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Oregon Swingers

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Where are you Playing July 4th weekend? - Share your favorite places. - Up at the property in Pinedale with family. It would be better with a bunch of swingers but Pinedale is great

Frustration with Friend Requests - - The underlying problem is the "we're swingers, you're swingers" mindset. We've been around the scene for a long time and met many many people who don't understand why we won't just fuck them...afterall, they're swingers and we're swingers...so let's just fuck already. This "hobby" is for fantasy fulfillment. If you aren't at least a little bit attracted to someone for any reason then what the hell is the point of fucking them? Especially when most of us can stay home and have WAY better sex with someone we love.

Key West - - Yeah whatever you do avoid Club Pu like the plague. You will have much more fun and meet more swingers at the Garden of Eden clothing optional bar. It's on the 3rd floor above the Bull Bar. Saint Pats day in KW is great!! No real parade to speak of but Finnegan's Wake closes the street and has a block party, thats a blast! Also on Saturday March 14th there is a Saint Pattys Bar Stroll... thats a fun event also. Spring break will be going on at the same time so it should be pretty crowded down here. Don't worry, you won't run out of fun things to do!! ;)

Polyamorous - Any of you? - If you fall in love with more than one person at a time, then in your heart of hearts, I guess you could consider yourself "polyamourous". Now whether or not you act on those feelings is another matter. There are a lot of people, who regardless of whether they are trying to be monogamous or polyamrous or swingers or whatever can't seem to make any relationship work. Maybe it's a better plan to just relax and first learn to love ourselves, enough to not need to self define or define each other. Maybe just be who we are. Don't try and fit in or force anything and what and who we all really need will just flow our way.

Talk radio and swingers? - - Hi all, Just wanted to invite everyone to listen to SwingTime. SwingTime is an internet radio show. We talk about swinging and everything sex... You never know what to expect from sex facts to sex trivia. We are an interactive show, you can send us messegges on AIM or MSN. We can be found at WWW.realvariety.com Monday nights 8-10 eastern.

cool karaoke clubs tonight??? - Where to go karaoke - Any one know some cool karaoke clubs for tonight. Any swingers hang out there?

So you think only single men can be crude? - Guess again - Here's a classic: (I've never posted a private e-mail before but this is a REAL goober, he didn't have time to read our "Noval" but would like to fuck me till I pass out) From: WELOVLIFE Subject: No subject Date: August 6, 2006 (9:15 AM) Hi Mrs Fun I did not have time to read the noval, but I can keep it short and sweet. If you want hot sex then e-mail us. If you want a big dick in you than e-mail us. If hubby wants some good pussy than e-mail us. If you want to fuck until you pass out by all means e-mal us. Barb & John


Now if "John" had read our profile he may have figured out we might not be the best couple to send his "Shell Station Graffiti" too. We have to block all single men because they have a few goobers among their ranks, what happens if we have to block couples? Answer: Maytag-Repair-Man Swingers R- US (Lonely People)...

Facebook and the lifestyle - Can Facebook be TMI with the lifestyle? - Ms. Evil and I were talking this morning about the the lifestyle in the age of Facebook. She mentioned that she kind of feels like there is the possibility of learning TOO much about your lifestyle friends when you're also on their Facebook feed. Especially in the hyperpolarized world we live in right now she thinks that maybe knowing too much about other swingers can make it harder to connect sexually with them. In fact, more than once, I've walked into the bedroom to find her on her laptop reading something a swinger friend has posted on Facebook with steam coming out of her ears (yeah we made an appt. with an ENT to get that checked out). I think it's gotten so bad at times that she's totally lost her 'lady wood' for a few of our lifestyle friends. I'm not really on Facebook so it hasn't affected me (other than her maybe not being as excited about possibly hooking up with some couples because they are so adamant in their views and express them so vigorously on Facebook). Just wondering what everyone thinks. Does Facebook (and learning all the dirty details about other couples) affect how you start to think about them? Ever not wanted to hook up with someone once you realized how different your viewpoints were or when they maybe posted some things on social media that you found offensive?

does anyone else go through periods of doubt? - as to whether this lifestyle is what they want? - This is a 'lifestyle' and there are many different types of people in it. The definition of a swinger has changed drastically and the description you provided still falls into that definition. A lot of people choose this lifestyle because of it's openness and sexual energy. You don't have to have sex with everyone you meet to be a swinger or be in the lifestyle. Selectivity is a virtue and you have the right. Most swingers rarely hook up with others until they find the 'right' situation. But that doesn't make you less of a swinger than those who do every weekend. Remember, to each his own!

single males - - Thank you for opening the topic. I hope that it will be used shed some insight and not just complain. In a place like Habits there are vanilla singles that have no clue that swingers congregate there. So there will naturally be more problem in that environment than a private party. At a house party the only people that should be there are those that are invited by the host and hostess. Every one of the guests should have known the rules or etiquette of this lifestyle. If you had complaints, they should have been addressed last night with the hosts. Evidently the balance you were looking for was not there. Sadly it is difficult for most singles to figure out how to talk to a swinging couple. There are no schools or training centers to teach this. As a single male, conversation at a vanilla party with a couple is much easier. Most often the men and women separate and we talk with one or the other without expectations on either side. Sometimes conversation is just conversation. I find that making friends is generally more difficult in this lifestyle because of the sexual expectations of many. I think that you will find a number of the single men, after getting the cold shoulder from many husbands, find it easier to attempt to talk to the women because they lack the skills to talk with both. It is a mistake but it is also part of the learning process. There is no excuse for rude behavior on the part of the single male but neither is there an excuse for the typical married male attitude. Single males are always and have always been a pariah and dam few couples want them at any party. I came into this lifestyle as a single male looking to make male friends to hang with that would help me understand the rules. I found most of the males were cold and suspicious and difficult to talk with. I was not looking for women to play with nearly as much as I was looking for a girlfriend that was already in the lifestyle. But I am sure that as far as most were concerned all I wanted to find was their wife

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