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Is Exhibitionism wrong? - Just after everyones thoughts... - I enjoy BOTH. There's nothing better than watching a sexy couple have sex. I've set up some "accidental viewings" over the last few years. Many couples enjoy showing off in front of a stranger. Some get a real rush from the nautiness of getting caught or watched by someone. I wish there were more couples in Jersey that would take part in this activity.
I've also discovered that I truly enjoy showing off for couples or in groups. After attending two swingers clubs with some couples that I met, I realized it was a BIG turn on to perform in front of people. I think I like performing with or for a couple more. It's a rush to be told by a couple to take out your cock and start jerking off or for a husband to ask you if he can take pictures while his wife sucks your cock. WOW!!!!!!! One of those pictures is in my profile.
How does everyone else feel about exhibitionism or voyeurism?
Are swingers moral? - Who determines what morals are? - I figure that the golden rule, kharma, and working to better myself as a whole are good morals and make me moral and whatever. lulz.
And as far as people thinking morals making you a good person... pretty sure you can be a good person with or without god. :P
Another Swingular Members Party - Concerns Addressed Here! - [css]background-image:url('http://i288.photobucket.com/albums/ll175/simplychicblogs/pinkandblackmodflower-1.jpg'); color:#FFF; padding-left:220px;[/css]First, we just want to thank everyone for a very successful night at our last party. We had over 400 members there and it was the sexiest crowd we've ever seen! We read the forums and some of you had some concerns and we want to address those concerns before announcing the upcoming party.
Overall, most of you were happy with the party and the venue, however, a small percentage of you didn't like the venue. We totally understand that a nightclub like The Hotel isn't the perfect setting for a swingers gathering when you are trying to meet others and be social. To set the record straight, we just want to let everyone know how difficult it is to find a venue that will not only give up it's busiest night of the week, Saturday, but also give it up to a group like ours.
All of the lifestyle parties in Salt Lake combined don't have the best reputations for throwing 'by the law' parties as it is so a lot of venues won't even give us the time of day.
Not that any of us have done anything wrong, it is just that the liquor commission keeps a close eye on the bars and nightclubs and if there are any minor violations, like nudity or sexual acts, it could shut down the venue or cause a huge fine. Venues don't even want to chance it with any of the local lifestyle parties. So, imagine how difficult it is to find a venue that will take us.
Now, for the sake of providing all of our members a comfortable, fun place to hang out, socialize and dance, the ideal type of venue is one with lots of seating and tables, no-smoking inside, an outside patio for smokers and those who wish to get away from the music and heat, a bunch of bars for easy to get drinks, and a huge dance floor. All of this of course has to be able to hold up to 400 plus people in a private setting without sharing the club with the regular night.
There are only a few venues in Salt Lake that provide that, and the best one, Habits, will NEVER allow us to take over the club as they don't need our revenue.
Anything else that comes close to Habits is the same way, they don't need us and won't piss off their normal customers.
So we found a new venue that hasn't opened yet, that is perfect for our event. We set them up for the last party, however, they couldn't get everything ready in time. So we had a back up plan to go to the old Butterfly Lounge @ The Depot. They cancelled on us 3 days before the last party because they didn't want to host a lifestyle party.
So this brings me to how we ended up at The Hotel. It was the only venue that could hold up to 400 plus guests, provide a dance floor, provide some seating, as well as have a couple of fully stocked bars and the entire place to ourselves. The Hotel actually did us all a HUGE favor, so a special thanks goes out to them for accommodating our group at the last minute.
As for the music, since they already had a prior commitment to some DJ's before we got there, we had to agree to let them play for the first couple of hours.
So for those of you who did not like the venue, or the music, I apologize, however, this is the best we can do in a place like Utah. If you want to be able to go out and meet other members without having to share the club with non-lifestylers, I guess we all have to make some sacrifices and put up with what we are dealt with.
Also, some of you asked why we charge as much as we do. Honestly, $20 per couple is nothing. A normal night club charges that in Utah ($10/person) and if you go to most any lifestyle party or swing club outside of Utah, you will pay at least $50 or more per couple. So you are actually getting a deal here.
That money covers a lot of things that go into putting the party together such as deposits for the venue, DJ's, bands, supplies, etc... It also covers hosts and door staff, tipping out the club staff, and a lot of the people who put the work into to bring you such an event. You may not realize, but there is a lot work that goes into putting these things together, and the crap you have to go through with the venues doesn't help. ;)
With that said, I hope I have at least explained ourselves in our choosing of the venues and that we can move forward with your support in putting together more parties, not only for Swingular, but others such as Utah Uncensored, etc...
And now we can announce the next Swingular Members Party....
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Saturday, June 19th, 2010 @ 9 PM
We have been unsuccessful in getting the previously announced new venue for our party. This new venue could not accommodate us and the lifestyle, therefore, our only choice to have a lifestyle party would again be The Hotel. This venue is still a great venue to have a lifestyle party. It is very nice (vegas style), it has multiple levels, it has 4 + bars to get drinks, and it is downtown next to hotels.
We will be arranging a specific hotel for our group and try to get a group rate as well.
This time, we have full control of the music, so we will make sure that the music is not too loud and we have arranged for a DJ to start with classics to rock, to 80's, to 90's and end the night with more dance music.
All seating will be first come, first serve, no bottle reservations required.
Tickets will be $20/Couple in advance and $30 cash at the door. Select single men that accompany another couple will be $30 in advance, $40 cash at the door. Single women are always free, at the door, no ticket needed.
We will also be selling tickets at local establishments through out Salt Lake, Provo & Ogden. If you live in one of those areas and would like to help us find a place to sell tickets and manage that for us, we will give you free access to all parties you manage. Contact us for details.
Tickets will go on sale online Tuesday, June 1st @ 8 AM.
We will post pictures of the venue here shortly.
That's pretty much it for now, see you at the next party!!
how do we ask others - kinda new and need advise - Hey y'all :-)
Well my bf and i have been together 10 years. We have went to swinger clubs in vegas and had 3 somes with my friends... which the friendship never ended well... Leson learned there :-/
Anyways we are looking for others to play... But we also needed to be kinda discrecte because of my profession.
Im not a social butterfly by anymeans but im well off with liquid courage. He says hes forgot how to talk to woman and feels kinda nervous.... Never was before.
We wana be able to go to a bar or someplace and be able to find someone. Can you give me advise on how to pick up a woman and bring her home with us. What do we say? What are signs that maybe other swingers know? Any help would be great.
Were just looking to be able to have fun with someone besides my friends.
Reject Affair Match - Cheaters are not swingers - yeeouch!
Man o' man... the move to a swinging lifestyle is a move toward my personal 'big 3'.
Honesty, Openness and Oneness.
Its an intentional move away from and rejection of lying, cheating and deceit. Been there, done that, no possible good can come from it.
I am surprised that Swingular has accepted this advertising and I encourage them to rethink this decision and reject this and other adds that promote lifestyle choices that are in direct opposition to the ideals of swinging.
Even if cheaters are haning out on swinging websites Cheating is not Swinging.
How many times a month does the average lifestyle couple have se - What is an amount to make it your hobby- extra fun and not a takeover of your life - [quote=THEXECS]Laughing at all the post...damn......we r lazy LS people. Perhaps once a year or every 2 years...sometimes 2wice a year....we love our alone time....and well our alone time is HOTTER than most! It just is!!!! LOVE LOVING MY wife!!!! sIGN HAPPY EXECUTIVE[/quote]
How do you know your alone time is hotter? Do you see us all playing with each other alone? I love my hubby more then anything and would die for him if I had too. I think all swingers are way above average on a sexual level as they see a bigger picture.
Not trying to sound mean but you were the one laughing not me. I think this is awesome we all swing and in many different ways and at different times!!! Good question and great responses!!!
What are the rules when it comes to swinging - I'm confused - in my(wife here)opinion you have less chance of a swinger steeling your wife than a non lifestyler, we are all just here to play on the swing set not steal it . the first rule of swinging is for you and your other to talk and make rules. ( no kissing, no lap dances , no toys, no girls ,ect what ever. if it matters to either of you for what ever reason then it should be a rule then its you two against the world. just never , never ,never break a couple rule... our rules change as we get more comfortable or one of us is bothered by something or find we like seeing something that once bothered us. there is a swingers wiki that should be a must read for lifestylers.....
hope you two have fun and enjoy all that us freaks have to offer....[em]Emo_89[/em]
Poly ideas - Ethical non-monogamy...I like that label. - [quote=ERASEDPANTS]A few other "Poly Ideas" we have had...a beach resort for swingers called "Poly Shore". Jeans with special condom holders made exclusively for the lifestyle called "Poly Pockets". A full time art school for swingers run by "Leave it to Beaver's" Tony Dow,called "Poly Wally Doodle all the Day" . The high end grocery store/basketball arena for lifestylers called "Poly Pavilions". But it turns out it was just a slightly nicer "Poly Vons" grocery store/basketball arena. And lastly a white supremisist lifestyle dating site called "Poly want a Cracker".[/quote] So if you try poly and it doesn't work out, do you call it a Poly-Gone?
NEW RIDING CLUB - LOOKING FOR MEMBERS - We are starting a new riding club in north west ohio to be know as SRC ( swingers riding club) . Any one in the area that would like to join please let us know if you are interested.
Becoming a party and pic trading site. - - [quote=ORALODYSSEY]"Where have the playful swingers gone?" LOL. [/quote]
I think they are still there but there are so many more newer party people on here that its hard to find them any more. Is it the website that's changing or the swinging culture?