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Small Towns - - Meh. We say keep it hidden. Ms. Evil and I think it's much more fun that we have a dirty little secret that our neighbors would likely soil their garments if they knew. Most are extremely jealous (a few have even admitted it) when they see us sitting on our porch Sunday mornings in clothing they are encouraged not to wear, sipping our mochas while they drive by on their way to 3 hours of sheer boredom and oppressive indoctrination. It would just be too annoying if EVERYBODY swung (swang? swingded?...need coffee NOW!). I honestly think some of the most insufferable Mormons I know would be just as insufferable if they were swingers as well. Let's keep swinging on the DL and not let all the straights know how much fun it is. [em]Emo_96[/em]

I Have A Question - Poly vs. Open - We have friends in both of those communities and dip in and out of both but don't actually consider either what we have or want. Simply: Swinging is generally, ironically, too casual for us while also having way too many cultural rules (but we fucking love your parties), We also find that while we have fun with and enjoy the company of a lot of swingers, most are culturally pretty different from us. Polyamory, as people play it, is typically far too intense for us and that community also has a lot of cultural strictures and high expectations (but we've had great parties there, too, and have made really close friends, even though we're not into Star Wars 😜). So we look for genuine friends, because that's how it started and that's how it's always been with us. We're as likely to go to coffee than get naked. And our lives are crazy busy, so we don't have a lot of time to give. But we each go out with someone probably once a week. That said, it's not necessarily the same person and actually getting together for a night out, rather than coffee or lunch, probably only happens twice a month each at most. Once a month is more common. We don't really have rules. That's kind of antithetical to how our relationship works in general. Instead, we spend focused time with each other. We go to coffee together once a week. We go to lunch together once a week. And we go out together once a week. We plan that on Saturday over coffee or ok a run. We also talk constantly. We've always been completely open with each other. Having a mutually wanted and understood open relationship makes transparency easy for us. We also like to inevitably introduce anyone were seeing regularly to each other. We also don't pry at all but like to be sure the other person's spouse or primary partner is good and that they're relationship is healthy. It sounds a lot like what people call polyamory except that it stays casual. For that reason, the other people need to realize that's all it will ever be. The flip side to that is making sure we only get involved with grounded and reliable people. We've been doing it long enough that we both have a whole set of friends we might go out with on and off. For us, regardless of their jobs, they're often artistic, musical, literary, dancers, etc..

How often do you think this happens - - In HIS opinion, it is a lot to do with the fact that MANY single men are WAY to agressive...Our experience has been that we have met 2 single men that were ACTUALLY swingers, the rest were simply looking for an easy piece of ass...Boy were they mistaken... Sure, there is some insecurity, but that seems to be less than I initially thought...After reading many of Don's opinions on single men, I think that a lot of others are of the same thought...ALso...there is a lot of the men saying, "If she gets some, I get some" we have actually heard men say that before...We have also had men storm off because there wife was wanted and they were not....but thats a whole other ball of wax.... The topic at hand, they were NOT totally honest with each other...He IS insecure...if he admits to a little insecurity, he is VERY insecure...think about it T4, you're a man, would you tell on yourself on television? HELL NO...No man would...Unless there was HUGE sums of money involved....

asking your swinger friend if you can join them. - - Tell him you would be interested in seeing what might be possible, because you are interested, but that if he is uncomfortable with any potential swing possibilities that you are okay with that and it never needs to be mentioned again. Just be honest about your interest. Fuck trying to be cool and just be honest. He probably needs to know that your friendship is not in jeopardy if he would say no. In the end if his wife is not sexually attracted to you, it may well be a mute point anyway. If she is then who knows. If they enjoy swinging then like most swingers, they probably already know that they enjoy watching each other getting properly fucked. I would rather watch a friend that I already respect and trust having sex with my wife than a stranger. The wife feels the same way when it come to watching me have sex. With all of that said remember that most, not all, but most swinger women, just like vanilla women, only want to have sex with men they are sexually attracted to and that they feel they can trust. If they would not have considered having sex with you, were they not married, in the vanilla world, they would not consider having sex with you in the swinger world either. Swinging women are typically not afraid of going to hell for sex or offending their husbands for having sex. Swinger women typically do not devalue themselves for having strong sexual appetites. So more guys can and do have sex with them because those obstacles to sex are not so apparent, but in the end just because they know that you know that they swing does not mean they want to fuck you. If they want to fuck you it can happen. If they are a secure swinging couple in a healthy relationship and she already knows you, then maybe, all hubby might have to say to her is "you know (Insert your name here) if he was cool in all other respects do think you would be interested in having sex with him?" and if she says, well maybe, then it is a maybe but if she says "Hell yes. Why is he interested?" Then the ball is already rolling and it is up to you to not blow it.

Secret Swingers Club Ogden, UT - Clubs - It’s open to the public, so yes if you meet the dress code and show up you will be accepted in. It isn’t exclusive to LS and there will definitely be a mix of vanilla in there too.

Condoms - To use or not to use? -

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I think this is another preference thing. It is obvious why a fertile couple would want to use latex condoms. However, since condoms do not prevent disease, they only reduce ones chances of contracting certain diseases, I can see why we don't all use them. Not being in a long term monogamous relationship or abstaining from sex, puts you at risk of catching STD's. Since we are all, as swingers, willing to roll the dice to fulfill our fantasies and derive our pleasures, it's safe to say that some of us are willing to "up the stakes". We, TR, prefer using them, but feel that our odds are still pretty good of contracting certain diseases, namely HPV, even if we do use them. What amazes us is the amount of people that still put 100% faith in condoms. We'll continue taking everything with a large grain of salt. Especially any information coming from the medical world. Afterall the CDC, FDA and Big Pharm have all been so forthcoming, upfront and honest with us. I never fully trust anyone that has financial interest. The bottom line is that, as swingers, we are all adding to the spread of disease by sharing multiple partners. Those that refrain from condom usage are just choosing a better sensation and orgasm over their safety.
-Don-

Swingers dying out? - Is the utah swinger community dying or becoming to needy? - well as far as the chat room goes.. since the notification bar at the top doesnt show how many are in there anymore, always says zero, may be a contributing factor to the room being empty all the time. noone knows if anyone is there or not.

Swingers In Uniform - Pay your memorial day respects here. - to all those out there, after spending 11 yrs in the corps, and serving in the last Gulf war, kudo's to all of those serving and to all of you supporting them. To mr DON Juan go jerk off and die

Couples Copulating - How the hell do ya match up? - [b]Well, here's one less way for us folks here in Central Florida to copulate.[/b] http://www.theledger.com/article/20111211/NEWS/111219907/1410?Title=Swingers-Club-Shut-Down-by-Sheriff-s-Detectives

SM's and Bootycall Postings.. - Really guys.. get a clue. - This is Lia...specifically. Single males?...hmm..I've had plenty of single males over the past 5 years who make their pointless attempts at hooking up with me and or my husband in a three way scenario. Granted, I am about as adventurous as you can get. I have no specific problem with the single guy hitting on me, but the drama that tends to wrap itself around me after is just something I don't need or want. I was very into a single guy a couple of years back and he did actually become one of my best friends to this day and is now married, but that, in itself, was riddled in drama created by nosy, big mouthed people who always want to start shit instead of minding their own business. If you decide you like someone for a while and are seen with them more than not, people say you are "exclusive" and try to put false damage on your marital status. Get a life, assholes. So...single males?...Enjoy yourselves...be respectful...and don't get too excited thinking you're every married couples answer to their failed marriage..swingers, when they are stable, are out there for fun. We may want the occasional single, we may not. It's about choice. My choice, at this time, is to refrain from said single guy, lol...but kudos to those of you "gettin some"...it's all in fun. Or at least it's supposed to be.