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Sexual peak and the Desire to meet.. - - Womens hormonal cycles are very prone to hot and cold sexual days, and we joke all the time about men being up and ready to go 24/7, but is it true? Men have hormones too, do you guys ever feel that you have hot and cold days?
Now, to not answer a question with a question, which is annoying...lol
I can completely see the theory presented as valid. Wait a week without satisfaction and when you finally get there, BAM it's amazing sex cuz you NEED it not just want it.
I for one could never do it. A week without 'relief' would be a week from hell. Hubby, kids, co-workers, would all want to ship me to the asylum! Orgasm for me acts as a pain reliever, putting me back on task, keeps me focused, and basically is my own brand of happy pill.
Since the flirting and foreplay are so important in making things click with another couple, I think the key to a good sexual experience with another couple is communication. Don't make a date for 2 weeks away then not talk with them in between. Keep up the sexual banter, the sexy texts and emails and continue to fuel the fire. I'm guilty of not doing this and always kick myself afterwards. I know the sexperiences we've had, where I follow my own advice, tend to be the more spectacular.
I've learned over the years to ask permission from the female half if it's okay for me to contact her hubby for sexy foreplay (like text or email) as it does benefit all of us in the end. As swingers we talk about having open, honest communication lines within our own marriages and I feel that should extend to our extra curricular relationships as well.
Happy Swinging :)
Administrator doesn't Verify Single Males - Is that fair? - [quote=ILLUSTRATOR]Anyone who sees the "Real" symbol as an endorsement isn't thinking straight. My sense all along has been that the Real symbol means that you are who you say you are, not a 17 yo with their own debit card and a strong libido. I use the Real symbol to know if the profile is the person in the pictures and that they aren't someone who just started an account for some other purpose than it is meant for.
When I started with Swingular, I had someone contact me with some off-the-wall comments. When I shot them down, they started another account and tried with a different tactic. Couples, Single males, will do the same. Not all, but some.
Those single males who are who they say they are, should be allowed that verification. This dis-verification of single males punishes those who are playing by the rules. Now, those couples who would only meet up with a Verified single male will be more hesitant. "Will he be that one who keeps stalking my profile? Will he be the one that was violent when we saw him last?" We don't know because NO single males will be verified.
In my opinion, the verification process should be that the person is who they say they are, not some person who buys new profiles every time they're denied by the object of their obsession. I, for one, will be less inclined to accept a friend request from a single male, now. [/quote]
Good points, but in reality a married posing as single guy or gal for what it's worth can manage to show up to a meet and greet and say they are single. Maybe endorsement is not the right word. Certify is too strong. Verify, that someone is what they purport to be is still difficult. At what point can you say that you "verified" someone as "Real"? If two people, saying they are a couple, swinging together, meet us at a swingers event, or for coffee, or dinner or whatever, we are frankly, more likely to believe them at face value. Yes collusion is still possible. Yes they could both be married and cheating together. Yes one of them might be a married scoundrel and the other a prostitute. Yes they might be a couple of news anchors, with a hidden camera hidden behind a mirror. Never-the-less, when we meet with a couple, we tend to believe they sort of "verify" one another. Comments say more than being verified as "Real".
What was your favorite LS experience? - So far.... - We are not sure what our favorite experience has been thus far. Here is a brief description of one experience that is interesting. A few years back, we met with two very attractive couples, in a hotel room near the airport. The two women that were part of the other two couples, were both, very, very attractive blondes and also happen to be twin sisters. Well that does not happen every day! The sex was pretty great!!
Small group hook ups, where everyone knows everyone, and there is shared chemistry are always great, and we have been fortunate enough to experience that quite a few times, with more than a few different groups of people. Two on two couples hook ups can be sooooo fulfilling too! So are threesomes! So are the occasional hall pass encounters. People get job transfers and move away, or go through other changes, or schedules just don't agree and life moves on, and circumstance change. Just about the time you think your life is becoming a vanilla routine, it seems that new lovers and new opportunities appear that just really knock your socks, and every other article of clothing off, and you totally reconnect with why you became swingers.
Dick Size - - I saw a % study a number of years ago (wish I had saved it.. as this comes up occationally). Naturally my bigest interest is where I fit in the figures (in the 90% range for me)Big, big smile. I knew a couple who ran a swingers mag. years ago and saw the defination of Hung (2 hands full with a piece left over). The ladys say it's not the size as long as it's enough (now what is "enough"?), it's how it's used. I've been too large for one lady and not large enough for one. I think we all seek the perfuct fit and variety is one of the spices of life. Aint research is a wonderful thing!
First experiences - How did you feel about your first experiences? - this one may be better. the next time was about a year later. we have been good friends with this couple that lived here for years. we would have them over for cook outs and all go get naked on the boat together and go swimming...stuff like that. so she is big time into yoga and loved to drive my man crazy putting her legs behind her head. one day while we were naked boating she did this and her husband said that she can take it like that. we all got a big laugh out of it because my man is over there with wood and tying to hide it. every time any of us were together some how the subject of him getting wood would always come up and she teased him to death about it. a year or so later our friends get a good job offer and they deside to move from here. we are helping them get packed up and I'm sitting outside being sad smoking a cig with this couple and I know that we may never see them again. I bring up the subject about how limber she is and that I wish that I could put my legs behind my head for my man. her husband says why don't you let him do her so he will know what it is like and she said that she would love to have him. I always wondered if they were thinking kinky stuff about us like we were about them. but didn't know how to start ti. thinking about all the times that we could have been playing if I would have said this a year ago, kicking myself in the ass for waiting to the day before they move to try to open that door. so I let hubbi in on what we were talking about and he thinks that we are just fucking with him again until she gets naked on the bed and pulls his shorts off, starts to suck on him and then puts on a condom. hubbi looks at me and I say you have always wanted her. I am so turned on by this point that I'm ready to explode. so there they are, him pounding her with her legs behind her head when she kicks a painting off the wall and it hits hubbi in the head and almost knocks him out. we are all laughing our heads off and the moment has gone. they moved away and we all still talk about that night. does that one count....if not we maybe in trouble and not swingers yet...all the other have been friends also...a few guys to help me with the DP and a few girls for me only
North Ogden Police - Need a fitness program - Dear EXPERIENCED_VIRGIN,
It has EVERYTHING to do with this website. Who are YOU to decide who DUSTY finds attractive? As far as I know it's not illegal to have sex with chubby cops as long as you identify yourself as a swinger first...and no donuts change hands. Now if you're in Hawaii it's (for the moment) still 100% legal for cops to have sex with hookers and/or single male swingers. They're considering a law to change that. The hooker part anyway. As to the OP's question. I would encourage your buddies in blue to maybe try CrossFit or Zumba depending on what kind of workout wear is flattering to their individual physiques. Also, you could encourage them to order from the "Favorites Under 400" menu. Most of the items are still deep fried (yeah, like donuts) but they're only 400 calories (if you leave off the cheese, the sauce, the buns, and eat like half of it). They also serve salads at McDonalds. Watch those high fat salad dressings though. Best to just pour a little of your Diet Coke on the lettuce. And DUSTY, you go ahead and love who you want, when you want. Out and proud! [em]Emo_80[/em]
Anyone try this? - - Ok, just checked it out. Moustafa in Tikrit was kind of a hoot but he wanted us to "tip" him and then he started to...well I'm not sure what happened. I think it was a combination of cumming and shedding. Think we'll stick to like fucking other swingers and stuff. Yeah, I know, lame but we kick it old school. [em]Emo_79[/em]
Age differences - How do you handle it - I don't want to start a controversy, and then it cums, Why would age be an issue at all. Isn't the idea of swinging, first of all, about having fun with fantasy, and then there is the idea that swinging is not a mainstream activity; i.e., Not along the idea of "Normal" relationships or sex. Age is one of the norms in society and thus, I would think, one of those things that would go out the window if one is involved in swinging.
I bring this point up simply to hear why age would be an issue... I'm sure that there are people who are old and wrinkled and have bad breath and their plates are falling out and even the queen sized outfits or the XS lingerie would not fit....I mean if the lady is leaving 2 trails behind her, in the sand and she is getting her nipples scraped by that sand AND her plates are dirty and falling out and she had halatosis... Maybe she would not meet criteria to play with... unless one is in the same home with her and she snuck into your room and gave you oral sex while you were asleep. Or maybe it's the guy with the shriveled member, and that's after viagra and Enzyte and 2 other products, and he has slipped into your room and given you oral, and of course you are a lady....But Age should not be a single defining factor as to weather to play or not....
On the other end of that when people are "too young" . Are they out of diapers, eat solid food, over the legal age in your neck of the woods, and know what sex is and they have not stopped any clocks or watches in their immediate vacinity... They should be fair GAME.... I use the word game because it also denotes play which is what swingers call sex with others, other than their spouse....
So, how is age an issue or how does it become an issue...????? Of course there is preference but why close down oportunities.....????? Seems kind of counter productive to lose oportunities.
Just a nickle's worth of my thoughts on 2 hrs sleep in the last 48...
Difference of Opinion vs Intolerance - - Origianinal post from??? can't remember now:
Giving the recent arguments, okay ongoing, posted on the forums I would like to get yet another argument going. We are a "group of like minded individual's" known as swingers. Yet the tolerance to opinion seems to stop there (if you exclude the whole argument of what a swinger really is) Discussion of opinion, exchange of values, ideas and information has always been for the betterment of any individual, and as a whole society in general.
However, I have noticed much more recently that difference of opinions are taken personally, and a lot of people have resorted to bashing anyone with whom they have a difference with. From Macs to PC's, the definition of what a Swinger really is, to more generalized arguments of religion and state.
So in the spirit, I just want to say I love peanut butter and honey sandwiches. They are the best. AND FUCK ALL OF YOU PEANUT BUTTER AND JAM LOVEN SON OF A BITCHES, or any combination of chunky peanut butter, grape jelly, toasted, or whatever. You neither have the knowledge, personal experience, or anything else that you may think may qualify you to make that decision. If its not peanut better and honey, your fucked up and you don't know what the hell your talking about.
Are you fucking kidding me???? Get a life!
Any thoughts on Pride? Going? Have been? - pride weekend - Just wondering if there are any swingers going to Pride this weekend? I have never been and was wondering if anyone had anything to share about it?