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Meeting new swingers? - Where to meet them? - I think this is a hard one. In a small town, there probably wouldn't be a local swingers club so you'd almost have to resort to hinting around at bars or social gatherings. Obviously, you don't want to just come out and say 'Hey, we're swingers, how 'bout you?' But maybe trying to converse with a couple you may be interested in and gradually throwing out a hint here or there may be a way of going about it. Feeling out the conversation without being too forward. Maybe try to create a normal friendship with the couple at first, then introduce conversation that hints to the wild side down the road.
Tune into X96 3/12/09 @ 8:00 am - Ask a Swinger...... - If all of you are still all so up-set with the City Weekly Article about EH and Swingers why don't you just ask them to close? Or is getting up-front and personal too much for you? I heard they are trying to get out of their lease so they can move to a place with more bathrooms and maybe a shower. Someone at the city is trying to help them by forcing the landlord to build a firewall that he does not want to build. I guess a member of the City Counsel is one of their members or was one, or wants to be one (I never over heard the whole story) . The last party I attended there had a lot of really nice people. It looks like things are going pretty good. Well good enough they need a new place anyway (especially after Valentines day). Now THAT was a killer party!!!. Maybe you could just get them to close (if they get out of the lease) and not move. Moving is going to be a lot of work I
Singles posing as couples - - What about us? We're actually swingers who like to meet nice people. Sometimes even singles. Sometimes men. Sometimes women. sometimes couples. Some plump. Some skinny. We don't have ANY trouble sorting through the screwy ones. It's the [b][i][u]nice[/u][/i][/b] aspect that we seem to be having trouble finding on this forum recently. Sorry to stray from the OP's topic but it looks like it's heading south anyway.[em]Emo_42[/em]
Well that's just fucking weird! - Spooky photo shit going on. - [quote=DELICIOUSLYWET][quote=EVILDOERS]Okay well THIS has never happened. Had our primary pic, Ms. Evil in a black bikini, now, suddenly that pic is no longer in our folder and a different pic from our unlocked pics is now our primary photo. I'm gonna go with ghosts or maybe Jesus or possibly the NSA (although it probably isn't them since they can't even get into a locked iPhone). Anyone else had this problem? Should I email Admin and tell them they have a glitch? Should I call the Ghostbusters? Should I change my password, wipe my profile, and enter the witness protection program? [em]Emo_58[/em] [/quote]
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Only three. I SWEAR! And maybe a hard cider...or two. I tell ya, 'outer darkness' is SCAR-EE! You do NOT want to go there. They don't even have any Starbucks, let alone a DECENT coffee bar (shout out to Sips, the coffee for discerning swingers everywhere!). And there was nary a Pie Pizzeria in sight. Just McDonalds as far as the eye could see. *shudder*
And there was this dude.
Not sure what HIS gig was but he kept trying to poke me with his sharp pointy rake even though I kept telling him I'm not into that kinky BDSM shit and I'm NOT bi.
Excuse me? But are you guys swingers? - Excuse me? But are you guys swingers? - I think that just be respectful and ask straight up if they are in the "lifestyle" . If they aren't they won't know what you are talking about or if they are then you have a straight answer...yes. No one will ever be offended if they don't know what you are talking about. Also you might ask what they are talking about if they seem to be hinting..... Like ask... are you talking about swinging?... I guess it all depends on a number of factors... Are these people neighbors, someone you've just met and don't really know them or them you....Are these acquaintences that you know fairly well that are talking maybe to find out if you are in the lifestyle... So the reaponce is basically conditional... Can they hurt you? If not then what's to loose.
What do you say? - I gasped in horror! - You know what, I posted this thread thinking we could all talk about how good we have it because we are in healthy sexual relationships, not why its selfish to want oral (come on give me a break, like being swingers isn't already selfish.).
You people (and you know who you are) are whacked! its just a discussion on how bad it would suck to be this girl, not how holier than thou the fucking majority of the people in this site are, but once again you all proved that it doesn't matter what anyone says, you are all anti-fun.
Thanks for ruining another fun thread. PLEASE do us all a favor, and pull the sticks from your asses. Enjoy your miserable fucking lives, cause I'm happy giving and receiving oral sex.
Now I'm off to enjoy head, jealous much?
Sinle female but married , hubby not interested - Husband is not interested but wife is . - I agree with the above posters. Having seen a few threads like this on here you will probably find that the majority of this community will feel the same. Even swingers can cheat because cheating is about the lie. Most swingers I have met disapprove of cheating. (although, just like with non swingers, some still fall short of this ideal) The mansion party thing is a good idea. The environment doesn't require play and lets you understand this world before you make decisions about it. Your husband may find it not so intimidating and that there isn't actually any mustard to cut after all.
Help For the Single Male - - I have found that the best way is to be very courteous, and patient. This is a swinger site, which is mostly a couples lifestyle. We are pretty much the outcasts. Plus there are so many of us. The best way is to get to know the people who are here. Some ways that I have found is to go to the webcam chat, and have an intelligent chat with the people who are there. You can even get on the webcam, but most of the people there aren't wanting to see you naked. They prefer just to have an ordinary talk about ordinary things of life, and not some pervert stroking himself. Also don't be asking all the ladies to be taking off their clothes. Like I said.. that isn't being polite and courteous. There are also the meet and greets, Eden house here in SLC, and the various clubs and gyms where a lot of the swingers get together. If you talk with them, you might even get invited. The people here care more about how you are as a person, than seeing you naked. Most people would want a friend first, and a friend with benefits later. You just have to show them that.
The Black Ring - How to spot a swinger - LOL We've been doing this for a LONG time and it cracks us the fuck up to see these frequent "ways to tell if someone is a swinger". We've heard everything from a white rock in their front yard to an upside down pineapple in their grocery cart. Even stuff like wearing an ankle bracelet on a particular ankle or a single earring in a particular ear. Bottom line is, in this world of almost instantaneous and pervasive communication even if there WAS a ubiquitous symbol of swinging acceptance almost nobody would display it as they would quickly be outed to people they might not want to know about their little hobby. We've gone to conventions and hotel takeovers many times in the past and it usually took about a day for any vanillas nearby to learn what the wristbands mean and start gawking (or even trying to sneak in) and for the swingers to start hiding them under watches and bracelets or removing them entirely so as not to be identified. Another swingsite we're on even started a new smartphone app using GPS that alerts you if there is another swinger nearby. Almost nobody uses it in fear of somehow being ID'd as a swinger.
Sturgis 2014 - The wife and I are wanting to know where the swingers play @ Sturgis - Been to Sturgis three times all three times stayed at the Chip. It was a blast non stop partying. Lots of sexy people and you make of it what you want out of it. The thing we like about the Chip is the concert line up. Big bands included with the cost of the camping for the week. A few restrictions but not many. Don't know if they have concerts at Glenco but we wouldn't mind checking it out some year. Wont make it this year it seems to run with the BBR in Idaho every year. Have fun and hope to ride with a few of you this summer.
Dave and Jackie