let the girls decide ... if there's an attraction ... we take it from there.
tired of the B>S> - - The only chance we have of meeting fakes is if the couple at the club or party turns out to be transsexual dwarfs and were fooled by their elevator shoes making them look taller. We have been around this stuff a good while. Actually we have never tried to meet a couple on this website, we gave that approach to meeting long before this website came to be. (I know my ass doesn't look that old but it is trust me)
Fakes have always plagued these boards, it was FAR WORSE when you didn't have the verification systems in place and while these are good they are still not a guantaree you are dealing with the real deal. The now infamous "Christylynn" was certified as a "real couple" and technically they were a "real couple" just not what you had planned on. You can e-mail someone back & forth till your fingers bleed but your will not truly know what's behind door number two until they walk through the door.
The best way to try and eliminate fakes and flakes is obviously to meet them in person. The only way to hope to be successful is NOT to plan an evening out with ONE COUPLE. We are fortunate enough to have a variety of swingers clubs and organized lifestyle parties in our area to use as a place to meet where we can not only see the couple we can SEE the couples interaction. (This is the part that helps you avoid the flakes) This works great for people like the original poster who lives in West Palm Beach Florida and this is what I recommend.
For those who live in Alta, Utah (Pop.304) this approach is not so good. You fine folks in Alta will probably have to do a little more on-line work to round up some party people. (Just start with real seal at MINIMUM and work it from there...good luck.
Work out buddy! - Male or Female - Fuck. We should totally start a sexerobics class at the Bountiful Gold's. Lot's of swingers there apparently. We see at least 4 other swinger couples there (other than the ones who've posted) regularly.
Curve Ball Couples - ugh - boring!! this is a swingers site.. take your drama away
Keeping safe - Single females staying safe - Terry,
That's all fine and good but you don't think that a guy might just SAY that in hopes of changing the girl's mind later? I'm not questioning your integrity or motives just saying that, in general, many guys will say and do just about anything for sex. I could easily imagine quite a few scenarios where a guy could come across with seemingly good intentions but have ulterior motives. Hell, we've had guys write us and ask to meet them and their wives (without disclosing that we're swingers) and suggest that we get the wife really drunk and then have sex with them. Again, I'm not saying anything about YOUR character or motives, just that because a guy SAYS he won't play with his "date" doesn't necessarily automatically make him trustworthy. YMMV
ps- We won't EVEN get into the subject of things like date rape drugs which by many accounts ARE being used in the swing scene by nefarious individuals. [em]Emo_8[/em]
"Seriousity. "Hey, Bitches, Where's the Humor? Seriously? - A Hypocritical Post? - [quote=TIFFND]Boy...THAT really frosts my ass when I make a comment to the op and I get get ignored! Hmmmmmmph!!
I better start a thread about that...
[/quote] LOL, I KNOW, you beat me to the post by three minutes, I was quoting and pasting and missed yours along the way! Well I guess I deserve a good spanking from you too! (I'm really not into s/m or anything so I don't really know how all these spanking references are jumping out of me!! )
But more seriously, I love your light-hearted response to my poor cutting/pasting ability, and your 2nd response here is actually a great example of someone who can be more easy going about it and not take EVERY FREAKING thing here so seriously.
I don't know about other folks but I'd way rather play with playful swingers than uptight ones
Polyamory/ Polyandry - Info - [quote=PLEASE27][quote=DELICIOUSLYWET]I think I came off too negative. Finding the right person or persons in the case of polyamory has a lot to do with becoming the right person and that is within most peoples power. So why the hell not? [/quote] Personally I think it is opening yourself to the universe and accepting/ giving love. I have found that so many, including myself, fight againist natural feelings because it is "frowned" upon in society.... Case in point, 1/2 the swingers I know didn't just "jump in" with both feet but once they "let it be and flow" they are much happier. I know I have held back my nature because it might be "scary" or "to intense" for men which has had me go the complete opposite way in which I deny all feelings. And I completely agree, if you fall in love you fall in love, you cannot make someone love you. But your love for another person should not be conditional on them loving you back. [/quote]
We agree. To love is a reward all it's own. In the end true lovers always end up loving themselves more and understanding themselves more too because of all the insights they gain through their deep considerations and appreciations of those they love.
Sexy cashier needed in Utah - Black Velvet is now looking to hire. - Hi most all the girls that replied , had the same ? how About discounts, if we work there, I would like to let any swingers that are new or have not herd...... 20% DISCOUNT TO ALL SWINGERS THAT BELONG TO SWINGULAR !!!!!!! is my way of saying thanks for being here on this site... walt p.s. still looking for someone to work here thanks love all walt...:z
Going to Vegas, Where do we need to be? - - There is a new pool party in Vegas. Couples only. Run by some swingers. Don't know any details yet but are probably going to check it out when we're down there in 3 weeks. If anyone wants details I'll see if I can find the link.