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Swingers' club to shut after disabled access complaint - - http://news.ninemsn.com.au/national/2013/05/26/09/22/swingers-club-forced-to-shut-after-disabled-access-complaint
Seems if they can't shut a decent Swingers club down one way, they'll do it another. Sorry for all of you Utahns that were going to to your friendly neighborhood swingers club in Woolloongabba, you'll have to look elsewhere. You have to wonder how financially onerous it would have been to make it disabled accessible.
Hell, a swingers club in Utah wouldn't even get to the point where they'd have to use that kind of legal obscurity to shutter it.
Whats good for the goose is good for the gander... - - Just one last thought on the subject.
I rarely post on these issues, but have to throw this in on this particular thread. I believe the basic question that we all have to ask ourselves is:
"Why are we in the LifeStyle to begin with?"
I will not presume to answer for anyone on here, but for my wife and I the particular reason is to spend our lives living not living to spend our lives. As far as all the single males, fatties, skinnies bashing that appears to be occurring, folks, we are missing the basic premise of the swinging lifestyle here. It is to meet new people, establish friendships and to reap the benefits of those friendships even if they are just someone to go get a burger with. Just because you are on a "Swingers" site, sex is not all that there is. We are just as happy finding folks that want to grab dinner and see a movie as we are playing around with. Building lasting relationships and having people that one can count on is more important than notching our bedposts.
As far as the body weight issue is concerned, K has gone through quite an ordeal to lose over 100 pounds in the past 15 months (and she is looking very good!). To those folks that apply the HWP stipulation to their profiles. all I can suggest is that perhaps you should redefine your limitations. You could be missing out on not only some great friendships, but actually some pretty intense sexual experiences.
Kitty, anyone that has anything negative for you should seriously step back and examine who they are, what they want, where they are in life and why they are in this particular lifestyle. And BTW, I am with you on your own little world thing!
It is ALL about having fun, making friends and enjoying life. The limits that each individual or couple places upon themselves, is by their choice and I support that choice, but they only limit the experiences they will have in our exceptional community.
Secrets, I totally agree with you on the being good at being ourselves point. However, sometimes the choices and perceptions that we have are too overwhelming. Let's face it, no one is born into this lifestyle and all of our ideas, conceptions and beliefs are based on what we learned in our formative years. For some, that includes the perfective (is that a word?) states of looks, shape and health. Is that the goals that should drive us in a lifestyle of this nature?
One last thing.....Kendra, love the tat on your back, but MAN that had to hurt!
The Royal vs. Habits? - - Piper Down can be great fun and is full of friendly people but you have to be proactive and start up a conversation or 10. People are usually as shy as you are. Sit at the bar or one of the round tables in the middle of the floor and face out away from the table a bit and not in a booth or people will think you want to be left alone. Not a swingers haunt as in full of people that wear their propensity and desire for swing sex on their shirt sleeve but you can most definitely end up naked and in bed with hot bodied, hot blooded sorts maybe even having their first time swing experience who were not actually looking for it when they went in the place!
We were never much impressed with Habits. We are going to have to give The Royal a try.
3 some!! - Just curious - So based on the fact that it's a swingers site.... Most of us to some degree. However the variations on the theme of m
Un Cut Cocks - What do the ladies think of uncut cocks? - I just read a thread on another forum about this issue. The forum is LPSG, which stands for Large Penis Support Group. Anyway, the thread was a poll for female members to answer as to whether or not they would circumsize their future male children. The poll also included the women's own opinions about sexual preferences for cut, or uncut cocks. The female members voted for uncut in both regards. While some of these female members are into swinging, most of them are up for monogamy, so the poll results may not ve relevant for swingers.
I can understand your situation, but this year I actually started desire to be uncut. I believe that the extra skin has a purpose, just as pubic hair has a purpose. I do recall reading that it provided a tad bit more stimulation to the vaginal walls during penetration.
Pegging - Who's into it? - Some of the comments have made me laugh but happy to see some that people agree or willing to answer honestly. I believe pegging doesn't make you bi or attracted to another man, it is another pleasure zone for a man. There are tons and tons of articles about the mans prostrate being the male g-spot and we all know what a women's g-spot does think about it for a man. I think men think oh shit prison rape when this is brought up or any kind of male anal. I like the responses about a man willing to give anal to a women but if asked by a women if she can do it to a man, the man whimpers and hides in the corner. I think men need to educate themselves about different kinds of pleasures or at least try something in life. We as a couple have read "She comes first" and "Passionista" which some stuff is like Duh! but other stuff makes you think and it has changed our lives. I think people just need to educate themselves on the different sexual pleasures that are out there at least it gives you the chance to say, I like that it was great, Hum nope didn't like that, Maybe if the mood strikes me would do it again.
As a couple we have explored a lot of stuff sexually something's we have found we really like other things we can do without but it is all about exploring. We have also learned that when people ask us in the lifestyle what we are into we don't share everything because some of the stuff we have tried scares the shit out of people even seasoned swingers that think they are on top of sexual awareness.
Sex should be fun and pleasurable no matter what it is maybe try or look into bdsm, bondage, padels, whips, latex play, restraints, toys, sense deprivation, electric play, clothes pins, clamps, sounds (if anal scares the shit of men this would make him pass out), fire play, fisting, etc, etc, etc. You never know what you like and don't if you don't try something once. But do educate yourself because if you do it wrong of course it won't feel good or cause pain for the other person.
And in closing pegging I think is more mainstream lately, there is even an article in this months "Men's Health" about pegging.
Playboy TV's new show SWING.... - So who all caught the first episode? - We had a ton of fun doing the show and it was very unscripted. They would of course plan the games etc, but what happened, happened. Nothing was forced as far as interaction. What you DONT see on the show is the hours of sitting around and answering the newbies questions and making them understand the mindset and how we live life. In fact, they actually did a good job at minimizing the drama and making a very comfortable situation for all.
The funniest part of the show was actually the crew...they came in with a lot of pre-conceived notions about swingers and by the end of taping we had made some great friends and their minds had changed dramatically about the lifestyle and the people in it. In fact we kept joking about interviewing them and getting their feedback.
Kudos to PBOYTV for showing our lifestyle in a very positive light.!
Daytona Bike Week - - This first weekend a lot of swingers are going to be at the Iron Horse... There is a group from another swinger site that is making plans to meet there... We won't be able to join them this weekend but those are the plans.
fort myers on premise club - - Check out the Ft Myers Swingers group here on Swingular. I think you'll find what your looking for..
Singles who are married and cheating - - better get a cup of coffee cuz this is gonna be a long read:
there are a few things you have to take into consideration when you decide to be in the swinging lifestyle. i think the biggest thing is finding out if your spouse is into it. most people, i think, go into a relationship knowing what their spouses boundries are. and then there are couples who evolve in their relationship and the more trust they have in their relationship, i would think it would be like a "coming out" of sorts. like..."hey, um...honey...the johnsons next door are having a party this weekend...and we were invited" "Really?" "Yeah, and i hear its one of THOSE kinda parties" "well, honey..we better wear our crotchless underwear" i dunno..something like that..like, at some point you decide that swinging is for you, right? or you go into a relationship knowing that swinging is an option.
if you go into a relationship knowing that swinging is definetly not what your spouse is into or in the evolution of your relationship you decide swinging is right for you, and your spouse isnt into it, and under no circumstance is it ok....then, in my humble opinion, you arent in the lifestyle. now, if you come to some sort of open relationship agreement if your spouse isnt into it but agrees to let you get some strange, fine. if you take it upon yourself to sign up for a swinging website behind your spouses back, hook up with couples behind your spouses back, then YOU ARE CHEATING!
if you are cheating, then you are just asking for trouble:
1. you are being dishonest
2. you are bringing your drama into someone elses life whether they know it or not. what happens if the wife finds out and shows up at your house party with a shotgun?
3. what happens if you get an s.t.d.? you bring that home with you to your spouse, and if you have them, your children. even if you use condoms you can still get s.t.d.'s, its happened.
4. when your spouse does find out, and they will...you are humiliating them in front of their friends, family, job...cuz somehow they all find out. that leads me to believe you have no regard for someone elses feelings so why would i want to swing with you?
5. you are giving other single people, male or female, a bad name and reputation.
6. you are giving swingers in general a bad name and reputation.
jenn and i are honest with each other. we are not in a place where we are gonna swing separate, we communicate and talk things out so we have a full understand of where eachother is at, at any given moment. if jenn or i didnt want to swing anymore, or if we wanted a break from it, we talk about it. we arent perfect by any means, but we do our best to consider eachothers feelings in this lifestyle.
we dont invite drama into our lives so i would have to say...no, we dont swing with someone who is cheating on their spouse. we would both suggest that if you feel the need to cheat that you should either talk it out with your spouse and seek external help or if you dont think that will help, you should consider ending the relationship. this is all just our opinion. we know its easier written or said than done. but if you arent happy with your spouse, why would you drag them down with this? communicate..compromise...talk it out..but dont be a cheater, cuz its not cool.