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What really defines a TRUE swinger? - - Didn't read all this but one word sums up swinger to us: SWAR "Sex Without A (romantic) Relationship".
We have our personal opinions, but aside from SWAR, who are we to tell another couple, male, or female what "qualifies" them as swingers?
How has swinging made your marriage better? - - Curious... how many of the previous posters (or anyone on here for that matter) are on their FIRST marriage and have been "successful" swingers for 4-5 years+ ?
Tally those numbers and see if it makes marriages better. Would also be curious about second, third, fourth marriages (but those are harder because a lot have met in the lifestyle and/or came from a marriage that ended in infidelity). Still, have wondered.
P.S. EVILDOERS Mrs cntrl has been told that a couple of times as well.
Swinger arrested for being peeping tom - Naked man who holds swinger parties caught peeping in little girls room. - Good hell, I've decorated people's cars while they were in their wedding reception with condoms. Does that mean if a condom blew off while they were driving away mean their reception was actually a swingers meet'n'greet? (I was younger then but, I still think it was hilarious.)
It's a good thing nobody caught me leaving the reception didnt get arrested!!!
This guy has a history of peeping. Nobody said the dad had a history of beating the shit out of people? I would have beat someone looking in my daughters bedroom! Dosent make a difference if the dad thought he was (lets just making noises or not, call in what it is sounded like he was beating his meat) looking, peeing or just wiggling in weeds point is it looked like he was being A SICK SOB WHILE LOOKING AT THE DADS SAUGHTER!!! He was protecting his family. If he had been IN their house the dad could've SHOT the sick SOB and said he was afraid for his families lives and they wouldn't even be thinking on putting the dad in jail. HELLO D.A? Are you as big of of a NASTER OF DUMB ASSES Mr. D.A.? As you sound?
What I don't understand is who cares if the neighbors being swingers/or just throwing bug parties has ANYTHING to do with a Grown Guy (I won't call him a man) looking in a window go together? Just because you have people over (even if they are screwing) dosent mean that's where the guy came from... Not is it something you do even if he was at the party. How do the two go together? I've been to parties, swinging and I've been to parties long before I was swinging and noone left the party and yanked their chain in a neighbors window!!! How does alot of people equal swingers???
Good hell my mom had her 15 brothers and sisters and spouses at her house this exact same night in W.V.C., UTAH and I don't even want to think about what 31 people (who are my Aunts & Uncles) must have been accused of?
HEADLINE. "69 year old woman is KEEPIN IT UN TGE FAMILY".
31 Senior Citizens caught, laughing and having fun befor they
Take turns going in the house. "Bottle of little blue pills found
Spread around in the road"
Hell that just made my fingers hurt to type and I'm gonna be sick!!!
Young swingers party - sold out, who still wants to party ? - [quote=HT51210]We had a hard time buying tickets when the event first posted (and do meet the age requirement). Got some weird error and sent BMSHELL a screenshot to see if they'd seen it before. Not sure what was going on with it. We gave up on it after a while. Oh well, maybe next time .... :)[/quote]message them and get on the list I'm sure someone will dropout!!!!
How often do you think this happens - - T4REAL69 & Crew,
It's a preference thing. You're in this to have fun, not do things that you don't like or disagree with. If you are upfront and honest with eachother in the beginning, you should be able to decide what works for you. I see that no one mentioned that some women are not in it for the "another man" experience. We have to remember that not all of us are in this for the same thing.
If a guy gets excited about seeing his wife with another female and not another male, there is nothing worng with that. We all know what we like and don't like. However, if he's not going to be cool with MFM, then he should be ok with there not being any FMF, if the woman decides that the fairest route would be MFMF.
We have decided that the latter works best for us. I have no particular interest in watching my wife with another guy while I pull my pud. She's not into the DP or having two guys at once, so that leave us with couples. There is no insecurity, because my wife is with another guy with a couple. It's more about equality and fairness. Couples that play together stay together. By that, when you make your decisions on what make you happy, make sure you are both happy with them.
-Don-
P.S. BTW, I have a really good topic in the free thinkers forum that I would like the LDS Swingers members of the group to shed some light on. Hell any member for that matter. Just click the link at the bottom of this post.
Proud member of "Free Thinkers"
Playing Alone - - Couples all have different rules. Many categorically refuse to play alone with ANYONE ever. This is their "security" place. They feel comfortable in the place where they can see each other and "protect" if necessary. It takes some people a long time to get passed this.
It's kind of a 'control' thing leftover from the vanilla life. I'm not saying it's bad, good or indifferent it's just the way it is. Some people take longer to get passed their histories as vanillas than others. As they progress and get more comfortable with themselves, the lifestyle, their partners then they will slowly open up and begin to trust a bit more.
Don't take it personally, that's the key. Many people still hang on to their vanilla background that their partners are their most 'valued' possession. I liken it to my $450 deep sea fishing reel. Sure I'll loan it to someone to use if I'm on the boat with them and can make sure they're taking care of it. Is there anyone I'd just let 'borrow' it out right for the day or weekend? Not a chance in hell.
It takes time to let go of that 'she's/he's mine' get feeling. I think my wife and I took almost 6 years before we got there successfully. We tried many times before that but it never worked out well for either of us. We finally came to a point where it's okay to play separately everything from next room to next state it no longer bothers us. I personally prefer within 30 - 50 miles so she get's home faster for the "after play" sex you're describing (which I really like too.)
You'll have to find a VERY secure, VERY established, VERY strong couple to fulfill your fantasy. They are out there, my wife and I for example but even though we're open to playing separately are we open to YOU playing with her or me separately? That's a different level of trust. Does it mean no? No. It means "maybe" in time it's a possibility. (I'm speaking hypothetically of course.)
Don't worry your "couple" or "person" will come along. You might also try investigating a subsection of the lifestyle called "hotwifeing" while I know few swingers who are hardcore into only hotwifing, there are quite a few that tip toe in that part of the lifestyle (quick def, she plays he doesn't except with her.) That's the post play joy for you and the play and post play joy for her. Most people just bounce between that and swinging. There are people out there just be patient and don't expect it from any current playmates that you have established rules with, they need to progress at their own speed.
What are swingers really looking for ?Are they looking for frien - Has the happen to you. - Your profile is clear, this type of site is appropriate for you and some couples just want sex and nothing else. We would have answered just as you did and thought nothing of it. We expect friendships before play, if you are not the type to be friendship quality, why would we want to have sex with you.
There are some Bi ladies on these sites but most don't have the time to waste on them like the single guys do. Read our profile, you may find more what you want with soft swingers with Bi ladies where they will respect your wish not to have sex with the other male.
Good luck and keep looking, you will find what you want eventually...Frank and Diana
Swingers now officially a high risk group for STDs and STIs - Do your own research - so I am confused, are we or are we not having sex
Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - ^^^ Enjoys DP and DVP. I even have a DP comment on my page from a cpl.
Young Swingers Night - - We will be there! First event. New to the lifestyle.... Cant wait to see how it goes down!
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