Oklahoma Swingers on Swingular

Oklahoma Swingers

Oklahoma Swingers on Swingular

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Small Town - Speak Out - We live in a small town in Texas. We have (according to the profiles on several swing sites) about 35 swinging couples within 20 miles of us. We are business owners in our town and have somewhat clear face shots on our profile. None of the other couples have pics at all. Since putting our face pics up our business has had an increase in the past 2 years . Our biggest problem is we send emails to those couple that are nearby and never get a response. Heck our next door neighbor has parties about once a month and we are sure they are swingers but we are never invited. We understand about people losing their jobs in some cases, but heck WE live in the middle of the \"BIBLE BELT in Texas.\" We have a commissioner that lives about 2 miles away that is trying to shut down the G-RATED strip clubs in our county. (Stripping down to panties and pasties) and he fights stores that have EASYRIDER magazine on their shelves. The most hilarious thing is he is one of our customers and comes to our annual customer BBQ\'s........lmao

Swallow or not to swallow - - Mmmm... call me crazy but I love the power of knowing I have made a man cum with my mouth and love the taste. I will have to say though that it is a taste that took a while to acquire a desire for. In my early teen days I did not like it but gradually grew to acquire the tasty flavor. I know several women that do not like to swallow and most of them put on a show of letting it run out of their mouth down their chin or simply tell the man that they don't swallow. However, I have run in to very very few ladies in the swingers community that do not swallow. Just tell the guy up front that you don't.

The stigma of single males - - [quote=RANDA4COUPLE][quote=OSTAR21]So why are single females called unicorn's when they don't even have a horn??? Seriously though, what is really frustrating being a single male is those people in the profile say they are looking for SM, SF, CPL, but are really not looking for single males and getting pissed off at us when it says they are seeking single males. Hey if you really don't want just any single male, then take the SM off your "seeking" then go and find the ones you want. At least we wouldn't be bothering you not knowing that you said you were seeking us, but really weren't. Take a minute and look at your own profile and if it says SM, and you are particular, or don't really want us, be king and remove it. Otherwise, those who are new to the site or lifestyle (been in it here for a long time) won't sour those of you who aren't looking for us, and those who are, may then get the emails, etc., knowing they are asking for them. Also if you are not interested in us have the kindness to at least replay and say no thanks. [/quote] this is the exact mentality we are talking about...we get 50 messages we might take five seriously...and yours we would not..no picture..and no that blurry thing is not a picture...we would peruse your profile and reject it immediately...if you are a single male on this site and hide your face or go without pictures it tells us 1 thing...this dude is probably not as single as his profile makes him sound...and this crap about being discreet because you are a professional doesnt get it either...if someones on here and sees your picture then they are doing the same damn thing you are...pretty unlikely they will out themselves in order to spite you.[/quote] When I was a Single Male in the Lifestyle, I did NOT have a public profile photo. But there were a number of them in my Private Album. Now that Geekgirl and I are a couple, there are no identifiable pics in our public album. Why? The majority of people who work in the education field have a morals clause in their contract. Being identified on a Swingers/Lifestyle site would be grounds for our immediate dismissal. As our profile states, we're more than willing to share our pics with others here - just ask. I assumed it was common knowledge that non members can find Swingular member public profile photos. Are we being OVERLY cautious? We'll take that chance. Are we missing out on opportunities by not having public photos? Yes, but I'd rather miss an opportunity to play than stand in an unemployment line.

Quit misrepresenting / What we are looking for - We are sick of sick twisted people. - Just when you think swingers are all like minded we find that there are all different reasons that they are in the lifestyle...some like to be friends first and build a trust and connection, but not too close of friends...others want to find a few couples that they can build a great friendship with and have close sexual relationship with...some just like the thrill of someone finding them attractive and give them a shot of self confidence along with the feeling that they still got it. We have met some that just want to have sex, with very little connection or thought of knowing the other couples. To some degree many if not all want a lot of one and a little of the others of all scenarios described above. Still others get wrapped up in a double life with lies and deceit that can be mutually destructive to those that cross their path....and of course we can go on and on. Our quest is simple...1) first and foremost do no harm. 2) be impeccable with your word not only to your spouse/significant other, but to those you meet. 3) Care about those that you choose to build relationships with...must have some kind of a connection. 4) Have their back and be their friend...good times or bad times. 5) For us personally separate rooms are ok, but at least for now...no separate dates. 6) Like and trust both of the spouses. 6) The other couple must love each other. We try not to worry about people that don't match up with what we want...wish them the best in their plight. This formula for us has allowed both of us to enjoy our time with others, without regret. What I find funny is a few of the couples that want something different than what we are interested in, getting down right upset, as if there is only one way to be in the lifestyle(sex and more sex and we want it right now)...guess that's what makes the world go round.

Community marketed to Lifestyle people - Interested in buying a new home in a community of swingers - Actually, you can "discriminate" against people as long as it is not a protected class. Yep. Check the Federal law. Religion, gender, color, creed, nation of origin, those are all protected. Saying only swingers are welcome is very legal. Weird. Maybe you could have community beds in the common area. heheheh Or everyone gets a key to every else's house for fun Fridays. Oh, the possibilities are endless! Mav

Question about Spice Party tonight - - Okay, this probably sounds stupid, but we haven't ever been to a party yet! On the RSVP, do we put our screen name, or our real names on the guest list? TIA from some clueless swingers. Hehehe

Florida swinging - Swinging in Florida - Ampussy - you are not too old!! not for us, anyway. but other than that, what you say is true, this site is pretty dead, we hear from a lot more people on the other sites, but for the most part it's just talk. if you want to meet real swingers, you have to get out and meet them face to face. by far most of the people that we regularly party with we originally met at a club or meet-n-greet, not online.

Why do most cpls in the age range of 25-40 get so hung up on ag - - we love meeting new friends in the life style . but we dont want to play with everybody we meet . we go to alot of parties and hang out with a lot of different levels and ages of swingers . we dont rule one out more then the other for any reason . do we going looking for bigger people ???? or older people ???? no . but we really dont go looking for anyone . we enjoy our friends and try to make new ones .and we look and see each person for who they are and how they act . i am looking for friends to hang out with . and then i PICK MY PLAYMATES OUT OF THAT GROUP . the ones i click with and feel turned on i will play as much as i want to . do i rush faster to go up and say hi to a younger and in shape couple . hell yes . but i will also pull the oldest person in the club up on the dance floor and have a blast !!! i enjoy hanging out with older swingers . but alot of people that have been in the life style for along time are more in a rush and looking for fun . i love the new bies best . they are new and fresh and so creative and more into teashing and flirting WHICH IS MY BIGGEST TURN ON . but i also love to flirt and just make people happy . last party i asked an older woman to be my parnter in a contest . at a huge club with about 400 people . she was very shy cause all the other girls where DANCER LOOK ALIKES ... ( I DONT LIKE THE BARBIE LOOK ALIKE TYPE ) PERFECT ISNT MY CUP OF TEA . but i was teasing this older woman and i got to her lift her skirt and let me spank her ass . and she was spanking mine . and then she had to do a dance by herself . and i gave her a hug and spanked her ass and told her to go shake that hot ass and make them all scream . she did her best and she had a blast . she told me thanks so much for making her feel so alive and wild . and that made me so turned on and happy . and i love hanging out with people who are creative and fun . i look at peoples pics and see what their style is .i read their profiles and see how much they open up and what they have to say . yes i do look on the outside a bit to be with someone . but i also judge them by them for the real them . and what they like and dont like . and how they treat others and each other . iam so turned on by a few older couple that we know . one couple we did some things that we have never done before cause they wanted it like that we love to get wild , and take pics and make movies . i love body paints . i am turned on by people who are into what we are . young or old .black or white , married or single . alot of people talk about all the popel that dont like them cause they are older or not in perfect shape . but i also dont play with the hard bodies and try to look and act all perfect .that is a huge turn off to me . the ladies that all go to the club and they all look alike . blonde hair , tats int eh same place s , same cute matching outfits ,same size tits . and they think thats all their is about them . i cant stand that shit , people ask me why am i hanging out with the older ones and not chasing the pole dancer . i like to see people for who they are . and see the bad with the good and still like it . and want it . some people turn u on and some dont . if u are at a place where most people dont then u are hanging out with the wrong crowd . always be around fun people that u click with . and sometimes things that are bothering people about themselves can show . or just be in your head that is the reason . there could be other reasons about u that someone isnt turned on by . we hang out with alot of people . but play with only a few good friends . and thats what we are looking for . and we wont play with anyone that is just look ing for a play mates . so the best advise i can think of is ... to find a cool fun group that u can have a blast with and find what u want and need and dont worry about the ones that u dont click with for whatever reason . no biggie . have fun with the ones that do like u . thats what matters . naguhty dreams freaky kitty

Why swingers are happier. - - A study from New Zealand proving that swingers are happier than other people. [url=http://now.msn.com/sex-makes-people-happiest-per-new-study]Swingers are happier![/url]

Swingulars Outage - What really happened - As everyone knows, our dear Swingular recently suffered an outage. It has been a painfull 5 days or so for all members of Swingular, and we wish to take a moment to console you for the pain. OK.. Now that the moment is over, here is what happened... As we all know, Swingular is a site that involves many people in a particular lifestyle. This lifestyle represents many \"UPs\" and \"DOWNs\", much cumming and going, a lot of flirting, a few drinks and quite often \"HARD\" times. Well the server seems to have been taking the brunt of the abuse, expected to be \"UP\" and ready to perform at a moments notice. Not by one partner, but often by several thousands of people at the same time. After several years af sexual gratification to so many people.. The servers \"HARD\" drive failed. It just didn\'t have what it took to get it \"UP\" one more time. It was drained, no more \"JUICE\" of life left in it. (The sticky substance was everywhere except where it needed to be.) Yes friends, leave it to a swing site to have HARD drive failure... To top it off, it is my estimation that someone said the wrong thing to the hard drive, for after it was replaced with a newer model, the old drive just refused to \"MOUNT\", the best I can figure is that someone, somewhere at sometime convinced the HARD drive that it wasn\'t supposed to \"SWING THAT WAY\". Yes, we now have a failed HARD drive that refuses to MOUNT..... Only at a swingers site... Well we now have a fresh new HARD drive, ready for years of use and abuse, it is better than a Sybien Sex Machine as it is able to give satisfaction to multiple partners without having to stand in line. And now for what REALLY happened..... We were attacked by the Moral Majority... It appears they don\'t agree with our MORALITY... I say to them, GET OVER IT... This is OUR LIFE, OUR LIFESTYLE.... If ya don\'t like it... Go Fluck yourself!

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