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Do you cut to the chase? - What's your history - [quote=EVILDOERS]b. Rarely We STRONGLY prefer to get to know people first. It HAS happened in the past but it's quite rare and we don't feel bad if we go out and don't 'get lucky' because we can just go home and get lucky with each other. For us, sex is WAY more fun with people we know (at least a little bit), like, and have something in common with. And taking just pure physical attraction out of the equation, somewhat, has helped us see beyond the superficial and find traits in people that are attractive beyond simple outward appearance. We never go into any meeting with any expectations other than, hopefully, good conversation and maybe a few laughs. Sex is great but friendships are what keep us coming back. Besides, we've found that often people who are TOO eager to get to the bedroom are usually hiding some personality trait that we don't find appealing at all. YMMV[/quote] Yeah if they are pushy in the least, it is a sign that they might always be pushy, and or try and be controlling. We meet people with no expectations, no pressure. Expectations lead to disappointments. We never push. If we meet have a good conversation, that's just fine. One reason we don't meet with other swingers all that often, is because we do a lot of socializing in the vanilla world. So sex, much as we like it, often takes a second seat to just socializing. When we do meet with a couple, for the first time, who we met due to our mutual affiliation of sorts, with the swing scene, we meet with no expectations. It's just been our experience that if we all end up being mutually attracted, physically and mentally, that sex seems to happen kind of often. I guess we could read some sort of flaw into that. We certainly are not flawless. We did however meet, because our mutual shared interest, was sex, and so really it should not be such a big surprise if sex actually happens.

Who is going to Younge swingers week HEDO? - anyone going? - We're going to be there for a few days, overlapping the with the group from the previous week. We love HEDO!!!

lost with people - florida wanna be swingers - The use of the word "fake" is so subjective that at times it is can be rather difficult to determine what the person who used it actually meant. Here is a for instance: Your reference to your friends list. You hit the proverbial nail right on the head. YOU decided that you had a thing or two in common with the people in question. YOU decided to add them to your friends list. The people you are adding as friends have absolutely no choice in the matter. Some of them may have done the same to you in return, but adding someone to your friends list does not guarantee a meeting, or even correspondence does it? Some of them may not even want to be added to your friends list, imagine that. A lot of misguided people seem to think that the lack of replies indicates that the site is full of fakes! Come on now. Here is the reality of swinging: Forgive MY bluntness, but since we were speaking frankly I thought that it would be good to hear another point of view. 1. There are assholes in every state. Be vigilant, be smart about with whom you share your personal information, and learn from your experiences. Pic collectors, cheaters, people trying to convince others that they are something that they are not...Just remember, those people are most likely horny 15 year old boys posing as others so that they can giggle and jerk off... men and women (thats right, and women too) posing as couples to get dates...the list goes on... We lived in Lake Worth for several years, and I can tell you that there are as many low rent assholes there as there are here in MD. Thats swinging, so get over it. The sooner you do, the less it will irritate you. 2. People dont answer their e-mail. The lack of replies means that you havent made a connection with someone YET, or that they are not interested in you. Maybe they are busy and do not have the time to respond to all of their mail? Thats all. Yes we consider it rude to ignore someone, but trust me, you dont want to to hear back from some of them anyway. Consider it a blessing from whomever you worship and move on! A lot of people lack the basic social skills required to be polite to others, even by e-mail. Unfortunately, thats swinging too...on ANY website...so get over it. The sooner you do, the less it will irritate you. Your profile says you joined on January 30, 2006. If this is accurate then it seems to me that you are fairly new here...if only a few months. Perhaps you should be more patient? Your profile is rather sparse too...give it some attention and let your personality come through in it so that others can better judge if they are truly interested in getting to know you. People also read these forums quite a bit, even if they do not openly participate. The forums are an excellent way to make new friends, but it works both ways. Who wants to meet with someone who is complaining about "fakes" because they did not get a date? Isnt that just like the kid who doesnt get picked for kickball taking his big red ball and going home? It just seems to me that FIRST you should do everything in your power to seem appealing and approachable before you pass judgement about the intentions of others. None of this was meant to offend you, and if I did, then for that I apologize. It just seems to me that your time could be spent more constructively if you intend to meet people that you can see socially on this site. Luvbugs! (mR.) ;)

Pink flamingo - How many swingers have a pink flamingo in their front yard? - Yeaa, all the "secret" swinging hints and references are all just funny. Even then I would love to see an upside down pineapple in the grocery cart.

Carnival Breeze Sept 13 - - We will be going on our second swingers cruise, the Independence Of The Seas Swingers Cruise - Nov 2014. We had a great time on our last one.

Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - [quote=KITTYCAT27]DP is my fantasy and the reason why I signed up for a swing site.[/quote]Would love to help

Kik group for UT swingers. - Contact me if your interested in joining a KIK group for Swingers - Boulder0622 -we’d love to join! Brand new and excited to get to know more people.

Too Young? - Are we just too young... - I would love to swing with an older couple or younger couple. There are just a lack of swingers in my immediate area.

A Place to Play - I have a new hot topic to discuss - Here in Utah most AirBnB's have rules againts inviting guess and having parties, not to mention to be quite and no loud noice after 9:00 PM, so that might not be a realistic option... however we like from time to time rent a double room suite, but it only works when real swingers attend...

taking one for the team - - Very well said... this is a great topic. Anyone interested in adding it to the Swingers Wiki? ThoughtGarden may have some good words. Here is the wiki: http://wiki.swingular.com.