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Invatation to swingers. - open letter against Dr. Phil - Who gives a rats ass what they say, Live and let live
Church Swingers, are they out there? - - Quick question from a Non-religious type... What does church and swinging have to do with eachother? Is it a fetish? Are you looking for other swingers with similar interests in the church? If you are Christian, isn't this considered hypocracy? Why is church even a factor in your swinging sex life, other than to forbid it? I am in no way passing judgement. I am only curious. I am just a little perplexed as to the relation of the two. I ask this with the upmost respect for your personal decisions.
-Mr. TR-
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - ok now im thinking of Don with a bottle..... LOL bend over hun take it like a man....
Host/hostess Party Rules? - - We have not been to a house party with more than 6 people attending (those were really more dinner parties followed by sex or just a play date) for probably more than two years. Some of the aforementioned social events were in our home. We prefer candle light having a nice meal and just a bit of alcohol as in no body getting really drunk and then moving into the bedroom. We have been to a number of larger house parties in the past but really stopped going to them years and years ago with exception of an occasional party held in Happy Valley by a host that has mastered the art of keeping his (Oh my gosh he is a single male) guest happy and for some reason at his parties nothing ever seems to happen that would make you feel like not coming back. What does happen makes you feel like cumming and cumming and cumming which we and others do when we attend. He should be charging at least a nominal laundry fee. Here again we have never ever had to contend with anyone either pushy or obnoxiously drunk (The two often do go hand in hand) in his home. He is a busy guy so he does not hold parties very often.
The dude, who knows who he is can speak up if he likes. We are not going to reveal his name but he perhaps should write a booklet or maybe it would be a book on the art of throwing a successful swingers house party and or preparing a guest list. We would suggest he sell it online for $19.95 until Oprah endorses it and Random House makes an offer.
Affair Match - -
To whom it may concern,
I think we swingers have no right to make moral judgments. After all, we are not following what the majority of our society deems morally sound. I do not agree with cheating either, but who am I to judge. All of you may not agree with me. I'll bet my life that many of your families, friends, employers and churches would not agree with your lifestyle choices. Who are we to judge?
Think of it this way. It's a given that many of you partake in the marijuana plant. This is a violation of criminal and moral law. Yet many many people here proudly boasted this fact in the D&D forum. So much so, that they mistook my posts as anti-marijuana, when I said that I didn't want it around me because of my occupation (military). I highly doubt that if Rob were to post a link to a Caf
Friend collectors or swingers - - Our post was not intended to offend anyone . Just because we chose to operate our account/profile differently then others does not make anyone more right or wrong.
The purpose of our post was to try and develop some knowledge as to why some chose to operate differently. We understand that because our profile doesn’t show our faces, that means a friend request is necessary to determine attraction by exchanging pictures. We do this ourselves, all the time. But we also immediately delete accounts and typically inform those interested if we are not interested.
It sounds like we are complaining but in reality we really aren’t. We just wanted to establish conversation and understanding.
We have received a lot of friend request because of this post and we appreciate all of them but we are selective as well and we will not accept all of the request if we are not interested.
I hope we continue to discuss this issue as we look forward to hearing other thoughts, ideas and suggestions.
swingin - thought this site was a swingers site - Yea,..... well um.....
Handling aging and lifestyles - How do you handle getting older? - [quote=HYM4CYN]Something none of us can control at present is growing older. For most of us, getting older means physical and some mental changes. These changes have a tendency to make us less desirable especially to the younger crowds, yet the minds of the maturing swingers still feel the need for participation along with the attraction for others. So, the questions are: How do you handle getting older and finding yourself less attractive to others and less involved. And, what are your age boundaries, if any. The youngest you will participate with and the oldest you will friend and why. We have our own opinions, we will express later, but we would like to see what others think.[/quote]
We have no age boundaries, when we were in our 20's we would play with people up to their 60's. Now that we are in our 40's, we play with couples in their 20's occasionally. We had played with couples younger than our youngest kid lol. Our secret? If a couple does not like us there may be a million reasons for us to worry about it. We had been turned down by older and way less attractive couples than us. We just move on to the next one, stay positive and don't overthink shit.
The Hunt Club of Brevard is in the news - And I thought Utah was a news hog - here read this:
http://randazza.wordpress.com/2008/04/23/hunt-club-swingers-parties-and-freedom-of-association/
totally cool. Yes?
Are we really as judgmental as vanilla people? - - It strikes me that, [i][b]in general[/b][/i], people fall into one of two groups:
A. Those interested in the total social experience the lifestyle offers (multi-faceted).
B. Those interested primarily in sex (very goal-specific).
The number of people in group B is considerable. 'B' folks are much more likely to hold appearance and physical desirability as the only criteria for evaluating playmates. 'A' folks are more interested in the total package.
I don't think it's necessarily right to fault those in group B for their limited interest in people beyond their sexual skills and desirability. How they conduct themselves is another story, however.
Immaturity has been mentioned. Selfishness and poor social skills also surely come into play. Society in general continues to become more and more hooked on instant gratification, leaving little room for concern for others.
This issue is reflective of society in general. Those in the lifestyle are, in fact, just a microcosm of the bigger picture, as previously pointed out. Does anyone really think swingers are any different? If anything, they are a subgroup [i][b]even more[/b][/i] into instant gratification and seeking only specifically what they want.
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