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Polyamory, Swinging, and the Single Man - - We know a few people that associate with the poly community, as in consider themselves poly and we have been to a few poly pot lucks ourselves. The poly people we know are all very nice people. None of the people we actually know that that consider themselves poly have ever actually been in a long term full on poly relationship as in everyone involved ending up equally as committed to each other and the relationship. We have known people where a married couple, with a bisexual wife had a live in relationship with a bisexual woman but in the end it did not last very long and the couple and the woman went their separate ways and we have know a few couples that have been in exclusive relationships with another couple where part of the equation wanted to basically make it as permanent as their primary relationship and part of the equation did not. Relationships with commitments, especially those that are the most rewarding are life altering and if you are not really, all in, heart and soul the advanced level of commitment and the corresponding obligations will eventually become a burden you may be unwilling to bear. If what is looking for as an individual is deep passionate friendships without expectations and obligations, that you feel reduce your freedom, then a poly relationship and marriage may not be in their best interest. There is nothing wrong with that. If a deeply pair bonded couple wants the freedom to enjoy deep and passionate friendships with others, including sex, without the same level of obligation and expectation they offer one to another then are they poly or are they swingers? Probably more swingers than truly poly-amorous or maybe they are poly light or swinger intense. The secret may be to figure out who you are and then be true to yourself. A lack of understanding of self can lead to disappointments in relationships. Intentionally misrepresenting or misleading someone for sex rarely and probably never ends up all good. We all on occasion may unintentionally end up misleading someone when we try and be what we think others wants us to be and in the end we just do not have it in us. We can say for a certainty that we are not poly in the truest sense of the word or really even poly light. Our relationship as a couple is paramount and we willfully and joyfully commit to all the obligations and commitments and even the disagreements that accompany living our lives together and with our progeny. We both inherited genes that seem to have targeted both of us to seek out a life long partner, have and raise a family and to express ourselves sexually mostly together as a couple. We have been in a couple of longer than usual not really exclusive relationships where we were seeing the same people pretty much weekly. We discovered that we are okay with having good friends with sexual benefits but the ability or the desire to be in a poly relationship is just not within either one of us. Self discovery and relationships often requires a bit of experimentation and a lot of self examination. Affiliating and seeking to self identify with a group to achieve acceptance friendship and sex is pretty common and pretty normal. Many of the people we know that self identify as poly are not unwilling to enjoy a little sex for sex sake between friends so long as they understand that is all that is happening. Good luck and have fun!

Facebook for Swing Friends? - - I have close swing friends on mine. But then gain I'm actually friends with my close swing friends, of that makes any sense. Most everyone we know knows about is being swingers anyway. Although I don't post anything on there like "hey I had sex with so-and-so today" on it.

Dungeons & Dragons Online Game - anyone else or just us? - anyone else play DDO? plays like WOW or everquest but free mostly and alot funner alot more of a challenge We play now and again and wonder about other swingers that may play online games maybe group up and talk on there as we play? talk about multi tasking killin monsters and setting up dates lol/// http://my.ddo.com/referral/pepsi_phreak_79 if your lookin to try it out otherwise we are on the sarlona server My cleric is necrophiliak she has a rogue named valitia

Affair Match - - Very well said Lusty... and many others of you... Its not a matter of judgementalism for I too fall on the perhaps wierdly mystical side that "everything is perfect, there is ultimately no "making right or wrong". However, thats not to say that we dont all have 'preferences'. It just seems wierd to attract cheating spouse lurkers to a dedicated swingers site. Did we ever find out if Swingular has a similar ad on the Married Affair site attracting affair seekers to what they might believe is an "easy hunting ground" for tail? PS... it is sooo good to hear so many speaking about how important it is to hold a field of Non-judgement and full acceptance. For the record, my opposition to this banner ad reflects my present desire to align myself with with open, honest swingers. In my past I have both been a cheater and played with cheaters. Its nice to have evolved into a fully honest, open marriage and found you all in a community of so many who embrace just how strong, good and honorable this type of relationship can be. Thanks to you all and hope to meet many more. Member since Jan 1st! Dave

Slut cards - - We are making our slut cards tonight for Young Swingers Week in March. If you have one will you message me a picture. Just trying to get some ideas. 😅😘

Meet up SLC/Utah County - Looking to meet couples - If they close off the top floor for swingers on Friday nights, is there an extra cover charge or list we would need to be on to get in?

DO U HAVE ANY ADULT GOODIES THAT U WOULD LIKE TO SELL ? - NEW OR USED 4 MEN OR WOMEN ??????? - I RUN A SWINGERS SITE THAT ALSO HAS AN AUCTION PART ON IT . ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY CAN USE THE AUCTIONS . U DONT HAVE TO BE A MEMBER OF THE SITE TO SELL OR BUY STUFF . ANYBODY CAN SELL ANY KINDA OF STUFF ON THE AUCTIONS . IF U LOVE TO SHOP U CAN PICK UP A FEW EXTRA NEW THINGS TO TRY TO SELL . OR IF U ARE CLEANING OUT YOUR CLOSETS OR DRAWERS OR FILEING CABINET HA HA AND U HAVE STUFF THAT U DONT NEED OR WANT ANYMORE OR MAYBE SOMETHING JUST DIDNT FIT RIGHT ON U . U MAY PUT IT UP FOR SALE . IF IT IS USED PLEASE PUT THAT IN YOUR AD . AND U HAVE TO LIST ANYTHING THAT MIGHT BE WRONG WITH THE ITEM . MISSING BUTTON , FADEING IN THE COLOR OR WHATEVER LIKE THAT .BE HONEST ABOUT THE COND OF THE ITEM . THERE IS MANY DIFFERENT AREAS TO LIST YOUR STUFF IN THE AUCTION PART . IF U DONT SEE AN AREA THAT U NEED THEN PLEASE EMAIL ME AND ILL ADD IT TO THE LIST FOR YOU . THE SITE IS ALWAYS LOOKING FOR STUFF LIKE ... SEXY OUTFITS SHOES OR BOOTS CLUB WEAR PORN HOME MOVIES OR STORE BOUGHT OR PORN MAGS . NAUGHTY ART WORK . CANDLES OR CANDLE HOLDERS VASES ANYTHING LIKE THAT . U CAN ALSO SELL REG EVERY DAY STUFF ALSO . CLOTHES ,CURTAINS , BEDSPREADS ,BIRD BATHS WHATEVER U WANT TO SELL . THE SITE OFFERS MANY DIFFERENT WAYS FOR PEOPLE TO CHOOSE TO PAY U . U ARE IN CONTROL OF WHICH WAYS U WILL ACCEPT THEIR MONEY . CREDIT CARD , PAY PAL CHECK , CASH ... IF U RUN A ADULT STORE OR SITE OR SELL ADULT STUFF U MAY SELL STUFF ON THE SITE . IF U ARE A DANCER OR WEB CAM LADY U MAY SELL YOUR PICS , OUTFITS , MOVIES TO YOUR FANS AND TO OUR MEMBERS . IT WORKS JUST LIKE EBAY . BUT WE LET U TAKE NAUGHTY PICS TO SELL YOUR ITEMS . HA HA U CAN PICK TO CHOOSE TO SELL IT TWO WAYS OR BOTH . U CAN LIST AN ITEM FOR A BUY IT NOW PRICE . OR U CAN PICK A RESV PRICE AND THEN HAVE IT IN OPEN AUCTION AND SEE IF PEOPLE WILL BID AND WANT TO PAY MORE FOR IT . WHEN U LIST IT WITH A RESV PRICE . U PICK A PRICE THAT U WILL NOT SELL LESS THEN THAT PRICE . THEN THE PEOPLE BID ON IT TO TRY TO GET TO YOUR PRICE . IF A FEW PEOPLE ARE BIDDING ON THE SAME THING THEN THE PRICE MIGHT GO PAST YOUR RESV PRICE AND THEY WILL HAVE TO PAY AS HIGH AS THEY KEEP BIDDING ON IT ... EX. IF I WANTED TO SELL A NAUGHTY OUTFIT . IF I PAID $20.00 FOR IT . SO I WANT TO AT LEAST GET THAT OUT OF IT PLUS A DOLLAR OR TWO EXTRA . SO I CAN LIST THE ITEM LIKE THIS . RESV PRICE .... $22.00 BUY IT NOW PRICE $25.00 THIS IS JUST AN EX. U CAN CHARGE OR MAKE WHATEVER U WANT TO . THATS ALL UP TO YOU . IF THERE ISNT A BUY IT NOW PRICE THEN THE BIDDING CAN KEEP GOING UNTIL THE AD STOPS OR THE PEOPLE HAVE WENT TO THEIR HIGHEST PRICE THEY WILL PAY . THE HIGHEST BIDDER WINS . ONCE SOMEONE HAS MADE A BID ON AN ITEM U CANT TAKE IT OUT OF THE AUCTIONS UNELSS SOMEONE USES THE BUY IT NOW . OR THE AD HAS ENDED . U CAN BID ON AS MANY THINGS AS U WANT TO . BUT YOU ONLY HAVE TO PAY IF U WIN THE ITEM . AND U DONT HAVE TO SELL ANY ITEM UNLESS YOUR PRICE HAS BEEN MET . IF U HAVE ANY QUESTIONS FEEL FREE TO EMAIL ME ANYTIME AND ILL HELP YOU . NAUGHTY DREAMS FREAKY KITTY WWW.SWINGERSOFAMERICA.COM

How would you respond - - Yeah we've come across those cheating singles as well. Either married or have a g/f whom doesn't know. Last SOB story was she had a medical condition and couldn't have sex anymore, however it was ok for him to play as LONG as she wasn't aware of whom it was with. Most recently we had a profile name and description that appeared to be a couple. ID name on other swing-site was " Nicecple4fun " Turns out its a single male looking for a nice couple for fun ... it takes all kinds. We don't feel you did any thing wrong, just the mentality that swingers are cheaters and single guys feel that its pretty ez to poach. We have had several single guys participate with us however we generally meet them at LS events or house parties. Can't really say we've had any luck on any site with a single guy. They attempt to rationalize it away any way they can and feel like they are correct LOL and some just plain rude about it. " he likes fishing and she doesn't ...." wow I guess with that mentality she can take up quilting and cheating too, since I'm sure he doesn't probably like sewing in any form...

At what point do you out yourselves to family and friends?? - - I really don't think it makes that big a difference. What ever you are comfortable with is what you should do. Me personally, I let the people I work with that we are swingers, after they had guessed. Didn't see any reason to lie to them. Hell I was hoping to get in the pants of a couple of them. I don't think there is a right or wrong answer.

Interracial Fun - Taboo Or Good Fun? - My favorite ones are the ones who are trying to explaing the \"moral\" aversion to interaccial dating while posting his wife neked on a swingers site. I mean come on. Are you kidding? Interracial dating \"bad\" Butt Naked group sex \"good\"? You need to think about what you\'re saying before you say it. I try and steer clear of moral right and wrongs, but i think in this case you guys are treading on some thin moral ice. Funny but thin ice

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