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Lying About Your Age? - Is lying about your age considered proper? - I know in our area age is a big thing to some of the swingers. We have always told the truth about our age and update it every year and often we get responce to our messages that they are looking for younger people. So I guess that is a reason some of the people lie about there age.

Exclusive Couples - couples who are committed to another couple - Ok! You have heard from someone who is poly....ME. But we are still swingers and no one expects us to be exclusive either.... anymore than we expect them to remain true to us and us alone. Polyamorous is a conjunction of a Greek and a Latin word. Means to love more than one.....I don't fall in love with everyone that we have sex with but I do have 2 secondary relationships. One woman is separated and we met her in the lifestyle.. We love, yes WE love her as much as people can feel love. The other were seeing what swinging was about and came to a club that we attend. The lady and I started talking and then on line and we discovered that we loved each other. I stopped by their house and talked to her husband and we, that couple and us are great friends and she and I are lovers.... and everything is open and above board. Recently while I was in the hospital from a heart attack, they came to visit everyday. So poly really isn't about swinging at all but there are poly people in swinging who are looking for exclusive relationships... I let people know that I'm poly because if the lady and I hit it off...... I don't want any surprises... BUT I never go looking for that type of loving relationship in the swinging community, i.e., "the lifestyle" I think that some people use the word without a true understanding of what poly really is... Poly can involve sexual relationships but those are based on love not sexual recreation. My wife is not basically poly however, she loves that lady who is not attached as much as I do... so in a way she may be poly but does not wish to define herself that way. When talking about poly and swinging one has to make a distinction as to what people are looking for in a relationship. And, let's not kid ourselves...swinging and sex with people outside of your marriage or relationship is really a relationship aleit maybe a short lived one but one all the same. I'm just a person who can and does love more than one person. Like being hetro or BI or whatever..... that's just part of my make up.. I have chosen to be a swinger and if it lead to something I hope that I have let people know ahead of time and found out their feelings on that possibility... If they are not open to that but are sexually attracted, then we can keep it on that basis and I simply have to be aware. I think it can best be analoged to a couple or one of the partners in a couple being bi. They find a couple to play with but that couple are not bi or have no curiosity in that bent.... So they play and the bi part is never an issue because they discussed it beforehand and everybody was fine with the situation.... I belong to a poly group here in my state. the group is more a discussion group although they get together once a month and every mon or Fri to discuss poly issues. Most of the people who are in that group, over 300, will say that poly and swinging are two entirely separate issues and they are totally unrelated. There are a number of members, both single and couples, who are also listed on swinger sites....They are looking for sexual companionship and maybe, if it happens, loving relationships... So poly and swinging are not so exclusive nor does it mean that poly swingers are only looking for LTRs any more than bi women will only play with couples who have bi women in them.... Being poly of Bi ain't an issue...playing is... There may be some who are in the lifestyle to find lovers... Easy to find out and make a decission about....

swingers of ameriica is being work on - sorry it is taking solong - OK EVERYBODY THE SITE IS BACK UP . BUT WE STILL NEED A FEW MORE DAYS TO FINE TUNE THE CAM PART . SO PLEASE DONT ADD ANYTHING TO THE CAM PART RIGHT YET . WE WILL POST WHEN IT IS READY . BUT THE REST OF THE SITE IS GOOD TO GO . I TOLD EVERYBODY DUE TO THE SITE BEING DOWN FOR THOSE TWO DAYS . THAT THEY WILL HAVE 48 HOURS TO BUY ANY ITEMS FOR AN EXTRA DOLLAR OFF EACH . BUT SINCE THE STORM CAME I KNOW ALOT OF PEOPLE ARE OUT OF POWER AGAIN AND ALL THAT STUFF . SO I WILL MAKE IT FOR A MONTH .SO ANYTHING U BUY U WILL GET A DOLLAR OFF AT TIME OF BUYING PLUS STILL GET YOUR DOLLAR OFF COUPON FOR THE NEXT ORDER . SO IF U BUY MORE THEN ONE THING I WILL ALSO TAKE THAT EXTRA DOLLAR OFF AT TIME OF BUYING ALSO .SO THAT WOULD BE $2.00 OFF OF EACH ITEM U BUY . AND FOR ANYONE THAT LOSES POWER U CAN USE THAT DEAL WHEN U GET BACK ON . JUST EMAIL ME AND TELL ME AND THEN U CAN GET THE DEAL .THATS WHY I TRIED TO MAKE IT FOR A MONTH . BUT IF U DONT GET YOUR POWER ON IN THAT TIME JUST LET ME KNOW WHE U DO AND U WILL BEABLE TO GET THAT DEAL . AND IAM TRYING TO ADD TO THE COSTUME COLLECTION BEFORE HALOWEEN . IF U HAVE ANY COSTUMES U DONT WANT NOW WOULD BE THE TIME TO ADD THEM FOR PEOPLE TO BUY . I WILL BE GOING SHOPPING SOON TO GET NEW ONES SO LET ME KNOW IF U NEED SOMETHNG OTHER THEN WHAT I ALREADY HAVE . I WISH EVERYBODY THE BEST DURING THIS STORM . PLEASE BECAREFUL . NAUGHTY DREAMS FREAKY KITTY

Is there room for the older guy? - Fit and fine BUT AGE? - I live in SLC but most of the swingers I know live in Idaho. I would be happy to hook you up with my friends in Idaho Falls if you email me. They are an active group and very open to new friends but do not belong to this site. So talk to me if you are interested in fun close to home. Being single myself, I know and understand why it is hard to get with anyone. We all deal with rejection in our own ways. Remember that it may not be anything more than age or it may be that people are just cautious. Age is a big deal for a lot of people. It may not be logical to you or I but it is a fact. Personally I prefer older women. Although I have not met her, you would not think that blueyes would have a problem. I have met hellokity and she is a hot item. It is hard to imagine someone turning down or not being interested in playing with either of these women. But I have heard that same comments from other women that I know in the lifestyle. If all you want is sex the box trick should help you. If you are looking for friends, I question if that is the way to go. The women I know prefer to flirt and sometimes play at a party because men are really unknown items and they do not want to get trapped. In SLC, K&K hole regular M&G at a couple of clubs and post here. I have been to a couple or there

Profile Pics - Why hide your husbands? - ok we will put our 2 cents in on this one as we have had to a couple of times in the past this has been brought up. we have some of the male half but aroiund here 98% of the swingers are just looking and want to see pics of the wife. they are in this for ff and the hubbys are just tag a lones. we have really gave up on all this we just keep our profile because of good friends we have made. we started swinging 8 years ago . at first it was fun people wanting to chat and meet. we met one couple that we played with since we was new to this it was kinda off the wall. and we didnt really have a good time. then hubby brought a friend home and had a 3some with wife . she didnt really like it . ( not going to say why ). then we went to a party and hooked up with this lady for a three some . while her hubby watched. just to find out she wanted the wife. and hubby got to fuck her the whole 3 minutes before the woman said im soar. soar after 3 minutes of fucking ? BULL SHIT!! just to clear something up hubby has a 8 inch dick and yes he knows how to use it. so looks like all this is not swinging but for women who want to fuck women . thats why we never had many pics of hubby.

Swingers ski trip to Colorado - - Hi, we are going on a Swingers ski trip to Colorado Feb. 4th-9th. We are looking for a couple or couples to go with us because it's much cheaper that way. It comes to $900 per couple for 5 nights at 1 bedroom apartment, lift tickets for 3 days of skiing, Airport round trip transfer. (Skis rent extra around $100 per person if you don't have your own). To take virtual resort tour go here http://tours.360house.com/Viewer_pr.cfm?ID=71455 Look for one bedroom or Colorado suite. Looks like very good resort. Here you can find more info on the trip http://www.astraveloffl.com/ We have been looking to go to Colorado for a while and can tell you that's a very good price. Only transfer from Denver airport cost $200 round trip per person, 3 days lift tickets cost $200 if you buy it on line in advance and over $250 at the door. So, price worth it. Plus, skiing such a fun and Colorado is the only place in U.S. that comparable to famous european ski trails. If you are a couple and want to go with us lets talk about it. Please, be under 40. We prefer local to us couples so, we can meet and see if we all can live together in one apartment for five nights. :)

Why are people not answering? - - we to wonder why alot on here doesnt reply,I myself knwo we aren\'t a dog ugly couple. and what really burns us up is,,the ones who send you a e-mail saying they are interested and when you reply back with contact info,,,you never hear back from then. Santa -All i want for x-mas is a want-a-be zapper so i can do some serious ZAPPING! MERRY X-MAS TO ALL YOU REAL SWINGERS :z :h :l

Black Ring - Who has theirs and how have they caught on? - [quote=IN_UR_DREAMS]Explain the black ring thing further. My personal situation is I am not a swinger, I am not part of a couple, I just happened to get involved with a swinger couple and my guy gave me a profile on here. So I don't count as a swinger, I'm just a single girl who likes dick very very much. And people involved with swingers are a good source for easy NSA dick. But I have no problem wearing a piece of jewelry that might let other people see that I have a wild side. As it seems, no one notices, but if more people try? Like seriously if there is a special ring or other piece of jewelry that announces to the world I am a slut and proud of it, count me in. [/quote]Your getting a collar, when can we got to the pet store?

Singles who are married and cheating - - better get a cup of coffee cuz this is gonna be a long read: there are a few things you have to take into consideration when you decide to be in the swinging lifestyle. i think the biggest thing is finding out if your spouse is into it. most people, i think, go into a relationship knowing what their spouses boundries are. and then there are couples who evolve in their relationship and the more trust they have in their relationship, i would think it would be like a "coming out" of sorts. like..."hey, um...honey...the johnsons next door are having a party this weekend...and we were invited" "Really?" "Yeah, and i hear its one of THOSE kinda parties" "well, honey..we better wear our crotchless underwear" i dunno..something like that..like, at some point you decide that swinging is for you, right? or you go into a relationship knowing that swinging is an option. buuuuuuuuuuuutttttt... if you go into a relationship knowing that swinging is definetly not what your spouse is into or in the evolution of your relationship you decide swinging is right for you, and your spouse isnt into it, and under no circumstance is it ok....then, in my humble opinion, you arent in the lifestyle. now, if you come to some sort of open relationship agreement if your spouse isnt into it but agrees to let you get some strange, fine. if you take it upon yourself to sign up for a swinging website behind your spouses back, hook up with couples behind your spouses back, then YOU ARE CHEATING! if you are cheating, then you are just asking for trouble: 1. you are being dishonest 2. you are bringing your drama into someone elses life whether they know it or not. what happens if the wife finds out and shows up at your house party with a shotgun? 3. what happens if you get an s.t.d.? you bring that home with you to your spouse, and if you have them, your children. even if you use condoms you can still get s.t.d.'s, its happened. 4. when your spouse does find out, and they will...you are humiliating them in front of their friends, family, job...cuz somehow they all find out. that leads me to believe you have no regard for someone elses feelings so why would i want to swing with you? 5. you are giving other single people, male or female, a bad name and reputation. 6. you are giving swingers in general a bad name and reputation. jenn and i are honest with each other. we are not in a place where we are gonna swing separate, we communicate and talk things out so we have a full understand of where eachother is at, at any given moment. if jenn or i didnt want to swing anymore, or if we wanted a break from it, we talk about it. we arent perfect by any means, but we do our best to consider eachothers feelings in this lifestyle. we dont invite drama into our lives so i would have to say...no, we dont swing with someone who is cheating on their spouse. we would both suggest that if you feel the need to cheat that you should either talk it out with your spouse and seek external help or if you dont think that will help, you should consider ending the relationship. this is all just our opinion. we know its easier written or said than done. but if you arent happy with your spouse, why would you drag them down with this? communicate..compromise...talk it out..but dont be a cheater, cuz its not cool. brandon

Bisexual - when did you know? - I knew before and it is the reason we are swingers. My husband and I are very new to the lifestyle even thourgh we have been talking about it for two years.Two years ago we started to noticed when watching porns that the women together made me hornier than anything.I was with a woman one time but we did not get to finish what we started. :( She went down on me but that was it.(My husband was watching.)Then she moved a few days later.Now we are trying to find a Bi-female to fulfill my fantasy of beening with a woman.:p

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