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Connecticut Swingers

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Lots of Flakes or Phonies? - - [quote=SAMEROOMONLY]I think we could have an entire discussion on what qualifies as being a swinger. Some people would say you have to fuck every couple you meet, regardless of attraction, because really, its just sex and you can take or give a dick to anyone. Some would say any act of sharing yourself in any form is swinging. I'm sure in Utah if you did a poll, a majority would say if you are kissing another person or feeling up their titties, that is swinging. Can I kiss someone with enough passion to basically be a sexual act? I think so. So to declassify people as swingers because they play less often, or hardly ever, or even because all they want to do is to have sex in front of another couple, or even just to watch, seems, well, a little discriminatory and pointless. There is a whole spectrum of people, ideas and values on this site and in the community. We have had MANY couples lose interest when we have told them we like to meet over drinks, go home alone and discuss it, and then go from there. They say either full swap, or no meet. Oh well. Maybe it is our loss as well as their loss, but we don't like to be pressured into anything. Do we make bad swingers. Sure, to some. Have we made a ton of great friends by looking around? Hellz Ya. We love our new friends, even the ones we have never, or will never, play with. Also, by moving slower, the people we have met tend to stick around longer, as opposed to being just another notch on the bedpost. (as poet_rayl mentioned) As far as parties, for us they have been a great, low-pressure way to meet people. Is it a way for some people to just dip their toes in? Absolutely. And I welcome those people. They have to start somewhere and it is much better for them than just jumping in and fucking the first couple they meet than having issues in their relationship because of it. We were both completely petrified at our first party and got so drunk I'm sure we made a few horrible impressions. But we can sympathize with people being unsure of the lifestyle and what it encompasses. We have avoided the parties where everyone has to get naked and play. Just not our thing. We must be too picky and for us it seems strange, and a little risky, to jump in a pile of unknowns and get our biznass done. So, basically, there is a spectrum from the super pushy swingers who want to fuck all the time regardless of whose hole or nubbin it is (yes, I am generalizing, I'm sure they might, possibly care a little) to noobs who want to just look around, see what is our there, and if they work up the nerve, play. Who cares? Don't get mad about it, don't get pissy and just accept that people are different and everyone has different needs. I don't think most people are trying to be deceitful or dishonest. They just don't know what they want or how to proceed. AANDR and Glitzy have a good idea. If it doesn't work, move on. Keep trying. But please, be respectful and polite when you do. Can't we all just get along? God bless us, everyone.. and all that shiz. The Mr. [/quote] We are spot on with your point of view. -C and J

lake powell bullfrog - - [quote=DESERTCOUPLE101]So, is Bullfrog the lifestyle place at Powell. We live about 90 mins from there.[/quote] Maybe we need to make your place a swingers stomping ground...

Real Party in Orlando Area - - A party is being planned for real Swingers! Not into social hour first, come ready to have fun when you walk in the door!

Rants and Raves. - Tell us your rant and rave for the week.... - swingers need to vent too, we can't all breathe through our ears....

Simpsons: Is Marge going to be a Swinger? - - Who knows, but Bob & Linda of Bob's Burgers have been invited to swing and Linda's parents are swingers.

stupid posts on topics that may make newbies change their minds! - - Yes, we've personally been responsible for countless noobs joining convents and/or monasteries after realizing that some swingers are simply not taking this shit seriously enough. Sex is serious business and if a post or thread isn't directly leading to someone getting laid then it should be banned! Thus saith the forum hall monitors. And I think I could make a pretty valid argument about who the "frustrated" party really is here. [em]Emo_67[/em]

People beware - - Maybe I'm getting old and the language has changed but why or what is the warning? What is djing? So peple at work are talking about swinger parties.... That sounds good... Where did people here get the idea that these people were/are vanilla? Are they swingers? Help!!!! I believe I woke up today speaking greek like the cooking commercial for the CIA...that's cooking institute of america... Note the non caps in america... Land of the stupid and home of the blissful..... Let's all stop reading and let's not foreget that newspapers are some sort of literary endeavor. If it's good enough for the president(same ref to non capitalization... Does he deserve it) and the new repubelican Ms VP canidate also doesn't read... Can they read.... can anyone read today... So could you please translate this post in simple greek or english or even american so that the warning makes sense.

Snowboarding as an ice breaker - Skiers, boarders, and those with season passes - We ski Beaver Mountain.....don't really think there could be a more appropriate mountain to meet up with swingers at;).

South Florida Mar.23-Apr.5 - - John (Tech). Platos has been out of business as a swingers club for about 6 or 7 years. Trapeze is the biggest and best club in the Ft. Lauderdale area.

ARE THE LIFESTYLE SWING COUPLES MORE SPIRITUALLY INCLINED - - Great question, I don't think lifestyle people are more or less. I think it's normal number are and are not regardless of the lifestyle question. We have meet several swingers that continue to have issues with this. They feel that their beliefs in god don't allow for swinging. So at times they have major guilt issues with the lifestyle or even just being bisexual. I personally don't get into that line of thinking because I believe that if everyone is in agreement and no one is getting hurt or lied to; then there is no "sin" with exploring the lifestyle.

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