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Listing of LS group travel and dates - - Does anyone here end up having sex with people you meet while on vacation without it being a swingers resort and with people you met in some manner non swinger specific? We have been there and done that a few times but we still haven't dedicated any travel time to a swingers resort. We have heard great things about Desire. We have heard that at Hedo there are quite a few really drunk people and some overly persistant single guys that will follow you if it looks like you've hooked up with another couple. We have also heard that no means no has to be reiterated at Hedo but that at desire people seem to just know how to behave. Obviously the people that are there when you go will do a lot to form your impression of the resort. If we are going to go on a vacation with swinging being our primary reason for going we are going to be much more concerned with who we might meet than we would be with the food or accommodations. Whereas anyone that buys a travel package can show up and try and get involved aren't you a bit vulnerable if a real creeper shows up? We are not horribly picky but there are some sorts of people you just do not want around when sex is a possibility. We aren't talking about their bodies. We just don't want to deal with a belligerent drunk or some sociopath while we are naked. How do you handle that? Is there any particular resort that either attracts a nicer, safer type of crowd or that provides some level of security and safety while still allowing for a sex friendly environment? We would pay more to be around the right sort of people.
Women's Panel Wanted - Single Male Symposium - Swinger wives that have a reputation as someone who sometimes hooks up with single men, sort of do for a swinger's event, what Jupiter does for the solar system. Jupiter has so much gravity that it sort of sweeps the solar system of most of the asteroids that might have otherwise made impact with the other planets. Single men need to remember, that albeit some swinger wives do play with single men, that they may actually be more interested in meeting couples at swingers events, especially if she is bisexual. If a swinger wife is with her husband, or even by herself, and she is obviously enjoying a conversation with another couple or more, then recognize that is not the time to come over and ask her dance or to try and pull her attention your direction. Say hi it's good to see you, or something like that, and she will enjoy that, but don't go into orbit. Follow the lady's lead and she will let you know if and when she wants you to make impact.
Funny Joke About Forums - How Many Forum Members Does It Take to Change A Lightbulb? - :i Don't you all think this should have been posted under "Lifestyle Questions" since the basis of the inquiry was to determine how many forum posters from this, a swingers site, it would take to perform a given task? So, it is a question from a swinger about swingers... definately a "Lifestyle Question".
Sorta like this one:
"How many single men, on a swinger site, does it take to get 5 pages of forum comments from fellow swingers?"
Apparently 1 if he's from another planet and a profound tard.
Definately a lifestyle question.
:z just couldnt resist
MMF - - [quote=ONEFUNCOUPLE]Well It's great to see so many people agree with me!!!! Now I have to take baby steps with my other half so she can work up to that experience. I think she will like it and she thinks so too but she wants to get her feet wet "so to say" with just being with another girl and work up from there!!!
This is how we started FMF...I am bi and we started with just me playing with the girl and he watched, then I was comfortable enough to let him join....now we are full on swappin swingers...hahaha...love FMF, MFM, MFMF, MMFMM, and ALL other combinations...hehehe...have fun and let her set the pace...you will be happy in the end letting her do it how she feels comfortable...she will reward you for your patience...I know I did Lucky B...hehehe...kisses...Naugh-Ty and Lucky B ;)
Kitten160 - Threats - The virtual world allows people to do a bit of vetting before they agree to meet someone in the physical world and there are some advantages to that. Having a profile is a bit like fishing for friends. Sometimes the online bait looks pretty good. The downside is that anyone with a credit or debit card can buy a membership. Predators (sexual sharks) have bank accounts, credit cards, debit cards and such. If sexual predation is his or her motive of course a sexual predator would buy a membership on a swing site. Online can be like a shark cage. Sexual predators can see us, but they can't bite us unless we leave the cage. The more aggressively they attack the cage the more dangerous they must be. We hold off on phone numbers until we feel pretty comfortable. Back before the social media explosion the only way to get know about, let alone get invited to a swinger's meet and greet was to be invited by someone already involved, and usually they had to get your attendance approved, by the organizer, before the invent. So there was some added layers of protection, that were not fool proof, but often effective. Basically, people did or didn't know much about what's going on or who might be involved on the weight of their reputations. Really a good or bad reputation will still affect who you will meet or who you will connect with even today.
There may well be some real legal ramifications involved for the administrators to allow a public trashing of someone's reputation, because the accusations might be true and they might be slander. What is and will always remain appropriate is to tell all your friends and acquaintances within the lifestyle about anyone you know for certain is dangerous.
With all of that said, having been involved in the community for awhile, and yes we used to attend the big events from time to time, we have to say that the vast, vast, vast majority of the people we have met have been good people. Yes there have been good people we didn't see eye to eye with, and yes there have been just a few awkward moments, but still we have found that most of the swingers in the community are good people. As for the sexual sharks circling around the community, even though they may know more than we would like about where we are swimming, we can and should be protective of one another and let each other know when they are getting too close.
Porn & Marriage - Since we're the most sexually liberal people... - k, I have a friend who found porn on her husband's computer. In this case, she's not a swinger, and she's actually gorgeous, but doesn't quite have the body she used to because of pregnancy and a couple of C-sections. Huge body image issues, always had them, had an eating disorder in high school because of it. She goes to talk to her husband (only been married 6 weeks) and then he locks his computer so she can't get on it anymore. They aren't swingers, but she's not a prude either.
Unanswered emails - Why do people not take the time to respond? - Well we have to agree with everything \"CHAMMY-FL\" wrote ..we too find ourselves busy in life with working out,working,running 2 of our own forum boards as well..so we only seem to answer e-mails from cpls that strike us right away...when we have time we will then go through cpls profiles and pictures.
We are not hardcore swingers(which means we do not need to be in the lifestyle every weekend)
Hope this helps everyone
Jodi & Luke:)
Imus Fired - The beginning of the end of Free Speech? - -
..................."we are squabbling over Sharpton and Jackson. Granted, I think the glorify things that are small. They are trying to make mountains out of mole hills."....................
You really coulda stopped typing right THERE. They DO try making mountains and in this case they REALLY succeeded.
Would someone pulll--eeeezzze explain the point of fact away that if the phrase he used was SO horrible, SO despicable, SO outlandish, SO hurtfully-meant, SO otherworldly, Why OH WHY is it that it has been regurgitated to us 4,852,956,811 times in other media outlets....If he had come out and said the word "nigger" (derived originally from the Latin negro, which describes the COLOR black...not the human being....) noone in their right MIND would have republished it, but the "phrase that pays" in this case has actually become the punchline already. We all need to have the conversation that rages now as a result of this incident but not for the SAKE of the incident, rather for the sake of understanding. We also need to realize that we should not be quite this hypersensitive over words... and that is all this boils down to...language.
Thank goodness that swingers are inherently open-minded...because the rest of the mainstream country sure falls short.
........."But, when the Rutgers girls were insulted, that gave the NCAA a position "..........
I sure would like to know how many of these women actually knew who the hell Don Imus was before they had this shoved in their faces as being an issue they should be hurt by.
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"Ich habe einen kleinen Vogel in meinem Kopf."
Skinny Dipping Spots - Where do you go sans clothes for a dip in Nature? - You can also meet up with the local naturist groups. They have naked activities all the time.
The UANR group rents the pool of a local dive shop twice a month for general naked swimming/chatting for the first half then water activities/games (volleyball, tag, etc) afterwards. You can follow their group at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/uanr
Other groups you can research are Utah Naturists, NudeUtah, FSD, Wasatch Front Naturists, Skinny-Trippers, AANR, TNS, INF, NLI.
Just be respectful and remember that they are naturists/nudists and are not swingers.