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Pink flamingo - How many swingers have a pink flamingo in their front yard? - We have pineapples on the trailer and black rings lol
asking your swinger friend if you can join them. - - [quote=USSIR]Well, I have a co-worker that I have been friends with for a while and recently found they are a swingers, it wasn't shocking to me or anything just thought it was interesting. So some time has passed and I thought I wonder if I could join them sexually.
To me it would just be awkward to as him that. Obviously I'm not going to ask him "hey can I bang your wife?"
I don't care if it was both of them or just her, I've always thought she was hot and I consider my co-worker a good friend.
So, how do I ask that and/or is it a bad idea?
Thanks
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As a single male also in this lifestyle who has faced a similar situation my advice would be to just openly talk about the lifestyle, involve both him and his wife in the convo casually over drinks one night when your just hanging out. Basically plant a seed and see if it grows, realistically if they are into the lifestyle and are open to the idea they will invite you, but its best to let them think its their idea to include you. For some couples it just might be out of bounds to include friends into their sexploits.
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - -
Lifetime Member
Location: SALT LAKE CITY, UT
Join Date: Nov 18, 2004
Posted By: XXXTASYX2 Reply posted on:
Jan 8, 2008 - 1:59 pm
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I guess that means if we were hanging out with you, you would be ok with us talking shit about Rednecks.
thats right you can say what u want
we are friends,not just for the good times but also for the bad,
i get pissed of at my we guy and cuss him out and we got over it,,
because we are friends and have been for 2 years
thats what friends are
Tooele swingers party 2 - Doing our second party - Date?
Can you be in love AND swing? If so, tell us how! - - I guess I will make a much stronger response. The lifecoach is full of shit! My wife and I are both on second marriage and the previous ones fell apart because of cheating. It wasn't the sex it was the lies, the betrayal of trust. My wife and I love each other like crazy. Swinging is a recreational activity we could do without if we no longer like it. Even during swinging I am only sharing my wife's body, her heart belongs only to me and vise versa.
We didn't get into swinging to FIX anything. We got into it because we wanted to add to what is already great for us. It was not a replacement for something missing. our premise is making friends and if we have sex fine and if not we have a friend to do things with.
Also if anything swinging made me love my wife even more. Her love and trust for me cannot be affected even by me having sex with others. We have a couple of times swung (if that is the word) separately and she came back to tell me about it and did so with my knowledge that is what she was doing. And of course vise versa. We still trust each other and love each other. Plus while swinging I can see other men, or women, pleasing her and get a view of what she looks like from a different point of view than I have when making love to her.
As others have said, as long as you communicate, don't take things too personal, and maintain trust swinging will be fun and not hurt your relationship.
When I say don't take it personal I mean like one poster said you should be able to say "she give good head" or she is talented. LOL we had been with a guy in a threesome and the guy did something that I have never done and made the wife Cum really fast and hard. When she had recovered she blurt out without thinking "You have GOT to learn how to do that!!!!!"
It kind caught us both off guard but we laugh about it now. She didn't say "I love him more" She said "DAMN he has a technigue that send me through the roof!"
I have learned from the guy how to do it and have used the technique several times. Even if I can't duplicate it so what? She still LOVES what I do to her too. More importantly we still LOVE each other totally.
OK OK I willget off the soapbox. It just ticks me off that people who are supposed to be great at teaching relationships most of the time have relationships that suck yet they can tell you how to do it. BULL. Save the money for the LifeCoach and take a trip with a plane full of swingers and go to HEdonism III. It would be money better spent.
LOL I will quit now.
Las Vegas Swingers club - - You can just show up at Whispers.
New Swingers Club in Utah - Gauging interest in new club - We would definitely attend, although probably only a few times per year since we are in logan. Would like many of the same things already mentioned and feel $25-50 would be an appropriate entrance fee.
Party on the Hill - - Hey all you swingers out there, we are trying to get ideas for adult party games for the party on April 18th,so far plan on the game (Find the Pin ),does anyone know of any ice breaker games that fit in with an adult swing house party? Any one that needs directions email [email protected] or welovlife on swingular,we heard that yahoo site was giving people problems.Hope to see everyone at the party and remember we have 4000sq ft lots of room if you are driving a long way or just party their self out and need to spend the night.
John & Barbara
LOOKING FOR LADIES THAT LIKE TO CAM FOR A JOB - MY SITE IS GOING TO OFFER WEB CAM SERVICE FOR ALL THOSE THAT LIKE TO PUT ON SHOWS - IS IT A SAFE JOB ????
THE SHOWS ARE DONE FROM YOUR HOUSE OR A FRIENDS OR WHEREVER YOU WANT TO SET UP A COMPUTER AND PUT ON A SHOW .
THAT PART HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME .. OR THE SITE ITSELF . U PICK WHERE U WANT TO DO IT FROM .
THE SITE HAS FREE CAM AMOUNG MEMBERS . WE ARE SETTING IT UP WHERE PEOPLE CAN CHOOSE TO DO IT FOR FREE . OR CHARGE .
WHEN WE HAVE IT SET UP SO PEOPLE CAN CHARGE . U CAN STILL DO IT FOR FREE FOR THOSE THAT U WANT TO IF U DID WANT TO GIVE THEM A FREE SHOW . OR U CAN CHARGE WHOEVER THAT WANTS TO WATCH U AND WHO WANTS TO PAY . .
U CAN PUT ON NAUGHTY SHOWS WITH YOU PLAYING WITH A TOY OR PLAYING WITH A SPOUSE OR FRIEND OR U CAN JUST TURN ON YOUR CAM AND LET OR CHARGE PEOPLE TO WATCH U DO ANYTHING . LIKE CLEANING THE HOUSE OR WORKING ON THE COMPUTER OR TRYING ON CLOTHES . WHATEVER U WANT TO SHOW .
THERE IS NO RULES .
THIS IS NOT A CAM WORKING SITE . WHERE WE TELL U WHAT U HAVE TO DO OR NOT DO . . ITS ALL UP TO U ON WHAT U WANT TO DO OR SHOW .
WE ARE JUST OFFERING A SITE TO DO IT OFF OF .
WE DONT PAY YOU ANYTHING . U HAVE TO EARN WHATEVER MONEY BY DOING WHAT U WANT TO THE PEOPLE THAT WANT TO WATCH U . SOME PEOPLE LIKE TO WATCH LADIES CLEAN THE HOUSE OR STUFF LIKE THAT , OR DIRTY CHAT WITH THEM . IF THATS WHAT U WANT TO DO THEN THATS ALL U HAVE TO DO . IF U CAN GET PEOPLE THAT WILL PAY U TO DO THAT THEN GREAT . THERE IS NO HOURS OR ANY RULES ABOUT STUFF THAT U HAVE TO DO OR WHEN .. U CAN JUST TURN ON YOUR CAM AND DO WHAT U WANT TO DO AND WHEN U WANT TO DO IT .
THE ONLY RULES IS NO KIDS ANYWHERE IN VIEW . LIKE IF U ARE A STAY AT HOME MOM DONT TURN ON YOUR CAM TO JUST CLEAN HOUSE IF U HAVE A TODDLER WALKING AROUND OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT .AND NO KINDA OF PLAYING WITH PETS OR CRITTERS . ANYTHING ELSE IS UP TO U .
WHAT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW OR FAMILY MEMBERS COME ON ??????
I CANT CONTROL ANY OF THAT STUFF . CAUSE I DONTKNOW WHO YOUR FRIENDS OF FAMILY MEMBERS ARE . OR WHO U DO WANT TO SEE U OR NOT SEE YOU IN THE LIFE STYLE OR ON A SWINGERS SITE OR ON WEB CAM ...
THE SITE IS OPEN TO ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY THAT WANTS TO JOIN IT AND THEY CAN USE IT FOR THEIR NEEDS AS THEY SEE FIT .
AS FOR YOUR CAMS . WHEN U ARE CHARGING PEOPLE THEN U WILL PICK WHO GETS TO SEE U OR NOT .U HAVE TO OK THEM TO SEE YOU . AND YOU WILL KNOW THEIR SCREEN NAME AND INFO . SO IT WOULD BE UP TO U TO SCREEN WHO U ARE PUTTING ON SHOWS FOR .
AND I THINK IF U HAVE THAT MANY FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS LOOKING FOR STUFF LIKE THAT . THEN MAYBE YALL SHOULD GO INTO BUSSINESS WITH EACH OTHER AND START YOUR OWN SITE WITH CAM AND MAKE LOTS OF MONEY .. HA HA HA
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
Gloryhole - Any glory holes in northern utah? - [quote=CANDV]So from what I've gathered, Habits is a common place for swingers. My girl and I are new to the life style and it seems our schedules never match up with the meet and greats. It is good to know there is a place we can go to when we are free to meet similar people. [/quote]
Yup, it's Swinger Central. The only problem is identifying who's a swinger and who isn't (most don't wear name tags that say, "Hello, My Name is ______ and I'm a SWINGER!"). Be sure to wear your black rings...or carry a pineapple.
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