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Soft-core roll call - A call out to those interested in the softer side. - [quote=PARTYINLV]Canvas,
It sounds like you and your wife are not quite on the same page yet, which is quite normal at the beginning of exploring the Lifestyle. You are looking for friendships with those who are in a similar situation. That's a good idea, but be prepared that even those friendships may be fleeting as the chemistry or level of comfort may still be different.
At the beginning of our lifestyle journey, my wife and I were just as you are today, (I was also at a different level as my wife too). TheFunCouple offers excellent advice on going to meet & greets. I also add that you might want to check out a place like Sea Mountain Inn in Palm Springs. There you can see how comfortable it is to be nude in front of others and witness all the different levels of the lifestyle. You will have opportunities to talk to others and learn more. There is no pressure to play. Plus, you will be out of Utah and away from people who might recognize you.
If you are adventurous enough, maybe plan a vacation to Temptations Resort in Mexico. This resort is not truly a lifestyle resort but is a lifestyle friendly resort since so many non swingers go there. It still is a sexually charged resort. You will meet a lot of people who are similar to you there and you have a whole week to be relaxed, get into vacation mode, and explore your steps into the lifestyle together without judgement or pressure.[/quote]
Thanks. I'm totally fine with my wife not wanting to be with another man. And she's ok with me being comfortable with another woman. So, not being on the same page doesn't cause issues as much as it adds to the challenges.
Any way, I completely agree with you and TheFunCouple about meeting people in person, going to meet-and-greets, etc. That would be the best way to meet and get a feel for people. Two problems with that for us though: 1) We live in Podunk i.e., a long ways from Lifestyle events and 2) neither of us likes parties or any sort of large social gatherings. We're not hermits or socially awkward. It's just not our thing.
I appreciate your post as well as the others.👍
We love the autumn sky - - Cool post, Delicious. And OMG, I can't believe I'm going to say this. You're older. I'd never point that out if I wasn't older too. But yeah ... we've definitely evolved to where I'd call us "mellow" swingers. I'm really not looking to bop around to some head-banger music hoping to bump into just the right couple for a crazy romp in the corner behind a large speaker. Been there. Done that. Hurts my freaking ears.
Went up yesterday with my husband and one buddy on bikes. Ended up in a long, drawn-out threesome on a small pad and blanket (and 32 freaking rocks, all seemingly right underneath MY ass!). In the chill of the mountains, the nipple-rising small breeze floating across us. More our style anymore. I don't think that it makes it one bit less exciting or lively. And yes, I will make it with my husband out on the deck, under the stars. Just us. And just as nice.
You sound like you are in a wonderful place. It doesn't take 84 people, music at rock-level-volume, flashing lights, four gallons of alcohol, three turtle doves, two french hens.... err .... ah ..... yeah, it doesn't take all that stuff to create a great sexual experience.
Have at it, sexy people!
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - Oh shit the racist card was pulled... well I guess am fucked since I am a spic or as other might say Bilingual Ni
Seeking mormon swingers - - Used to
NEW YAHOO GROUP FOR FREAKY PEOPLE - ITS NEW AND ITS FREE EVERYBODY IS WELCOME TO JOIN . - I JUST WANTED TO LET ALL OF YALL KNOW , THAT I JUST STARTED A NEW YAHOO GROUP FOR FREAKY PEOPLE AND SWINGERS . IT IS NEW . AND IT IS FREE. PLEASE FEEL FREE TO JOIN AND TELL ALL YOUR FREAKY FRIENDS ABOUT IT . [email protected]
WE ALWAYS GO TO PLEASURE PALACE TO PARTY WHEN WE GO OUT . BUT PLEASE FEEL FREE TO ADV YOUR PARTIES OR GROUPS AND STUFF LIKE THAT . USE THE SITE AS WISH FOR ALL OF YOUR NAUGHTY NEEDS .
IF U OWN OR RUN ANY KINDA OF CLUB , GROUP OR WEB SITE FOR ADULTS U MAY ADV IT THERE . U CAN MAKE A POST ABOUT IT . OR U CAN ADD A LINK ON THE FRIENDS LINK AREA .
I WANTED TO OFFER A FREE SITE FOR EVERYBODY THAT LIKES FREAKY PEOPLE . TO HELP EVERYBODY MAKE NEW FRIENDS . ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY IS WELCOME .
ALL THAT I ASK IS THAT EVERYBODY IS RESPECTFUL TO EACH OTHER . AND TO LET EACH MEMBER BE WHO THEY ARE AND EXPLORE AT THEIR OWN PACE .
PLEASE NO HATE MAIL OR BASHING ANYONE ON THIS SITE .
TO EACH THEIR OWN AND I WELCOME ANYONE TO JOIN THE GROUP .
HAVE FUN . AND I HOPE EVERYBODY MEETS ALOT OF NEW FRIENDS IN 2005 .
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
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Now a single male looking for a rebound play - - That or rabid Ferrets.
[quote=PALS4FUN]Yeah, swinging can cause huge pressure on a marriage and totally screw it up. I'm sure that's why most swingers, myself included, would never recommend swinging as a way to "spice-up" a marriage that is having some difficulty. You definitely have to be on the same page as your partner in order to give swinging a go -- and then be pretty damn quick on your feet and adaptable as things get going -- perhaps in a direction that you didn't expect.
I don't get though, why the OP is back here if he's not interested in swinging for the long term or looking for a woman who is interested in it? Seems this OP is more suited for a singles-type site.
And Evil, yes I'd like to see your listing 'cause I'm guessing that at least one of the items involves a douche-canoe going over a large peefall before crashing into a turd log. Or other such silliness, much funnier than what I've just described! ;) Yes ... I know your personality here![/quote]
Swinging Web Pages - - Just throw "swingers" in the subject for google search and it brings up all sorts of pages, including plenty concerning the movie "Swingers" from a couple years back. The results are so many you will get tired of looking...;)
Secret Swingers Club Ogden, UT - Clubs - Speaking of lifestyle groups on Facebook, and as I really don't search well can anyone provide suggestions? or send me an invite. I would definitely be interested in looking for a LS friendly bar.
Forum Search - How does one correctly perform one? - Well... While I agree that this site is less friendly in a lot of areas, there are still a bunch of good qualities - the people. This still is and always has been the best Swingers site in Utah and its really reaching a lot of other states now. AFF probably has more eye candy to look at but the forums are lame and you can never count on actually meeting anyone.
What were you looking for, POUNDCAKE? Maybe the other members can help.
Mr. Sexperimentors
Any Swingers out there? Golf swingers that is... - - less see... weve rented bars, amusement parks, forests... why not a golf course for a day? are you listening party orginizers?
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