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How did you loose yours? - How did you loose your virginity? - [quote=PEBBLEROCK]Hubby here...I was 14 and the female was 22. Two gals picked up me and my buddy on main street one night, took us back to their place, got us drunk, and when my buddy was taken to another room with one of the gals, the other basically had her way with me and mounted up on her living room floor. I was asking her to stop and had tears in my eyes as I had my first recognizable orgasm, thinking I was having some kind of seizure at the moment. I'm living proof that a man can be seduced against his will. HEY that was 30 years ago! Hmmm I wonder where she is now, and how many other innocent men she turned into swingers. LOL. I truly wish my wife was my first. I love that chick!!![/quote] Haha...it's cuz of where you live...that valley is dangerous!!! lol

Game for Swingers - Has anyone heard of a new game for lifestyle couples called Titillation? - We have a game much like Monopoly. Its called pimps and hos its has several expansion card sets from swinger, truth or dare , drinking , charades , sick and twisted and striptease. Its a great icebreaker. Instead of property you buy hoes. upper class hoes cost more but pay more. Pro's- Lots of choices of cards to add in the mix. From mild to wild Cons- The complete set cost around $110.00 www.pimpsandhos.com P.S. I need to get my freak on... Please Help-Jeremy If you want to borrow my game or my wife let me know. Thanks and have a good evening

Bukake????? - - I didn't get many responses but looking at all the pictures that are somewhat related (facials, etc) I'd have to say that the swingers in Florida enjoy that more than any other part of the country. I've also seen a preponderance(spl. ???) of evidence at other web sites. Go Florida!!!

female/is there really - females/couples - question what is the hell wrong with you all....serious????????? would you want to meet a couple not knowing their comfort level and then be disappointed after the time it takes ,the drive and so on>>>>>>???????????????????? i myself have been into the lifestyle for over 12 yrs now,,,,,,,,i have very rarely kissed a woman,not used protection,,and always pulled out before coming(because they do slip off of a guy). i can honestly say-----i DO NOT CARE TO CUM INSIDE OF A FEMALE OTHER THAN WIFE,NOR DO I CARE FOR A GUY CUMMING INSIDE OF MY WIFE......... I KNOW THIS REPLY WILL PISS SOME OFF,,BUT FUCKING SO BE IT,,,LEAST WE ARE FOR REAL,NOT FAKES,DO CARE FOR WHOM WE PLAY/FUCK AND SO ON WITH AND ARE VERY UP FRONT OF WHAT WE WANT/EXPECT/AND WHAT SHE IS COMFORTABLE WITH AND SO ON..... GEEZZZZZZZZZ PPL,,,PLEASE TRY TO UNDERSTAND SOME FOLKS/SWINGERS AREN'T LIKE EVERYONE ELSE ,, AND YES THANK GOD THERE ARE DIFFERENT PPL FOR OTHERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! REASON I MADE THE POST CAUSE I AM SICK AND TIRED OF ALL THE bs PPL BUT US THROUGH WHEN WANTING TO MEET AND THEY AREN'T NO WHERE WHAT THEY SAY THEY ARE,AND SINGLE FEMALES, HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM A NEEDLE IN THE HAY STAKE======HARD TO FIND ONE THANKS I FEEL BETTER UNTIL I GUESS I READ THE OTHER BS POSTINGS THAT WILL FOLLOW THIS ONE BUT ANYWAYS HAVE FUN WRAP'EM(

What makes you ignore vs. view a particular profile? - - Did you see our attachment, you go on a date without seeing pics first, this is what you will have knocking at your door.. LOL. Ok, there seems to be an underlying theme here.... PICS!!! Holy crap people everytime I see an email or think someone is cool in the chat room and click on their profile and it has "0" pictures, it really pisses me off. How many people out there do you think would honestly meet someone or a couple without seeing them? I've even asked the question and have had people tell me honestly that they have met people without seeing them!! No Freakin Way! Look, we aren't pretensious, and are the first people to hang with and find friendship and great qualities in everyone we meet. BUT, and that's a big but (no pun intended lol), we aren't sleeping with everyone on here. There is a thing called "chemistry" and "attraction". Unfortunately for us, we aren't out to get banged by every willing couple. If we click, and there is great chemsitry, chances are HIGH that we will hook up. But I'm here to tell you, if we can't see you and you don't post your pictures, you're wasting your time. And DONT try and IM us at yahoo wanting to chat if you don't identify yourself. If we could design and develop a swingers website, pictures would be a prerequisite. No Pics, No Profile, period!! Am I sounding harsh? I hope not, but it's the truth damn it! So PUT YOUR PICS ON YOUR PROFILE!! Thank you. Uthotcplextreme.

parties - - Generally, once you RSVP to a party, the party-host will send you details via message..... If not, you contact the party host and ask them for the details. Many hosts do not like to post the address to the parties on the main site in order to keep non-swingers from showing up and causing problems. With the events we host, the protocol is: - We post about the event on the site - People who want to come click the RSVP link - Once we're within about 2 weeks of the event, everyone who has clicked the RSVP link will receive a message with all the details. - If it's already within 2 weeks of the event and you click the RSVP link, within about 5 minutes, we have an automated tool that will email you the details for the party (address, dress code, etc.)... But ONLY if you meet certain qualifications (for example, if we say "no single males", and a single-male clicks the RSVP link, he will not receive any information, and his RSVP will be deleted). The other party hosts do this manually.. (so it takes a lot longer to get info)... but in general, that's how most choose to do it. Too long.. didn't read: Posting the address to these events out in public for all to see is just a bad idea. If you see a party you want to go to.. just email the hosts and ask for the info.

Advice needed - Are we ready for this? - Just a casual observation...based upon what I've read so far...the two of you are not in a place right now to be actively swinging. You need to re-focus on yourselves first...as a couple...before you have anything to offer another couple. Not to mention you will have difficulty recieving anything of value from another couple. There are concerns and unresolved issues apparently that you have not been able to address just between the two of you, much less without having to publicly seek advice from other swingers. Perhaps you should take a break from any active pursuits until you both understand where you are on sharing each other sexually, and what's informing his change in behavior. You have also had a turn-around on your views as well, which may also be affecting his feelings on the scenario. Swinging never, ever, EVER "fixes" or "spices" up a relationship. It only amplifies whatever dynamics are already present. It doesn't matter if they're "good" or "bad", "healthy" or "unhealthy", it's irrelevant; whatever dynamics are present are also going to be increased. Unstable couples who start swinging are more inclined to not only a miserable experience in swinging, but in their relationship will suffer as well. Conversely, stable couples, will often find that swinging brings a new level of enhancement into their relationship...both sexually and emotionally, because they already have the skills and tools in place to maintain a healthy, communicative relationship, and invariably are very aware of what they are looking for as a partnership in swinging. Best of luck....:)

Anyone going to Habits tonight - First time for us... Habits in SLC, it sounds fun.. is anyone going - Habits has been great for couples and other swingers. They have put a lot of effort and money into their club and they deserve our support and patronage.

Swinging and Children Don't Mix With Me, What about You? - Unforgettable experience - I have to say, having children and trying to meet with couples can be very hard on your lifestlye. Family always comes first in my book, but it doesn't seem like every parent thinks that, which is why I'm letting you know why they should start thinking about it. We thought that maybe if we could meet with a couple that also have a child or has children, that we could have a better, lasting relationship and have other things to enjoy with these couples, besides just swinging. Well, one couple didn't work out with us and I don't know how to go about letting them know they were wrong in what happened. I'm the only one that even seemed to get upset about the situation and I wanted to get others opionion to make sure I don't owe an opology to them. Here's what happened..... Me and my husband met with a couple at a swingers club, which was off-premise, and we talked some and explained we had children and that we wanted to meet with couples, but it was hard with younsters and it was also hard to find a reliable and trusting babysitter to be able to enjoy the night out. They the told us they had a child and that if we wanted to talk more and get to know each other better, that we could come to their home for a dinner, with our kids. Now...we explained up front that we don't play seperate and we definitely did not play if we had our children with us. They said that it wouldn't be a problem, no hank-panky with kids around, because they too had a small one. This sounded really great to us, because we thought we found a good couple to be friends with and have some extra benefits too, if we wanted. Well, things started out okay. We were greeted at the door by the family, and our kids was introduced to their child, and was showed some computer games and such to play. That gave us time to talk a little to the couple and was shown the outside of their home and such before dinner. After dinner is when everything went WRONG. First, I had to go to the bathroom. Well, while I was gone to the bathroom, the Mrs. decide to give my hubby a tour of the rest of the house, mainly the extra bedroom....and when I asked the hubby where my hubby was, he said.."Don't worry about them, they'll be okay for awhile"...well, that really ticked me off, especially knowing our children were now mixed up in this...and our oldest asking where his daddy went with that lady.....that was about the last straw for me....but I was in these peoples home, not mine, and I respect others homes, but in this situation, I was ready to leave, and without my other half....because he too knew our rules of playing. Well, when the Mrs. and mine came back up, my other half knew I was mad, but for some strange reason, he felt like he had to still play around with her, and in the same room all the children were in!!!! Not to mention, she couldn't keep her hands off him, which was not making my situation of trying to calm down any easier. When I finally got my hubby alone, I "very persistantly" told him me and the kids were leaving...NOW..and if he was smart he had better be out the front door before me or I would leave him there, and I truely meant it. I was so angry and hurt by all of the happenings around me, I thought that if this is what it's like to try and swing...FORGET IT...my nerves or marriage weren't going to stay together if this is what I had to look forward to everytime. My hubby didn't get out the door before me..he was too busy kissing the Mrs good-bye....and I mean french-kissing..... but, thank Goodness I got the kids out the door before me....and that didn't help out any on his part, believe me. We stopped swinging for many years after that because of trust with one another and with other couples saying one thing and then doing another. This particular couple apparently feels that nothing was wrong with what happened, and actually contacted us again after many, many, many years after this incident happened. I'm not one either to "shun" anyone, but this expereince really bothered me then, and still does, and after them contacting us again, through an e-mail, not by phone, it makes me wonder about my feelings on the matter. Am I wrong to feel this way, even after all these years? I do trust my husband NOW, after the bad expereinces, because there was one more after that, but it took alot of talking, yelling, and regaining a trust that is hard to achieve after something that drastic that involved your kids in the process. I e-mailed them back, but I know it was short and blunt, nothing mean, I don't do things like that, but what if they try again to contact us...what do I say? Any help/advice/opinions is appreciated. Hope no one ever has to expereince something like this...most marriages would never have lasted unless you really had a great understanding with your mate, and we put ours to the test and passed.......barely.

The White Value System - - RIDERZ, I for one, nor any posts that I read were against "black values". You speak of a 70's mentality, however teh video I posted of Wright was from THIS YEAR 2008. On a side note, I have also been stocking up on ammo and magazines, not just because of the election, but because of the inevitable. I say we invade the Grand Cayman Islands. Only swingers will be allowed

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