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Habits - - I would love for this community to find a new place to meet up. Habits is too loud to talk if you desire to. The drinks are very watered down. They charge a ludicrous sum for Designated driver drinks and more and more the people in attendance there fall into undesirable categories. It seems most of the swingers we talk to wish there was a better place to go but end up going there by default. Can't we as a group take our business to somewhere more inviting, accommodating and fun? We have a few places in mind but are unsure how to get the group to "swing" over there.
Bubulaplease - Sandy station? - We went to Sandy Station and were immediately approached by someone who knew we were swingers. I guess we just give off the " I'll fuck the shit out of you." vibe. That being said, we loved the club, the ambience,(except the music) but the people were super nice. Can't wait to go back.
HELP!!! - Need help settling a disagreement between me and the hubby. - I would again say, "That depends." We rarely hook up at parties either but it's because at this point in our swinging career we no longer feel the need/desire to fuck just to say we fucked. We're not prudes by any means but our curiosity has been more than satisfied over the years and we now only hook up with people we find a really good connection with. And we're no longer upset or disappointed when we go out and DON'T hook up, although we have been at times in the past and know quite a few couples who really feel like they've wasted their time (and maybe a good babysitter) when they don't hook up. It very much depends on who we meet at a party, how well we connect, our general mood and other intangibles. We've found that there are generally two types of swingers; those who really just want to forego all the bullshit and fuck and those who want to get to know people a little bit first (even if just briefly) before they decide if they want to fuck them. Which type you are will likely determine how often you hook up. But you know what? There isn't just one way to swing.
Preferences? - - Posted By: BEANYKATT Reply posted on:
Jan 27, 2008 - 1:02 pm
AHHH.NO! DON that is not what I am refering to..anyone who thinks eating Human or any other bodily waste IS EROTIC is very MUCH DISTURBED.
I think there are ALOT of SO-called SWINGERS who are nothing more than self centered people.
As for me I am an equal oppurtunity swinger..
TO exclude anyone..just becaue your dick dosent get hard at the site of them is purely ludicrous..
because that is the whole basis of marriage to be married to that ONE person that DOES everthing for you..so why would you Wife-Swap..Swing or participate in ANY extra marital activities?At one time or another EVERYONE thinks about someone or something else besides their own mate..
NOW that dosent mean that you love or desire your mate ANY LESS..We all have little nuances that our mates dont have..
so just to say that I HAVE to be attracted to someone JUST to have sex ...
I dont know sounds sort of suspect to me of something else involved .
You know, there are those that think that anyone watching someone fucking his wife's lights out and thinking it IS EROTIC is very MUCH DISTURBED too.
We live in a self centered world. We do this to avoid that because we find it undesirable or to get that because it is desirable TO US.
Good for you.
IF my dick can't get hard with this person, what do you want me to do? Take one for the cause of being equal opportunity? I might take one for the team but to have me take one for a cause is kinda difficult, don't you think?
I don't follow. Haven't you answered your own question?
OK. That is fine. Maybe I have an average dick and she might want a change of pace with a guy with a thick dick once in a while or maybe she wants a change of guy. What do you want me to do about that? Grow a couple inches of girth or be schizophrenic for a bit?
What??? Even Cialis cannot get you hard if you are not attracted to that person. What do you expect? The person looks better as you drink more??
Like what else involved are you refering to?
Listing of LS group travel and dates - - Does anyone here end up having sex with people you meet while on vacation without it being a swingers resort and with people you met in some manner non swinger specific? We have been there and done that a few times but we still haven't dedicated any travel time to a swingers resort. We have heard great things about Desire. We have heard that at Hedo there are quite a few really drunk people and some overly persistant single guys that will follow you if it looks like you've hooked up with another couple. We have also heard that no means no has to be reiterated at Hedo but that at desire people seem to just know how to behave. Obviously the people that are there when you go will do a lot to form your impression of the resort. If we are going to go on a vacation with swinging being our primary reason for going we are going to be much more concerned with who we might meet than we would be with the food or accommodations. Whereas anyone that buys a travel package can show up and try and get involved aren't you a bit vulnerable if a real creeper shows up? We are not horribly picky but there are some sorts of people you just do not want around when sex is a possibility. We aren't talking about their bodies. We just don't want to deal with a belligerent drunk or some sociopath while we are naked. How do you handle that? Is there any particular resort that either attracts a nicer, safer type of crowd or that provides some level of security and safety while still allowing for a sex friendly environment? We would pay more to be around the right sort of people.
Cuckolding - Interesting article from some outsiders, what do yo - - I read the article and from a swinging standpoint don't consider encouraging and enjoying my wife's enjoyment of her sexuality as anything even approaching cuckoldry. I'm sure some vanillas might see it differently thru the lenses of their "vanilla goggles" but swinging is definitely NOT cuckoldry. The sad thing is that (yes, I have to go there) some single men view coupled male swingers as nothing more than cucks and often act accordingly and thus perpetuate the dreaded SM stigma. Don't get me wrong. There definitely are cucks in the lifestyle and to some the "hotwife" style of play approaches if not at times reaches the level of cuckoldry. But the vast majority of male swingers are definitely not cucks and simply enjoy the fact that their partners are free to explore their sexuality and "get off", if you will, on the fact that their partner is turned on and experiencing their sexual desires to the fullest.
A little help please Naughty by nature camp out - - Hey you could do some recruiting and missionary work. Spread the swinger gospel. jk I totally understand where you are coming from. Wish I could give you some details. I would personally contact some of your fellow swingers from the other post and they would be happy to give you details I'm sure. There are fantastically fun people going.
Event Ideas - Can we get more events that don't center around alcohol and dancing? - [quote=TRIXIEE][quote=EUPHORICFLOODTIDES]How about pajama and lingerie porn night at the movies. The attendees come dressed for bed. Think a small Independent theater would be game?[/quote]
Humph ... we TRIED to get a group to meet at the DRIVE INN theater on Riverdale Rd last year but I think we were the only ones that showed up ... NO ONE made an attempt at introductions at the vehicle we said we'd be in [/quote]
Tee-hee, I'm picturing the mess left at a "small independent theater" after a swingers viewing of a porn show. How much do ya gotta pay someone to clean that one up?
Then I'm picturing a porn pic being displayed on a Riverdale Drive in theater, wondering how long before the cops'd be there to bust it up 'cause of all the teenagers parked on that road out front trying to peer over the fence!!
But seriously, that seems to be what I've noticed about some of the "alternate" events that get proposed -- seems like a good idea but no one shows up? It'd be fun to go to the drive-in though Trixiee, maybe we ought-a try that again when the season arrives. So does anyone know where I can get a cheap panel van?? [em]Emo_28[/em]
Bogeys Nightclub in Clearfield - A Habits style club for northern swingers? - We agree, a lifestyle friendly hangout in Davis county would be awesome! I know there are a lot of people up this way in the lifestyle that could use a place to meet others in a casual setting. I remember when Bogey's was packed every Friday and Saturday night, but now it is empty. Sounds like a great opportunity to "take over" the scene. Anyone interested?
Couples and Single Males party - - It would be great fun, and a chance to get to know more swingers, broaden all our horizons ( maybe I just have broads on my horizon, stupid thinking).