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Where are you Playing July 4th weekend? - Share your favorite places. - Up at the property in Pinedale with family. It would be better with a bunch of swingers but Pinedale is great

Adulter or Swinger? - - Loving to dance at clubs and bars, Cyn and I frequently go out on weekends and are often met by a variety of friends. Over the years, we have accumulated a number of single females that enjoy dancing with us. One of these lovely gals enjoyed meeting attractive single men and would often end up spending the night with them. Not too long ago, somehow it was brought to her attention that Cyn and I were..... "swingers". She was furious with us and expressed her dissapproval in very clear terms. After she was through venting her feelings about how disguisting it was that we could possibley be involved in committing adultry, I took a moment to present to her a few select questions. First, she saw no wrong in spending an evening with another man in sex and carnal expressions of emotion? She responded that they were consenting adults and both single.. therefore committing no wrong to anyone. I asked if she felt it was wrong not to be monogamous with just one of these men rather than continually finding new friends to experience. Again, she responded she felt no wrong with what she was doing. Why then I asked, did she find fault with what Cyn and I were doing, as consenting adults and with full knowledge of what each was doing? She responded with the comment that "swinging" was just wrong and that as husband and wife we needed to be faithful to each other. So, I asked why it wasnt wrong for her to swing but it was for us. She retorted she WAS NOT a swinger. To that, I shared the following with her... according to every dictionary I can find, a swinger is defined as a person who engages in promiscuous sex, an adulter is a married person who has voluntary sex with another person to whom they are not lawfully married to. The realization of the fact that she was practicing swinging came as a shock. It took a few days to fully sink in, but when it finally did, she accepted us with open arms for what we are, (I guess adulters), and our friendship resumed. One very important item here to consider, too often the request to bring another single individual into our bedroom is presented with the excuse that the partner doesnt like sex anymore. The solution to their problem is to cheat... or in their mind... go swinging. In our book, these people are not swingers by definition, but cheaters. Its wrong and unfair to try to use the cloak of swinging to justify being unfaithful. Lifestyles and swinging is not a remedy to solve trouble at home. Often when we decline the request to involve people in our sexual activities for the reason their spouse is not aware or doesnt approve, we hear the rebuttle.."why not? you are swingers arent you?". What ever name we give it, people need to remember... this lifestyle is all based on a few key components. Trust, respect, and the terms YES and NO. Period. Cant we keep the labels, the slander, and the lies out of what we can find to be a productive, social, and even in many cases educational activity between honest, consenting, respectable adults?

This lifestyle - What are we really? - I guess we are Poly-Swingers. Basically we are and have been swingers for some time now, I however, am quite poly and have several lady friends who I love deeply. Finding 2 couples is not as difficult as some might think. One of my lady friends is married and our families are quite close. Fact is they are not swingers at all but she is poly and he is poly friendly. The other is separated and both my wife and I love this lady to the ends of the earth. So we are poly. Now, we are also swingers . We do have sex with people that we are not in love with. We do, however, care about people and we prefer to get to know people first before sex. We have been known to get it on on the first meeting if the chemestry is right.... I don't see any division in swinging because someone may be poly but enjoys sex with people that just hit it off. Swingers are such a diverse group of people and there is room for whatever ones heart desires...from love to just sex. Find what's right for you and enjoy... Ray

Listing of LS group travel and dates - - All of January at the desires resorts is international swingers month. We are going Jan 9-16th. On all the other LS sites there is travel calendars. Not on here though.

Wanna help us move...????? - Wanna help us move...????? - The swingers in your neighborhood should pack you up from your current residence and then the swingers in your new neighborhood should be ready to unload your household and move you into your new home. Typically there is a designated orgy captain in each neighborhood who will coordinate the move.

On Premise Swingers Club - SLC - Another idea, probably bad: Park City has a free bus system. During the summer at least, there are lots of places that owners and agencies want to rent out. With this economy, some of these places may even be empty during the winter. People could park in the parking structure near downtown or even out at Newpark and take the bus over to the condo for the party. No complaints from neighbors about parking; cops would have to take pictures of every single car in the parking garage or the Newpark parking lot.

KUTV News Story on Swingers - News - Just clicked on the link evil put up and than clicked on Heidi FB and shes got a few new post on there even this Forum of current content. So does this mean we are going to keep it Discrete and welcome her into the lifestyle of fun secure relationships?

Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - Thanks for the responses, I understand why it would take that extra comfort. Hopefully I can find that lucky lady one day soon!

asking your swinger friend if you can join them. - - [quote=EVILDOERS]"I am not in the lifestyle and don't think I ever really fully would be" "K USSIR your not a swinger but you wanna have sex with you friends wife with your friend there? HMMMMMMM I smell a swinger in the making" Naw, I smell a single guy who just wants to get laid. If you aren't really interested in swinging just leave it alone and get your jollies elsewhere. There are plenty of ways for you to get your rocks off in bars and clubs and on Craigslist. It's your VERY common SM attitude that makes it tough for the very few single guys who get it and really want to be part of the lifestyle. No wonder so many people constantly say that singles aren't really swingers. But don't worry. You aren't alone. We've met TONS of single dudes over the years who've admitted that they would NEVER allow their wife (if they ever got married) to fuck another man. Swinging is an attitude and a mindset. A guy who would let you fuck his wife is risking a lot and sharing with you the most important thing in his life. If you can't grasp that concept you should just stay home and jerk it to online porn.[/quote] Great points.. And if I may say, I am a single fella in this lifestyle, and yes if I were married or had a girlfriend, I would love to share with another man, woman, or couple. In fact when I go on dates, swinging is one of the conversations I make sure we have, if she is not interested in the lifestyle, then we enjoy the date and go our separate ways. I am open and honest upfront and not afraid to express my involvement in the lifestyle. If she is interested then we will talk more about it as the dating continues, if not, no hard feelings..

becoming a poly couple - wanting another woman to join our family - [quote=MISSSMITHNSIRNEWBY]The Utah Polyamory Society is a decent place to start networking, if that is your thing. Not a big fan of the term, or of being labeled for who and what I am at any given moment in my life. As far as physical attractiveness, it is hit-and-miss in every community. Usually, one has to delve deeper than the loud and more public crowd. I've met a number of swingers on here who also view themselves as "poly," and even more who have expressed interest in pursuing such a lifestyle. I've met some who have branched away from swinging toward poly. Swinging for most couples I've known represents a passing phase toward messy divorce, and sometimes some form of poly -- though that also tends to lead toward messy divorce. In other words, your favorite label fails to insulate you from the consequences of life, and from your own choices. Therefore, being too proud of what you think you are today is rather silly. Daniel[/quote] Becoming self aware really can release us from a large measure of cognitive dissonance. Labels, and especially the determination to personify the definition of a label can inhibit self awareness. In the dance of neurons and mirror-neurons firing within us and all the accompanying chemical responses affecting our emotional state, etc., etc., we are in fact never really a centered being, or completely a separate entity buy really more an ever changing manifestation within a whole. If we think we are going to change and we are not capable of ever really controlling or even predicting exactly where the change will take us or what and how we will experience it then at least we are aware it really is all pretty mysterious. Marriage or a bonding or whatever you call it is as ever changing as the rest of the universe. We each and everyone of us are frankly a completely different physical manifestation every micro second that most probably has never existed before and will never exist again. Never-the-less, we all tend to have a self identifying life story or self image at least to some degree. It is at least somewhat based on our recollection of events that lay backward in the arrow of time, as we remember it, which in and of itself is sort of an illusion based on our limitations in perception. We also know a few peeps that are members of the site that are more Poly Light than poly in that they have been willfully enjoying a life partner as in just one for many years but that are open to deeper relationships that may include a measure of romance. Willfully enjoying a life partner seems to be the key. We are in the middle of that every micro second. Exactly who and how we will be in the future is impossible to predict. We willfully agree to keep doing it together.

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