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Singles who are married and cheating - - better get a cup of coffee cuz this is gonna be a long read: there are a few things you have to take into consideration when you decide to be in the swinging lifestyle. i think the biggest thing is finding out if your spouse is into it. most people, i think, go into a relationship knowing what their spouses boundries are. and then there are couples who evolve in their relationship and the more trust they have in their relationship, i would think it would be like a "coming out" of sorts. like..."hey, um...honey...the johnsons next door are having a party this weekend...and we were invited" "Really?" "Yeah, and i hear its one of THOSE kinda parties" "well, honey..we better wear our crotchless underwear" i dunno..something like that..like, at some point you decide that swinging is for you, right? or you go into a relationship knowing that swinging is an option. buuuuuuuuuuuutttttt... if you go into a relationship knowing that swinging is definetly not what your spouse is into or in the evolution of your relationship you decide swinging is right for you, and your spouse isnt into it, and under no circumstance is it ok....then, in my humble opinion, you arent in the lifestyle. now, if you come to some sort of open relationship agreement if your spouse isnt into it but agrees to let you get some strange, fine. if you take it upon yourself to sign up for a swinging website behind your spouses back, hook up with couples behind your spouses back, then YOU ARE CHEATING! if you are cheating, then you are just asking for trouble: 1. you are being dishonest 2. you are bringing your drama into someone elses life whether they know it or not. what happens if the wife finds out and shows up at your house party with a shotgun? 3. what happens if you get an s.t.d.? you bring that home with you to your spouse, and if you have them, your children. even if you use condoms you can still get s.t.d.'s, its happened. 4. when your spouse does find out, and they will...you are humiliating them in front of their friends, family, job...cuz somehow they all find out. that leads me to believe you have no regard for someone elses feelings so why would i want to swing with you? 5. you are giving other single people, male or female, a bad name and reputation. 6. you are giving swingers in general a bad name and reputation. jenn and i are honest with each other. we are not in a place where we are gonna swing separate, we communicate and talk things out so we have a full understand of where eachother is at, at any given moment. if jenn or i didnt want to swing anymore, or if we wanted a break from it, we talk about it. we arent perfect by any means, but we do our best to consider eachothers feelings in this lifestyle. we dont invite drama into our lives so i would have to say...no, we dont swing with someone who is cheating on their spouse. we would both suggest that if you feel the need to cheat that you should either talk it out with your spouse and seek external help or if you dont think that will help, you should consider ending the relationship. this is all just our opinion. we know its easier written or said than done. but if you arent happy with your spouse, why would you drag them down with this? communicate..compromise...talk it out..but dont be a cheater, cuz its not cool. brandon

asking your swinger friend if you can join them. - - [quote=USSIR]Well, I have a co-worker that I have been friends with for a while and recently found they are a swingers, it wasn't shocking to me or anything just thought it was interesting. So some time has passed and I thought I wonder if I could join them sexually. To me it would just be awkward to as him that. Obviously I'm not going to ask him "hey can I bang your wife?" I don't care if it was both of them or just her, I've always thought she was hot and I consider my co-worker a good friend. So, how do I ask that and/or is it a bad idea? Thanks [/quote] As a single male also in this lifestyle who has faced a similar situation my advice would be to just openly talk about the lifestyle, involve both him and his wife in the convo casually over drinks one night when your just hanging out. Basically plant a seed and see if it grows, realistically if they are into the lifestyle and are open to the idea they will invite you, but its best to let them think its their idea to include you. For some couples it just might be out of bounds to include friends into their sexploits.

Chat room - - [quote=UTAH-CPLE-2006][quote=RICHNKAY801]We have a discord chatroom full of swingers and zero bots for Utah and the surrounding areas. AZ definitely counts if you are interested let me know and I can send you guys a link. You'll have to verify with Admin because we aren't affiliated with Swingular but its minimal and its a fun group. [/quote] solid idea but couldnt a meeting link be placed right here? it would all operate inside this site and the only way you would even see the link would be to be a member. plus as of now i dont see any bots posting to these threads so seems that would solve that issue. seems like all that would be really needed would be someone to create the meeting and post the link here. am i missing something? [/quote] I guess it could but I am not affiliated with Swingular in any way So I have no control over anything they do. I dont post the link here because I dont feel like weeding out hundreds of single males from the couples. We havea separate verification process and I dont want to overload that process.

Tampa Bay Lifestylers LockDown - - Reminder from: TampaBayLifestylers Yahoo! Group Title: Ladies In Lingerie Lockdown Party at Club Elite Date: Sunday April 27, 2008 Time: 5:00 pm - 3:00 am Next reminder: The next reminder for this event will be sent in 8 days, 4 minutes. Location: Club Elite Street: 9721 US 19 City State Zip: Port Richey, Florida 34668 Phone: 727-845-8808 Notes: Hello all! It�s about that time again! The Tampa Bay Lifestylers will be having another Lock-down party on Sunday afternoon, April 27th as we take over Club Elite! And this time, we�re bringing Swappernet with us. That�s right, the premier online community for swingers: www.swappernet.com is joining forces with The Tampa Bay Lifestylers and Club Elite to put on the best damn lifestyle party in the Tampa Bay area. Bar none! Our theme this month is "Ladies In Lingerie". There will be games, prizes and a contest for (you guessed it) the sexiest women wearing lingerie. The top 3 winners of our Ladies In Lingerie contest will win some great prizes. Winners will be judged based on originality, theme and sexiness. So we encourage all of you lovely women to put on your hottest teddies, garter belts, bustiers, stiletto pumps and thigh high stockings to compete for prizes! Swappernet will be on hand to give out plenty of prizes as well. The doors will open early that day at 5:00 PM and the party will go until the wee hours. If you already have a Club Elite membership, admission is only $20 per couple, single females are free and single males are $50. If you come to our party that Sunday, and have not yet purchased a Club Elite membership, you can get an annual club membership for $20 per couple, $10 per single female single and $50 per single male and you won't have to pay an entry fee. Isn't that a great deal that they're offering our group? So for those of you that have yet to check out Club Elite, now is the time to get a discount annual membership! You can't beat this deal: a $75 yearly membership for these low prices. Feel free to bring along friends if you like too. The more the merrier! Club Elite is an on-premise bottle club. So remember to BYOB. The Elite Clubwear store will also be open and is offering our group a 10% discount off anything in their boutique during our party. The doors will be locked at 8:00pm. You can leave anytime

Swingers dying out? - Is the utah swinger community dying or becoming to needy? - [quote=TIFFND]I don't think it is dying out, by any means. My opinion is a few things are happening. The Swingular community is actually growing...bigtime. Hence the increasing number of events being posted. And yes..most are paid events...for a couple of reasons..to actually pay for the cost of an event..and plain old capitolism. Welcome to America. No real problem. House parties...are alive and well. But...because of the increased number of folks here, things have changed from before. Now, if you post one here..you have a bunch of people respond..most likely too many...some must be told no....hard for most of us to do. Consequently..hosts have become a bit more selective.. and send personal invites..rather than general announcements. Basically...house parties have moved underground. And hosts have become more selective about just inviting particulair age groups, or body types. That leaves many of us out. I know our email box is empty most of the time, unless it is us hosting the party. Just my opinion of course..yours maybe different! I think you are right on...we have learned to be very comfortable with the friends we have, and really don't worry about parties that we are or are not invited to...or none at all...I mean the hottest chick on the planet is Ms Karma so...why worry! [/quote]

AUSTIN TEXAS! HELP US!! - Couple traveling to Austin looking for friends to show is around. - Sexy Utah hotwife couple coming to Austin oct 23-26th. Looking for a fun time while in Texas no barbies no drama. Reaching out to fellow swingers in Austin. What are some fun adult places to go? Swinger clubs/bars? Any fun adult halloween parties? Wife is very bi and looking to connect with a female. Females, males, couples send us a message and let's go from there.

Anything but Habits?! - Chill Hangouts? - [quote=WETANDHARDUTCPL][quote=FUNNESTCOUPLE81]Habits is a fun club, and we've tried it out a few times, but we're not really into the club scene. We like to chill, play pool, drink beer, talk and listen to rock and roll.... is there any swingers places like this? Help!!! [/quote] We were introduced to the Leprechaun Inn it's a nice place to grab a beer, chat, play pool and grab a bite to eat at.. we try and go about once a week.. its on 4900 south 900 east..in Murray.[/quote] I would love to meet you guys for some pool and fun there . . .let me know when you two are going to attend please, thank you kindly :)

Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - We drive a Rolls kenardly. It rolls down one hill and can hardly make it up the other.

Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - [quote=BIG-DS-1]Now this is "SEXY" (for us old folk) very rare less then 3,000 made in 1956/1957 and were hand built. This one has only 29,000 mi.[/quote] Metropolitan looks cute - what's under the cover? Fins look like it could be a '59 Buick.

searching for... - - hummmm just so we dont get crucified for diferent aspects of this post we will kinda poll first to see if the majority is open to the vanilla aspect in witch it is conveyed..... I grew up in utah brighamcity.. then i moved to live with other relatives in eden (above ogden for those who dont know).... we lived on a dairy farm and were a close family... yes LDS.. not to mix or go pro or con... but that was how it is.... to the point.. I am in search of the siblings i grew up with... they may or may not still live in utah... probably ogden.. clearfield area.... to my knowledge not swingers but i havent seen them or had contact for about 25 years....So who knows... but the main point there is enuf peeps from the northern utah on this site someone will know them if they are still in the area... wether it be friends, co workers or in the same ward. question is are we going to be crucified for mentioning their names on here (even tho its not sexually related) as a attempt to locate them? Dennis