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Cuckolding - Interesting article from some outsiders, what do yo - - I read the article and from a swinging standpoint don't consider encouraging and enjoying my wife's enjoyment of her sexuality as anything even approaching cuckoldry. I'm sure some vanillas might see it differently thru the lenses of their "vanilla goggles" but swinging is definitely NOT cuckoldry. The sad thing is that (yes, I have to go there) some single men view coupled male swingers as nothing more than cucks and often act accordingly and thus perpetuate the dreaded SM stigma. Don't get me wrong. There definitely are cucks in the lifestyle and to some the "hotwife" style of play approaches if not at times reaches the level of cuckoldry. But the vast majority of male swingers are definitely not cucks and simply enjoy the fact that their partners are free to explore their sexuality and "get off", if you will, on the fact that their partner is turned on and experiencing their sexual desires to the fullest.

swinging/dating etiquette - meeting for dinner - I just took a huge dose of cough syrup a while ago to fall asleep, so this might start rambling!! When I still had my balls (I felt something go missing as soon as the ring was slipped on Mrs. Chastity's finger), I thought that the person asking was by default supposed to pay for everything. I thought it was chivalrous and expected. Example: Boy meets attractive girl and pitches a tent. Boy asks girl out while he is sitting down or otherwise hiding his boner. Girl says yes, they go out and he pays. At the end of the night they kiss, and he is rewarded for paying her way via this sexual act. After reaching one of his goals, he repeats the process of asking her out and him paying until they have sex or he decided to focus his time and money on another girl that might put out faster. Going Dutch was for when you were with friends, and when the idea to go out and do something just kind of emerges out of the synergestic efforts of the group gathered. This is when everyone is just happy being with the friends around them, and there is no hint of pressure to have sex with eachother. As light swingers, Chastity and I have seen both ways done. We see swinger couples who are sexually attracted to other couples or single females ask the other couple or female to a night out, their treat. This usually ends up with the female or other couple drinking too much, start to feel bad about not paying, so they make out with the couple that paid for a while at the end of the night. This goes on until they sleep together, then the nights out are less and less, and the nights in are more and more.

50 shades - - Hire a boy scout for the night to teach you some knots. He could even earn a merit badge out of it. It's win win. And they say swingers don't do anything good for the community.

Long Weekend - Just wondering what people have planned - anyone ever go to Fantasy Swingers Club in vegas. also the the exchange ever get set up there.

The White Value System - - RIDERZ, I for one, nor any posts that I read were against "black values". You speak of a 70's mentality, however teh video I posted of Wright was from THIS YEAR 2008. On a side note, I have also been stocking up on ammo and magazines, not just because of the election, but because of the inevitable. I say we invade the Grand Cayman Islands. Only swingers will be allowed

Rummors Resort - Sin City 5 - Been to a LOT of takeovers in Vegas over the years. While they're fun, they usually end up being a little bit disappointing. Vegas is all sizzle and no steak. In other words they lure you in with the promise of naughty sexy times but the reality ends up being quite a few rules and regulations about what is and isn't allowed. Don't know how many times the powers that be in Vegas have forbidden topless pools even when the entire resort was off limits to non-swingers. Of course topless pools are FINE as long as it's one of the luxury hotels where you pay big bucks to stay or a hefty fee to get into the pool. Maybe Kasidie has an inside track or bribed the right people...hope so. Otherwise just don't go looking for a Hedo-like experience when all you'll get is MAYBE some sexy swimwear by the pool and anything remotely naughty will have to take place behind closed doors in private rooms. Let us all know how it turns out! [em]Emo_53[/em]

Where on Earth are all the hot Virginia Swingers? - Show us what you have to offer VA!!! - Not Many Of Us,lol. The Anti Swinging Capital of the world is Va.,lol

How has swinging made your marriage better? - - Communication (REAL communication) is the key but still it's not enough if someone really wants to stray or outright leave. There's been an interesting discussion on another swing site we're on about some of this topic and an old timer on there (who's now divorced) brought up something that we found interesting and that seems to be fairly ubiquitous in the lifestyle. It turns out that most women who have been in the lifestyle for a decent length of time have at one time or another (multiple times for Ms. Evil and some of the ladies we've known for some time) been told by a play partner (more often by a single male or even more often a vanilla guy...lot's of swingers seem to get a thrill out of vanilla hunting I guess) that if they were THEIR partner they would NEVER share them with another man. Think about that for a minute. With the way most women are raised and the messages society pounds into their heads about love, romance, fidelity, etc., how powerful are those words are. In fact let's take a little poll. Are there any women who've been in the lifestyle for, say, at least 5 years and play fairly frequently who have never had a guy tell them or insinuate that? Just curious.

really appreciate the "lifestyle" - wanted to reflect - i wanted to repost pretty much a reply i wrote in another forum... it started out about our thoughts on the first time with someone new... was trying to convey our feelings that getting to know people over time made the exp better... and well it seems like more than that in re-reading it... or it could be the painkillers... so if the typing is bad thats why... thxs please enjoy... "1st time is never the best, that is why we like 2nd, 3rd, 4th and so times, making friends,(does not have to be buddys, or move in with you) people you can talk to more than about sex... is what really makes the life great... our continuing story.... rich has a severly broken leg right now... the people that are making life work for us for the most part are swing friends, some are on the site... we had just contracted on a house befor rich's leg, closed from the hospital, a couple we have known for a while got a truck and moved us in our new home... the wife of a couple (on this site) has been taking rich to his appointents, which until recently were every day, her husband fix and painted one of the rooms in the new place just befor the move in... rich's best friend, a single male (on this site)has been there, and a single female friend has been too... many other couples have come by and done a little even if it was a ride to get lunch or dinner... and rich really appreciates the sympathy blow jobs... not everyone you play with will make a connection, but trying for that connection is the best part... and for us, right now, if not for the swingers in our lives, we would be lost in trying to works things out. "

Habits - - hey everyone... glad you all had fun... and your right! the meetngreets are as fun as you make them.. to clarify a previous comment... the meet n greets are not just couples night.. everyone is invited to attend, couples and singles (males and females) that could explain the single male that pointed out who the swingers were and was dead on.. he could have likely received the same evite as everyone else and or just comes often enough to spot some of us.. some of us are there quite regularly.. The club does have a reputation at this point... it is known that we likeminded people like to hang out there... they receive calls from curious people wanting to join in our fun.. the club employees have introduced us to people like this as they come in and some of them are now members of this site.. (lol wink to those of you that this applies) i dont see clicks, i see groups of friends that have already met.. we all tend to hang out with friends, everyone does.. thats normal behavior you must come willing to independantly socialize and introduce yourselves to others.. none of us know everyone and we are all there being busy meeting and greeting others... dancing and just plain having fun.. eventually if you come often enough, you know alot of others and you find your self with alot of new awesome friends :D I know we have!!! Thanks to all that came! We look forward to the next one and hope you can all make it. xoxo kk PS People watching is fun too :D

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