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Completely new to this. Please help?! - - When you are at a meet and greet or a house party or even out meeting people on what could become a booty call try and relax. If you don't worry about sex, and don't expect sex and just let things develop naturally, in time when it's right it will happen. If swing sex was considered normal and most adults were swingers, would hooking up be a bit more relaxed? Really, if you think about it, that's the way it should work within the swing community. You can meet people, a lot of different ways within the community and yes they are open to the possibility of having sex with each other. None of us are obligated to have sex with anyone. Anyone acting like you owe them anything sexual just doesn't get it. No means no, and the healthy members of the swing community will back you up on that. Talk about your fantasies together, as we are sure you are, and when you meet people that might fit into your fantasy, you can send out subtle flirtatious hints or bold invitations to play.

Swingers Day! - Anybody heard of this? - Thanks for letting everyone know about this day. Just another reason to hold a PARTY!!! WOOO HOOO!! Hope everyone has a happy swinger's day. lol just had to see how it sounded. :D

Why are Newbie's off limits? - - Newbies are not off limits, you just have to be careful with them because their expectations may not be consistent with reality. In spite of their excitement, they don't know how they will handle recreational sex until they actually experience it. I am contacted by a lot of newbies who want me to introduce them around, and the majority of them have progressed to become functional swingers. However, a few have had problems. As a mentor, you want to make sure that you provide all the assistance that you can without getting caught up in their personal problems.

Distances and meeting swing partners - - Some of the most fun we have had was with cpls just passing through on vacation :-) Other than those travelers we limit our play to within a hours drive except of course when we go to a snow ski resort and setup fun with other swingers who love to play in the mountains.

Question - do you talk about other swingers? - I agree with the previous posters that you should avoid commenting on experiences with other people. I have a profile on another swing site that permits certifications. I have a lot, and I have certified a lot of the people with whom I have played. From time to time one of my friends will ask me specifically about someone whom I have certified. I try to limit my comments to a paraphrase of my certification (which has been approved by the certified member).

single men - - I'm gonna toss my 2 cents in here just because I happen to have spare change .. EASTTENNCPL hit the nail pretty much on the head with their statement to not expect anything; but it really does apply more to single men than others. While it is true that there are overwhelmingly more single male profiles here than others, there are actually underwhelmingly few 'active' single males. By 'active' I mean: Socializes openly with others (men, women, and couples alike), participates in forums (other than to complain about how single males are treated), frequents the chat room (other than just to hit on pretty women), and/or are actively involved in swinging community events. Most of these things are really just a simple matter of being there without any expectations. On the flip side, every couple and single female user on here knows that to openly seek single males is an invitation to a torrent of spam. By spam I mean unwanted communications, i.e.: anonymous friend requests, emailed cock-shot pics, etc etc .. which is the ultimate source of the single male stigma. They instead resort to browsing through profiles and responding to what's pretty, only to receive a jack-ass in reply. The problem seems to stem from the perception that this is a 'hook up' site. When treated as such, it tends to behave as such. In the sense of Supply; what we end up with is a population of potential quality single male members who are squelched and masked by a tidal wave of idiocy. Then in the sense of Demand; we end up with a population of jilted single male seekers who are almost afraid to put forth active effort in seeking those members who readily meet their desires. The solution lies in utilizing the site for what it is: a social networking site. It's much like Facebook, MySpace, or LinkedIn. The difference is that this site's specialization is Swingers. You get more value out of a social networking site by being .. 'social'. If you're social you tend to be actively involved. When you're actively involved, you tend to get noticed. When you start to get noticed.. well, Problem meet Solution. Sorry for the novella.. like I said, had some spare change.. Alex

FNG ,but hey I get it... Really - - I am encouraging people who are really interested in this lifestyle to be genuine and courteous. I may be throwing some meet and greets as soon as I get a girl who will help me host. (parties a big work) but I got the house for it. I would love to have a party every 60 days; so we, being a small and select few who really enjoy our lives to the fullest can have a setting that is open and not costly to meet folks who live near by and really want some genuine people to interact with. I hope we can be as active as Utah seems to be. I have emailed a few of you here some no response, others great tips and genuine friendly advice. Remember it is not a party with out you. California Orange county I know you are out there I do what I can to promote this lifestyle and pioneer for new friends, lovers, acquaintances and referrals. If I could get some friend invites that are Local I would throw some nice baby hugh hefner* parties. I am just getting involved and I have some great game, genuine personality and very approachable. I am not easily embarrassed but can be hurt. So a simple ignore or no thank you is what I would recommend. I am not expecting a love connection from any or all when I get an email or a network add just expect real genuine swingers who can commit and be courteous if and when I do throw a meet and greet. So is this thing on?:*

Interacial Sex - - agree [quote=SHAZAMER]I have played with guys and gals from every race, color, type of cultural upbringinging, etc. that can be found in Utah. The stereotypes are just silly and stupid. There are hot & not so hot men of every race. What I do find intriguing is that most guys of races other than white, keep themselves physically fit after marriage and take pride in their appearance. This seems to be much more rare in married white men. A shame! Also, seems like white swingers like to smoke. A lot. This is a turn off for me, so I tend to steer clear. xoxoxo Monika[/quote]

Happy Thanksgiving - - Happy holidays to all you sexy swingers out there

FSP "Meet and Greet Dance Party" - Meet and Greet - Florida Swing Party!!!!!!!! San Carlos Lounge February 20th, 2009 The Friendly Members Club A no pressure evening of fun! Come to 18911 S. Tamiami Trail, Fort Myers (41), San Carlos Lounge from 9:00 p.m. till 1:30 a.m. This is a straight bar and It's Ok To Be Sexy! Sexy is fine in public, nude is not:) This is not like many other Meet and Greets you may go to. When you get there, come up to the DJ and tell him you are here for the party. Kimi will introduce you to the other swingers in the room so you won't have to sit there and try to guess who else may be in the LifeStyle :) Warning: They like their music loud at San Carlos, and smoking is allowed. We hope you will all sit at a large table to get to know each other! We'll be playing all genres of music and requests are welcomed as always! Drinks are very reasonable, and no cover charge, but please don't drink and drive. Come out to party and dance with us!

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