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Lack of Communication - Is it really that hard? - I've been thinking about this thread (and other's like it...they seem to come along every few months or so, along with the ones about whether or not condoms are a good idea or whether we're just caving to the big latex conglomerates) and I have a few additional thoughts. First, many (most?) emails we receive seem to have about as much thought put into them as one might put into which side of their hamburger to start eating on. If they aren't spammed out to multiple people the senders, at very least, don't seem to have the verbal capacity to write anything beyond, "We seen yer add and wanna put our naughty bits in yer naughty bits." [SIC] Is it that hard to include a little tidbit or two about WHY you think we might be a good match for you and why we would want to take time out of our busy lives to meet with you? And the few that DO contain more than a generic greeting or poorly thought out pick up line have obviously not read our profile (don't necessarily blame them...takes a minimum of a couple of hours to slog through) and don't know what we are and are not looking for. For Christ's sake, give us at least ONE compelling reason why you think we'd like to meet you such as, "We love fisting out stuffed ferrets too and also worship Satan as our lord and master. Let's have coffee." Second, when did we all become such Tender Heart Care Bears? And why do we necessarily feel entitled to a response to a more often than not spammed out email from people wanting to perv our locked pics? I've only written back to that nice Nigerian prince like ten or fifteen times before I finally got tired of him asking for my checking account number. Do you call back every carpet cleaning company that leaves a message on your voice mail? Do you send a nice polite note back the the guy who's running for president for the Violent Tyrannical Dictator Party and wants you to donate to his campaign fund? I mean, he was even nice enough to send you a self addressed stamped envelope. So maybe put a little thought into your solicitations. Give people a compelling reason to write you back beyond, "OMG, you're swingers? We're swingers too. We should totally fuck!". This goes double for single guys. Read the profile...even if you have to do it over two or three nights and use a dictionary to look up the big words. Take note of what people are and aren't looking for and especially if they mention your particular demographic. And last but not least, Don't worry about it if someone doesn't write you back. For all you know they've just survived a horrific bumper car accident at Lagoon or maybe they're 2 days in to binge watching all nine seasons of Matlock and haven't eaten or slept for two days. If you're consistently not getting any responses to your emails maybe you're fishin' in the wrong pond. Take a good long hard look in the mirror and ask yourself honestly if Angelina Jolie REALLY would like to fuck you or if you're more likely to hit it off with Steve Buscemi or Nick Nolte. [img]http://41.media.tumblr.com/5aeb01c341f821494d4f928ab96c1ed0/tumblr_n9id25LoID1skhtbpo1_500.jpg[/img] [img]http://images.complex.com/complex/image/upload/t_article_image/tkv4iaprkfruehfvnhpn.jpg[/img]

cut to the chase - - We appreciate the forum. It might help some realize that as much as swingers tout their open mindedness, are they really open minded and non-judgmental until all the facts of a situation are in view. Seems like our society in general and not just the lifestylers have become very quick to judge without all the facts. Guilty before proven innocent here.. He may be learning about himself and the larger world out there that most aren't exposed to. We met as singles on here years ago and both know how difficult it is to meet people as a single because the first response by most is "You must be a cheater." Damn people, we all were single at some point in our lives unless you were married off in high school! We play separately and together, and we've seen first-hand how many "cheater" comments we amass when answering emails/booty calls to play as a single. If you preach open mindedness, maybe it's time to actually BE open minded! We get that cheating is a common problem too, but how do you know anything about a person if you make that assumption up front. Assuming makes a big ass out of us all..

Lusting After the EVER ELUSIVE Male-with-Hallpass - The Great Swingular Mystery - Sometimes we speak with the knowledge granted by our ignorance, and there is nothing wrong about being ignorant, since an ignorant is just him who lucks the right data or info... AKA (50)... Anyways, I guess everyone is at a different comfort level, and there are more than 50 shades of being open minded, and my personal believe is that some of us are one step away of Being on the white vanilla shade. So do we personally get hall passes? Hell yes!!! I guess we are weird that way, we travel quite often and not always together, at the same time our Lil ones not always allow us to go out together, so in our devious minds and behavior sometimes we encourage each other to go out and have fun, and to bring back a hot story to tell (not to mention pics to show) it's all about TRUST and comfort levels. Some parts of this post sounded to me like if the RS president and the bishop came out and said "ewww... swingers...? Lets start a rally at chick-fil- a"

Swingers in Draper cause Super Dell to speed - - No THAT was f**king funny!

Game for Swingers - Has anyone heard of a new game for lifestyle couples called Titillation? - We have a game much like Monopoly. Its called pimps and hos its has several expansion card sets from swinger, truth or dare , drinking , charades , sick and twisted and striptease. Its a great icebreaker. Instead of property you buy hoes. upper class hoes cost more but pay more. Pro's- Lots of choices of cards to add in the mix. From mild to wild Cons- The complete set cost around $110.00 www.pimpsandhos.com P.S. I need to get my freak on... Please Help-Jeremy If you want to borrow my game or my wife let me know. Thanks and have a good evening

Escorts - - That is how we actually got started in the lifestyle and unlike some of the people who have replied here that have probably never hired someone, we know a little about it. It just depends on what you are looking for. As an older couple, we like threesomes with young 20 somethings. That is not easy to find. When you do find someone, you have to worry about them developing a dependence on you, feelings for one or the other or both of you, etc. Charlie Sheen said it best when David Letterman asked why he would pay for sex, he told Charlie basically the same thing RANDMR told you, your good looking, in shape, in his case rich, etc. Charlie's response was "Dave, I don't pay women to have sex with me, I pay them to go away afterward's" That's why we use escorts, WAY LESS DRAMA! That being said, unless you go where it is legal, you have to be very careful. In Florida a solicitation bust puts you on the Sex Offender registry for the rest of your life. There are ways to protect yourself. First and foremost if you do nothting else we recommend, DO NOT GO TO BACKPAGE!!!!! Sorry Marisol, but that is LEO's favorite place to set up stings. Especially now that Backpage does not allow nude photos anymore. Used to be, stick with girls with nude photos, not LEO (entrapment issue if they use nudes, even fake nudes). Now, none of them have nudes. If you do it right and not be cheap you can be safe and not get busted either. There are several reputable Verification Websites that you can join. In most cases, membership won't cost you much more than this site does. The providers are reviewed by other clients so you know what services they provide, if they are any good, what there attitude is like, etc. You also know that they aren't LEO. On the sites we use, the Provider can give you with a verification or Okay once they have seen you. We have several Provider Okays on our profile so when we contact a new girl about seeing us, she knows right away that we are legit too. We can email you details off the public forum. Oh and BLUEIDKAT doesn't have a clue. First off, We are in no way immature nor are we stupid. We have been with providers that, had they been at the Swinger's Club the night before, they would have had there pick of people in the room. Most of the provider's on the sites we use do not Escort for a living, they have regular jobs. They escort for the extra money and for the fun of it. If they do it right, they can have as much fun as you do. We have NEVER used a girl that worked for a service. We took one girl with us to the Bahamas for a weekend, it was probably the best vacation we have ever had except for our Honeymoon and both of us agree, it was real close to eclipsing that. If the escort works through a verification site, they don't need and most of them don't work for a service. We have been with girls that when they leave, you would swear you were just with the love of your life. You just have to look around, just like on here. As for STD's; We have seen a whole lot more skanky couples and single guys in the Swingers Clubs. You have no guarantees anywhere that the people you are about to fuck are clean. You have to take them for there word. At least if you use one of the sites, if a provider has reviews from several months or even years back in many cases, had they given someone an STD, it would be reflected in their reviews. As for Bareback, We have NEVER had one offer to go bareback if we paid more. However, EVERY Single Male we have hooked up with from here or other Swinger sites and even one of the couples we were with on a Couples Cruise tried to stick there cock in uncovered! We ALWAYS have to stop them and have them cover up. The escorts bring them with and most of them put them out on the nightstand when you get started making it very clear what the rules are. In fact, every girl we have used a toy on insists that the toy be covered too, Clarification, not other swinger women, just the escorts!!!! All of the girls we have seen have been very clean. Many insits on showering, all 3 of us, before and they shower right away after. We have had some that will only use certain brands of lube. One who would not take a bath with any bubble bath, etc. to keep from getting any kind of allergic reaction. You need to ignore the comments from the ignorant. They know not what they speak of. It's like everything else, if it's something you want to try, and you are comfortable with the morality of it, get the facts and give it a shot. Send us a message if you want us to tell you the sites we use. We would be happy to share more of our experience with you.

At what point do you out yourselves to family and friends?? - - I really don't think it makes that big a difference. What ever you are comfortable with is what you should do. Me personally, I let the people I work with that we are swingers, after they had guessed. Didn't see any reason to lie to them. Hell I was hoping to get in the pants of a couple of them. I don't think there is a right or wrong answer.

Cheating spouse? - Signs, cause and effects - Bottom line we ALL (despite some arbitrary "vow" we made) basically get up each morning and decide to be with this person TODAY. It's pretty much a day to day contract and like it or not your spouse can also opt out at any time. And throwing swinging into the mix DOES add additional stresses and OPTIONS for a spouse to cheat or just leave (a concept that I think some singles don't quite grasp... because they simply aren't risking anything like that by swinging, but that's another conversation). If a partner cheats then you and you alone get to decide if the relationship is worth fighting for or not and then proceed from there. I find it quite odd that in a room full of people who flaunt society's conventions (swingers) there are so many who have such absolutes as there only options and that the penalty for cheating is immediate death (of the relationship).

Tournament species verses pair bonding species - How do you look at sex? - Pair bonded. But the more we study and learn about other species the more we realize that our old ideas of monogamy and life long pair bonding just does not hold true. We have observed that given the chance, a healthy percent of most pair bonded species have a tendency to wander. Not only are about 10 percent of the species gay but a good percentage wander in nature. It has only to be determined whether they are swingers or cheating spouses.

Advice needed - Are we ready for this? - Just a casual observation...based upon what I've read so far...the two of you are not in a place right now to be actively swinging. You need to re-focus on yourselves first...as a couple...before you have anything to offer another couple. Not to mention you will have difficulty recieving anything of value from another couple. There are concerns and unresolved issues apparently that you have not been able to address just between the two of you, much less without having to publicly seek advice from other swingers. Perhaps you should take a break from any active pursuits until you both understand where you are on sharing each other sexually, and what's informing his change in behavior. You have also had a turn-around on your views as well, which may also be affecting his feelings on the scenario. Swinging never, ever, EVER "fixes" or "spices" up a relationship. It only amplifies whatever dynamics are already present. It doesn't matter if they're "good" or "bad", "healthy" or "unhealthy", it's irrelevant; whatever dynamics are present are also going to be increased. Unstable couples who start swinging are more inclined to not only a miserable experience in swinging, but in their relationship will suffer as well. Conversely, stable couples, will often find that swinging brings a new level of enhancement into their relationship...both sexually and emotionally, because they already have the skills and tools in place to maintain a healthy, communicative relationship, and invariably are very aware of what they are looking for as a partnership in swinging. Best of luck....:)

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