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Vegas: Swingers circle or couples oasis? - Which do I prefer - hotfire...which club?
swingin - thought this site was a swingers site - TR,
NO i am not on here to hear my self bitch i am tired of u fuck nuts getting on everyone forums and fucking it up due to your two cents that isn't worth shit. to bad when u was leaving the site u did not go through with it i would of paid for u to leave i know it would of save a,lot of headache for everyone that r to chicken to stand up to u and the other computer rambos on the site, if u do not like me postsing THEN FUCK NUT WHY DO U KEEP POSTING ON THE FORUM AND U keep bitching about it, i think U r the one u like to hear himself bitch
dumb ass
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Single Men Meeting Couples - Are Single Men Treated Un Fairly In The Lifestyle - ______________________________________________________________________________
** "Swinging" is just a different word for "swapping" and you can't swap if you bring nothing to the table. **
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NOT. Swinging is absolutely NOT about simply swapping. DON JUAN was absoltely correct. The women are NOT commodities to be traded amongst the men in the clubs and at the parties, but many of you devalue yourselves by assuming that submissive role.
Swinging is about choice. Thats is why the term "lifestyle" was coined in the early 80's; it's a way of life. If a single man is not to be considered a "real" swinger, then single women should not be considered "real" swingers either. What more does a single woman have to bring to the table than a single man? Do you think that these women do not represent the same set of issues that the men do?
The clubs, the parties, the events...these activities are driven by the WOMEN who particpate. The clubs will allow single women in for next to nothing for a couple of good reasons. The first of which is obvios; without a room full of hot women dressed in almost nothing, you would have a room full of nt so hot men, all standing around waiting for the woen to arrive. It would be like a middle school dance. Or a gay club full of str8 men. The second reason is even more simple. They attract MEN who spend MONEY. Single MEN and married MEN alike. The lifestyle is financed by MEN.
MEN who are willing to pay TOP dollar for the chance to meet with couples in the club. And let's face it, the guys who can afford to go on a regular basis are really the ones (if you are interested in single men anyway) that you would want to meet with, unlike a towel shark from the local adult arcade.
MEN who accompany their wives to the club to meet with other couples for the evening. These married men often spend (on average) $200 to $300 in a single night.
WOMEN are the EYE CANDY that keeps the party going. MEN do not want to go to a party that is full of other MEN, but they want to see EYE CANDY. So they are willing to pay to do it.
Mrs. Luvbugs! is a bartender, and a good one at that. She makes more part time than most degreed professionals (including me! humph!) do working full time. Why? She is very attractive. She is outgoing. She knows her stuff. She understands that SEX SELLS, and that her clients are there to see HER as much as drink a jack and coke. I have seen men sit at her bar, stare at her all night, run up a $100 tab, and leave her $30. Thats average...do that 20 to 30 times a night and what do you get? All for the privelege of being served by HER. I wouldnt do it, even if I were single. But then, I dont have to either, so who knows? THEY constitute the LION SHARE of her business, and her livelyhood.
The lifestyle is not different. We need these guys at the clubs. We need them to pay for memberships on our websites. They too are the oil that lubes the machine.
Sorry, but thats how it is.
Luvbugs! (mR.)
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Sexy New Year's Photos - Post up ur sexy NYE or NY pics! - . . . then we were destined to become swingers because . . . I think 'gnome' is the sound my boys made while racing their trucks along the kitchen floor . . . you know . . . gnome . . . gnome .. . . gnoooooooommmmeee!
Be safe - Get vaccinated as soon as you can - Stay sexy in the New Year
Swingers In Uniform - Pay your memorial day respects here. - Good find NUFUNCPL. That was most fitting. DJQ knows nothing of what that quote means... only his survival instinct. He his a coward. To say anymore would be to waste ones time.
D&T
Friend collectors or swingers - - We have a great core group of friends in the SLC area that we love to spend time with when we visit the area. In addition, we have a few more on our friends list that we would eventually like to meet. Actually, we have more pending friend requests (people who didn't send an accompanying email) than profiles on our friends list. We are extremely proficient in meeting others because we are swingers and not friend collectors. We have plenty of vanilla friends on Facebook. Haha!
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - Does this count?
Black Ring, Right Hand - How to tell if someone's a swinger - We have already been approached by swingers that somehow recognized us and knew enough about us to say "Hey aren't you Deliciously Wet, we wanted to say hello" and it was not at a swingers function but the grocery store. This same couple started talking about swingers topics right in front of the produce, which might have stimulated cucumber sales but we felt a bit unsettled. We are not sure that set well with us. So confirming someone's suspicions, by wearing a black ring, that we are who they think we are sort of depends on who recognizes us as swingers and their judgment. We might consider wearing black rings when at a bar or a club or maybe we could put them on if we want to let someone know we are swingers or if we are just feeling it at the moment. Cannot see us wearing one for the Wal-Mart greeter but then we do not shop Wal-Mart but there are a couple of people that check your receipt when you are leaving Costco that are kind of hot so maybe then.
So if you are in a room full of sexy people maybe it would be good to pull them out and say "Oh gee we forgot to put on our black rings, which we wear on our right hands, because that means something special to a special group of people, a wink is as good as nod, my wife is a goer if you know what I mean."
Cuming out of the Swinger closet - - Maybe we're approaching this from the wrong angle. Why exactly do you think you want to tell people you're swingers? Are you friends constantly asking you why you dress like cheap hookers whenever you are "just going out for a drink"? Do they wonder why you drag yourselves home at 5am looking like you lost a fight with a family of rabid raccoons? Do they think it's a little odd that when they walk up to you that SLAM your new laptop shut so hard the screen shatters or fling your new iPhone over the hedge in your yard? Are you tired of making up elaborate excuses to people that would make Jules Verne or Quentin Tarantino blush and say, "WTF?"? Or are you just major horn dogs who think that fucking other people is so fun that you might as well just fuck ALL you friends (and maybe even a few not TOO close relatives) while you're at it? I think answering WHY might give you some insight as to the real reason you think it's anyone's (other than your own) fucking business who you fuck or why you fuck them. [em]Emo_67[/em]
Black Ring, Right Hand - How to tell if someone's a swinger - [quote=DANDDMONTREAL]We bought a pair because we think its a fun idea. And yes, to help meet others. Why not? We enjoy meeting new people. All the better if it makes us more approachable to some.
Neither of us care for the idea of needing to remember to take it on and off so we wear them all the time. Suffice it to say we have been doing it for a while now without incident. They have been mentioned once, by another swinger couple while we were out dancing. And only after we approached them!
I don't personally see the sense in worrying about what others will say or think about such a benign thing. If someone mentions it in public and they aren't tactful it's easy enough to play off. "It's a sourvenir", "it's a gift", "I like it"; there are any number of reasonable explanations. No harm no foul. They can claim whatever meaning they want. It doesn't mean I nor anyone else must agree with it. Conversely, if they any couth then it will show in their approach and we'll likely end up talking about it if it's appropriate for the time.[/quote]
A lot of people secretly wish they could self liberate sexually and socially enough to do some of the things "swingers" do. If they know enough about the Utah swing scene to know why we are wearing a black ring on our right hands then there is a pretty good chance they envy our liberation maybe just a little. I recently had a very LDS middle aged friend who knows we swing tell me when he grows up he wants to be me. We don't flaunt it before our vanilla friends and we are not trying to be spokes persons for swinging but we are really not ashamed of it.
Oh and the rings I bought at Dancing Crane actually fit Mrs. Delicious right hand ring finger so I guess they are not just pinkie rings.
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