Swingular

Bendersville Swingers in Pennsylvania

Bendersville Swingers

If you are looking for Swingers in Bendersville, PA, then Swingular is the place for you. We have hundreds of thousands of swingers all over Bendersville looking to meet new people. Here is a list of 16 random Swingers within 100 miles of Bendersville, PA. To see more or to contact these members, click here to create a free account.

Bendersville Threesomes Bendersville Menage A Trois Bendersville Group Sex Bendersville Foursomes Bendersville Bi-Female Bendersville BBW Bendersville Gang Bang Bendersville MMF Bendersville MFM Bendersville Personals Bendersville Ads Bendersville Photos Bendersville Girl on Girl Bendersville Nudists Bendersville Exhibitionists Bendersville Voyeurs Bendersville Exhibitionists Bendersville Voyeurs

Bendersville, Pennsylvania Swingers can be found on Swingular. It's easy to find others using our advanced search technology. We base our search by zipcode so you will see how far each member is away from you by miles. You can search locally or you can search by state or zipcode as well. We have thousands of members from Bendersville, Pennsylvania so you have a very good chance that you will meet someone to your liking. We also have a booty call feature so you can post a booty call for quick response. Create your free account today and begin hooking up with Bendersville Swingers right away!

How long do you wait before meeting someone. - - I have developed a litmus test with respect to potential swing friends that contact me online. If someone wants to play, but refuses or balks about meeting you first in person, fully clothed, with no sex involved, at a restaurant or lounge just to chat, there is something wrong with them. Experienced, functional swingers know that a "Meet and Greet" is an essential prerequisite to a successful swing relationship.

Bad campers? - - I the male half have had enough of this crap and i am starting a bill to have drinking campgrounds and family camp grounds and to outlaw intox and noise after 11pm in family campgrounds . put the party's far away from the family's. And i want everyone to join in on this one and work as a team on a issue we as swingers can take part in and change and make it better for all of us . or is this to much to ask?

This is F**ked Up! - You might want to Lock up your Self Made Swinger Sex Tapes after this! - [url=http://www.slate.com/id/2269153?wpisrc=obinsite]Swinger Artricle[/url] Bob & Carol & Ted & Malice My parents' swinger friends are trying to blackmail our family after Mom and Dad's tragic deaths. When my brother and I were children, our parents were friends with another married couple, "Bob" and "Helen." Bob and Helen were frequent guests, and the two couples often traveled together. In my early teens, my family moved across the country, and Bob and Helen disappeared from our lives. Years passed. Last month, my parents were killed in a car accident. At the funeral, I was approached by an older couple who identified themselves as Bob and Helen. They asked if my brother and I would have dinner with them before they left. At the end of the meal, Helen revealed that she and Bob were swingers, and my parents had been their partners! She went on to say they'd had a falling out, and my parents had moved us across the country and cut off contact. She said they felt very parental toward us and wanted to be involved in our lives. My brother and I babbled something and fled. They contacted me a few days later, and I politely told them neither one of us wants further contact. Bob got very hateful and said that my parents had filmed several "sessions" of the four of them, and if my brother and I didn't turn over the footage, we'd regret it. Bob has since been hounding my brother and me by phone and mail, threatening to let anyone who will listen know of our parents' history with them unless we comply. Is this a matter for the police, or would they laugh us out the door? The prospect of cleaning out my parents' home has gotten even bleaker, as I fear what every old VHS tape may hold. Then there's the larger issue, which is trying to fathom how my parents lived this life for so many years. Help, please!

Polyamory/ Polyandry - Info - [quote=PLEASE27][quote=DELICIOUSLYWET]I think I came off too negative. Finding the right person or persons in the case of polyamory has a lot to do with becoming the right person and that is within most peoples power. So why the hell not?  [/quote] Personally I think it is opening yourself to the universe and accepting/ giving love. I have found that so many, including myself, fight againist natural feelings because it is "frowned" upon in society.... Case in point, 1/2 the swingers I know didn't just "jump in" with both feet but once they "let it be and flow" they are much happier. I know I have held back my nature because it might be "scary" or "to intense" for men which has had me go the complete opposite way in which I deny all feelings. And I completely agree, if you fall in love you fall in love, you cannot make someone love you. But your love for another person should not be conditional on them loving you back. [/quote] We agree. To love is a reward all it's own. In the end true lovers always end up loving themselves more and understanding themselves more too because of all the insights they gain through their deep considerations and appreciations of those they love.

Destiny's July 29th Trio Birthday Bash Basement Party - On-premise swingers basement party at Destiny's Basement - DESTINY'S PRIVATE DANCE SOCIAL 865-898-8098 (cell) 865-856-5784 (Destiny's Number) Party Hours: 8pm until 2am Hosts: Tammy Williams Jeff Williams http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinyssocials/index.html http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinytw39/index.html http://www.swingular.com/JEFFANDTAMMY/ http://www.hometown.aol.com/tenaseestripper/myhomepage/profile.html http://adultfriendfinder.com/go/p49785c http://157159525.home.icq.com/destinys%20party%20services.html Hello All Guests, For this Saturday night, we're going to be celebrating some birthdays for some of the members, and hope you can cum and enjoy the fun and games with the birthday members. Two are female, so any guys willing to give some strip dances...fell free to.....and then we have one male that needs some attention too from the ladies...so cum on and have a ball with the rest of us. The party starts up at 8pm and goes until we can't party anymore. If you like to camp-out...I have a big back yard, so you're welcome to use it. If you need directions...you can google it...but the roads to remember are: Hwy 411 to Thompson Bridge Road..to Nine Mile Road...to Williamson Chapel Road...1028 Willliamson Chapel Road, Maryville, Tenn., 37801...turn in second gravel driveway please, and enter at the basement door. Happy Birthday goes out to Kelly tonight.....and Chip and Sandy was on July 18th, but were under the weather...but hopefully they're ready to make up for lost time.....lol........HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ALL. Take Care, Play Safe, and Enjoy Life. Your friend and hostess, Tammy Have a great night, Tammy PS.....Directions to new house in Maryville. 1028 Williamson Chapel Road, Maryville, Tn., 37801 From Knoxville: Take 1-40 to Alcoa Hwy. South towards Maryville Take Alcoa Hwy. and turn right at the split, towards Maryville-Fontana to 411 South Take 411 South for about 11 miles from (Foothills Mall) towards Greenback Look for Thompson Bridge Road on your left, after passing Loudon County sign (on right side of road) and turn LEFT onto Thompson Bridge Road, just past the Gymnastics Building and a closed fireworks stand, also on your left side of Hwy. Go 1.3 miles and turn left onto Nine Mile Road (look for a small white metal sign with "Wiiliamson Chapel Church" directly across from the road you turn left on.) Go 0.2 miles and turn right onto Williamson Chapel Road The Blue vinyl and red brick house is on your right, with two gravel driveways, with 1028 on the black mailbox. There is also a wire fence around the yard. Pull into the 2nd driveway, we have plenty of parking in the back, and Jesse will show you where to park. I will have a sign with "Destiny" that will be hanging from the mailbox. I'll have both my phones near, if anyone needs help getting to the house. From Athens, Chattanooga, Sweetwater, etc.. Take 1-75 North to Hwy. 411 North You can take Hwy. 68 from the intertstate or Hwy 72. to get to Hwy. 411 After coming into Greenback, go PAST Citigo gas station towards Maryviile You'll see the 55 speed limit sign....get ready to turn right. Turn right onto first road you come to........Thompson Bridge Road Go 1.3 miles and turn left onto Nine Mile Road, which is after you go around a sharp curve, also veering to the left. They will be a small metal sign with "Williamson Chapel Church" on it, directly across from Nine Mile Road. Go .02 miles and turn right onto Williamson Chapel Road Go over hill, around curve, and at the top of the hill, the house is on your right, with two gravel driveways, for parking in back.

Going a new direction! - Let's get some testimonials. - As a single male I can say that Swinguler is the ONLY swingers website that has treated me with respect and I have never gotten negative responses from members.

single males - - Thank you for opening the topic. I hope that it will be used shed some insight and not just complain. In a place like Habits there are vanilla singles that have no clue that swingers congregate there. So there will naturally be more problem in that environment than a private party. At a house party the only people that should be there are those that are invited by the host and hostess. Every one of the guests should have known the rules or etiquette of this lifestyle. If you had complaints, they should have been addressed last night with the hosts. Evidently the balance you were looking for was not there. Sadly it is difficult for most singles to figure out how to talk to a swinging couple. There are no schools or training centers to teach this. As a single male, conversation at a vanilla party with a couple is much easier. Most often the men and women separate and we talk with one or the other without expectations on either side. Sometimes conversation is just conversation. I find that making friends is generally more difficult in this lifestyle because of the sexual expectations of many. I think that you will find a number of the single men, after getting the cold shoulder from many husbands, find it easier to attempt to talk to the women because they lack the skills to talk with both. It is a mistake but it is also part of the learning process. There is no excuse for rude behavior on the part of the single male but neither is there an excuse for the typical married male attitude. Single males are always and have always been a pariah and dam few couples want them at any party. I came into this lifestyle as a single male looking to make male friends to hang with that would help me understand the rules. I found most of the males were cold and suspicious and difficult to talk with. I was not looking for women to play with nearly as much as I was looking for a girlfriend that was already in the lifestyle. But I am sure that as far as most were concerned all I wanted to find was their wife

Professional carpet cleaning - Great deals for swingers - hey those trade offers are reserved for poolboys fucking carpet cleaners are always creepy or mexiquen lol

Why are single guys being band from all the upcoming parties? - Did some clown out there mess it up for all single males? - Our group, (Tampa Bay Lifestylers), has a handful of single males. They are a select few. These guys are known around the area as decent respectable guys. They know how to work a room without "COCK BLOCKING" or pissing in anyone's corn flakes because they pay attention to the room. Most are smart enough to sort of lay back and watch. They know that all the couples or single women that ARE looking for a SM to join in will ask (if they don't already know), if there are SM's there. Our group does not play on the premise that (I AM GETTING LAID NO MATTER WHAT), and the guys know this. So none of these guys feel the need to push anyone. They also realize there will be more parties and that everyone is comfortable with them at a party they will be invited back again and again.. There are WAY more BI women in the lifestyle and this usually means that married guys are more likely to stand there. This makes for even less room for single men as well. COUPLES, (Which is where SWINGING came from), are more frequently looking for additional WOMEN to join in, thus brings in the single woman. Yes, there are the peeps looking for a single man to join or just take the wife away for play alone, but it is far less frequent. Therefore most groups and clubs are allowing all single women and only a few single men.. I have also heard couples talking about removing SM all together from parties and clubs. My thoughts are simple but controversial. I think SWINGING is a COUPLES thing. All singles are just dating or becoming "SWINGERS" to just plain get laid.. To me, and don't get pissy, if I were a single man and could get away with joining the SWINGER WORLD, I would do it in a minute because most in the lifestyle are in it SOLELY for sex.. Like a drunk working in a bar. Just a note for you single guys. Sit back and watch. Don't be pushy or try to impress women with your job or your possessions. They DON'T give a SHIT about what you do or where you live or your HARLEY. If they are interested in you it is all about your body and your COCK!!! So try laying back and letting them come to you. I know this works VERY VERY WELL for my single male buddy..

Polyamory, Swinging, and the Single Man - - We know a few people that associate with the poly community, as in consider themselves poly and we have been to a few poly pot lucks ourselves. The poly people we know are all very nice people. None of the people we actually know that that consider themselves poly have ever actually been in a long term full on poly relationship as in everyone involved ending up equally as committed to each other and the relationship. We have known people where a married couple, with a bisexual wife had a live in relationship with a bisexual woman but in the end it did not last very long and the couple and the woman went their separate ways and we have know a few couples that have been in exclusive relationships with another couple where part of the equation wanted to basically make it as permanent as their primary relationship and part of the equation did not. Relationships with commitments, especially those that are the most rewarding are life altering and if you are not really, all in, heart and soul the advanced level of commitment and the corresponding obligations will eventually become a burden you may be unwilling to bear. If what is looking for as an individual is deep passionate friendships without expectations and obligations, that you feel reduce your freedom, then a poly relationship and marriage may not be in their best interest. There is nothing wrong with that. If a deeply pair bonded couple wants the freedom to enjoy deep and passionate friendships with others, including sex, without the same level of obligation and expectation they offer one to another then are they poly or are they swingers? Probably more swingers than truly poly-amorous or maybe they are poly light or swinger intense. The secret may be to figure out who you are and then be true to yourself. A lack of understanding of self can lead to disappointments in relationships. Intentionally misrepresenting or misleading someone for sex rarely and probably never ends up all good. We all on occasion may unintentionally end up misleading someone when we try and be what we think others wants us to be and in the end we just do not have it in us. We can say for a certainty that we are not poly in the truest sense of the word or really even poly light. Our relationship as a couple is paramount and we willfully and joyfully commit to all the obligations and commitments and even the disagreements that accompany living our lives together and with our progeny. We both inherited genes that seem to have targeted both of us to seek out a life long partner, have and raise a family and to express ourselves sexually mostly together as a couple. We have been in a couple of longer than usual not really exclusive relationships where we were seeing the same people pretty much weekly. We discovered that we are okay with having good friends with sexual benefits but the ability or the desire to be in a poly relationship is just not within either one of us. Self discovery and relationships often requires a bit of experimentation and a lot of self examination. Affiliating and seeking to self identify with a group to achieve acceptance friendship and sex is pretty common and pretty normal. Many of the people we know that self identify as poly are not unwilling to enjoy a little sex for sex sake between friends so long as they understand that is all that is happening. Good luck and have fun!

© Copyright 2001–2017 Swingular, an SB Entertainment Company.