New Mexico Swingers on Swingular

New Mexico Swingers

New Mexico Swingers on Swingular

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An even more interesting question... - What if there were no taboo attached to swinging? - I'm going to respectfully disagree. We've been doing this a long time and have met and talked to hundreds (probably more!) of couples both newbies and veterans, successful swingers and those who tried it and bombed. I don't think it's just negative social ramifications that keep many people from swinging. I think if people want to swing they will find a way past most barriers and rationalizations for not swinging. I think that most people who don't swing don't because they don't want to. The reasons they don't want to are likely multiple...from jealousy/possessiveness issues to insecurities to religious and morality issues and plenty of other things. Many could be frightened by the very real possibility of catching an STI. Others might not like putting themselves out there in situations where they could be (and most likely will be at one time or another) rejected. Hell, there are some people (probably more than most people realize) that don't really like sex all that much or at least can pretty much take it or leave it most of the time. People don't start skydiving or run ultra marathons because they don't really want to jump out of airplanes or run ridiculously long distances. People don't start swinging because they don't want to swing. It's quite easy to project our own desires and values onto other people, especially when it's something we enjoy very much or feel very strongly about. But, in my opinion, a lot more people would try swinging if they truly wanted to try swinging. The fact that they don't means that, for whatever reason, they just don't want to try it.

New Yahoo Group for the April 2011 Swingers Takeover Cruise - Yahoo Group for info. and discussion - We have started a Yahoo group for the April 2011 Swingers Takeover Cruise. This is a group for people going on the cruise or interested in going on the cruise to get to know each other (from this site as well as other swingers sites) before the cruise, ask/answer questions, and participate in general discussion. We would love to see more members join and contribute. Please do NOT post any advertisements or commercial promotions there. This isn't what the group is for and they will be removed. We are not affiliated with the cruise organizers in any way and do not benefit from administering this Yahoo group. Unless you count meeting more sexy people. The group address is http://groups.yahoo.com/group/April2010SwingersCruiseTakeover Hope to see you all join. Shawn and Amy

I Sense A Disturbance In The Force - You know it when it happens - You are walking around a mall, store, or sitting in a restaurant when you sense a disturbance in the force. You feel it in your belly. You know it just happened. You look over at another single or couple and you get that feel. It is not just that you are attracted to them, you KNOW they are Swingers. Ever happen to you? Mav

Sex drive!! - My wife has a extremely high sex drive - [quote=TATTOOCOUPLE11]My wife has a very high sex drive we have only had 3 somes with women which she and I love but I was wondering if I should include more sex driven men in our sex life to totally fulfill her needs ?[/quote] It works for us! It will certainly work for you two! Good hunting! Men, women, and couples, and all ethnic origins are all good for us. There are so many hot people and so little time to play with them. We go out of our way to reach out try it all with open arms so long as people are healthy and nice and there is some attraction. We are going to get the equal opportunity logo tattooed on our butts. Be careful, some old school right wing swingers might question your husbands

Have you seen... - - [quote=EVILDOERS]Okay I'm looking at her eyes...I'm looking at her eyes...what am I looking for? Help a brutha out here. [img]http://ci.memecdn.com/995/959995_t.gif[/img][/quote] They are very nice. It's the Irish in us and she is pretty classic or classical pretty, in a Irish way. Just that simple. We were and are romantics more than swingers, but we enjoy both, and they sometimes blend well with the right sort of people.

Polyamory v swinging...and judgement! - Discuss! Thoughts? Feelings? Judgement? - That's a long post haha. Ill just put my two cents in (mrs here) I have recently decided our "label" is poly swingers. Typically I'm with my husband and a boyfriend at any given time (poly). Plus I (or we or he) occasionally sleeps with other partners (swinger). We are not lazy hippies haha but I have found a lot of poly people to be like that. But then again I've found a lot of swingers to be like that as well. Speaking of, a lot of people are like that haha. So on the wife being assertive or not...... I get my needs totally met and if they aren't all find someone to meet them. I'm very assertive and we are more poly by my doing then the mr. I am bisexual. I typically don't "totally" screw other women because frankly I am not good at it and I prefer 3 sums anyhow. But I'm verY attracted to both makes and females. Has absolutely nothing to do with wanting to excite the mr or anything like that. Also my Mr has no idea how to run the site haha 99.9% of everything "we" do on here is all Mrs ;) and I'm not passive at all. Haha. Ask the people that went to the NBN campout ;) BUT that's my two cents and yes I have been told we have a odd relationship even for swingers, but we are happier then we have ever been so we are staying the course ;)

What to wear to a swingers party??? - - my wife tries to find stuff that looks sexy and nice and is easy on and off or cofortable rolling around in, sexy shoes are always easy because you dont' need to stand much. I wear usually a nice shirt and slacks.

Dumb question? - What and who can see what? - [quote=EVILDOERS]I thought "Silver members" meant you were old. I'm confused. Must be because I'm old. [em]Emo_79[/em] [/quote] Hey we got an invitation to join a site for 50 plus swingers this week. So far we don't see the need and it is probably more of a national site, and not as Utah handy as this site is, but we did think it is interesting that such a site exist. Maybe if we join we can get a discount if we belong to Triple A? We are hardly retired, so we don't have an AARP card yet. We know a couple who bought a condo in a three floor project that pretty much caters to adults, usually older adults, with no children. The husband told me there are "wife swapping couples, like 5 couples, living in the project." I asked him if that has become their new hobby and he said his wife would have none of that.

female AGE turn on-off - - SPERM, You are a class A jackass. Pleae take your cheating ass elsewhere. Your words spit on everything that real swingers believe in. You make me sick. Mrs Classy

Male on male - Not sure if this is where this goes, but male on male tonight only. - i'm obviously supportive. i'm amazed that so many supposedly free thinking male swingers on Swingular project such a homophobic attitude. and i'm sure every bi guy on here has been contacted by the male half of a supposedly str8 couple looking to get some MM action on the side. one of the best things about being bi is to learn how much fun it is to GIVE a blow job. i used to think that women were doing me a favor by going down on me. know i know why so many women love it. i've also met women who just wanted me to invite a second guy so they could watch two guys go at it. and women who thought they were dating a str8 guy until he undressed and saw that he was wearing women's underwear. i guess what i've learned is there is a lot more variation in human sexual behavior than i thought when i was younger. obviously the majority of people are more comfortable with the opposite sex...but that doesn't make MM or FF play wrong or ever the slightest bit unusual. imho.

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