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Hottest Swingular Couple - - Nope. Not joining this popularity contest.
Suffice it to say? I think there might be a few Hot or Not sites still around. Better yet, someone could start a Swingers Hot or Not site and make a Fin or two!
(I think Like my Nude Pic is one)
But to answer the question...I believe whomever you're drawn to in the moment. Whomever your focus is on, wherever your lips are locked and your sex is drilled?
THAT'S the hottest swinger.
hikeing - - I swear everytime we go for a family hike I see swingers like today up bells canyon we seen a couple who I could swear I seen here and any thoughts on a swing hike? And what's your favorite hike ?
DO U HAVE ANY ADULT GOODIES THAT U WOULD LIKE TO SELL ? - NEW OR USED 4 MEN OR WOMEN ??????? - I RUN A SWINGERS SITE THAT ALSO HAS AN AUCTION PART ON IT .
ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY CAN USE THE AUCTIONS . U DONT HAVE TO BE A MEMBER OF THE SITE TO SELL OR BUY STUFF .
ANYBODY CAN SELL ANY KINDA OF STUFF ON THE AUCTIONS .
IF U LOVE TO SHOP U CAN PICK UP A FEW EXTRA NEW THINGS TO TRY TO SELL .
OR IF U ARE CLEANING OUT YOUR CLOSETS OR DRAWERS OR FILEING CABINET HA HA
AND U HAVE STUFF THAT U DONT NEED OR WANT ANYMORE OR MAYBE SOMETHING JUST DIDNT FIT RIGHT ON U . U MAY PUT IT UP FOR SALE .
IF IT IS USED PLEASE PUT THAT IN YOUR AD . AND U HAVE TO LIST ANYTHING THAT MIGHT BE WRONG WITH THE ITEM . MISSING BUTTON , FADEING IN THE COLOR OR WHATEVER LIKE THAT .BE HONEST ABOUT THE COND OF THE ITEM .
THERE IS MANY DIFFERENT AREAS TO LIST YOUR STUFF IN THE AUCTION PART . IF U DONT SEE AN AREA THAT U NEED THEN PLEASE EMAIL ME AND ILL ADD IT TO THE LIST FOR YOU .
THE SITE IS ALWAYS LOOKING FOR STUFF LIKE ...
SHOES OR BOOTS
PORN HOME MOVIES OR STORE BOUGHT OR PORN MAGS .
NAUGHTY ART WORK .
CANDLES OR CANDLE HOLDERS
ANYTHING LIKE THAT .
U CAN ALSO SELL REG EVERY DAY STUFF ALSO . CLOTHES ,CURTAINS , BEDSPREADS ,BIRD BATHS WHATEVER U WANT TO SELL .
THE SITE OFFERS MANY DIFFERENT WAYS FOR PEOPLE TO CHOOSE TO PAY U . U ARE IN CONTROL OF WHICH WAYS U WILL ACCEPT THEIR MONEY . CREDIT CARD , PAY PAL CHECK , CASH ...
IF U RUN A ADULT STORE OR SITE OR SELL ADULT STUFF U MAY SELL STUFF ON THE SITE .
IF U ARE A DANCER OR WEB CAM LADY U MAY SELL YOUR PICS , OUTFITS , MOVIES TO YOUR FANS AND TO OUR MEMBERS .
IT WORKS JUST LIKE EBAY . BUT WE LET U TAKE NAUGHTY PICS TO SELL YOUR ITEMS . HA HA U CAN PICK TO CHOOSE TO SELL IT TWO WAYS OR BOTH .
U CAN LIST AN ITEM FOR A BUY IT NOW PRICE .
OR U CAN PICK A RESV PRICE AND THEN HAVE IT IN OPEN AUCTION AND SEE IF PEOPLE WILL BID AND WANT TO PAY MORE FOR IT .
WHEN U LIST IT WITH A RESV PRICE . U PICK A PRICE THAT U WILL NOT SELL LESS THEN THAT PRICE . THEN THE PEOPLE BID ON IT TO TRY TO GET TO YOUR PRICE . IF A FEW PEOPLE ARE BIDDING ON THE SAME THING THEN THE PRICE MIGHT GO PAST YOUR RESV PRICE AND THEY WILL HAVE TO PAY AS HIGH AS THEY KEEP BIDDING ON IT ...
IF I WANTED TO SELL A NAUGHTY OUTFIT .
IF I PAID $20.00 FOR IT . SO I WANT TO AT LEAST GET THAT OUT OF IT PLUS A DOLLAR OR TWO EXTRA . SO I CAN LIST THE ITEM LIKE THIS .
RESV PRICE .... $22.00
BUY IT NOW PRICE $25.00
THIS IS JUST AN EX. U CAN CHARGE OR MAKE WHATEVER U WANT TO . THATS ALL UP TO YOU .
IF THERE ISNT A BUY IT NOW PRICE THEN THE BIDDING CAN KEEP GOING UNTIL THE AD STOPS OR THE PEOPLE HAVE WENT TO THEIR HIGHEST PRICE THEY WILL PAY . THE HIGHEST BIDDER WINS .
ONCE SOMEONE HAS MADE A BID ON AN ITEM U CANT TAKE IT OUT OF THE AUCTIONS UNELSS SOMEONE USES THE BUY IT NOW . OR THE AD HAS ENDED .
U CAN BID ON AS MANY THINGS AS U WANT TO . BUT YOU ONLY HAVE TO PAY IF U WIN THE ITEM . AND U DONT HAVE TO SELL ANY ITEM UNLESS YOUR PRICE HAS BEEN MET .
IF U HAVE ANY QUESTIONS FEEL FREE TO EMAIL ME ANYTIME AND ILL HELP YOU .
Anyone going to the BNL concert? - Wendover, Feb 13th - I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that many swingers are probably fans of Barenaked Ladies (and not because of the name of the band... it's just that we've never met a BNL fan fan we didn't like. =)
Anyone else making the trip for the show?
Party Etiquette - How do people manage risks? - Mr here. So, the party that we went to before Halloween was a good party. It seemed much like another orgy that I participated in a few years ago, except this time I had Ms. Honeybunny with me :) That made me a little more aware of how people were interacting with each other, and I have a few questions about etiquette in those situations.
Obviously, protection is important for a number of reasons, and pretty much everybody there was using condoms, cleaning toys after use, etc.
However, one thing that I did not notice anybody using was dental dams or any kind of protection for oral sex. In a world where 70% of Americans have some form of herpes, for example, how do you deal with the risk of contracting it if you don't? Or what if you have other STDs? I would hope that if you have a temporary STD like chlamydia you would avoid lifestyles events until it cleared up, but nobody was talking about it. What if you have a more permanent STD, like the herpes mentioned above? Or AIDS? Or HPV? Two of those are really common, but also relatively harmless; do people just assume that other swingers do/don't have them or that the risk in not meaningful? I didn't really hear anybody talking about it, but I"m not sure if that's unusual or not. What's the typical protocol for situations like that?
Also, now that I'm thinking about it. What would be the protocol if you DID pick something up from an event?
Scuba, Nude Beaches, Swingers - Scuba, Nude Beaches, Swingers - We also love to dive and was thinking how much fun it would be to do a livaboard trip with swingers. I dont know of any outfits that would possibly allow it but think it would be fun. We spent 7 days on the Cat Pallue in the Bahamas diving the Exumas what a blast. Anyways if something comes about with a nude cruise let us know.
This lifestyle - What are we really? - I guess we are Poly-Swingers. Basically we are and have been swingers for some time now, I however, am quite poly and have several lady friends who I love deeply. Finding 2 couples is not as difficult as some might think. One of my lady friends is married and our families are quite close. Fact is they are not swingers at all but she is poly and he is poly friendly. The other is separated and both my wife and I love this lady to the ends of the earth. So we are poly.
Now, we are also swingers . We do have sex with people that we are not in love with. We do, however, care about people and we prefer to get to know people first before sex. We have been known to get it on on the first meeting if the chemestry is right.... I don't see any division in swinging because someone may be poly but enjoys sex with people that just hit it off.
Swingers are such a diverse group of people and there is room for whatever ones heart desires...from love to just sex. Find what's right for you and enjoy...
find a girl to join us - - [quote=BEARZYKINS]You guys think you're the only ones looking for a single girl? Welcome to the club. You have to aak yourself what you bring to the table, that sets you apart from the literally thousands of couples here looking for the same thing! My advice is to be patient, respectful, social and realize that YES this is a couples site!! Also a more flattering pic of the hubby wouldn't hurt. (Just opinion, no offense intended!!)[/quote]
Oh Oh!!!! guess I better not use this site and tell my friends and swing partners that I can't play here..... Didn't know it was a "Couples Site" ONLY, WTF? This is not a couples site.............. How lame.........
There are pleanty opportunities for real swingers here be it M, F or couples.... I have had plenty of contacts and playing on this site. Yes Unicorns are real and very hard to find, but once you have found one, you will love it. Question: Why are the single women called unicorns, they don't have a big protrusion sticking out like a single guy does, why isn't he a unicorn????
Maybe you aren't finding one cause you are all the way out in Hyrum......... Deet-da-Deet, Deet.....
Gay people - Do they chose it or just born with it. - I guess you could ask the same question about swingers or any other lifestyle. There is no longer any question that some are born Gay and some born Straight and some born in between. Just like some are wired to be into BDSM. That does not mean that someone, somewhere along the scale, couldn
Condoms - Always Required? - - I'm curious to know what members here think about condoms.
Of course, most members always require condoms, and say so in their profiles. But I've met more than a few people who don't always require condoms. At one party, I met a woman who hooked up with several men throughout the night, without ever using a condom. I was amazed at their recklessness, even if I understood why people preferred the sensations of bareback sex.
What's even more amazing about condoms is that they are far from foolproof. I once heard the analogy: a condom is like a raincoat in a rain storm - you still get wet. I've personally experienced condoms fall off or break. Yet I've met many people who act as if, once the condom is on, they are virtually invulnerable. It would be preferable for the woman to be (additionally or alternatively) on birth control, although that won't help prevent STD transmission.
Also, it seems that swingers almost never use condoms, or other protection, for oral sex, even though (as far as I know), some STDs can be spread genital-to-mouth (or vice versa). I don't think that I've ever seen a woman going down on a guy with a condom on, in real life or in porn.
Do you always require a condom? If not always, when? With people that you know well? What other precautions might you take?
Have you ever met or heard of a person in the lifestyle catching an STD? Or, more shockingly, getting pregnant? What happened?