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Latest Tiger Woods Family Portrait - - One thing I love about a forum it does expose those folks with NO SENSE of humor. All the late night shows are having fun with this story, I can't wait to see what SNL has to offer, should be a hoot. If we can make fun photos and jokes about "Presidents" (and we have for as long as I can remember) I don't think a "golfer" should be off limits, which of course [u]he's not[/u]. Here's some jokes posted in another swingers forum here in Florida, so far I haven't seen anyone there start [b]whining and crying [/b]about the jokes. Perhaps our over exposure to sunshine has caused our [b]HUMOR ORGAN [/b]to become [b]ENLARGED[/b]. Apparently the police asked Tiger's wife how many times she hit him. She said "I don't know exactly

Do your friends and family know about your lifestyle? - - Here is our view..... Our sex life is private, what we choose to do within our sex lives is private also. We choose not to tell our family members because it is just none of their beez wax, it is personal, and private to us. Most ppl wouldn't understand it especially my family. Stitch's family, well....they probably wouldn't be shocked to hear it, but we still don't wanna share with them. We do have vanilla friends (not many though, we aren't social butterflies, we only make friends with swingers....lol) but we don't share with them our choice to swing. It's just a personal choice we have not to share. It isnt that we are ashamed or that we think this lifestyle is something to be ashamed of......we just think it is something best left between us. Just as what we do together in our own bedroom is private and personal so is our choice to swing. We are good friends with the ppl we work with, but they are all on a needta know basis, and they just don't needta know any of it. Our kids are to young right now, but as they get older we will just haveta be more careful. We dont' want them knowing about it either. There again, it just comes back to....I wouldn't share with my kids what dad and I did in our bedroom the night b4, so why would I share with them about our choice to swing. It is private and between us as a married couple.

Seems Pointless - Seems Pointless - “Because it’s a swinger site” - doesn’t explain the WHY the site would have any user (single male, or otherwise), be able to view users that they could not contact. Wouldn’t it make more sense to have your profile NOT pop up on searches from singles males or any other demographic that does not interest you? “not designed for single males” As you said earlier, it’s a swinger site…. It can be assumed that is “designed” for all types of swingers… couples, single males, single females, all types. The category’s are pretty clear in its stated format. I do agree however that many seemingly just troll.

Anyone else in or near Daybreak? - We know you are out there! - What ever came of the Daybreak swingers Facebook page? Is it active and being used?

Swinging versus poly/open - - [quote=SEXYSLC30]I'm speculating here, but it seems the millennial generation as a whole is more open to an open/poly relationship, and it naturally is bleeding into Swingular as more and more younger/ish couples sign up. We started out with very strict rules about emotions for others, ect. Now, we find ourselves on a spectrum where we still occasionally love the "wham bam, thank you mam" aspects of swinging (what were their names again...😁?), but after several years of that, we are now far more interested in developing relationships with the people we meet. Sometimes that means we have really good friends with benefits, however neither of us are closed to the possibility of dating the right person. And I don't believe dating others leads to divorce, however not being honest and failing to communicate certainly does. And that applies to swingers and monagamous couples alike.[/quote] I really relate to your comments and feel we are very similar. Maybe not to the point of dating others but we definitely want to have feelings for others as a couple and individually. The problem is that most of these open relationships seem to be very secretive which leads to distrust and hurt feelings which leads to more extreme behavior and we just don’t want to get caught in the middle of it. We share and communicate everything, half the fun is turning everyone on which cant happen when it’s all secretive. We just feel more and more pressure to be fully open and people care About our boundaries less and less. Guys start actively messaging and trying to sext my wife without asking me if that’s okay first. Women start getting extra demanding of my attention and then finding out their husbands know very little about what’s going on. Single guys who simply can’t be our friend as a couple and enjoy some occasional bull time with the wife without wanting more. It’s just been really odd for us these past 2 years. We also feel that because the current culture of lifestyle parties is more open relationships, new couples get introduced to it and start thinking that’s the only way. So they either do it that way or leave the scene entirely. Our post is partially to let other newbies know there is another way.

Swingers dying out? - Is the utah swinger community dying or becoming to needy? - We have met plenty of people here and had lots of fun, There is a very big cross section of UT here, from the young and fit to the older larger folks like us and every combo in between. If you put forth the effort you will find like minded folks to play with. TJ.

AFF in the movie - - The way we look at it, If someone sees our profile on a swingers website, they will have to answer the question of 'What were YOU looking at a swingers website for' if the bring it up in conversation. So its a pretty safe topic with us and we have no problem telling our close friends that we swing.

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Forum Community - EVERYONE!! - HEY WHATS UP WITH EVERYBODY ? MY NAME IS FREAKY KITTY . AND I LOVE MAKING NEW FRIENDS . SO IF ANYONE WANTS TO SAY HI PLEASE DO SO I ONLY BITE WHEN TURN ON . NORMALLY ON SAT NIGHTS WE ARE AT PLEASURE PALACE . IF ANYONE EVER WANTS TO GO LET US KNOW . WE HAVE 3 KIDS AND VERY BUSY RUNNING A AUCTION SITE FOR SEXY CLOTHES AND STUFF SO WE DONT GET OUT MUCH . WE TELL EVERYBODY THAT WANTS TO HANG OUT WITH US TO COME UP TO THE CLUB . SINCE WE DO ADV IN BODY PAINTS FOR PEOPLES WEB SITES AND SWINGERS GROUPS WE TAKE ALOT OF PICS . BUT ANYONE THAT WANTS TO HANG OUT DOESNT HAVE TO DO PICS . SO IF UARE CAM SHY THATS OK TO . BUT WE WOULD LOVE TO FIND MORE PEOPLE LIKE US . WE TAKE ALOT OF PICS . AND NOW TRYING TO MAKE THE TIME AND GET SOME FRIENDS TOG TO MAKE SOME MOVIES . WE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A GOOD PLACE TO TAKE SOME GOOD PICS AT . SO IF U KNOW OF A PLACE THAT WOULD BE GOOD PLEAASE LET US KNOW .WE WOULD LIKE TO FIND SOMEONE WITH A CAR/BIKE SHOP TO DO SOME PICS IN . I WOULD DO FREE ADV AND PICS FOR THEM IN RETURN OF LETTING ME TAKE SOME NAUGHTY PICS AT THIER SHOP ..... NAUGHTY DREAMS FREAKY KITTY

Handling aging and lifestyles - How do you handle getting older? - We were monogamous while our kids were small. We raised five. It was a great time of life. Once they became old enough to not need to be hands on cared for, and frankly were at the time in their formative years, where it’s healthy for them to have a higher level of autonomy, and hang out with their peers, we started swinging and hanging out with our peers, some of which we had sex with. Now that several of our children, have children, and want to hang out with us and their sibling and their families, once again most of our free time ends up as family time. So, we are not as high of a commodity as we once were, and no, we don’t get as many sexy we want to fuck you guys proposals as we once did, and that all sort of fits together with the rest of our lives. As the years go by, the older we get, the better we were. There are some extremely hot younger couples on the site. We are aware that most people midlife or younger are not really looking for people our age. I’ll be 65 next week. We know quite a few couples our age or a bit older that really pretty much quit swinging and it happened a little bit at a time. Some women, after passing through menopause lose interest altogether, and some men lose the ability to perform. That has not happen to either of us, but perhaps we are not as raging horny as we once were. Which perhaps aids in not getting swept away in the moment, and taking a risk or two more than was wise. Fortunately, luck has always been on our side. In any case, older swinging peers, fortunately, start to look pretty good, as you age. As for younger swingers, we figure that if they check out our profile, and they are interested, who knows, maybe something could happen.