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BUSTED! Your Kids Found Out Your Swingers. Now What? - - IMO, you wouldn't explain yourself about your monogamous "vanilla" sex life or activities, so why would you about this?
The subject of this thread was about your kids finding out. I'm not sure what age group of kids we're talking about and that can make a big difference. If they are adult children, you can simply tell them you are sorry they had to find out about it and regret that it makes them uncomfortable but it is your private life and will leave it there...in private. I think it is wise to reassure them that you will not do anything to embarrass them (start acting differently around them or other family members, etc.) and that nothing between you and them will change. Before they found out you were still the parent they loved and this will continue now.
If they are young children, it can be a little more complicated. The questions aren't just about the lifestyle but also about sex since they are probably learning and curious about the topic in general. But, you could keep it very simple (& age appropriate) and explain that sex is something adults enjoy privately and that if they have any questions about sex (emphasis not on swinging) you will be happy to answer.
If they pursue asking about swinging, I would just share that this is something better explained when they are a little older and that honesty and communication are valued so you will try to be as honest as you can be. However, you don't need to go into detail IMO. Often, kids are looking more for your reaction and some reassurance and aren't quite as concerned with the actual "words". They want to know their world isn't being disrupted.
The rest of your post mentioned family members, etc. Again, you would never feel obligated sit around and discuss the details of a vanilla sex life so it isn't necessary to discuss the details of swinging.
You could share that if someone has a private question they would like to ask they can if that's the kind of relationship you have with them. But, you can also add that you will only do so if comfortable.
I might stress or emphasize that you and your partner have an open and honest relationship that you enjoy together. There are a number of factors that go into enhancing that relationship making it so special and that they've stumbled onto one area that you've incorporated/explored. You appreciate that it might not be for everyone and you wouldn't expect everyone to understand but that you sincerely hope they would also be as considerate to not judge the two of you. I might add that while you've tried to be candid when answering their questions, you only ask in return that they respect your privacy and not share what they've learned or discussed with anyone else. Include them into the agreement by explaining that you will extend to them the same discretion they extend to you.
Who knows...one of them may have been curious about exploring the lifestyle and you might just be that one person they feel comfortable asking about it.
At the same time, people can be very judgemental so protect yourselves. However these family members found out...it could happen again if that avenue hasn't been fixed. I'm sorry this got so long-winded and I could write so much more. Whew!!! Good luck with this!
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - "pecksniffian" lol
I would go break out the scrabble dictionary for that one but you dont want to appear too self righteous.
JIM
Kik group for UT swingers. - Contact me if your interested in joining a KIK group for Swingers - I am interested can you give me some more information on It
Jewellery, logos, etc to identify other swingers - We would like info on websites catering to discreet items to let others "know" we are in the lifestyle - Another site, SDC sends its members a pin with a butterfly and SDC on it. If there is another around we will sure know it. :-)
Swingers in Draper cause Super Dell to speed - - LOL - Good One!
That explains everything!
We knew that there was a reason he was driving like such a maniac!
Very Funny
Thanks for the laugh!
Where do we get those concealed swinger permits?
And we are still trying to find the recuiting office!
lol
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Circumcised or Uncircumcised?? That is the question... - - Sorry, but we didn't know that there are so many (some people would spell it meanny-like in one of the comments) stupid, uneducated and dumb swingers out there. Most of the responses we read here are just dump. Yes, dump. What is it that not circumcised (there is no uncircumsised by the way) guys are not as hygienic as circumcised??? Some people better just shut their mouthes before leaving some really none sophisticated comments about things they just don"t know about. Thank you and all the best for the next presidential election....
Same old questions but still fun! - Bisexual women - [quote=VIRANI]I'm allergic to any girl who pretends to be bi to help her man's fantasy rather than her own. It's cooersive and I end up feeling like I've raped her. Consequently,girl time is an essential part of the process for me. I don't want anyone to be bullied into faking it with me.[/quote]
Good observation as always.
We know there are women that play the part of a bisexual woman, or of a swinger for their man but they were cut from different cloth than Mrs. Delicious. Anyone who knows her can tell you that. Husbands like that were cut from different cloth than Mr. Delicious too. We are not saying that just because Mrs. D is truly bisexual but because playing the part, getting painted into a corner or being bullied in anything, hardly fits into Mrs. Delicious behavioral patterns. We are both allergic to coercion within the lifestyle in any form. Fulfilling a fantasy at the expense of someone else seems less than fulfilling. We politely decline when an email or a profile contains some explanation about one's significant other being unsure and needing some help from us so that they will blossom into full on swingers.
Something to consider - No means no online too. - [quote=11MIKE]Thank god for the block button is all I have to say[/quote]
Yes but we believe that perhaps some swingers learned nothing by being blocked. They will just keep on keeping on until everybody blocks them and think it was all so unfair. We are thinking maybe some swingers need a wake up call.
Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - We do DP often... It is one of my most favorite sexual encounters... Mr Knotty is my "backdoor man" but if we get to know a man very well, he does get to ring the rear bell on occasion once trust has been built...
Where on Earth are all the hot Virginia Swingers? - Show us what you have to offer VA!!! - No pic yet, cuz we Virginians like to take it slow\'n\'easy \'for we git crazy! we too are in the NRV and we can vouch that they make \'em hot here in good ol Virginny!!
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