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announcing a new group - for all single ladies ~ UNICORNS - It's not going to work. Single women on here, or unicorns, get the whole stigma of being the most wanted of the swingers. But when it comes down to it, we get the shafted usually. All the couples want in so they can see what is said or see who the players are.
Female sex fantasies. - What do women really think about sex? - We understand and respect that a lot of swingers, possibly more women than men, really don't like comments posted on their profiles. The whole kiss and tell mindset. Still, comments about a couple, at least somewhat verify, that both the wife and the husband are willing partners in this adventure.
As for time spent online, there are far fewer wives that seem to spend more time online in this site than their husbands. Once Mrs. Delicious has established a high level of trust in a FWB relationship, be it couples, singles, whatever, she has no problem just giving people her phone number. As for these chat rooms whose names won't show up due to censorship in threads in the forums, or emails within this site, she has had enough creeper experience, that for her it can be a total buzz kill. Let's face it, people who comment in the forums, can and do get jumped on too. Ladies, that do the initial responding to emails get even more abuse. She will get involved online, if someone contacting us really interest her and she feel like it's a safe and sexy possibility. Possibly, that is why far fewer wives seem to comment in the forums. Honestly, isn't it also mostly, for the same reason far more single men have memberships than single women? Men generally tend to be a bit more sex-centric, and women that have similar libidos are at risk, and judged because of it, even by some within this community?
As for control, once we meet someone in the flesh, our lady, as is the case with quite a few swinger couples, tends to sit in the driver's seat more often than not.
As for our profile, yes, her sex druthers, are very much the cornerstone!
Advertising your self - Do it like You would a house or car - [quote=SIMPLEPLEASURES]We love the 1970's wedding pictures. Or pictures that include your kids. Then there is the pictures that clearly give the impression the wife has no idea she has become the member of a swinger site.
We are guilty a lot of our pictures are unedited. But we're going for that rough look. Fot us our fear of being outed has long since vanished. Wek don't advertise but all our family and friends know all our vacations include destinations that involve nudity. They all suspect or more likely know swinging is part of it. They ask questions from time to time hoping we will discuss it. Comments like yea when we were younger our friends asked if we would swap.
So no fear has its rewards, but why push it. It's not like we are the official ambassadors of the lifestyle. Nor missionaries for the cause.
Simples [/quote]
Exactly, it is not a cause but rather just a choice among many choices. Whether a couple or a single wants to self disclose by self dis-clothing online and show face pictures and create a profile that is stand alone sexy or play their cards very, very close to their chest is just another choice.
We have never taken a vacation to a nude resort or a swingers themed cruise or anything like that but we have had swing sex or sex with someone other than each other but not necessarily people that call themselves swingers while on vacation more than a couple of times.
That Moment - - All of the time....I try to not look like myself in public....I make sure I look like a slob(well not a slob but more clothes lol).
I hate going to the store in general as rather they are a swinger or not....I will and most the time do have some odd weirdo have to take time to tell me their mind! lol
We have ran into couples and have said hi depending on the whole situation. If kids are around we will just wave and smile at them.
Swingers are EVERYWHERE so BEWARE!
swingers helper... - I know some of us need this every now and again... - What is your sign?
Disneyland swingers - - Anyone going to be there Oct 4th to the 7th email us.
Question - do you talk about other swingers? - Never mention names! One thing we've found over the years is that people who swing, particularly those who belong to clubs, have too much to say about other people. I don't want to hear about it.. The people who are typically being trashed may be friends and we may have had different experiences with them. Best thing is simply the illustrated comments about what your version of swinging is. Descretion means or should mean what happens with others stays there and is not discussed. People may mesh differently with others and your experience or theirs is irrelevant. So MUM's the word.
Ray
Secret Swingers Club Ogden, UT - Clubs - We are planning on being there tonight. What is the theme and password for tonight?
Meeting new swingers? - Where to meet them? - A few months ago we got together with 2 couples we had met on-line. We met in the parking lot of a mall local to us- we happened to live just about mid-way between the two other couples. After hugging and shaking hands and chatting a bit we agreed to have drinks and something to eat at a nearby restaurant where we all got to know each other. Things proceeded from there to another location where friskiness was the order of the evening;)
YOLO Cruise April 26 2009 - swingers cruise - We're going as well... should be a fun time!
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