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Know any Mormon swingers in SoCal? - Single girl in SoCal wants to know! - I know lots of LDS aka Mormons in the life style and there privet life is for them not the bishop or the ward. An there religion isn't need to be known by there friends and lovers.

please help settle this debate - is she into us or not - [quote=EVILDOERS]I would say it depends. How much had she had to drink? FAR too many swingers who fancy themselves great white vanilla hunters don't take into account the effect that varying amounts of alcohol can have on a person's ability to make a rational decision whether or not to swing. All most all of us (at least I would hope) had the opportunity to think soberly and rationally about whether or not we wanted to enter this bizarre world of wife swapping. Engaging vanillas at a bar or on a cruise or at a beach resort where ostensibly alcohol is flowing freely takes away at least some of their ability to judge and IMHO their right to make their own sober rational decision about doing something that, let's admit it, the vast majority of society frowns upon. In fact, and I know this won't be a popular viewpoint, I don't think seducing a vanilla couple who is under the influence of alcohol or other drugs is that much different than some frat boys getting coeds drunk (or worse) and taking advantage of them sexually. We've declined numerous invitations over the years to help some asshole get his wife drunk and then all have our way with her because sober she would not even consider swinging. Not cool, in our opinion. [/quote] Wow prudes, how are some of us supposed to have any fun then? I suppose you frown on GHB as well? Is it not the Patriarch's right to what he wants with his property, especially if it's sister wife #1 who has the marriage license?

STD/STI Testing - - [quote=ABCWOMAN]No, Toki, you are the Jackwagon! The way you responded to this thread is an obvious display of your lack of intelligence about this issue. Maybemor and others are just attempting to make this lifestyle a little safer for all involved. Not sure if you read much but there was a situation recently in Kansas City where a man and his wife were HIV Positive and managed to put a number of people at risk of contracting HIV, and these are supposedly "swingers" who know better. I've been to parties for over 4 years!! Not everyone uses condoms. Maybe you do! But even a condom isn't going to protect you against Herpes!! You always use latex with oral sex Toki.. hmm... probably not.. and guess what, you are putting yourself at risk for Herpes! Even if you get tested for Herpes you still are at risk. You could have contracted it on the weekend, go in on Monday get tested, the whole gamut of tests, get negatives on everything. Then two to three weeks later you come down with itchy bumps that turn into sores, oh shit, guess what.. yep.. you just were infected and are now positive for Herpes.. Why.. because you don't get it!!! The reason we need more people to talk about this is people are getting STD's on this site and others like it. I applaud Rob and his willingness to do what some of you may think is not needed. Toki is a prime example of why you don't play with just anyone! Sure you can't stop everything all the time, and frankly anytime you have sex with multiple partners it's a risk. But let's not be stupid folks, let's be careful. You only have this life to live, why fuck it up for yourself and the one you love because you are stupid? PS.. I wrote a long post a few months ago about our own experience with the STD issue. I received a number of posts about others who carry HSV2. Interesting thing is some of these people who have HSV2, DO NOT always tell their potential partners they have the disease. Why? PURE IGNORANCE or just they don't give a shit (which is worse). I want to make sure everyone knows, this is MR ABC who is writing this post.[/quote] Again, the voice of reason. (((K))) Do we need to remind people that if they don't want to read about a subject on the forum they do not have to click on it? But in the meantime, until all potential risks from having sex are wiped out, reminders to get tested, practice safe sex, and having open dialogues are not going anywhere. If it reading about hits a nerve perhaps you seriously need to ask yourself WHY. And then GET THE FUCK OVER YOURSELF. Kudos to MM for posting this. xox Tammy

Important Info regarding New Year Eve Fantasy Ball - Hosted by Secret Desires and Utah Uncensored - We have no issues with single males that are in the lifestyle. Most we have met are very courteous and kind. We do, however, have issues when a security gaurd/ bouncer which has been entrusted to maintain the security of the party says "hey, you want to go upstairs and check out the swingers?" to people that are not part of the group. We are not a Zoo exhibit to be gawked at. I'll tell you what. IF you can guarantee that this will NOT be the case, then we will be there.

hall passes - valid? - One of the deep dark secrets of swinging is that swingers don't magically have a corner on the honesty market. (GASP! I know, right?) And despite the fact that it seems somewhat counterintuitive, for some people, thumbing their noses at society's norms by fucking each other's spouses just isn't quite naughty enough. Nope, for them, they just have to add the extra dimension of sneaking around and lying about it. I think it reminds them of hiding their Playboys under the mattress when they were younger. Personally, we try to avoid people with the emotional maturity of Donald Trump. [em]Emo_67[/em]

Swinging ,Or cheating? - - Swinging is having sex with people who are not your legal spouses. By definition, having sex with someone who is not your legal spouse is cheating. Therefore all swingers are cheaters, whether or not the spouse knows it. Now, throw that out the window, and label everyone who swings, as cheaters, but ONLY if their spouse does not participate. Don\'t bother to find out if he or she knows, approves, or even suggested it themselves. Having said that, I am still totally amazed that there are so many narrow-minded folks in this lifestyle. Yes, I completely agree that EVERYONE should know what is going on. I completely DISAGREE that those who play without their spouse\'s participation are automatically defiend as cheaters. I cannot speak for anyone else, but the fact remains, I don\'t do a thing without my spouse knowing about it. That includes participation in video chat (which she comes to very frequently, just ask anyone who is a regular), e-mailing or chatting with others, meeting, hanging out, or even adult play. If people bothered to get to know me, they would know that. But they knee-jerk and completely eliminate great people like me from their lives, just because they didn\'t bother to look before their leap to label. If they want to shut me out because I am married and my wife doesn\'t participate, they should go ahead and exercise their right to do so. It doesn\'t bother me a bit. They are perfectly entitled to do so, and I applaud them for that choice. But they are not allowed to jump to the conclusion that I am \"cheating\" because she doesn\'t play. That\'s grade-school-playground namecalling, slanderous, and beyond immature. If you don\'t know the circumstances, then you don\'t have the right to go around labeling everyone else. Whoever you are.

Going Down? A question about protection. - Oral sex and the lifestyle. What to expect in regards to protection. - Been doing this for many years and have yet to see ANYONE use protection for oral. Most swingers are pretty heavily in denial as to their actual risk while playing. You have to come to terms with the fact that swinging is risky behavior and be okay with it or you won't last long in the lifestyle. Sad but true.

Age - New to the swingers community - is age a factor in how a couple is viewed? - We have been with couples in there twenties as well as couples in there fifty. We have found that as long as the appearance and attitude is pleasant, age don

age diferences????? - - Sara and I find it hard to meet compatable couples.... usually its our age...yes we are picky we dont jump in the sack with anyone....we are picky in the respects of we all need to feel cumfy, and there has to be an intelectual connection, we arent ken and barbi but id say over 80% of general public swingers and non arent. The problem is......i Male 1/2 am 37, female 1/2 is 28..... we dont check out younger cpls profiles ( my insecurity) in my mind why would a 24 or so couple want to play with a cpl who male 1/2 is "old" as some ppl refer to it...to me age is a state of mind... but thats the way i feel most younger ppl would feel. On the other side of the spectrum we have had more than one cpl, politely tell us thanks, but no thanks...(they are my age or a little older and have kids almost sara's age). We might just be limiting ourselves and missing alot of new friends, please help us with any imput, thoughts, feelings.. thanks Dennis

Monogamy in marriage - An interesting article on the subject - I think the number one reason that a marriage goes off track is the lack of communication. It could show up in fights over money, one or the other cheating because their needs are not taken care of in the marriage, or just about any of the rocks that so many couples run into along the path of married life. One reason I think that swingers tend to be happier and more secure is because without good, open communication swinging can be a minefield. Most that stay in the lifestyle for any amount of time learn to communicate better with each other than many others that do not have the experience of sharing. This summer we'll have been married 35 years so I guess it works :-) Diane & Max

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