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2007 Tribute to the Troops - Post your media here :-) - TR was just trying to make a tribute to our troops, something posistive. Whether ppl agree or disagree with them being there, I am with Don.....THEY ARE THERE either way!!! I do believe that this site isn't the place to be debating that point. In either case, there are fellow swingers on this site that are military couples/ppl so what is so wrong with showing some tribute and thanks to them. Why turn it into a negative battle........Thanks TR for starting a thread and showing some thanks and appreciation for those serving our country. Ignore those that turn it into negativity. I am sure those in the military do appreciate your intent. I did enjoy the links....
Vanilla friends / lifestyle - revealing our lifestyle to longtime friends -
There will always be those that are quick to pass judgement on others. We choose not to bother ourselves with people like that. We are no ashamed of who we are, nor are we scared of any of our friends or family finding out. As you can tell by my actions on these forums, I (Don), do not live my likes based upon what others think of me. I could give a fuck less. The people I love and live for already know, love and accept me. I say why bother wasting your time with people that suffer from delusions of being holier than thou. They can fuck off.
I see it as a "need to know" situation. If our friends are indeed in the "need to know", we tell them. If we see potential in involving them, we bring them along to a party. If they have an issue and try and force their morals, we cut our losses. What's cool is now nearly all of our friends are swingers or swinger friendly. So it's really no longer an issue.
Think about this. If a person... your "friend" were to say, "Swinging isn't right". Could you not just say, "What makes it wrong?" After all, you are not forcing them to do it. It maybe wrong for them. How is that wrong for you? It doesn't involve them at all. If they are so concerned with what you do in the bedroom, perhaps they are not basing the friendship on the things that really matter. They are not true friends.
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"Ich habe einen kleinen Vogel in meinem Kopf."
After Holloween Party! - Nov 7th at 7pm party! - Club Insomniacs, located in the same plaza as Bourbon Street in NPR is having a PRIVATE party for swingers Sunday Nov 7th starting at 7pm. Single females are $10.00, Single Males are $30.00, and couples are $20.00. There will be Karaoke, Games, Contests with prizes, and a buffet. Oh and it's a THEMED PARTY! Naughty Nighties *for the ladies* & Unusual Undies *for the men*!!!
Hope to see you there!!!
Josh and Meg!
Not a swingers joke but still worth sharing - Email ** upgrade from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 - When you change your password make sure it is long enough.
NEW RIDING CLUB - LOOKING FOR MEMBERS - We are starting a new riding club in north west ohio to be know as SRC ( swingers riding club) . Any one in the area that would like to join please let us know if you are interested.
Swinging 4ever??? - - As you can tell I am trying to get some more topics going other then the ones about FUCKHERIDID. NOt at all that I think they were bad posts..they were interesting, informative and glad we all know about the prick! It is time however, to talk bout something else. So, we wanna also know (along with our other forums we started today) do all you swingers picture yourselves doing this lifestyle till the day you die?? Or, do you think that there will be a time that you will be done. Is this just a phase your marriage is going thru, or is it something that you enjoy and will keep doing as long as you both can. What makes you wanna do this lifestyle....what drew you to it in the first place? What keeps you coming back for more? Is one of you in to it more so then your partner? Have you ever decided that you were done, but found yourself right back at it? Share your stories!!!
Lots of Flakes or Phonies? - - [quote=SAMEROOMONLY]I think we could have an entire discussion on what qualifies as being a swinger. Some people would say you have to fuck every couple you meet, regardless of attraction, because really, its just sex and you can take or give a dick to anyone. Some would say any act of sharing yourself in any form is swinging. I'm sure in Utah if you did a poll, a majority would say if you are kissing another person or feeling up their titties, that is swinging. Can I kiss someone with enough passion to basically be a sexual act? I think so. So to declassify people as swingers because they play less often, or hardly ever, or even because all they want to do is to have sex in front of another couple, or even just to watch, seems, well, a little discriminatory and pointless. There is a whole spectrum of people, ideas and values on this site and in the community. We have had MANY couples lose interest when we have told them we like to meet over drinks, go home alone and discuss it, and then go from there. They say either full swap, or no meet. Oh well. Maybe it is our loss as well as their loss, but we don't like to be pressured into anything. Do we make bad swingers. Sure, to some. Have we made a ton of great friends by looking around? Hellz Ya. We love our new friends, even the ones we have never, or will never, play with. Also, by moving slower, the people we have met tend to stick around longer, as opposed to being just another notch on the bedpost. (as poet_rayl mentioned)
As far as parties, for us they have been a great, low-pressure way to meet people. Is it a way for some people to just dip their toes in? Absolutely. And I welcome those people. They have to start somewhere and it is much better for them than just jumping in and fucking the first couple they meet than having issues in their relationship because of it. We were both completely petrified at our first party and got so drunk I'm sure we made a few horrible impressions. But we can sympathize with people being unsure of the lifestyle and what it encompasses. We have avoided the parties where everyone has to get naked and play. Just not our thing. We must be too picky and for us it seems strange, and a little risky, to jump in a pile of unknowns and get our biznass done.
So, basically, there is a spectrum from the super pushy swingers who want to fuck all the time regardless of whose hole or nubbin it is (yes, I am generalizing, I'm sure they might, possibly care a little) to noobs who want to just look around, see what is our there, and if they work up the nerve, play. Who cares? Don't get mad about it, don't get pissy and just accept that people are different and everyone has different needs. I don't think most people are trying to be deceitful or dishonest. They just don't know what they want or how to proceed. AANDR and Glitzy have a good idea. If it doesn't work, move on. Keep trying. But please, be respectful and polite when you do. Can't we all just get along? God bless us, everyone.. and all that shiz.
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We are spot on with your point of view.
-C and J
Too Young to be Taken Seriously? - - [quote=REN]My husband and I are interesting in joining the lifestyle, starting slow. However I've noticed the majority of people here are older. We both are twenty, is this too young to be taken seriously in the lifestyle? Should we keep at it, or come back in 10-20 years. I do understand if people want their partners to be old enough to have an adult beverage with them. But perhaps it is the maturity level? Maturity level is different for everyone. There are twenty year olds who act years older than they are, and sixty year olds who act younger than we are. To each their own I guess. I'm not asking to have everyone be my friend right now. I'm just curious as to what people think about younger swingers. What is your opinion about say twenty-five or younger couples?[/quote]
I think you two should keep at it as well. :) You are young and full of energy. Most of us older swingers wish we had the open minds, you do, when we were your age. There are plenty of people that you can connect with both old and young, that don't pay attention to the age thing. With respect to being close friends, you will have factors like experience and maturity factors that come into play. You're at a different stage in your life than older people and more often than not, this can limit your interaction and ability to identify. That being said, you should keep going. If someone's too old (in their mind), to hump ya, then they're just plain ole too old. hahaha ;) Good luck and have fun.
St. Petersberg, Florida - - I am sure you will find some place to party at....Love the pics: too funny on the captions. I think there is a place called Taste-Buds not sure if it is still kickin or not? There is also a place called Playfull Swingers. These are two Clubs in the Florida area we know or knew of.
Playfull Swingers is a pretty cool bar with theme rooms and a nice dance floor. BTW. maybe you can hit them with an email and see what is happening over there? If these are not in the area you are going to be you can google swingers and the city you are going to be in.
We tried to contact some folks on here before we went to Florida to find out a few hot spots but no one bothered to write back? I guess looks are important even when giving someone a heads up or point in the right direction?
"Not interested" replies - - It is more common than one thinks... Not responding to a note/email/whatever one wants to call the message one sends from a site to the site... It\'s a bloody shame that people are so rude.. As for the kiss thing...I think people see a profile and want to show it to their SO so they earmark it with a kiss or add people to their friends list. It\'s the only tool one has to tag the couple and easily get back to that profile.. Sometimes people forget how to uses all the tools and then after a day or two they forget who you were and how to find you then another time they are looking and say Oh theres a nice couple lets send a kiss or add them to our friends list.....After a dozen sites similar I think that people may also be a bit shy too.. What do I day to Mary and Phill, he\'s a doctor and has a TV show and I thought he didn\'t like swingers.... I think I\'ll just call and save money on my car insurance ...I\'ll call Gieco... Just a thought... but people spend money to get on a site and can\'t write a note.. They may do fine face to face but to write a note ...... No way....My theory... What\'s yours? A subject for Lenord Nemoy\'s show \"Unsolved Mysteries\".... Which stretches from the inner mind to the outer extremedies.... you have entered the swinger zone.....