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Swingers - a couples only lifestyle? - Are singles considered to be swingers? - We don't care either way...but, Yolo cruises and Swingular, amongst others, have partnered together to sponsor a "Lifestyle" cruise for couples & single females only, thus excluding single men. Go figure. Oh, Hugh Hefner is still legally married! Go HEF! What about the term poly-amorous for singles? eh, who knows. Commence the a** ripping.
Question - do you talk about other swingers? - Never mention names! One thing we've found over the years is that people who swing, particularly those who belong to clubs, have too much to say about other people. I don't want to hear about it.. The people who are typically being trashed may be friends and we may have had different experiences with them. Best thing is simply the illustrated comments about what your version of swinging is. Descretion means or should mean what happens with others stays there and is not discussed. People may mesh differently with others and your experience or theirs is irrelevant. So MUM's the word.
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How to identify yourself as a Swinger - - We all come into a world full of pressures to fit in, put on the uniform and conform. Deep inside we have these desires, many of which are instinctual and that we can never really shed or mask and probably many more are a creation of environmental influences. We all seem to want to define ourselves as some sort of being with a center and we perhaps feel the need to display our behaviors to others and to ourselves as a cohesive definable, reliable and easy to understand image of a reality. In fact we are delightfully pliable and ever in motion and we can never really be defined as more than a snap shot in time never to be repeated at any given moment. The more rigidly we strive to label and define ourselves the more trapped and disillusioned we may feel. The application of our definitions on others may in fact become walls and barriers to deeper, sexier and more delightful interactions. Relax and experience. Ceasing to define ourselves and others may be the secret to discovering and more fully enjoying our own company and the company of others. Expect nothing and just be who you are moment by moment and as you feel desires in the moment toward others be honest. Words may be overrated and people will instinctually understand our desires beyond our words and a need for proper social decorum. Sex happens beyond and in spite of definitions. Sex that happens because of a definition may be less delightful than we expected. Hence we have all known "swingers" that become disillusioned and distance themselves from the "lifestyle". Did their sexual self die? Probably not. Did they begin to feel trapped? Possibly. Attraction including sexual attraction is very much a process of two or more individuals flowing together in a series of reactions to each other that builds and builds until sex and orgasms and joy and physical and mental epiphanies leaves the lovers swimming in a rapture beyond definitions.
Scuba, Nude Beaches, Swingers - Scuba, Nude Beaches, Swingers - We travel quite a bit, are avid scuba divers, and enjoy nude beaches. We're looking for other couples that enjoy the same. Also would like to hear about any nude beaches (other than the grossly over rated Black's Beach) that you know about. Does anyone know of a nude beach where you can do more than lay in the sun, ie. be openly sexual?
Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - We are in if that is what it takes to get back together with you, (UTHOTCPLEXTREME). We love the idea and hope it comes together.
Curious Devil - Political Science Project - ***Proves what point???? It's free so that makes it hot in Florida or that you are horribly cheap? Craiglist is free too, why not go there then lmao. SDC, SLS and Playful Swingers all started in Florida too, that certainly doesn't make this site special. We aren't comparing apples to oranges, you said that this site was hot in Utah and Florida and that simply isn't true. You can attempt to skew the point and say "no marketing" blah blah blah but that really does mean anything...you said it is hot in Florida and thats false.***
Furthermore, just because you live in Florida, doesn't mean you have statistical data that shows the success of each website in the entire state. 323 members in your area that are a part of swingular is pretty good being that it's FREE after a month and there is no marketing in that area.
**Ahhh, don't skew the point yet again...323 compared to 2323....that indicates that the site just isn't that popular here regardless of free fees (you are really really impressed by that huh?) For god sakes its free after a month because it is an attempt by this site to compete with the more popular ones. So lets take this a step further and search validated people in Florida, the entire state on Swingular and within only 100 miles of our home on SDC and compare:
550 in the entire State of Florida on Swingular
2581 on SDC within 100 miles of our home
HMMMMMMMMMM......................perhaps I'm right? Don't worry, we wont expect you to actually admit, not your style. Blog princesses never do**
TEQUILLAROSE SAYS: How much do you pay monthly for your SDC membership? How much do you pay monthly for you Lifestyle Lounge membership? How much does it cost for AFF account monthly??? I paid $25 dollars for a lifetime membership.
**Again, so what? This is off the subject again...but I will agree that AFF does suck, I
never mentioned that one, you just threw it in there. We want to actually meet people seeing how we are swingers and all...Swingular doesn't have the community base here like SDC and SLS...thus going back to the point that its not HOT in FL. Side note: Swinging in reallife is actually WAY better than cyber-swinging...I promise**
TEQUILAROSE SAYS: The scene is huge everywhere. Florida isn't special. Try moving to California or Oregon where sexual liberation has been around for decades. You're not impressing me by boasting about websites that you pay a monthly fee for just to get invited to a club everyone can join regardless. You can go to lifestyle clubs regardless of your affliation with a website. So if that's a given, what is draw of SDC??? I disagree with you. The truth is, swingular isn't hopping where you live in florida, but in other parts of the state it's doing great.
**Haha it must be a "fluke" that Swingular, SLS, SDC and Playful Swingers all started up here in Florida huh...wow. Again, you are wrong, you are REQUIRED to have approval to attend a Skin or Bliss Party, they aren't open to the general public ;) I never said that an affiliation with a website is the draw, I said that you can view upcoming events and attendance lists...which is particularly desirable for people visiting the state and newbies. Also, its a packed house on an SDC night at any of the Meet & Greets..it does sell out but if your RSVP'd on SDC you are guaranteed admittance. LMAO @ isn't hopping where I live...I live in South Florida..45 minutes from Miami this IS where almost everything is happening, I don't remember ever watch CSI Clinton :D Ever heard of Collins Avenue? (don't go googling it to sound smart lil smartyparnts) **
TEQUILLAROSE: I don't hear shit about SDC, LSL or AFF here other than they suck because you don't get what you pay for. I can post links all day regarding parties that people are planning in florida righ hear in the forum. From meet and greets to on-premise parties. Let's not forget that the website membership with SDC, doesn't get you into the club at no extra expense. So what does SDC provide??? Information about the party? Those on-premise clubs are open to anyone willing to pay for a membership to the club it's self. You're not convincing.
;) ;)
::Uh...again wrong, members receive discounts and often the membership fees are waived for new couples...why would anyone, particularly new to the lifestyle, go to some random "alleged" couples party across the state from this site when you can attend a party on another site with 200+ local people. I pay 20/mo. for SDC but save up to $75 buck at the door so I guess it all works itself out (I bet thats impressive since you are all about savings and all) ;)::
AND I'M NOT SAYING THAT THIS SITE ISN'T ALL THAT AND A BAG OF CHIPS TO YOU AND THOSE IN YOUR AREA...ALL I'M SAYING IS THAT IT ISN'T HERE IN FLORIDA LIKE YOU ARE CONVINCED.
Interacial Sex - - [quote=SHAZAMER]I have played with guys and gals from every race, color, type of cultural upbringinging, etc. that can be found in Utah. The stereotypes are just silly and stupid. There are hot & not so hot men of every race. What I do find intriguing is that most guys of races other than white, keep themselves physically fit after marriage and take pride in their appearance. This seems to be much more rare in married white men. A shame! Also, seems like white swingers like to smoke. A lot. This is a turn off for me, so I tend to steer clear.
xoxoxo
Monika[/quote]
So does this apply to the gals to or just the guys? We've found that a huge % or swingers smoke not just the pale ones.
Extramarital Affairs and the Lifestyle - Where do you stand? - we find it rather interesting that man or woman feels the desire to be with others and would risk losing their family for extramarital sex . when all you have to do if realize that that open communication with your spouse is all you need . we do not play alone and that due to the fact we are spicing up our sex life, not mine or hers we do it together because it brings us closer in alot of ways. if the day comes when one or both of us are no longer turned on by seeing the other with someone else , or playing just doesnt feel right , we will stop! lets face it people will always be attracted to others no matter how perfect your marrige seems so why not explore that together and when you look back on it years from now youll be able to say man we had alot of fun and wouldnt change a thing .
p.s. the divorce rate for swingers is about 3/4 less than that of vanilla couples! woder why?
Hobie n Amy
stop being so vanilla - - Most of our friends are in the lifestyle and those that are vanilla know about it. So when the vanilla men see an attractive girl, the suddenly return to infancy, drooling while hoping to see a glance of a boob and get to suck on it. Always pisses them off when they point out an attractive girl to me and I respond "ahh, I have better looking girlfriends then that." I have told them they are so vanilla and one guy thought it was a racial slur. Another told his brother what I say about being so vanilla and his brother told him it is a swingers term to refer to guys like you. After a bit of conversation the brothers learned the one I don`t know is in the lifestyle and the one I am friends with is very curious now.
Wannabes and net fakes - Will the real lifestyle members please stand up - How many of you have taken the time to examine just how many of the coined and meaningless profiles there are on the net in general, not just here on this site.
We have been in the lifestyle as life as allowed for over 25 yrs. Long before the introduction of the net. Now it seems the lifestyle as an entire new perspective. Lets see we have who knows how many version of "swingers" Hard, soft, mild, wild, interested, looking for, etc etc. That said and in consideration of all of these well coined and copied versions, I have a suggestion for one, HOW ABOUT "REAL" Real replies to emails or messages, Real arrives for scheduled meetings, Real post genuine pictures, Real is proud of their gender and does not have to "fake" another's, Real would never open a dialogue with "interested what are you looking for", Real has actually either involved themselves in the lifestyle or at the least have a genuine desire to physically do so, not play games. And finally, "Real" respects others by being real in person, on the net and or the phone, Give it a try people, you may find this lifestyle very interesting by being "Real"
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