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New Swingers Club in Utah - Gauging interest in new club - The idea of a private club is great. Having spent some time in Europe, they are very uninhibited and get pretty wild. The idea of theme rooms or genres, would offer a great variety to appeal to everyone. We would be interested to see how it progresses. Would come regularly.

Why we ORGY - Why we ORGY - [size=100]And now, a word from a noob... My wife and I have only been in the LS a few months, but I feel we have experienced quite a variety of experiences in that time, including house parties, LS clubs and basically an orgy party. We felt comfortable at all of them, but certainly the most pressure we have experienced came from the orgy-type party. It has been the only time when random men thought they could basically touch my wife, lift her skirt and ask to fuck her repeatedly, all without an invitation. We are pretty mellow and level-headed, so I think I did a pretty good job of turning them away without causing a scene, but had we been a little more sensitive I think it may have been a huge turnoff. So when I hear the word orgy, I think of a large party where basically everyone is there to just fuck, not socialize, and nobody really cares about who their dick is in or whose dick is in them. That is probably great for a lot of people, and I don't want this to sound flippant or elitist, but us as a couple we seem to have a higher standard than many swingers out there. In our short time we have already encountered non-clean people, irreverent people, very uneducated people, super creepy people and huge drama people. So to just show up at a party and hope that the plethora of couples we are playing with are clean, non-crazy and haven't been fucking everything from here to Texas, well... I just don't assume that to be true. Notice I didn't say much about looks. Yes, looks are important, but to us, we are looking for more just a hole and a pole. My point is, looks are secondary to many other things. And the only way to establish those "other" things, is to get to know the couple a little. Granted, we are super new to this and are moving slowly into the LS and we don't have that "notch on the belt" mentality yet, but so far, some of our best times have been getting to know the people, connecting, feeling that sexual energy between everyone, and then moving into the play room. We don't expect a couple to provide us any missing emotional support we are lacking in our marriage, as we have a great marriage. We also have a great sex life and this is just an adventure we are taking as a couple. It seems to me the orgy scene is more for people with open marriages, full swap different rooms, or people who otherwise don't care who their spouse if fucking. I trust my wife completely, but I don't trust others, and my need to protect her seems natural enough. Oh,maybe in a huge orgy you can both experience things together, but it does seem like you just jump in a pile and fuck whoever is in front of you. If not, then it is more a social, where you all talk first, enjoy each other's company, tell some jokes and get know the couple, then, if interested, you can all go fuck. So to me, that scenario is a social, not an orgy, which is the topic at hand. An orgy is more of a situation where you show up, who cares if you talk, drop your pants and start fucking. It seems more dangerous to me on an STD level as I don't imagine if you fuck 10 girls in a night you are changing condoms every time, or even wearing one, though I realize my assumption may be completely off, just giving you my opinion here as to why I wouldn't be AS interested in an orgy (it still would be fun to watch). Also, questions like "how many people have you fucked this week" and "do you wear protection" are much easier over a glass of bourbon than while sucking on a cock or pussy. Probably a little awkward. So... to finalize this huge monstrosity, different strokes for different folks. We like meeting new couples, we like to make new friends and we feel there is a greater reward with friends with benefits. Just as in our marriage where our sex is great because we know the other person so well, so we think playing with others may be enhanced by our understanding of the other couples needs and desires. Do we ever think it is fun just to meet somebody and play immediately? Probably. But do we think that our long term goals, our health and our mutual respect for each other is better served by meeting a couple, having the time to discuss how we feel about the couple in the privacy of our marriage and then moving forward as we both agree upon is the best way for us? Most definitely. And the small amount of wasted time we may experience trying to arrange meetings is a small price to pay for that piece of mind. We have made great friends, that if we never played with again, would still be our friends, so that is just icing on the cake. And maybe we have been lucky but we haven't experienced a lot of flakes, just a lot of busy, cool people with jobs and families, just like ourselves. So say we all!![/size]

asking your swinger friend if you can join them. - - Tell him you would be interested in seeing what might be possible, because you are interested, but that if he is uncomfortable with any potential swing possibilities that you are okay with that and it never needs to be mentioned again. Just be honest about your interest. Fuck trying to be cool and just be honest. He probably needs to know that your friendship is not in jeopardy if he would say no. In the end if his wife is not sexually attracted to you, it may well be a mute point anyway. If she is then who knows. If they enjoy swinging then like most swingers, they probably already know that they enjoy watching each other getting properly fucked. I would rather watch a friend that I already respect and trust having sex with my wife than a stranger. The wife feels the same way when it come to watching me have sex. With all of that said remember that most, not all, but most swinger women, just like vanilla women, only want to have sex with men they are sexually attracted to and that they feel they can trust. If they would not have considered having sex with you, were they not married, in the vanilla world, they would not consider having sex with you in the swinger world either. Swinging women are typically not afraid of going to hell for sex or offending their husbands for having sex. Swinger women typically do not devalue themselves for having strong sexual appetites. So more guys can and do have sex with them because those obstacles to sex are not so apparent, but in the end just because they know that you know that they swing does not mean they want to fuck you. If they want to fuck you it can happen. If they are a secure swinging couple in a healthy relationship and she already knows you, then maybe, all hubby might have to say to her is "you know (Insert your name here) if he was cool in all other respects do think you would be interested in having sex with him?" and if she says, well maybe, then it is a maybe but if she says "Hell yes. Why is he interested?" Then the ball is already rolling and it is up to you to not blow it.

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Swingers unnerve families at hotel - - The Squeaky wheel gets the news story right! First off Prove what you say, I don

KUTV News Story on Swingers - News - So we watched the news piece and we observed that the lady they interviewed was rejected at parties and said she felt like she was in the 5th grade again because she was left out and her husband was busy as hell at the orgies they would attend..........this was nothing more than an attention piece on her part. She's obviously jaded.

Rules vs Rules - - Ops I went and made a safety statement again. Sorry. Let me rephrase. Using condoms is what swingers do best. They are bouncey, bouncey, bouncey, bouncey fun, fun, fun, fun, fun, the wonderful thing about condoms is they catch the swingers cum!!

Swingers In Uniform - Pay your memorial day respects here. - You might as well just drop off this site, DON_JUAN_QUIXOTE, who's going to want you now? It 'doesnt matter how attractive you are, or how intelligent you think you may be... when youre not a nice person, you're disgusting. Obviously you just joined the site to get your kicks out of browbeating people you feel are inferior to you. As my mother used to say... "If you cant say something nice, dont say anything at all." You, DON_JUAN_QUIXOTE, are an ass-tard!

Swingers Club - Swingers Club - As I was driving through Clearfield City I noticed Bogey's finally closed. down. I then though it would make a great swingers club. I have never really been to an actually one so....

Condoms - To use or not to use? -

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I think this is another preference thing. It is obvious why a fertile couple would want to use latex condoms. However, since condoms do not prevent disease, they only reduce ones chances of contracting certain diseases, I can see why we don't all use them. Not being in a long term monogamous relationship or abstaining from sex, puts you at risk of catching STD's. Since we are all, as swingers, willing to roll the dice to fulfill our fantasies and derive our pleasures, it's safe to say that some of us are willing to "up the stakes". We, TR, prefer using them, but feel that our odds are still pretty good of contracting certain diseases, namely HPV, even if we do use them. What amazes us is the amount of people that still put 100% faith in condoms. We'll continue taking everything with a large grain of salt. Especially any information coming from the medical world. Afterall the CDC, FDA and Big Pharm have all been so forthcoming, upfront and honest with us. I never fully trust anyone that has financial interest. The bottom line is that, as swingers, we are all adding to the spread of disease by sharing multiple partners. Those that refrain from condom usage are just choosing a better sensation and orgasm over their safety.
-Don-