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Does this happen to any other women? - General Discussion - This is sort of a venting as well as a general question. A bit personal, I know...however judging by other forums, I think it will be acceptable. I just want to know how other swingers perceive it and/or deal with it. For some strange reason it seems that whenever we make plans to go out to a swinger's club for a special party, or a really good swinger's house party...Aunt Flo shows up uninvited. I have had her show up FIVE days early and/or three or four days late just to ruin a potential good time. I don't know if it's because I'm worried about her coming subconsciously or it's just bad luck but it's quite frustrating :( Please tell me that others out there have this same experience as often as I do and that I'm not alone. Now I don't know about others in the lifestyle, but I have had many discussions with male friends and boyfriends in my life who won't come near a woman on their dot, they are repulsed by it. This way of thinking passed on to me so I wouldn't even consider trying to initiate anything sexual until Auntie packed her bags and left for the remainder of the month. I find myself very lucky to be with a man who doesn't mind it because it's "natural for a woman" and he has taught me to become quite comfortable with sexy time with him while Auntie is visiting. This is great because I tend to get quite aroused when Auntie is visiting. We were discussing it the other day and he mentioned that there are bound to be other swingers out there that don't mind playing with a woman on her dot. I wonder how true that is so I figured I would put it out there for everyone else to respond.

Does anybody really... - ANOTHER annoying poll. - ...fuck anymore? We've talked to quite a few people who have been in the lifestyle for some time now and have yet to hook up and fuck so we thought we'd ask the obvious question as to whether swingers actually still hook up and fuck each other. *Disclaimer: Though we've been in the lifestyle for a long time we've never been SUPER active and have actually gone months at a time and even, occasionally, a few YEARS without playing. In fact, right now it's been probably 2-3 years since we've actually fucked anyone else because life has a tendency to totally get in the way sometimes. 1) Yes, actually. We hook-up and fuck regularly. We're actually quite slutty and fuck other people every chance we get...and that's fairly often. 2) Nope. Swinger sex is just an urban legend...a myth. Nobody really fucks anyone else. Only in Penthouse Letters...or in bad pornos. 3) 2 or 3 YEARS?!!? What are you, monks?!!? 4) We've been wondering the same thing. We're sorta new and have yet to fuck anybody. 5) Swinging is dead. It's been replaced by CrossFit and video games. 6) We'll fuck you, Evil. We're totally into throwing someone a pity fuck. 7) We wouldn't fuck you guys with somebody ELSE'S genitals! 8) You should try the nude beach at the GSL. One billion brine flies can't be wrong. 9) Sex with others is SCARY. We're just here for the titillation factor. 10) You think YOU have trouble getting laid. Try being a single male. 11) Feel free to add your own poll answer. ps-We're NOT trying to get laid. We're just bored (and a little drunk) on a Sunday evening and there's nothing good on TV. [em]Emo_70[/em]

Hey - - Okay...the lack of compassion and depravity that others have never ceases to amaze me. Not five minutes after posting my reply...here is the private email I got from "someone" who had previously posted on this thread...a.k.a. UTCPL... Thought, You should get on a plane and go fuck this poor sap. In case you have not realized it yet this is a swingers sight not Dr. Phil's show. Maybe one or the both of you are the ones that need a good ass-fucking. It just might loosen up that tight sphincter you apparently have! Your true character is really shining at at it's best this weekend UTCPL. Any more methods you might employ to make proverbial asses out of yourselves? Maybe I need to get some popcorn and kick back to watch the ensuing show, eh?

Policing Ourselves - Can it be done? - Recently a suggestion was made that we as a group need to educate and police ourselves as a group in this our chosen lifestyle (thats swinging for all us simple folk) . In order to do this effectively wouldnt there have to be some set of rules that everyone would be expected to adhere to? What would those rules be? how would they be created and ratified? would swingers from their respective states send represntatives to a central location to vote on these rules(oops now we get into politics) ? If you were teaching a new person (regarless of marital status or gender) the rules about swinging what would you teach them first? I really would love to hear as much as possible from you guys. richard

KINKY BY THE CAMPFIRE - 3rd Annual UTAH Campout - We are going to try as well. Damn if we cant get all the CO swingers to show up in UT. LOL

Saying No Gracefully - And still Get rude responces - Does this happen to anyone else. - [align=justify]I would have to say that I COMPLETELY concur with the statement, "that it is OKAY not to be interested". In fact, if we, D & M, get the feeling that couple we are chatting with plays with "everyone" they meet, we are much less inclined to pursue anything, at least without current test results. ;) People are people, and we all have emotions. Because of this, you will have those who bow out courteously, those who actually prefer an honest critique, as well as people that feel the need to "stomp their feet" on their way out,(metaphorically speaking, of course). People react differently to rejection. And no amount of candy-coating is going to change that. Don't be fooled by those that say, "You aren't a real swinger because you don't play with everyone." You just aren't "their" type of swinger, and probably would prefer not to be. Swinging is a lot like dating, sad to say, but sorry it is. You select those you would like to meet, decide where and how to meet, see if your interests match up, then meet to test the chemistry, and go from there. So if your interests aren't a huge orgy where everyone plays with everyone...those won't be the couples/singles you are interested in meeting. There is a place for everyone in swinging, so don't let people force you into their way of thinking, in swinging, or in life. If it's not what you wanted in the first place, you probably won't be happy doing it, so why bother. There are MANY, I'll bet the MAJORITY of swingers that won't play with everyone, so don't let anyone fool you with that line of BS. It is our privilege, and our right to say "No!" when and how we choose! We are Americans goddamnit! Don't sweat it, or take it as a compliment. The delete and block functions take only seconds, yet can eliminate so much aggravation. [/align][em]Emo_17[/em]

Floridas's Finest Couples House Party February 14th!!!!! - FFC House Party - Cupid's Gone Wild! Valentine's Night Saturday, Feb. 14th (Northern Sarasota) 8:30pm - ??? Cum cuddle by the fireplace or enjoy an erotic Massage on our Massage Table! Swingers Texas Hold 'em and much, much more! Updated 2/4/2009 - The Hosts have asked if you can come dressed in something Pink, Red or White and as little clothing as you can get away with!!!!! Just bring your favorite drink (BYOB) and share Valentine's Day with friends!! Your Host and Hostest are inviting Swingular members and their friends at FFC to cum out and have some fun!!! RSVP !!!! ASAP !!!! email: [email protected] or [email protected] All details will be given individually when you RSVP.

Which Motorcycle Survey? - In the market and want your opinion... - Oh, I have strong thoughts on this subject folks. And I am really doing my homework and shopping very thoroughly. I'm taking my time because I won't be buying until Feb/Mar at the earliest. And I've been watching the Can-Am develop over the past 3 years now. One of our nearby dealers carries them alongside Big Dog Choppers and Suzuki. Interesting line-up. It's not that what others think will make my decision or unduely influence it, but I am interested in reading others' opinions and thoughts to compare to my own. And I'm checking with a few different demographic groups. Let's face it: swingers tend to march to the beat of their own drum more than most folks! LOL I brought up the "cool factor" and image stuff in the context of what our own perceptions are of bike culture. I mentioned that we are cruiser types, not crotch-rocket people. I wear western style riding boots and a black leather jacket. But my jacket has armor inserts, all the modern upgrades, and even reflective piping on a traditional cruiser jacket frame. I wear a Bell military-style open face helmet and goggles. My wife rides a blacked out (Raven) 2011 Star Stryker. So we sort of blend the old w/the new a bit. I guess I'm hesitant about the style change. Thanks for the input and please keep it coming. You're helping me cogitate. LOL

Why do most cpls in the age range of 25-40 get so hung up on ag - - we love meeting new friends in the life style . but we dont want to play with everybody we meet . we go to alot of parties and hang out with a lot of different levels and ages of swingers . we dont rule one out more then the other for any reason . do we going looking for bigger people ???? or older people ???? no . but we really dont go looking for anyone . we enjoy our friends and try to make new ones .and we look and see each person for who they are and how they act . i am looking for friends to hang out with . and then i PICK MY PLAYMATES OUT OF THAT GROUP . the ones i click with and feel turned on i will play as much as i want to . do i rush faster to go up and say hi to a younger and in shape couple . hell yes . but i will also pull the oldest person in the club up on the dance floor and have a blast !!! i enjoy hanging out with older swingers . but alot of people that have been in the life style for along time are more in a rush and looking for fun . i love the new bies best . they are new and fresh and so creative and more into teashing and flirting WHICH IS MY BIGGEST TURN ON . but i also love to flirt and just make people happy . last party i asked an older woman to be my parnter in a contest . at a huge club with about 400 people . she was very shy cause all the other girls where DANCER LOOK ALIKES ... ( I DONT LIKE THE BARBIE LOOK ALIKE TYPE ) PERFECT ISNT MY CUP OF TEA . but i was teasing this older woman and i got to her lift her skirt and let me spank her ass . and she was spanking mine . and then she had to do a dance by herself . and i gave her a hug and spanked her ass and told her to go shake that hot ass and make them all scream . she did her best and she had a blast . she told me thanks so much for making her feel so alive and wild . and that made me so turned on and happy . and i love hanging out with people who are creative and fun . i look at peoples pics and see what their style is .i read their profiles and see how much they open up and what they have to say . yes i do look on the outside a bit to be with someone . but i also judge them by them for the real them . and what they like and dont like . and how they treat others and each other . iam so turned on by a few older couple that we know . one couple we did some things that we have never done before cause they wanted it like that we love to get wild , and take pics and make movies . i love body paints . i am turned on by people who are into what we are . young or old .black or white , married or single . alot of people talk about all the popel that dont like them cause they are older or not in perfect shape . but i also dont play with the hard bodies and try to look and act all perfect .that is a huge turn off to me . the ladies that all go to the club and they all look alike . blonde hair , tats int eh same place s , same cute matching outfits ,same size tits . and they think thats all their is about them . i cant stand that shit , people ask me why am i hanging out with the older ones and not chasing the pole dancer . i like to see people for who they are . and see the bad with the good and still like it . and want it . some people turn u on and some dont . if u are at a place where most people dont then u are hanging out with the wrong crowd . always be around fun people that u click with . and sometimes things that are bothering people about themselves can show . or just be in your head that is the reason . there could be other reasons about u that someone isnt turned on by . we hang out with alot of people . but play with only a few good friends . and thats what we are looking for . and we wont play with anyone that is just look ing for a play mates . so the best advise i can think of is ... to find a cool fun group that u can have a blast with and find what u want and need and dont worry about the ones that u dont click with for whatever reason . no biggie . have fun with the ones that do like u . thats what matters . naguhty dreams freaky kitty

Why is same sex marriage really such a big deal - Just rambling, could be interesting... - KOIMOO, Marriage is not just for rearing children. It's a committment of two or more people to live together or "partner" for X amount of time. It's a contract. Some religions say until death. One of the outcomes of some marriages, can be children but even for a great many of them, children cannot or do not occur. For you to make such an all-encompassing statement is ignorant on your part. Marriage can be for many things including but not limited to love, convenience, lust, children, foolishness, money etc. Whatever your reason, it should be your own decision as an adult. We all deserve equality. We should all be able to marry who we want to marry. Marriage is a contract in the eyes of the law. Any humans that are of consenting age should be able to marry. It's not your place or mind to determine what suits others. If you want to speak of evolution. The process of selection makes that trait which is less favorable cause the eventual demise of the genetic line involved. If humans or all animals for that matter, were endanger of your fear, homosexuality would've been selected out a long time ago. The truth is, it's been around since before upright humans and will continue to go on. For you to deny someone equality for such reason just shows how naive you really are. Your argument counts against every marriage that doesn't seek children. Sexuality has nothing to do with it. If you want to use [i]"evolution"[/i] as an argument against marriage. Let's deny everyone who has a genetic defect in their family the right to marriage. Come on people. We live in a society that's meant to be free and we have people constantly trying to deny it to a certain group because of bigotry. To the religious folks, When these oppressed people have had enough and the fires start, I am gonna bust out the marshmallows. To all you religious swingers out there that defend this non-sense, you better believe if some church was trying to deny me marriage to the love of my life, I would cook me some churches. Give me liberty or give me death. That's my motto. Fuck any motherfucker trying to oppress that which many have died to give me, my freedom. Take your bible and jam it in your fuckin colon. Some of you might say, "Delete this post! It's offensive" or "Get TR out of this site, I am tired of the offensive posts". Let me just say this. This subject offends me. What you are saying to gay people is offensive. I can't believe after the advances in civil rights we've overcome in the last 1/2 century, we're still dealing with bigotry to the point where bigots have the majority to pass bigoted laws. Where does that majority originate??? The Christian Church. The only difference between these fools and radical islam is that the oppressed in the Middle East fight back. Here we let it happen. I say get this shit calling itself Judeao/Christianity out of our government and public for good! Secularity will give equality to everyone. GAWUD has no place in government. Free wrote: [i]"Although a political subject we can all learn that tolerance is a virtue not all of us have. Same sex marriage is a way for people to stand together with some one they love. Whether physical or emotional. Same sex marriage is not an emotional problem but is in fact a legal problem to many. Our courts, family services are clogged with cases for hetero marriage problems, and now add same sex marriage to the quotion. The average divorce with children involved can take up to 14 months to conclude. If you add same sex marriage that would stretch that to almost 24 months and bring issues the courts are not prepared to handle. I know you all want to attack religion but this is only a small portion of those that object too same sex marriage. Gay couples can adopt although more diffacult it does happen, can a partner recieve money if his/her partner dies? yes they can especially if the child concerned is not of legal age. Marriage is a legal contract not religious, living together and treating one another with respect and love is the moral side of any marriage legal or not. "[/i] [1] Rights to equality shoot down your argument that it would further "clog" the system. Just as saying the same about interracial marriage. Would you deny a black man and white woman marriage based on that same reasoning, if it were still illegal? We somehow managed to take that extra load when it happened. [2] Our government wasn't prepared to handle 9/11 with airport security and we created TSA. I am sure we can handle same-sex marriage. ahaha. I love some of these ludacris arguments. [3] Religion is not a small part of the objection to marriage. Religion is on the forefront. [4] Recieving money for death, isn't the argument. It's equality. Gay people should have the same right to marry the person they choose just as you do, with all rights and priviledges. -D-

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