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Open Topic - Seduced a \"vanilla\" person last night... - **It seems that many \"vanilla\" people aren\'t as vanilla as they would seem when given an opportunity to be with a hot couple. lol **
Aint it the truth! I think that most single men are complete closet swingers anyway. I dont even think the term \"swinger\" should really apply. It is more like that big red button on those staples commercials...push it and instant Git Er Done! gratification!
I can not think of one single, horny male that would pass on the opportunity if it was presented.
New Forum Category Suggestions - Let's hear your ideas. - how about one called "Swingers Business Network" or something similar where users that own business can post what services they have. or if they know a swinger friendly business.
We would much rather give our hard earned cash to a fellow lifestyle or Lifestyle friendly business than to some of the wretched closed minded old farts in this world.
gang bangs - - You are so very right NC cpl the GB parties we have been to there was more than one lady and the guys have always seemed to give out before the ladies do ;) . What we have found is with the GB parties everyone who shows up are REAL there is no drama no waiting to find out if the persons you meet are ready to play none of the MIND GAMES some people like to play.
Everyone who shows at the parties understand the rule you come you play there are no watchers allowed. Attending a party like this just adds that little bit of extra excitement that this lifestyle has to offer it offsets thetimes you meet people who love to play "mindgames".
Don't get us wrong, we still enjoy meeting with cpls one on one but if you have never been to a "Gangbang" you really don't know the fun you are missing. Caution be ready to be labled "WILD", "hard core swingers" etc... our philosophy is its our bodies our life if we choose to be a bit on the "WILD" side and people want to judge us they are the ones with the problem not us.
SWING CLUBS - - This seems like a pretty standard thing for a swingers site and would be a welcome addition, especially if there's a chance to rate and/or offer comments on clubs. This would probably also be a big help in getting more couples validated, if there's a common place to meet someone. Actually, anything in the "info" section would be nice. Administrators, any idea when some of the proposed additions will be made? :)
Amusing - Fakes.. ugh.. DESPISE THEM! - Maybe it is a testament to how much time I spend on these sites but I find this kind of thing frequently. Often a couple on one site is a single guy on another. Sometimes even on the same site under a different account. Want to know why this happens? Look at the following:
Posted By: ADMINISTRATOR Reply posted on:
Apr 27, 2006 - 5:38 pm
I don't understand how they think they can get away with it. They don't think at least ONE person is going to recognize the pictures? Come on now!!! We're taking care of this immediately.
In this case, the admin replied they would address this "immediately" yet a week later the account is still active with the same pics. Without real action on the admin's part, there is little to dissuade these clowns.
Add to this those idiots who post as a couple but turn out to be either cheating marrieds or just single losers. We have traveled as much as 1500 miles each way to meet a couple and discovered there was either no wife at all or one who was unaware of the husband's activities. There is also my favorite, married guys posting as a couple and then leaving all the wife's info blank.
It seems there is just about no way for honest swingers to find someone to have a good time with. The web is just full of posers and liars who apparently cannot get a date or make a buck without posting a fake profile on a lifestyle site.
Remember to always be careful out there. It really is a jungle and there are plenty of nuts in those trees!
WHere the fuck did manners go? - - My wife and I are on different ends of the pole with this one sometimes. She does not always respond when she is not interested. One reason for that is the fact that she gets bombarded on other sites with mail from single males, even though her profile clearly says she is looking for a bi female. Even when she says "no thanks" some people still persist. So I think, and this is just my opinion, that some people mistake the term "bi-female" for "easy POA". That makes a lot of people a little irritated after a time, and they simply don't bother responding. If I greet someone, it is normally not because I am trolling, it is normally because they have interests that I or my wife share in common with them. If I don't think someone is a good fit for us, I don't see any problem shooting the breeze a bit. It just never progesses to a conversation about sex. It seems that some people, I repeat, some people, have associated swinging with strictly sex, and it seems like people don't want to just meet people any more. I know a lot of us live very busy lives, and we get together with fellow swingers when we can to "let our hair down", but let us not lose sight of the fact that we all come together on forums like this to make friends and talk with people that understand what we do. As friends, it would be nice if we were politely sent away, but sometimes people just don't do that. They may feel bad about it, and just not say anything, or they may be fed up, and just not bother. We shouldn't take offense either way. Some people just don't feel like dancing.
So, with that, if I email you, and you tell me to scram, my pride may sting for a bit, but I will move on, and you will not have to present a dissertation on why we are not appealing to you. You shouldn't HAVE to do that.
Party Games - - We\'ve played around with a computer game called 4 play, from rwb productions, its kinda of like a monopoly style game but for swingers. Haven\'t ahd a chance to see what it might be like in a party situation but might be worth checking out......
Playing with \"swingers\" vs \"nonswingers\" - - Okay this probably doesnt make alot of sense, but here goes.
We went to the bar the other night and met some new folks, regular guys that aren\'t in the lifestyle- that is they are just regular single young guys. I love to flirt so I had picked out a particular nice guy and we were playing pool etc. Well I happened to mention that hubby and I were swingers etc....
Now my question is, do you only play with someone else who\'s into the lifestyle? This guy really wanted to get in on some action with me and now thinking about it, I just feel nervous. It has brought back old anxieties about when I was single and all the single assholes out there that were looking to just get laid and kick you to the curb. At least in this lifestyle, you get to know people and there is a certain kind of understanding about sex and you usually know that the person you will be fucking cares about you in some respect.
I am trying to make a decision about whether to let this guy in or not for some play. I just can\'t decide how I feel about it.
Any input would be appreciated!!!
UNIVERSAL "SWINGER" SIGN - UNIVERSAL "SWINGER" SIGN - Is there a Universal sign for Swingers? And if there is not, there should be! How many times have you been in a bar or out with your partner and spotted a nice looking couple and wondered???Are they??? What can you say without embarrassing yourself or them by saying, "hey are you in the lifestyle?"
We did some looking and found this website http://www.swingrings.com/index.html take a look and tell your friends it would be great if it worked....AND WE ARE NO WAY ASSOCIATED WITH THIS PRODUCT just like the idea so we all can quit guessing.
If you know of anything tell the world.
Question about Spice Party tonight - - Okay, this probably sounds stupid, but we haven't ever been to a party yet! On the RSVP, do we put our screen name, or our real names on the guest list?
TIA from some clueless swingers. Hehehe