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cut to the chase - - We appreciate the forum. It might help some realize that as much as swingers tout their open mindedness, are they really open minded and non-judgmental until all the facts of a situation are in view. Seems like our society in general and not just the lifestylers have become very quick to judge without all the facts. Guilty before proven innocent here.. He may be learning about himself and the larger world out there that most aren't exposed to. We met as singles on here years ago and both know how difficult it is to meet people as a single because the first response by most is "You must be a cheater." Damn people, we all were single at some point in our lives unless you were married off in high school! We play separately and together, and we've seen first-hand how many "cheater" comments we amass when answering emails/booty calls to play as a single. If you preach open mindedness, maybe it's time to actually BE open minded!
We get that cheating is a common problem too, but how do you know anything about a person if you make that assumption up front. Assuming makes a big ass out of us all..
Searching for Sensual Photographer - - Gio is amazing GIOPHOTO is his profile name. Very classy and makes you feel comfortable. He has photographed many swingers and would be happy to show you his work. Tell him Koigirl sent you.
Escorts - - That is how we actually got started in the lifestyle and unlike some of the people who have replied here that have probably never hired someone, we know a little about it. It just depends on what you are looking for. As an older couple, we like threesomes with young 20 somethings. That is not easy to find. When you do find someone, you have to worry about them developing a dependence on you, feelings for one or the other or both of you, etc. Charlie Sheen said it best when David Letterman asked why he would pay for sex, he told Charlie basically the same thing RANDMR told you, your good looking, in shape, in his case rich, etc. Charlie's response was "Dave, I don't pay women to have sex with me, I pay them to go away afterward's" That's why we use escorts, WAY LESS DRAMA! That being said, unless you go where it is legal, you have to be very careful. In Florida a solicitation bust puts you on the Sex Offender registry for the rest of your life. There are ways to protect yourself. First and foremost if you do nothting else we recommend, DO NOT GO TO BACKPAGE!!!!! Sorry Marisol, but that is LEO's favorite place to set up stings. Especially now that Backpage does not allow nude photos anymore. Used to be, stick with girls with nude photos, not LEO (entrapment issue if they use nudes, even fake nudes). Now, none of them have nudes.
If you do it right and not be cheap you can be safe and not get busted either. There are several reputable Verification Websites that you can join. In most cases, membership won't cost you much more than this site does. The providers are reviewed by other clients so you know what services they provide, if they are any good, what there attitude is like, etc. You also know that they aren't LEO. On the sites we use, the Provider can give you with a verification or Okay once they have seen you. We have several Provider Okays on our profile so when we contact a new girl about seeing us, she knows right away that we are legit too. We can email you details off the public forum.
Oh and BLUEIDKAT doesn't have a clue. First off, We are in no way immature nor are we stupid. We have been with providers that, had they been at the Swinger's Club the night before, they would have had there pick of people in the room. Most of the provider's on the sites we use do not Escort for a living, they have regular jobs. They escort for the extra money and for the fun of it. If they do it right, they can have as much fun as you do. We have NEVER used a girl that worked for a service. We took one girl with us to the Bahamas for a weekend, it was probably the best vacation we have ever had except for our Honeymoon and both of us agree, it was real close to eclipsing that. If the escort works through a verification site, they don't need and most of them don't work for a service. We have been with girls that when they leave, you would swear you were just with the love of your life. You just have to look around, just like on here.
As for STD's; We have seen a whole lot more skanky couples and single guys in the Swingers Clubs. You have no guarantees anywhere that the people you are about to fuck are clean. You have to take them for there word. At least if you use one of the sites, if a provider has reviews from several months or even years back in many cases, had they given someone an STD, it would be reflected in their reviews.
As for Bareback, We have NEVER had one offer to go bareback if we paid more. However, EVERY Single Male we have hooked up with from here or other Swinger sites and even one of the couples we were with on a Couples Cruise tried to stick there cock in uncovered! We ALWAYS have to stop them and have them cover up. The escorts bring them with and most of them put them out on the nightstand when you get started making it very clear what the rules are. In fact, every girl we have used a toy on insists that the toy be covered too, Clarification, not other swinger women, just the escorts!!!!
All of the girls we have seen have been very clean. Many insits on showering, all 3 of us, before and they shower right away after. We have had some that will only use certain brands of lube. One who would not take a bath with any bubble bath, etc. to keep from getting any kind of allergic reaction. You need to ignore the comments from the ignorant. They know not what they speak of.
It's like everything else, if it's something you want to try, and you are comfortable with the morality of it, get the facts and give it a shot. Send us a message if you want us to tell you the sites we use. We would be happy to share more of our experience with you.
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - I love my mustang!
choices - - you don't plan this lifestyle , you just fall in to it ! you got some thing like love missing you don't know what it is and how to get it so you try this , or you get horney only to sin ,or if you are the male part it is normal and it is in your cells or genes the need for a variety of females don't ever forget the fact that most men had more then 1 wife about 100 years ago and a lot still have now and the desire did not change , the body and brain don't change by the only fact that gov. banned it , so we see a new era of prostitute filling in that gap like
, gentlemans boutique , sex xxx , swing clubs , it was there and its still here just took a diff. shape or in couples swingers sometimes you are pushed in to it by an insane spouse that you actual depend on , "or you join or leave " or a childishly jealousy by the female part if you fuck whom you want so i will too , risking family values .........:h
finding a couple with a bi female - - Heck, if single girls are unicorns, couples with bi females are, if not blades of grass, at least rose bushes, or something else that isn't exactly everywhere but that there are sure a whole lot of. Why? Who knows? I'd guess, first that there are just more bi females that there are males in the world. Then a bi female is obviously going to have to go outside the marriage to play with girls, so what better place than the swingers world? Whatever the reason, there are a lot of them. For that matter, we're one of them, although I have no idea whether Dana would fit whatever it is you're looking for. As Delisciouslywet already said, check the profiles. Pretty much every couple on here that has any pics has a pic of the girl. Do a search. Use the advanced search to specify bi or maybe even bi comfortable. If you have an age limit, specify that. But don't set it too low, you'd be surprised how many really hot women there out there who are older than many people think is the point at which good looks stop. Guys too, but for some reason to a lesser extent. Maybe we don't take as good care of ourselves as the girls do or something. In any case, you'll get to see what people look like before you contact them. Do not specify that the girl has to have a yes for "plays alone". Some couples put maybe, or even no, for that because she won't play alone with guys, and they don't want to deal with all the emails from single guys, but she will play alone with girls. Go through the results, send an email to those that seem attractive to you. And ask if the female would be interested in playing alone with you. I'd be surprised if it took you very long to find the right person. And, hey, those Risque Soiree guys are having a Halloween thing, "7th Annual Exotic Erotic Halloween Ball" in SLC next Saturday. I'd imagine there'll be a lot of folks there, it might be worthwhile to go to it and see if you meet anyone who can solve the problem.
911 THE REAL TRUTH - - Please take this idiotic banter to a diferent venue... This is a swingers site and both of you are simply fucking with words that, if we were lucky and Japaneese or some other nationality we would disregard as simply noises made with letters. I think that if you wish to keep this crap up simply go out and do the impossible... and get off this flaming party. You are both like a Japaneese Zero trying to make the enemys carrier deck so as to kill any pilot still in the air because he cannot now land. Problem with this is that neither of you will ever hit the other's landing deck.. and maybe all you two are doing is taking your penis' out and flailing at each other with limp members. Aren't at least one of you big enough to put your dick back in your pants and get on with the business at hand.......Fun Fantasy and sex, real sex, not this impotent flailing of limp rhetoric.. Get off my channel and the channel of every other serious swinger in here. Take it out back somewhere.. Go meet in Vagas or NYC or how about New Orleans. Theres plenty of shit down there to throw since the waste treatment plants overflowed.. Isn't enough, enough. Grow UP
NUFF SAID!!!!! BY me and definitely by both of you...Piss off
International Swingers - Error - We meant 'MOREFUN'!
Gangbangs/ Wife sharing - -
I have been to gangbangs before, as a solo male, that were posted on the swingers sites and pretty much open to anyone. The percentage of guys who are no-shows is pretty sad. When we schedule a gangbang, we only invite guys that we already know and have partied with before. Only once have we had a no-show, and we crossed him off our list forever. We meet in a bar first, and all go over to the room together once everybody
How do you spot a Swinger..?! - tell tell signs of the lifestyle - lmao humm try hunting for swingers in the bible belt lmao ..