Michigan Swingers on Swingular

Michigan Swingers

Michigan Swingers on Swingular

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Reply or don't reply for requests to meet? - - Their emotional response probably has more to do with their over all experience with the lifestyle than to anything you said or didn't say did or didn't do. Here goes my thoughts..... People have a hard time emotionally disconnecting. People can be irrational. Sometimes we do not know why the react as they do but then we do not know the back story. They, or we may be associating something they, or we said with a whole lot of experience that had nothing to do with our or their intent. Our primitive brain functions which include release of the chemicals that color emotions have full access to our prefrontal cortex where we have the power of reason. With all the reasoning capability our prefrontal cortex manifest, it has very, very little ability to turn off our more primitive brain. The pathways just are not there. So our primitive brain has full chemical access to our bodies and higher brain but our higher brains do not have equal access to alter our primitive brain and emotional responses. So we have an emotional reaction, which our reasoning cannot turn off, so in order to try and make our minds match the emotion we are feeling we alter our reasoning. It is called making a mountain out of a mole hill. This loss of reason manifests as irrational behavior and can lead to resentment and negative premeditations such as revenge and violence. Sex drive is emotionally charged. Sex chemicals defy reason more than most and so do the chemicals associated with anger. So the brain function design flaw can make the emotion verses reason imbalance more dramatic when sex is involved. Knowing that, Swingers should recognize that just because you feel angry it does not mean you should be angry. If you let negative emotions color your reason you may be acting irrationally. Drama, drama, drama is what you get. Our rational, reasonable minds are capable of unbelievable accomplishments. Through the scientific method we have cured many, many diseases, we fly all over the globe, we travel and live beyond our atmosphere and under the sea, we share and communicate with small hand held devices and we even form internet social groups that revolve around specific shared interest. The sphere of accomplishments is too long a list to name let alone full understand. No one person can understand or master one, one millionth of all that has to be learned and mastered to make all this happen. So we are capable of incomprehensible collaborative efforts. And yet, we fight and we bicker and we accuse and we are sometimes unreasonably suspicious. Reason without emotion is perhaps safe but not much fun. We want to experience emotions with friends and lovers. The secret answer to successful social interaction almost seems to be to master the art of recognizing when something is positive and healthy and then let the flood gates open up jump in and be overwhelmed and if something is just not right to back off physically but to also emotionally disconnect. The something that is just not right, that may be leading you into angry, sad, or fearful paths may be more within you than without as well. If what is inside you is ugly or afraid emotionally and you let that color your reason then that may be all you can see in people and the world without and you get caught in a vortex of anger or fear. People think they become emotional because of their paranoia but in fact they become paranoid because they were negatively emotional and then the paranoia fed the emotions and on and on. I have attached a link to a video I found this week quite by accident that speaks to this and quite a bit more. For you that are into physics professionally or as amateurs, that will enjoy scrutinizing the math, as far as the math goes, to me I see where this is going but the statement is made

Neighbors with benefits already cancled - - I guess I was just theorizing that the same people who got A&E to reinstate Phil Robertson after his hateful comparison of homosexuality and bestiality (let alone atheism, rape and murder) maybe didn't take too kindly to A&E also having a show about swingers. But I could be wrong. If nothing else it should maybe be a wake up call to any swingers who mistakenly think all or most vanillas are only a Long Island Iced Tea away becoming full on swingers. [em]Emo_84[/em]

Where are all the gentlemen? - - Its single guys like that (a few married ones too) that give single guys bad reputations. I personally feel that regardless if it is a swing party, event, occassion, etc. whenever a couple or woman in general is willing to allow you to touch her in any situation it should be done with all respect. OK, there are def times when she may want to be called a dirty whore, filthy cum slut, just a 3-hole bitch,etc. but those are very obvious times and just because she is a swinger doesn't mean you have the right to put your hands or any other body parts on her without her permission. NOBODY should assume they have any rights to do anything with anyone's body that is not their own! Swingers, Sluts, Whores, Prostitutes, etc. does not mean free for all who care to use me, touch me,etc. People in general should be repected simply because it is their body, regardless of what they may let someone else do to it. There is just no home training anymore, sad, sad wolrd. Whenever I am lucky enough to find a couple that is looking for a single male I make sure to verify what is and what is not allowed. As a single male I understand that I am being given a gift to share in the sexual encounters of this man's wife, lover, partner, girlfriend, baby momma,etc. 90% of the time it is mainly for her enjoyment and I have yet to meet anyone that likes strangers to paw them out of the blue or see a person they care about be pawed without consent. My purpose in that situation is to bring more pleasure to the couple by pleasing the women with/without in same/different room, adding that extra spark they haven't been able to obtain with just the two of them. Ok, I'm getting off my soap box, but this really pisses me off to hear things like that are still happenening and some people can be so ignorant and rude.

trouble finding play mates in your area - - Our next door neighbors to the south east of us are not swingers. Our next door neighbors to the north west of us are not swingers. I did however see am attractive 40 something neighbor lady across the street and to the east of us get dropped off by another couple one night and the other woman gave her a pretty deep goodbye kiss. Think I will have to shovel her walks more often this winter.

Do you agree, that some times it\'s ok to swing with a solo marr - - well as a married man who is incouraged to fine some single woman or couple that I can have fun with more so single woman by her choice(wife) I try to make it very clear I am not a cheater most still don\'t believe this I even say that to show I am telling the truth I\'ll let you ask her yourself as we are swingers for real as couple or play solo but it is so much easier for women to find play toys she feels that I am being short changed on our solo play but it seems no matter how it is said most still believe it\'s B.S. how would you beable to convince swingers it\'s the truth?

Where have all the SWINGERS gone? - - We are young but we have been in the lifestyle about 5 years. What happend to the to the lifestyle of the 70's. Todays lifestyle is full of dull and boring people. No one partys anymore. So many people just want to meet and fuck. Where did all the cheaters come from, I mean what is a straight single male swinger. Let us know if you're out there. We need new faith.

"Couples" catergory rather than "Single Female"? - Which Swingular category is appropriate? - How you post is up to you. Lots of women post both ways. I guess it depends on your point of view. Most swinging couples don't think of us singles as swingers and maybe we are not technically. I cannot think why a married man would ever think of posting as a single but I admit that I have not looked either. If they do it should be posted clearly in their profile also. But if you are in this lifestyle and single you may want to meet single women and hope that a really personal relationship may develop with one. This lifestyle is not just about hook ups. In general I would think that as a single swinger I would want to bond with a woman that wishes to live this lifestyle. At least that would work for me. So to that end, finding a single post that is really a married post is always a disappointment. But as long as you are clear in your profile, I say no harm, no foul. On some boards, depending on your level, cannot read the profile. But if a single man can

Please Share ;) How did you come up with your handle? - - Our profile name was thought up very carefully. We put a lot of creativity and time into our profile name. After many agonizing days of trying to get our damn name right we thought this had to be THE ONE!............ HA HA HA HA! We actually typed in things like "utcple" and "funcple" and so on and so forth but everything was taken. SO we live in UT and we wanted everyone to remember us........and it is a swingers site......and my husband is a man-whore.... so what other name would we chose?... SLUT!!!!!! Too bad we don't live up to the name........LOL! Sorry, not too creative here! xo UTSLUTS

fun In central Utah - dying of bordem in central utah - We recently moved to Millard county from salt lake city and havent been able to find any fun anywhere in central utah. No parties, meet n greets, booty calls or clubs. Are there no swingers in central utah. We have looked everywhere from Provo to cedar city with no luck so if you know any great clubs or events, groups or people in central utah please let us know. seams like once you leave salt lake city your screwed....we wish lol

To message first or not - Do you reach out first? - We respond to inquiries far more often then we make the first contact. When we were younger we got a lot more inquiries and we also made more first contacts . We used to play almost weekly, and sometimes two or three times a week. We attended more meet and greets too. As we have aged we get fewer inquiries. We are probably not within the age parameters, that most swingers are looking for. We also have very little free time. So really it kind of works out. We have discovered that now that are kids are all grown and married etc., that almost all of our social time is family related. Its a good thing! What it has done is eliminate us from the hit most of the events crowd or the hang out twice every weekend crowd. We just can't live up to that. It's not out of obligation it's a choice. We spent far more energy and emotion as parents than we have in the swing scene. So for us spontaneity and flexibility are really key elements. We can't spend much time swinging, but we will make worth someone's time when we do hook up. For us primetime swing time was at the point in life when the kids were old enough to not need a babysitter, they needed a lot of time to hang out with friends and needed a bit of autonomy too. We could go out, while they were out playing with their friends, and play with our friends. Now that they are all real adults, happy and successful, they want to hang out. We enjoy each others company, and for us family really is paramount. We were not swingers when they were young. We really didn't have time for it. Now that our kids are adults, and are doing what we did with family, and we are involved and enjoying it, what and who fits in the lifestyle has changed up a bit. The search engine parameters, and most profiles don't address most of the deeper layers of compatibility. In the end, if you remain true to yourselves, and each other, you'll run into the right people, at the right times in your life.

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