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SMI (Palm Springs) or One Love (Vegas)?? - Looking for fun State Side Vacation - SMI (Palm Springs) or One Love (Vegas)?? The wife and I often do Cancun for fun adult vacations however, due to Covid , we have to stay state-side this year. We are debating between Sea Mountain Inn in Palm Springs or One Love Nude Resort in Vegas. We have never been to either. Any thoughts or suggestions?? We are more "swayers" than "swingers" but love the sexual energy of the fun resort and are slowly expanding our level of play. Thanks in Advance! DMDForFun (on Kik too)

Is hard core porn killing sex (and swinging)? - - So are people drinking and doing drugs more now than in the late 80's? Or are there just way more swingers and that automatically means more potential for failure?

Have you ever... - - I love these things! Had sex outside? Y Had sex in public? (movie theater, concert, theme park) N Had sex in an unusual location? N Had a threesome? N - not yet! A foursome? N - not yet! More than a foursome? N - not yet! Had a happy ending? N Been tied up? Y Tied someone up Y Been to a sex club / swingers club? N - not yet! Watched a porno? Y Been in a porno? N Wore a costume / role played during sex? Y Recieved a spanking? Y Given a spanking? Y Paid for sex? N Had sex with someone you weren't attracted to / didn't like? N Had sex with someone you didn't know / just met? N - not exactly....but technically, yes. Traveled more than 50 miles to have sex? Y -does it count if I was going that way anyway? How many States / Countries have you had sex in? 4 Favorite position? doggystyle! Had a 'nooner'? (skipped out of work / school to go have sex and then returned) Y Had sex at work? N - came close though With a co-worker? it was my boss! Slept your way to the top? N Preferred location of "money shot"? tits! Women - sexiest outfit / lingerie you own? describe in detail My black corset, knee high boots, riding crop Men - best pickup line? He likes it when the woman gives him no choice, lol. Preferred hairstyle? (on you and on others) Shaved bare? Landing strip? 70's fro? Other style? I'm not a big fan of the fro, but bare, landing strip, or just lightly groom is excellent. Underwear choice? Ganny panties / tightie whiteys? Thong? G-string? Commando? He wears boxers and she wears bikini/boy shorts/occasional thong. Easiest way to get you turned on? be forceful! Worst mood killer? ego Preferred style? Soft and romantic? Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am? Hard and fast? Hair pulling, ass spanking deep and rough? I like alot of things, but deep, rough, hair pulling sex will have my legs shaking for hours. Piercings? He has none, she has her tongue pierced, and ears a few times. Tattoos? he has none, she has 2 - one on the back of her neck and her tramp stamp! Shoes / socks on or off? boots on...hiking boots, on....sneakers on if youre outside, otherwise off! Do you fantasize about other people when having sex with your spouce / usual partner? N Who is your fantasy partner? I have alot of fantasies, and therefore alot of fantasy partners....;) Describe the perfect sexual encounter... I get pushed up against a wall, kissed, groped, grinding....he grabs me and turns me around, presses me up against the wall and fucks me from behind. I look over and see my man getting pleasured by my agressors wife. He watches me get nailed while he helps another mans wife bounce up and down on his cock. Willing to give me your answers in person? Naked? absolutely!

Friends? - Friends in and out of the bedroom? - For us time is an obstacle to socializing. We have numerous adult offspring, and yes we have a few grandchildren, and we have vanilla friends, and we have jobs and do some volunteering and try and fit in some hobbies. We both seem to make friends easily enough, so that we end up doing a certain amount of socializing with people we see at work or in our vanilla world. Throw in the unexpected and there isn't much time left. We have a hard time making everything fit into our schedules as they are now. Honestly, we might disappoint someone, looking for someone they can hang out with every week, if they are looking to have us all to themselves. It seems, that busy people, do well hanging out with people who are also often on the run, and busy associating with other people. That might mean you see these sorts of people, while they are busy seeing other people. For us we are pretty good friends with our family, and many of their friends, and our family members, are pretty good friends with quite a few of our friends, and we end up hanging out. It's often pretty impromptu. It's not that uncommon for twenty people to be at our house having a meal or just hanging out. Our house, is one of those houses people just walk into. If in any social circle, the majority of the people hanging out are not swingers, and swinging would make them uncomfortable, then swinging probably won't happen. So swinging for us is a bit compartmentalized. But yes, we would not mind making a few more good friends, who fit in with our crowd, that also happened to be swingers, and not in everybody's face about it. People we could see more frequently, that fit in with our friends and family, who we could swing with in private. People we could see more of in and out of our clothing. Proximity, discretion and spontaneity are all a big plus.

Single male in this lifestyle.. - I have questions for couples and single females. - [quote]Hey, bucko. Polaroid cameras didn't grow on trees ya know. And our P.O. box was like 10 bucks a month! Then there was the HUGE cost of depilatory creams, gaudy gold jewelry and Nehru jackets. [/quote] Well, that was the ONLY advantage to being a single male in the lifestyle back then. NOBODY was going to ever answer any ad you put in the mag, so there wasn't any point in spending the big bucks on a Polaroid, and they didn't come out with cheaper ones that most people could afford until what, late '70s I think it was? (I wonder how many people on the site ever even saw one of those) Anyway,no need for a camera or a PO box for replies, there wouldn't ever be any replies. That "advantage" was offset big time by the fact that the only way you ever even knew about any gatherings, let alone got into them, was if someone knew you and asked you. Which hardly ever happened even if you knew a couple dozen swingers, like I did, because it WAS essentially wife swapping back then. Or if not full swapping, a sort of swapping with everyone in the same room So if you didn't have a lady with you, you had nothing to offer. I was incredibly lucky 'cause I was really good friends with a few couples, friends to the point that I once in a great while got to got with the mrs. to a party. If it weren't for that I doubt I'd have ever gotten into anything. I'm not certain, because it was something that never came up with me personally, but as far as I knew, back then single guys weren't even welcome if a couple brought them. It was all one guy and one girl, or forget about it. I don't really know what went on through the few mags, because, knowing it'd be a waste of time, I never bothered. And I never had to buy disco clothes, I grew up with Hippie rock and folk, and always hated disco as what destroyed rock and roll as well as folk. Hell, the only difference in my clothes now is that the jeans aren't flares or bells and the shirts aren't either flowered of psychedelic 'cause nobody makes them anymore. But I do still have Frye harness boots, same as in the '70s.

New Swingers Club in Utah - Gauging interest in new club - Smartflirts, There are certainly some things to look at and make sure we won't have too many problems. I think there are a number of ways to get around any issues. What happens on a private residence is up to those who own the property. I think this is one of the reasons it would have to be a private club, members only. What consenting adults choose to do isn't illegal in a venue like a club any more than it is illegal in a private residence. The trick, as I understand it, is that the venue cannot be a public venue because then you run into public exposure and indecency laws. I could be wrong, and I would have to find someone who understands these kind of laws... the question is... who would actually know... lol. You are correct, there will certainly be some challenges, but I think they can be worked through. As for your idea of renting a house or something like that, I have thought about the same thing and it may be a good idea. Not a fix for what is needed in a club, but it is a start. Freyja4u, Thank you for the ideas, we were planning on themed rooms. Perhaps you can email us with ideas for those themed rooms. What have you seen at places you have been to? 4funandmore, Could you email us with things you liked and didn't like from clubs you have been to? What things would you like to see that you haven't seen or have seen and would like to see here?

Moab Utah - Swingers in Moab - [quote=SOMEWHERENTIME]Awesome photo! You should put that one on your profile! We’re headed to Moab June 6-10th and bringing our mountain bikes with us. 🚴‍♀️🏜🚴‍♂️🏜[/quote]We are planning another trip there next month but this time without family 😀!

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Tranny's - - Well a transexual is not different then any sexual type. They like to dress up and may even want to be a women or man some just like certain things. Not all Transexuals are gay many are straight as an arrow. So treat every sex the same and you will see that they are beautiful. Some of the most evolved people are transexual they are very good at resolving issues and making them work for them. Transexuals do live off the grade from most as they have two lives. However, So do swingers so really its about what floats your boat!!! I have been called a gay hag here and there and knowing most of the gay world in Utah makes running into the funnest crowd the Transexuals who always keep you on your toes. You wont know until you try it. I seem to attract them fairly often so my point is I dont know but do try it!!!(= (= (=