Missouri Swingers on Swingular

Missouri Swingers

Missouri Swingers on Swingular

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When You're Shopping the Scene... - - Yeah, it'd be kinda cool if there actually WAS some kind of universal accessory or a signal that swingers could use to ID each other out in the vanilla world. And many have tried over the years but nothing has ever really caught on (back in the day, more than a few women wore necklaces of an apple with a bite out of it). And even if something DID actually catch on, and people wore it or whatever to identify other swingers, how long do you think it would take for the internet to make that fairly common knowledge? We went to a swinger's convention in San Diego a number of years ago. The group had taken over the entire hotel and property and nobody was allowed in without a special wristband. It took about 4 hours for most of the hotel staff to learn what those wristbands meant. By the next day, people at nearby hotels, restaurants, and shopping centers had heard the news and as you passed people they would glance at you and then immediately glance down at your wrist. By that evening, most of the swingers were becoming so self-conscious that they were attempting to hide the wristbands beneath watches and bracelets. A few even pulled them off their wrists, if they were loose enough, and then put them back on when re-entering the property. So, as nice as it would be to know for sure who other swingers are, it would kinda defeat the purpose of what many of us state in our profiles...that we're discreet. I suspect that about 10% (if even) would wear a black ring and about 90% wouldn't for fear of being outed as swingers. YMMV

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Howl at the Moon in Channelside _ floridians - - Just curious as to who all is going to HOWL AT THE MOON IN CHANNELSIDE (Tampa) this Saturday night. Apparently there is a swingers meet and greet. We are soooo trying to get a sitter and would love to meet some people there. Send us an email if you ae going.

White water - It's that time of year. - I was actually surprise to click on this and have it actually be about rafting. I thought I was about to learn a whole new swinging term. I have drawn the MF every year for 3-4 years in a row now. I like going solo. A swingers trip would be a big change. I have a fully rigged boat, lemme know if anyone draws and needs another rig.

Are you a host? - Looking to create a refrence of all of you out there who love to host - We can host and just recently host a swingers party at our house on new years eve and we probably close to 15 couples here. We love hosting fun parties :-)

Sturgis 2009 - - When and where is the Testy Festy... have heard about it but not too sure what it is, but have heard swingers have a way of letting others know they swing. We will also be heading back through Helene on our way home....

Pictures - real or not - A nude photo doesn't make you a swinger! If that's even you in the pic! - SWMTCPL wrote: It's interesting what folks post as a picture. I'm sorry - but having photos of your wedding posted on a swing site seems like you couldn't find anything else better or more interesting to post? Or a photo of a very sexy woman - in fact so sexy she looks right out of a magazine yet the picture of the husband shows him taking a picture of himself in a mirror? Someone mentioned this in a prior post - but if you're going to post a picture - you should have at least one or two pictures showing you with someone else. At least then there is some credibility to you are who you say you are. I wonder how many photos of wives, girlfriends, neighbors or complete strangers are posted here on Swingular and they don't have a clue they are. I would bet MANY. More and more single men are being discovered in here posing as a couple every day and you wonder whose photo they used for their wife. We would encourage the Swingular webmaster to verify every photo - either by voice contact - or by video/webcam. It may be very time consuming - but it's the only way we know of to weed out the fakes. If anyone has any better ideas - let's hear from you. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ It is logistically impossible for them to do that right now. The staff consists of only the site owner. It's easy to verify these people. CAM UP with them. If the refuse to cam with an excuse like, "we can't afford to buy one" or "we haven't purchased one yet", then you simply reply, "Contact us when you can/do". You'll never "weed out" all the scam artists. The trick is stick to the verified couples. There is less of a chance of fraudulent profiles. Notice that I said less. There is always going to be a way of circumventing security. It is up to you, the swinger, to guard yourself against possible bogus couples by not just relying on their pics alone. Pictures are not the only means of verification. The webcam is actually better. As far as your comment about which picture you post, that should be entirely up to you. I think you should post honest pictures that give you the best result. My public pics highlight my wife more because she's hot and draws more attention. My private pictures show us playing and in intimate poses. Honesty is the key. If your wedding pic shows you both, then it's fine. If the couple refuses more than a wedding pic and text, then don't go there. It's still in your power to refuse a meeting or the time of day. Getting a "REAL" or "VIP" verification stamp on your profile with help prove your validity. If you are still leary or paranoid because of the .001% of the people on here that have slipped past the security measures, then maybe you should not use this method of meeting other swingers. That would be more logistical feasible than checking every photo posted by the hundreds of thousands of members. How would you do that anyway? Sorry if that sounds harsh. Just a thought.... -TR- P.S. Guess I shoulda read your post VALENCEPARADIGM. I was repeating you lol. Well said brutha.

Serious questions from a newbie.. - - If you hear talk about drugging or spiking drinks or STDs, you are associated with the wrong people. If they are talking about it, it is occurring. Be patient and associate instead with responsible swingers who understand safe sex.

Singles who are married and cheating - - better get a cup of coffee cuz this is gonna be a long read: there are a few things you have to take into consideration when you decide to be in the swinging lifestyle. i think the biggest thing is finding out if your spouse is into it. most people, i think, go into a relationship knowing what their spouses boundries are. and then there are couples who evolve in their relationship and the more trust they have in their relationship, i would think it would be like a "coming out" of sorts. like..."hey, um...honey...the johnsons next door are having a party this weekend...and we were invited" "Really?" "Yeah, and i hear its one of THOSE kinda parties" "well, honey..we better wear our crotchless underwear" i dunno..something like that..like, at some point you decide that swinging is for you, right? or you go into a relationship knowing that swinging is an option. buuuuuuuuuuuutttttt... if you go into a relationship knowing that swinging is definetly not what your spouse is into or in the evolution of your relationship you decide swinging is right for you, and your spouse isnt into it, and under no circumstance is it ok....then, in my humble opinion, you arent in the lifestyle. now, if you come to some sort of open relationship agreement if your spouse isnt into it but agrees to let you get some strange, fine. if you take it upon yourself to sign up for a swinging website behind your spouses back, hook up with couples behind your spouses back, then YOU ARE CHEATING! if you are cheating, then you are just asking for trouble: 1. you are being dishonest 2. you are bringing your drama into someone elses life whether they know it or not. what happens if the wife finds out and shows up at your house party with a shotgun? 3. what happens if you get an s.t.d.? you bring that home with you to your spouse, and if you have them, your children. even if you use condoms you can still get s.t.d.'s, its happened. 4. when your spouse does find out, and they will...you are humiliating them in front of their friends, family, job...cuz somehow they all find out. that leads me to believe you have no regard for someone elses feelings so why would i want to swing with you? 5. you are giving other single people, male or female, a bad name and reputation. 6. you are giving swingers in general a bad name and reputation. jenn and i are honest with each other. we are not in a place where we are gonna swing separate, we communicate and talk things out so we have a full understand of where eachother is at, at any given moment. if jenn or i didnt want to swing anymore, or if we wanted a break from it, we talk about it. we arent perfect by any means, but we do our best to consider eachothers feelings in this lifestyle. we dont invite drama into our lives so i would have to say...no, we dont swing with someone who is cheating on their spouse. we would both suggest that if you feel the need to cheat that you should either talk it out with your spouse and seek external help or if you dont think that will help, you should consider ending the relationship. this is all just our opinion. we know its easier written or said than done. but if you arent happy with your spouse, why would you drag them down with this? communicate..compromise...talk it out..but dont be a cheater, cuz its not cool. brandon

How's everyone spending the long weekend? - Who's up for some spontaneous get togethering? - We're celebrating our 15th wedding anniversary all weekend, we started Wednesday night with our private dinner and a Vegas show, Of course Thursday is T-day so family time, Friday is party time with friends, a dinner with everyone and a party at the swingers club later that night. Sat and Sun is as much sex as we can fit in. If anyone is in Vegas they can join us, we wish we lived in Utah though, so many people there

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