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Do Swingers Like Strippers - - my wife use to do full nude entertainer in south salt lake at paradise befor the got shut down by south salrt lake
so no problem her
Curious how you feel - Do couples that want to take time and become friends turn you off? - Not sure why we mainly see posters from Utah in the forum. Seems like a great way to stir up a friendship or two. But to the point at hand, we always like the idea of getting along well with the other swingers we meet so friendship is a must. Not saying we won't play on the first date, but we can usually tell if we're going to get along or not as soon as we meet in person. We've even made some really close friends in the lifestyle that we don't play with. The e-mail thing gets old fast. Just a few to set up a meeting or a yes or no is good enough. Sometimes a good meet and great is all you need. And a few drinks doesn't hurt either. ;-)
Added Profile Information - We need your feedback. - Have seen on other sites a computer match auto search that matches the top 10 or 20 profiles that match what you and the others are looking for. This could save a lot of needless looking into others profiles endlessly. Some dating services are set up in a simular manor and it does have its benefits. Also good to have a place for specific ages you are looking for, or others are looking for. That way us vintage stock swingers would not be viewed as trying to bother the younger generation that may view us as pasture ready.
Indiscretion - - we have a male friend we have known for years. he got a new girlfriend who seemed to be eager to try swinging, she had a few experiences, mostly with us, but then they broke up for other reasons. we still see him but didn't try to stay in contact with her. so just a couple of weeks ago we go to our favorite biker bar, where we are regulars, the band was playing and the place was packed. and there she is, all sexy and looking for a new man, and about half drunk, with horny guys hanging all around her. she was overjoyed to see us, the only people she really knew in the place. so she makes it a point to introduce us to all her new friends, most of them already knew us but not about the swinging part of it, they were just playing along with the drunk chick. then she announces in way too loud a voice "and they're swingers too!"
it was actually kind of funny, 2 other swinger couples we know were there and started sniggering. it is a biker bar, so no real harm done, and some other couples that we barely knew have been making it a point to get more friendly with us lately. so we got outed at our favorite hangout and the skies didn't fall in and nobody even seemed overly surprised or shocked. I didn't want to spoil her good mood, but the next day we called her and let her know that we would prefer to decide ourselves who we want to be privy to that information.
Clubs - Sexy Salt Lake City Clubs - There are a few places in and around Salt Lake where some of the patrons, you might meet are non-monogamous. Most won't self identify as swingers, and they don't have a profile on any swing site. This may be especially true with the mid 20 to mid 40 something age group. Piper Down, Elixir Lounge and Brewvies Cinema-Pub are not exactly night clubs, but you will find non-monogamous singles and couples, in all those establishments. We have been to all three! It's true, you may well hook up if you hit it off and the chemistry is there! Plus side to this sort of socializing, is there is no expectations, just possibilities. Nobody is going to say "I thought you were a swinger? Come on!" Down side is one visit may not be enough to make a connection, on a Friday night in town, unless at least one of the two of you is really, really social and communicative. Club 90, The Royal and the Sky Lounge, all seem to have a reputation as places "swingers" hang out. At least that's what we have heard from our "non swinger" non-monogamous and vanilla friends. In this last list, we have only been to Club 90, and yes it has been a while, but we always run into people from the swing scene when we have gone there. Advantage, is once they see your black ring, your anklets, etc., etc., you can hurry up to the let's get naked part of it rather quickly, on a first chemistry filled meeting, when consorting with swingers. You got to love it, if you are into that sort of thing and you meet the right people. Habits has already been mentioned. Been there a few times and yes the place is crawling with the unchaste! It's crawling with curious non swingers too. The wife will get a lot of "does she or doesn't she" looks from all over the room. Mrs. Delicious used to enjoy putting on a show dancing with and rubbing up against men and women at the same time with quite a bit of kissing at Habits. She has become a bit apprehensive about dance floor show times in recent years, unless the whole crowd is into it. These days we enjoy places where you can have a comfortable conversation more than a dance club, but sometimes you just got to dance.
Now that all of our healthy, happy and successful, adult children are old enough to drink and go dancing and are mostly non-monogamous, as are a lot of their friends, we are kind of trying to not make public spectacles of ourselves! Trying to avoid a "Hey, dude, I saw your mom feeling up a couple of dudes, your dad and two ladies at Habits. She is hot!" scenario.
is this legit?? - - A good reason for someone to show discretion in this area of life is if the person is military. Thanks to some of the things written in the UCMJ(Uniform Code of Military Justice), the military swingers have to keep their lifestyle a secret because they can get into a heap of trouble. Just a couple examples who ever just has sex in the missionary postion, never has their partern go down on them or for those that like anal, no anal sex & the big kicker for the swinger lifestyle doesn't have sex with another person's spouse? All of that is punishable under the UCMJ so it wouldn't be a far fetched idea for them to lose their job if it came to the attention of the swinger's commander.
looking for a fun gal - dating more - "any ideas are greatly appreciated"
I have a lot of lady friends that are very open minded but they would never be found on a swingers website and would not be interested in swinging.
If you are just looking for a "cool chick to hang with" and are not looking for a single female swinger I'd say check out the regular dating sites.
If I suddenly became single you would NOT find me here....I'd look for a regular relationship FIRST....
Sturgis 2009 - - When and where is the Testy Festy... have heard about it but not too sure what it is, but have heard swingers have a way of letting others know they swing. We will also be heading back through Helene on our way home....
How do you spot a Swinger..?! - tell tell signs of the lifestyle - lmao humm try hunting for swingers in the bible belt lmao ..