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Swingle males. What's in it for you? - - >So are a lot of the chicks in the hookup scene cray cray?
People in general are half-baked critters. The hookup scene tends to silently give desperation a pass, which brings out some odd folk.
>"Copping a pregnancy on the sly" is pretty low. Is it that common?
It's not extremely common, but it happens, and ties into the the desperation remark above. Especially once you're in the mix with people in their late 30's. Shit's no fun at all.
>Also, the "stranger danger and blind sexual incompatibility" seems like it would be more or less >equally as prevalent in the lifestyle.
This isn't my first rodeo. I did the majority of screening when rolling as a couple for several years. There are "off" people in the scene, but word spread fast. Whether they are unstable as a couple, or unstable as a person, they tend to burn out and fade out pretty quickly in my experience.
Sexual incompatibility happens, sure, but the odds are good it won't be a first encounter. Friends first (chat friends at the very least) is how I like things.
>Not to mention STD's stalkers and cheats. What makes you think swingers are inherently more >trustworthy in any given situation?
Please refer to the above. :) It's not necessarily a matter of being more trustworthy. There are plenty of scummy, dishonest, and dangerous swingers. However, the traditionally encouraged rules and boundaries that (what I'm assuming is) the majority of the community acknowledges tend to oust em pretty quickly.
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - ULUV,
Yeah, ya know, I wouldn't take much to heart when it comes to comments from Utah in regard to anything racial...this is about the Whitest State in the US.
I honestly think that a lot of folks feel threatened by Single Males. Perhaps they've forgotten that they've been single? Forgot what that's like, maybe. Or maybe they were never single in this lifestyle. It's a tough crowd for a party of one.
I'm lucky enough to have been a single male in this lifestyle a couple of times. It taught me A LOT! I simply filled a niche and had a blast (and wasn't really lacking play...due to the niche).
And then there's Don...oye. Man, I'll send Ms. K_T over to drill a hole in the bottom of that bottle Don. We'll get it outta there in no time!
-K_T
Swingers - a couples only lifestyle? - Are singles considered to be swingers? - We agree with the Original poster, singles by definition can not by themselves be swingers. swinging has always meant the exchanging or swapping of partners. BTW using wikipedia as a source is a joke.
Thank You and Goodbye - - I JUST WANT TO SAY A FEW THINGS .
FIRST OF ALL I HAVE SPOKEN TO THIS GUY AND HE IS REALLY COOL AND SWEET AND IS ALSO LOOKING FOR FRIENDS AS WELL .AND I HAVE ALSO SPOKEN TO OTHER SINGLE MEN ON THIS SITE AND STUFF THAT I HAVE HEARD OTHERS SAYING TO THSE SINGLE GUYS IS VERY RUDE AND UNCALLED FOR . IT IS ONE THING TO SAY THAT U ARENT LOOKING TO PLAY WITH A SINGLE MAN AND LEAVE IT AT THAT . BUT SOME HAVE GOTTEN VERY RUDE AND IN DETAILS . AND TO ME IT IS JUST SOMEONE ACTING CHILDISH AND HURTING OTHERS FEELINGS . THERE IS A WAY TO SAY NO TAHNKS . AND THERE IS BEING RUDE AND PUSHY AND HATEFUL . AND THERE IS NO REASON FOR THAT IN THE LIFE STYLE .THE LIFE STYLE IS HERE FOR US ALLLLLLLLL TO SHARE . FIND THE ONES U CLICK WITH AND HAVE FUN . BUT THERE IS NO REASON TO BE RUDE TO EACH OTHER . EVERYBODY IS LOOKING FOR DIFFERENT THINGS .
AND IAM THE ONE THAT SAID I HAVE MORE PROBLEMS WITH MARRIED MEN THEN SINGLE MEN . I LIKE LADIES . I PLAY WITH LADIES . IF AND WHEN I FIND A GUY I WANT TO PLAY WITH THEN SO BE IT ILL DO IT . BUT FOR NOW I DONT NEED IT OR WANT IT . AND I TELL EVERYBODY THAT UP FRONT . THE SINGLE GUYS (MOST OF THEM ) ARE VERY RESPECT FUL TO MY LIKES AND DISLIKES . AND NEVER TRY TO TALK ME INTO IT OR ANYTHING . I CHAT WITH ALOT OF SINGLE GUYS AND WE HANG OUT WITH THEM AT CLUBS AND PARTIES . AND FOR THE MOST PART THEY ARE VERY WELL BEHAVED AND JUST WANT TO HANG OUT WITH (NICE PEOPLE ) THAT WILL TREAT THEM LIKE A PERSON .
AND AS FOR COUPLES . YES MOST ARE LOOKING FOR OTHER COUPLES OR FEMALES BUT NOT ALL ARE . AND IF U ARENT LOOKING FOR A SINGLE MAN THEN U CAN SAY IT NICELY .
BUT KEEP IN MIND THAT WE WERE ALLLLLLLLLLL SINGLE ONE DAY . AND WE CAN ALLLLLLLL BECOME SINGLES ANY DAY . AND TO JUDGE SOMEONE OR TREAT THEM BADLY CAUSE THEY FALL IN THE SINGLE GROUP IS JUDGEING A BOOK BY ITS COVER . AND SOMEONE THAT IS SINGLE AT TONIGHTS PARTY MIGHT FIND MRS RIGHT AND BE THE HOTTEST COUPLE AT THE NEXT PARTY . AND I HOPE THE FIRST THING THEY DO IS TELL ALLLLLLLLLLLL THE COUPLES THAT THEY ARENT LOOKING FOR COUPLES . THAT THEY WANT TO GIVE A SINGLE GUY A TRY .
WE HANG OUT WITH ANYONE THAT IS RESPECTFUL AND FUN . THE SINGLE MEN ARE FUN TO HANG OUT WITH . AND THE MARRIED MEN NEED TO REALIZE THAT IF IT WASNT FOR THEIR LADY AT THEIR SIDE THEY WOULD BE ON THAT SINGLE MAN BOAT AND WOULD BE SITTING IN THE CORNER WITH NO ONE TALKING TOTHEM . WE TRY TO MAKE EVERYBODY FEEL WELCOME TO THE LIFE STYLE . AND HELP EVERYBODY HAVE FUN . AND MEET NEW FRIENDS AND PLAYMATES . JUST CAUSE THE LIFES TYLE PEOPLE SHARE SEX AND IS LOOKING FOR DIFFERENT THINGS DOESNT MEAN IF THEY DONT FALL IN OUR WANT GROUP THAT WE HAVE TO BE RUDE TO THEM . AND IHOPE U ARE NEVER WALKING IN THEIR SHOES . CAUSE THE WALK IS ALONELY AND HARD WALK TO WALK ALONE .
I DONT PLAY WITH NO MEN . AND FOR SOME REASON THE SINGLE MEN UNDERSTAND WHAT THAT MEANS . BUT I JUST CANT GET THE MARRIED MEN TO UNDERSTAND THAT ..... AND IF AND WHEN IAM READY FOR A (MAN) ILL PROB PLAY WITH A SINGLE MAN BECAUSE HE WAS SHOWING ME RESPECT ALL ALONG AND NOT JUST KISSING MY ASS TO GET SOME WHEN I ADDED ON MY PROFILE . HEY I THINK I WANT TO BE WITH A MAN . A MAN SHOWS RESPECT . MARRIED OR SINGLE . A DOG MISBEHAVES ALLLLLLL THE TIME . STRAYS AND TAKEN ONES . BUT I WOULD UNDERSTAND MORE IF THE HORNY SINGLE GUY WAS THE ONE BEING A DOG .
IAM SORRY THAT THE PEOPLE ON THE SITE HAS MADE U FEEL LIKE U NEED TO LEAVE . BUT U DO WHAT U HAVE TO DO CAUSE ITS ALL ABOUT FUN . AND IAM SORRY FOR PEOPLE THAT WANT TO CALL THEMSELVES OPEN MINDED LIFE STYLE SWINGERS CANT ACT SO DAMN CLOSED MINDED MOST OF THE TIME . KEEP LOOKING CAUSE U WILL FIND THOSE THAT ARE LOOKING FOR U .... OOOPPPSSS SORRY. IAM SURE THEY ALL SAY THAT RIGHT .
WHEN WE WANT U WE WILL FIND U . WELL DAMN WHO IS TREATING WHO LIKE A SEX TOY AND BEING RUDE . I THINK IT IS THE OTHER WAY AROUND . COUPLES TREAT SINGLE MEN LIKE HOW THEY SAY SINGLE MEN ACT TOWRDS THEM . I JUST DONT GET IT .
I WORK FOR A SWINGERS SITE AND U ARE MORE THEN WELCOME TO JOIN THE SITE AND TRY TO MEET SOME NEW FRIENDS . THEIR IS A PHOTO CONTEST GOING ON NOW SO PLEASSE ADD SOME OF THOSE HOT PICS OF YOURS ... I PROB WONT BE ABLE TO GET ANY WORK DONE... BUT IKNOW THE MEMEBER S WILL LIKE TO SEE U TO . HA HA
SWINGERS OF AMERICA.COM
WE WELCOME ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY THAT IS FRIENDLY AND FUN .
NO RUDE OR PUSHY OR STUCK UP PEOPLE .
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
I SENT IN A PIC OF WHAT I THINK ABOUTMEAN PEOPLE
What are swingers really looking for ?Are they looking for frien - Has the happen to you. - This happen on another swingers site but our profile is the same as the one on here and it says that We will chat with couples and get together and become friends. (But no sexual stuff.) I did not save the first e-mail this couple send us but there profile says while friendship is nice,we aren't looking for best friends.We are looking for playmates!So I send them Hey! Thank You for writing. Right now I don't think we are compatible, good luck in your search. And they send me Hey! Sorry didn't realize you were expecting! So to explain more I send them Hey! We are very new to the lifstyle.We are looking for only friendship from couples.My husband is not ready to see me with another man.(watching,playing or sex)In your profile you said that friendship is nice but that you are looking for playmates.You are execting more then we can give and we are execting more then you can give.And they send me We Really do not know what you are talking about,just from your pictures it appeared you were pregnant, but remember this is a "swing" website, if your looking for a lady you might go to a "lesbian" website..And if your looking for friendship and campanionship, you might go to church. There is one on every corner! Happy Emailing! And then they blocked me.
First of all why did they e-mail us when if they read our profile they would have known that we will chat with couples and get together and become friends. (But no sexual stuff.)
Second of all I was trying to be nice by explaining, why did they have to be so mean.
Third of all I had a baby two year ago and I am still trying to loss it,it has been very hard.
Fourth of all I do go to church,but that is not the friendship and campanionship I am looking for.
We are very new to the lifestyle so did we do something wrong here?
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is this legit?? - - A good reason for someone to show discretion in this area of life is if the person is military. Thanks to some of the things written in the UCMJ(Uniform Code of Military Justice), the military swingers have to keep their lifestyle a secret because they can get into a heap of trouble. Just a couple examples who ever just has sex in the missionary postion, never has their partern go down on them or for those that like anal, no anal sex & the big kicker for the swinger lifestyle doesn't have sex with another person's spouse? All of that is punishable under the UCMJ so it wouldn't be a far fetched idea for them to lose their job if it came to the attention of the swinger's commander.
Lifestyle Questions by newcomer couple - - I WANTED TO WELCUM U TO THE SWINGERS LIFE STYLE . AND I HOPE U GET TO EXPLORE AND MEET LOTS OF NEW FRIENDS AND U HAVE LOTS OF FUN .I PULLED UP YOUR PROFILE AND IT SAYS FULL SWAP . WHICH IS GOING TO GIVE COUPLES THE WRONG IDEA . AND THERE IS ALOT OF COUPLES LOOKING JUST FOR GIRL ON GIRL ACTION . AND SOME COUPLES ARE FREE TO EXPLORE ALONE SO I WOULDNT JUST RULE OUT ALL COUPLES . I WOULD LOOK ON DIFFERENT SITES AND SEE IF U CAN FIND THAT SINGLE FEMALE EVERYBODY IS LOOKING FOR . OR TRY A ALL GIRLS WEBSITE . BUT THEN THEY MIGHT NOT WANT TO PLAY WITH THE HUBBY .GOING TO PARTIES AND CLUBS IS THE BEST WAY TO FIND MORE PEOPLE . AT THE CLUBS THERE IS ALL DIFFERENT KINDS OF PEOPLE LOOKING FOR DIFFERENT THINGS . AND THE MORE PEOPLE U KNOW THE BETTER YOUR CHANCES ARE TO FIND WHAT U ARE LOOKING FOR . CAUSE EVEN IF U CANT FIND THE ONE AT THE CLUB THEN AT LEAST THEY MIGHT KNOW A FRIEND FOR YA ..
WE GO TO PLEASURE PALACE ON SAT NIGHTS . THERE IS ALWAYS ALOT OF DIFFERENT PEOPLE LOOKING FOR DIFFERENT THINGS . EVEN THOUGH THE SINGLE FEMALE IS HARD TO FIND IN THE LIFE STYLE WE DO SEE SOME THERE . OUR CLUB HAS STRICK RULES ABOUT HOW PEOPLE BEHAVE . SO EVEN IF U JUST WANTED TO COME AND HANG OUT AND MEET NEW FRIENDS OR DO YOUR OWN THING . THERE IS ALOT OF PEOPLE LIKE THAT ALSO THERE . NORMALLY THE BIG PARTIES BRING IN ABOUT 600-700 PEOPLE SO IAM SURE U CAN MAKE SOME NEW FRIENDS . WE ARE DOING A PHOTO SHOOT WITH FIFI THIS SAT NIGHT . AND THERE IS GOING TO BE ALOT OF SWINGERS GROUPS . AND WCCC WILL ALSO BE THERE . SO IF U WANT TO COME AND MEET SOMENEW FRIEND SLET US KNOW
AND U HAVE NO PICS UP . I THINK IT WOULD HELP OUT ALOT IF U ADDED SOME PICS OF YALL . EVEN IF U CANT SHOW YOUR FACE . THERE IS MANY WAYS TO COVER YOUR FACE . BUT STILL SHOW THE PEOPLE WHAT U LOOK LIKE . PICS HELP OUT ALOT . IF U NEED HELP WITH PICS LET ME KNOW . I TAKE PICS AND WORK ON THEM . BUT ANY KIDA OF PICS IS BETTER THEN NONE .
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
network swingers - - We had heard about this show briefly before. We think it will be very interesting but we wish they would have put it on HBO or Showtime, etc. It would probably make for a better over all experience. Plus with L Word being in its last season with only 8 episodes we definitely need a new fix. ;-) Have a Happy Friday all!
R&S
Christain Swingers? - - We believe that being christian and being in the lifestyle go hand and hand the bible teaches to love everyone, be kind to everyone have you ever stopped to think that just maybe the reason you meet each and every person thoughtout life is not by accident?
We have found since being in the lifestyle that there have been some profound reasons we have met certain people in this lifestyle here is a quick version of a actual event.While we were in europe working for a contractor a cpl contacted us on a swing site they were from Virgina.
Once we met(M&S) they admitted that they never really thought we would meet face to face but after returning from europe we had to travel through Richmond Virgina and we figured what the hell lets look them up so we did and had one hell of a time with them now here is the "divine part".
Another cpl (B&S) we had met who contacted us while in Germany (they were traveling through europe) and we manged to meet play and have some fun guess where they are from? Yep you guessed it ,Richmond Virgina!
While spending time with the first cpl (M&S) we contacted the other cpl (B&S) they invited us to a party but said "our friends could not come along until they had met them first" so, we did not go to thier party but we did put these two cpls in contact with one another guess what they are now the best of friends and go to each others parties now!
Go figure, they found each others through us thousands of miles away yet when they met each others they found out they only lived a block away from each other and they both belonged to the very same prestigeous BDSM society! in the D.C. area!
We have many many facts that has happended since we have been in the lifestyle and to us we could not have planned that it had to be divine intervention! Does the lifestyle and christianity go hand and hand you bet and won't convince us otherwise we have had too many of those types of situations happen since we have been in the lifestyle. Some will say its the devil at work we beg to differ it all depends how you interpet what the teachings tell you and who is to say that the bible has not been manipulated since the days of christ?
Norm&Sharon
Monogamish - - Seems like a day doesn't go by without a new article on the high failure rate of traditional monogamous relationships and the "new" trend toward open relationships. Are swingers ahead of the curve or is this all just new age hooey?
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