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courtesy - dates and communication - When we started swinging there was no internet....not like today where it takes a few seconds to find someone you want to fuck and shoot off an email or a friend request. We had to find a magazine with ads for swingers (at an adult book store), write a letter, probably include a Polaroid pic with the letter and mail it and wait for a reply...which didn't always come. So I guess we kind of were conditioned to not really worry about it too much especially once internet swinging happened and it didn't take so much work to reach out. Now it takes so little effort to contact potential playmates that many people often spam out large numbers of emails in a shotgun approach or do the same with friend requests. We've, sadly, gotten to the point in our swinging career where we DON'T respond to blind friend requests or emails that are obviously sent to multiple people (no mention specifically of us or our profile). We used to respond but found that at least half the time we then got no response in return so we assumed the senders got a BBD (bigger, better deal) and were no longer interested. We really don't get our panties in a wad over it. I kind of look at it like an unsolicited spam email from someone wanting to clean my carpets. I really don't feel a great need to respond even though it would be the POLITE thing to do. Although I am seriously considering writing back to that Nigerian prince who wants to give me a million bucks. [em]Emo_67[/em] That said, blowing someone off after making plans to meet is a douchecopter move and (barring a REALLY good excuse proffered in a timely manner) will quckly get someone on our permanent no fly list. Yup, we're assholes that way. [em]Emo_84[/em]

40i-ish couples - - Mormon swingers are the WORST! Garments always gettin' tangled up in yer naughty bits and such. [em]Emo_82[/em]

Habits tonight? - - It's a public dance club that swingers occasionally frequent, It's not a club for swingers . It has it's fair share of aggressive single guys if that's what you looking for !

Lingo - - AC/DC Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity; Bi; Bisexual. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ALL CULTURES Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities (see CULTURE) AMERICAN CULTURE Man on top, the missionary position. ANAL SEX Anal intercourse; see Greek, Greek Culture. ANALINGUS Oral contact or stimulation of the anus of one partner by kissing, licking, or sucking of the other. ANIMAL TRAINING Sexual activity with animals, usually dogs and women; Bestiality ARTS Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures B&D or B/D Bondage and discipline; use of various methods to restrain someone while administering discipline, usually done by a "master" to his/her "slave". (see BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE) BBW Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their ideal weight, but are still very attractive. BHM Big Handsome Man; Referring to men that may not be their ideal weight, but are still very handsome. BESTIALITY (see ANIMAL TRAINING) BI Bisexual: Versatile(see AC/DC) BI-CURIOUS A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities. BIZARRE Unusual sexual desires BONDAGE A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive." CAN ENTERTAIN Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging. CAN TRAVEL Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. CANING A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood. CHEATING Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and/or consent. CLEAN Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases. CLOSED DOOR (see CLOSED SWINGING) CLOSED SWINGING Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms, usually in the same house. Provides a maximum of privacy. CLOSET SWINGER A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger. (see DISCREET) COUPLE In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes. CPL (see COUPLE) CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband who's wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CULTURE Euphemism for Fetish or Arts. CUNNILINGUS Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth (see FRENCH CULTURE) DILDO An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus. DIRECTOR The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a Manager. DISCIPLINE A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings. DISCREET OR DISCRETION Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity. DOCILE Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE). DOMESTIC TRAINING Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature. DOMINANT A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner. ENGLISH CULTURE: Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning ENTERTAIN (see CAN ENTERTAIN) EXHIBITIONIST Behaviour in which an individual experiences sexual arousal or pleasure from displaying his/her body. Enjoys being watched. F Female FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FRENCH CULTURE: Oral-genital sexual activity; see Fellatio, Cuntilingus FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GAY A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian. GBM Gay Black Male GENEROUS Refers to money for sex. GREEK CULTURE: Anal-penile intercourse GROUP ROOM Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US (see MATROOM). GROUP SEX Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people. GWM Gay White Male HARD CORE A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected. HARD SWINGING (see HARD CORE) HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French) HEDONIST Someone who lives for pleasure. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY) HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HUNG Refers to a man with a large penis. HWP Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal body weight. INDOOR Swinging activities in general INDOOR SPORTS (See INDOOR) INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values. IRL In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat ISO In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female LEATHER A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing or touching of leather or leather garments. LESBIAN A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. (see GAY) LTR Long Term Relationship MARITAL AIDS Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others. MASTER/SLAVE Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE) MATROOM Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see GROUP ROOM). MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. (see THREESOME, TRIAD) MORESOMES More than three people in a swinging interaction. (see GROUP SEX) MBC Married Black Couple MBiC Married Bisexual Couple MWC Married White Couple NASCA The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research. NEWCOMERS New people in swinging; First-timers. NONSMOKER Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes. OFF-PREMISE No swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and make your own arrangements. Great for newcomers. OPEN DOOR (see OPEN SWINGING) OPEN SWINGING A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room. A minimum of privacy. ORAL-GENITAL (see FRENCH, CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD) ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; Complete abscence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PARTY Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PARTY HOUSE (Western US) A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. PASSIVE Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging. (see DISCIPLINE) PHOTO Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. P/P Photo and phone number (used in personal ads). PRO Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts. RECREATIONAL SWINGER A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion; not interested in forming any long term friendship or emotional attachment. RESTRAINT Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments. ROMAN Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (see ROMAN CULTURE) ROMAN CULTURE: Sexual orgies RUBBER Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SAFE Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy; Naturally or surgically sterile. S.A.S.E. Self-addressed stamped envelope. SBF Single Black Female SBiF Single Bisexual Female SBM Single Black Male SGL (see SINGLE) S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). SINGLE A swinger without a partner, does not refer to marital status. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social. SOCIAL SWING CLUB A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important. SODOMY Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either an opposite sex or same sex partner. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who only have intercourse with their own partner. No swapping for intercourse. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples some type of soft-swinging. (see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE). SRS Same Room Sex (see SOFT SWINGING). STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STR or STR8 (see STRAIGHT) STRAIGHT Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or A person who does not use drugs; also used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive) SWAPPING Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity. SWEDISH CULTURE: Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another SWF Single White Female SWING MAGAZINE A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved. SWINGING LIFESTYLE Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships. SWINGING MARRIAGE Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals. SWM Single White Male TAN Tested Antibody Negative for HIV virus(AIDS) THREESOME Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. (see Menage a Trois) TICKET A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing. TOYS Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS) TRANSEXUAL Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender to another through surgery and hormone treatments; or one who is in the process of gender conversion TRANSVESTITE A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex; not necessarily homosexual. TRAVEL (see CAN TRAVEL) TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD) TUBAL LIGATION Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VASECTOMY Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to artificially sterilize a male. VERSATILE Bisexual. (see AC/DC) VIBRATOR Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Sexual gratification by watching or peeping at others engaged in sexual activity. WAY-OUTS/ WEIRDOS Those people interested in activities usually considered by the majority to be bizarre, kinky, unusual, or unconventional. Hope this helps :)_

Main picture is a body part....why? - - I agree, CYNANDHIM. It's all about choice. We are all on a swingers site, let's remember. Don't know why anyone would be offended by any pic. If you feel like advertising your dick or your ass in order to lure playmates, then that is a personal choice. Whatever floats your boat!

DON JAUN IDIOT-E - - Figures you would respond with a quote from a left wing nut job that writes for the huffington post, I am sure if we cross referenced most of your material you have posted, we would find it is copied and pasted directly from that site as most of your posts have lacked a single spark of original thought. You have no respect for anybodies ideas besides the ones you steal from other people (If you had your own, then we could afford you some respect) Comparing Abu Ghraib and Guantanamo to Nazi concentration camps!?! Are you really that dim? Hmm lets compare shall we....and I will try and use small words so you can keep up mmmkay? Concentration Camps - Used to round up NON-COMBATANT CIVILIANS TO EXECUTE THEM AND DO WAR MUNITIONS TESTING ON SAID CIVILIANS AND TORTURE OF GROTESQUE AND HORRIFIC NATURE ON THESE SAME CIVILIANS AG and Gitmo - Housing ENEMY COMBATANTS who were actively trying to kill Americans and there own people......no mass executions, torture is.....umm hot chicks with low cut blouses (where do i sign up) Women with leather leashes ordering men around (there are some guys and girls on this site who are waaaaay into that) Oh and the other torture - having NO RESPECT FOR THEIR RELIGION OR IDEAS wow that sounds like YOU!! Your stupid little poster even makes the distinction pretty clear.....rounded up everybody, killed the men and most likely the women and children too. The news would have a field day if we had kids and women civies in either of these places. Can you follow that or is that too much for you to take in one day? So, little Mr. Troll. Go back to your huffy post and jerk off to the pics of Noam Chomsky that you have plastered around miserable art deco apartment that has cardboard boxes for nightstands, and dream about the girls who left your whiney ass for real men with original ideas. Good luck on this site with no pics and a profile that reads like a guy who took two years of philosophy at Berkley but never graduated because tuition was more expensive than your job at the coffee shop paid. You wanna come talk to me about politics and the hard decisions in life? Bring it punk, but lets go to a different site, and don't bother posting your weak ass copied and pasted rip offs from other sites, I always welcome and honest debate from people who have real thoughts not just puking up what they read elsewhere. The fun part is, you are on a swingers site getting a hard on thinking you are getting under somebodies skin......I hate to break it to you, you have not gotten under mine, in fact this is quite cathartic for me as I have wanted to pipe up on many of your posts but did not want to dignify any of the imbecilic ctrl+v submissions you have had....but since you decided to take MY post front and center, which is my objective anyhow to keep yours down...works great, thanks for the help. (BTW, if you need me to define any of the words let me know......I typed it r e a l s l o w s o y o u c o u l d f o l l o w i t e a s i e r. )

flintstones swingers ? yes or no - - I have had people say I look like Fred. Any Bettys out there?

Swingular New Logo !!! Are We Devil Worshipers !? - Who would put demon horns on a Swingers Logo :( - I just interpeted the horns to meen naughty.........

Elusive FMF - Your thoughts? - Hello All! Forgive the long post - but I simply wanted to respond to what VP stated SO well. Posted by VP: Here's a question: Is it that a single swinging female is all that elusive, or is it just more likely that a woman who's secure enough in who she is to have a liberated lifestyle is probably more likely to have a boyfriend / husband? Thus making it a simple fact of life and society that the whole concept of a liberated single female is for the most part a myth or at best a temporary state. Guys are programmed to be tomcats. There comes a time when "every boy must become a man". But little girls are taught that "sex is something only for your husband". Society accepts single males prowling about generally - that's why when a single guy get shat upon in a swingers site, the resultant wailing bears striking resemblance to a chorus of whining mules. They don't get it: "They don't like me? Why? I'm hot..." Now if a woman were to go out there looking for it, then she's branded a home-wrecker, "slut", "whore", or worse. Tell me you'd sign up for that cruise? IMHO: I think when a couple starts kvetching about the lack of single females, they might do well to have a look at why it is that they want just a woman and not her S/O. Chances are, deep down those same paradigms that are causing the lack of single females are deeply rooted in their own attitudes. ---------- From the "not so elusive" Te: From my perspective I would have to agree with these statements wholeheartedly. I

Pictures - real or not - A nude photo doesn't make you a swinger! If that's even you in the pic! - SWMTCPL wrote: It's interesting what folks post as a picture. I'm sorry - but having photos of your wedding posted on a swing site seems like you couldn't find anything else better or more interesting to post? Or a photo of a very sexy woman - in fact so sexy she looks right out of a magazine yet the picture of the husband shows him taking a picture of himself in a mirror? Someone mentioned this in a prior post - but if you're going to post a picture - you should have at least one or two pictures showing you with someone else. At least then there is some credibility to you are who you say you are. I wonder how many photos of wives, girlfriends, neighbors or complete strangers are posted here on Swingular and they don't have a clue they are. I would bet MANY. More and more single men are being discovered in here posing as a couple every day and you wonder whose photo they used for their wife. We would encourage the Swingular webmaster to verify every photo - either by voice contact - or by video/webcam. It may be very time consuming - but it's the only way we know of to weed out the fakes. If anyone has any better ideas - let's hear from you. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ It is logistically impossible for them to do that right now. The staff consists of only the site owner. It's easy to verify these people. CAM UP with them. If the refuse to cam with an excuse like, "we can't afford to buy one" or "we haven't purchased one yet", then you simply reply, "Contact us when you can/do". You'll never "weed out" all the scam artists. The trick is stick to the verified couples. There is less of a chance of fraudulent profiles. Notice that I said less. There is always going to be a way of circumventing security. It is up to you, the swinger, to guard yourself against possible bogus couples by not just relying on their pics alone. Pictures are not the only means of verification. The webcam is actually better. As far as your comment about which picture you post, that should be entirely up to you. I think you should post honest pictures that give you the best result. My public pics highlight my wife more because she's hot and draws more attention. My private pictures show us playing and in intimate poses. Honesty is the key. If your wedding pic shows you both, then it's fine. If the couple refuses more than a wedding pic and text, then don't go there. It's still in your power to refuse a meeting or the time of day. Getting a "REAL" or "VIP" verification stamp on your profile with help prove your validity. If you are still leary or paranoid because of the .001% of the people on here that have slipped past the security measures, then maybe you should not use this method of meeting other swingers. That would be more logistical feasible than checking every photo posted by the hundreds of thousands of members. How would you do that anyway? Sorry if that sounds harsh. Just a thought.... -TR- P.S. Guess I shoulda read your post VALENCEPARADIGM. I was repeating you lol. Well said brutha.

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