If you are looking
for Swingers in Minnesota, then Swingular is the place for you. We have hundreds of
thousands of swingers all over Minnesota looking to meet new people. Choose a city
for a list of
Minnesota Swingers in your area. If you do not see your city, choose the closest city to you as it
will show you swingers within 100 miles of the city in you Minnesota selected.
5 Guys - Who knew?.? - Lol why are all the sexy swingers in Utah? Teehee
To be or not to be a swinger that is the question??? - what made you decide? - well we have talked about it off and on for years.
one night i walked in from work and holly was on a swingers website.
she said hat do yeh think . i was ok with it .
we started talking with this cpl in ky.
and we soon was meeting them for dinner .
we went to the dinner with no intentions of hooking up that night.
but the more we talked to them the more we found we all clicked.
so a 1 hour dinner date turned into 6 plus hours of playing.
but here in east tenn there isnt many cpls that is for real.
or they get cold feet at the last moment.
we even run into players , that those who try to play us .
those that have been into this for awhile know what we are talking about.
after our last baby 3 yaers ago we just cant find the time to get out much anymore.
When a woman squirts - - we love to train new swingers in the art of the squirt
Curious about no public photos? - What is the point and why? - We actually have our own internet porn site. Most of it is just your typical run of the mill German scat porn and ferret abuse porn (no animals were harmed during the filming of this movie), but we're too shy too post our pics on a swing site cause, well...swingers are disgusting perverted people who can't be trusted and like every third profile is totally fake and just a front for some people who want to meet you, drug you, and steal your kidneys and leave you in a bathtub full of ice. True story. [em]Emo_96[/em]
Im's a Professional............................. - No pic..... blurred pics - We only like amateur swingers.
Denial - What is the proper way to turn someone down. - Your worrying about it too much. Hope this doesn't offend, but really you are over thinking it. I'd just do what you want to do and not worry about what everyone feels or thinks. The only thing you SHOULD do if you don't want to get a lot of emails telling you how stuck up you are, is just be NICE.
Being NICE is actually pretty hard for some people and I still don't understand why. As for answering the mountains of board mails you will get on this site, Don't stress it. We used to think we should respond to every email and I'll tell you right now, it's impossible. We made a rule really early and that was that your friend request would only be approved if we did in fact know you personally, or if the one asking had made some effort to get to know us in a Chat room, or by email.
One thing though that I would advise you as newbies on this site. If you allow your "sexual preferences" to dictate who and if you will meet someone in the lifestyle, then you are going to miss out on it's rich experience. Not everyone you meet that you may develop of friendship with is going to want to fuck you. So I'd not worry about meeting new people, even if they are asking to be your friend online. The key is always controlling how you'll meet people (which is easy) and then letting things take their course.
As for the "old" factor. You both are going to be really disappointed then with the "No one over 35" rule. The average age for Swingers in the United States is 35-45. Your wife is fairly young, she feels funny about guys my age being her Dad's age, well the feeling is mutual. Contrary to what some women might think, it's not all about the tight ass and perky boobs. But as for a friendship (non-sexual) why the hell not?
If your patient, friendly, and get out there and meet other swingers (like the parties), I think you'll find what you are looking for in sexual partners. I also think in some cases newbies are pretty "fixed" on what they think they want sexually. But after 4 years you may notice that what you "thought was ideal" is no longer the case. Keeping an open mind is pretty important in anything in life and it's not a bad idea in regards to swinging as well.
Good luck to you guys
Meeting a Monogamous Couple - How many monogamous swingers are there? - Seeking monogomous relationships.. NO.... Seeking friends that we see often.. SURE..
Selfishness linked to case of Jealousy? - I can, you can't... (just curious) - So imagine that Hans Solo and Princess Leia got married and then after a few years of marriage they decide to become swingers so they set up a profile and are not having much luck but then it turns out Chewbacca, a single wookiee, always on the make, with a lot of experience, also has a profile and so being old friends they hook up and do a WFM. Well Leia always insist that Hans is shaved down stairs but she compliments Chewbacca on his furry balls. She also loves it when he does her in the wookiee position which she really does not like Hans to do. Well Hans is a little concerned and being a newbie he is a bit nervous and maybe a bit too excited so he has a little trouble getting his
Professionals - - FL4FUN,
I'm just stating the socio-political realities of OUR area. It's a bizarre place. My point is that nobody really cares what working class folks do around here. But 90% of folks do seem to care what you do in your spare time if you have some sort of prominence in the community professionally speaking. I don't make the rules. I just have to live by them.
A lot of swingers are looking for people they actually share non-sexual interests with as well. I see nothing wrong with talking about hobbies, taste in recreational activities, etc. in a profile. It just puts more meat on the bones...helps you get a bit better idea of who a couple is.
As club owners, we are keenly aware of the fact that there are a LOT of different types of folks coming at the lifestyle from a LOT of different angles and hoping to find a LOT of different things. And it's all OK so long as nobody is getting hurt.
I just recalled one profile I saw from a couple out of New Port Richey, FL, I believe. They talk quite a bit about the fact that he is a professional fishing charter captain. I found their profile very interesting. It was pretty detailed, well constructed, and enticing. You see, we travel to that area about once/year on vacation and I love to fish. I figured he and I might have some things in common. Another couple talks about the fact that he is a sky-diving instructor and she is an avid sport shooter. My wife wants to jump out of an airplane BADLY and we love sport shooting. So we have set up a meeting with them as well. The more detailed a profile is, the more we appreciate them.
Unanswered emails - Why do people not take the time to respond? - Well we have to agree with everything \"CHAMMY-FL\" wrote ..we too find ourselves busy in life with working out,working,running 2 of our own forum boards as well..so we only seem to answer e-mails from cpls that strike us right away...when we have time we will then go through cpls profiles and pictures.
We are not hardcore swingers(which means we do not need to be in the lifestyle every weekend)
Hope this helps everyone
Jodi & Luke:)