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Valentines Spice Party Entertainment Vote - Place your vote for your choice of live entertainment for the Spice Party - Hell go for the gusto. Hire the live band. You can have the hip hop playing loud and long in between sets. Let's dance nasty to some rock and blues with the HH?? After all, variety is the spice of life right? Swingers should know this.

Have you ever ..... - - We have come across average Joes like ourselves all the time. We meet at Starbucks, or the mall, or the wife gets recognized at work since she is involved with the public to a degree. Our vanilla friends and lifestyle friends get along very well and they don`t know who is in or out of the lifestyle. We actually had a vanilla friend, the female half of a couple, try to pick up the female half of a lifestyle couple we are friends with at one of those sex toy parties. We know swingers come from all walks of life but we were not prepared to come across one in this level of work. We really got caught off guard but handled it well.

i have the guts to ask - - sorry, I still believe the old adage... If you can't say something nice, don't say anything. It's about being nice. Nothing more, nothing less. No one has said anything mean, I'm just saying why bother if it's not complementary? You're right Crazy put themselves out there....but I'm sure they were confident that people would be kind. After all, all of us swingers are pretty much a "horse of a different color" and nonconformists....right? So why be unkind? This isn't the Jerry Springer show darlin...and hopefully we're here to make friends not nitpic at people. Gosh...do we sometimes do that, ya think? LOL kisses, Cin

Feelings on Karma - spouses in a open relationship that break the rules, then will allow you to also - Are you serious? If it sounds like a good topic for The Jerry Springer Show... People like that are not good "swingers" for lack of a better term. They are foolishly wagering their relationships to be self indulgant (sp?). The Lifestyle is about TRUST. It is about HONESTY. and believe it or not, supreme COMMITTMENT. I dont even really see how your situation has anything to do with swinging. The rules were set. The rules were broken. It is simply CHEATING. Anyone who would enter in to a committed relationship, whatever type it is, only to break the rules that you two have agreed on as a couple is selfish in my book. This means you had NO respect for your partner. NO respect for thier feelings. And absolutely NO respect for the relationship. So why bother!? Cheating is NOT a tennis ball to be whacked back and forth between courts, or awarded as some kind of concellation prize to the victim when one is caught. I think that behavior is just sick. But thats just my little tiny .02 cents. Luvbugs! (mR.) :s

Help For the Single Male - - I have found that the best way is to be very courteous, and patient. This is a swinger site, which is mostly a couples lifestyle. We are pretty much the outcasts. Plus there are so many of us. The best way is to get to know the people who are here. Some ways that I have found is to go to the webcam chat, and have an intelligent chat with the people who are there. You can even get on the webcam, but most of the people there aren't wanting to see you naked. They prefer just to have an ordinary talk about ordinary things of life, and not some pervert stroking himself. Also don't be asking all the ladies to be taking off their clothes. Like I said.. that isn't being polite and courteous. There are also the meet and greets, Eden house here in SLC, and the various clubs and gyms where a lot of the swingers get together. If you talk with them, you might even get invited. The people here care more about how you are as a person, than seeing you naked. Most people would want a friend first, and a friend with benefits later. You just have to show them that.

Looking for fun in Plano, Texas 3-27 to 4-11! - - From Plano, you should check out the Iniquity swingers club, you'l like the view from the San Souci swingers club, and if you want a good place to eat exotic food, try campo verde in Arlington, they offer buffalo, rattle snake, just for starters. There are many places to see, and lots to do in your spare time. I spent 8 yrs in the DFW area, but I'm in Arkansas with my mother right now, I just spent the last 7 months of dads life living with them, his alzheimers had gotten bad enough mom needed my help. We lost him Feb 2 08 during surgery to repair a large aneyurism. Have fun in Plano! If you ride, maybe we can do that sometime. Iron

Friends or swinging partner - - That's not really an easy question to answer. We've met a bunch of couples just once. We generally don't hop into bed on the first date, but it does happen. I think there have been couples that we've hopped into bed with that we might not see in other than swinger settings, but we definitely have friends we swing with that we would and do. There are swinger couples we'd really like to spend vanilla time with but just haven't had the time. Candycanepa is right in that this is a swingers site for swinging friends, so the intent is to find friends to hop into bed with. We're a super busy couple. He travels 4-5 days a week and, like a lot of you, we have kids at home. That makes it tough to have time to really have close friends, swinger or vanilla.

Swinger behavior at vanilla parties... - Where do you draw the line of appropriate? - [quote=WENDYBLWMEHARDR] Wow, where do you begin with this? 1. Your at a vanillia party = no flirting or flashing! 2. Children are present! = no flirting or flashing! 3. Most importantly how Dare someone say anything hurtful to a child or anyone else for that matter = no class !! 4. These folks should be Outted I would hate for someone elses child to be the next victim because some folks dont have the testicular fortitude to speak out against such attrocities !! 5. This makes you as bad as them . Look in the mirror and ask yourself why you even posted this drama . Did you do it just to stirr the pot because you like the drama ? Or did you really want some good to come from this? Do the right thing and Out them and then ban them from all events. Bad things happen when good people do nothing to prevent it! Take a stand and choose your side there is no grey area here .[/quote] As I said earlier, I am biting my tongue not screaming out who this person is...but as pointed out above, I would then be the one in trouble...so you ask why did I post this? No it was not to stir the pot or to cause drama (if I had outed them that would be causing drama)...of course I want good to come of this, I want people to realize that we as swingers have a bad rep as it is and we need to be aware that our behavior is seen by others and can affect everyone around us! I have chosen a side...it's the side of being an adult and abiding by the guidelines that I agreed to when I signed up...I CAN NOT name the person...she knows who she is and she reads these forums and she will see that her behavior has disgusted many and hopefully she will act accordingly next time...the fact that you see me as bad as her...well that is your own opinion, but I know that I did the right thing here.... Kisses...Naugh-Ty

is this legit?? - - A good reason for someone to show discretion in this area of life is if the person is military. Thanks to some of the things written in the UCMJ(Uniform Code of Military Justice), the military swingers have to keep their lifestyle a secret because they can get into a heap of trouble. Just a couple examples who ever just has sex in the missionary postion, never has their partern go down on them or for those that like anal, no anal sex & the big kicker for the swinger lifestyle doesn't have sex with another person's spouse? All of that is punishable under the UCMJ so it wouldn't be a far fetched idea for them to lose their job if it came to the attention of the swinger's commander.

Has anyone else had or still have this problem? - Mixed emotions when it's your turn to play - [quote=UCANTOUCHMYMONKY]Sugarandspice said "most swingers are down on single men. So many males are here for their own pleasure period. It is the God

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