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Couples seeking Single Males - - 10 Quick Tips for Single Males... How to Greatly Improve Your Chances of Meeting with Couples & Ladies... So for you single guys out there, here are some tips that can greatly increase your chances of hooking up with couples and ladies out there in the swinging lifestyle. 10 quick tips: #1.) Always remember no means no. It doesn't mean that you insist on pushing on and trying more. We will elaborate more on this later; #2.) When contacting a couple or a single females to try to have some fun with them, never expect after an email that you will be meeting for drinks that night. There are a lot of couples and single females out there that would much rather chat and get to know you via yahoo messenger, etc.. before ever meeting. #3.) When you find someone on a Yahoo profile that looks interesting to you,... please make sure and read their profile. There are sometime that couples are just looking for a bi-female or couples. So, if the profile says No single males... don't even waste your time contacting them; #4.) Be respectful when contacting a lady or couple that interests you. Let them know some info about yourself (it is always a very good first impression to include a PHOTO or two (You don't have to show your face if you wish to be discreet, & PLEASE not just a crotch shot) your AGE, LOCATION (this is very important).. and better still, send a link to your Yahoo profile with your email. A vast majority of couples and ladies will not respond to those who have a BLANK YAHOO PROFILE WITH NO PHOTO. So if you do have just a blank profile, you are probably wasting your time.. Also include your interests... sexual and non-sexual.. Also, when describing what you like sexually... don't describe things in a distasteful way. Example: instead of saying. "I like my cock sucked"... or "I like to fuck ladies in the ass"... Tell them that you enjoy oral ....and performing anal on a lady; #5.) Within your reach--- When contacting a lady or couple, make sure that they are located fairly close to you... and if not.. it would be somewhere that YOU are going to be traveling to over the next couple of months; #6.) Never write a person when you will be going to their town the next day if you've never chatted with them before-- your chances are slim to none that you will be successful finding someone. Example: "Hey,.. I'll be in town tomorrow in room 315 at the Hilton.. would you like to come to my room for some fun?" That doesn't work in the swinging lifestyle if you've never been in contact with this woman or couple before; #7.) While chatting or emailing with a couple or female,.. never push the issue to meet. Pushy will never get you anywhere; #8.) Respect all issues with couples or single females.. If couples or females insist that you use a condom, don't push the issue not to. Talk about everything with the couples or single females before meeting. All the do's and don'ts ----- find out before meeting anybody.. it insures better success. Do not expect sex with anybody the first time you meet them!! Many couples and ladies insist on a SOCIAL MEETING FIRST - that's why it's best to meet with those who live closer to you.) When you do get around to having some fun together, why not bring a nice bottle of wine along - it's a nice thing to do, shows class and gives a great FIRST IMPRESSION! Also when you're first meeting, dress your best and show good personal hygiene; #9.) If you are playing as a single male--- Make sure you are single...and if not... that your wife does know about your participation in the swinging lifestyle... don't lie about it... be honest enough with the couple or lady and tell them you are married and wish to be discreet... some swingers like meeting with married men because they feel they will be more discreet than single men; and #10.) Just remember. Treat others with respect and always be honest and open-- when you do, you will gain friendship and trust. Trust is a must in the swinging lifestyle and people aren't just a fuck. There are many people in the swinging lifestyle that build life friendships. Most importantly, when you are going to meet, show up on time & those who are "no-shows" will be remembered w/in this community. Don't give excuses at the last minute why you can't meet on an agreed date/time and location. We're all nervous at some point. Nothing is worse than a series of email or phone tags!...people' s lives are busy enough without this happening... If you're going to talk the talk, then you gotta walk the walk! And always remember.. NO MEANS NO; We would like any feedback from all of you couples and singles out there on this and what you thought of it. And if you'd like to add anything to this ... please send an email to the group or us. For you single males out there...I know that some of you are seasoned swingers, but there are some guys out there that would like to know and understand the swinging lifestyle, that is why we shared this.

"Can't Say No" Party - Who'd be interested in coming? - Mrs LPA69 and I have been talking about hosting a "Can't Say No" party at our home in Lindon UT. The idea comes from when we were investigating some foreign swingers clubs. There was one in South Africa that advertised a "can't Say No" room. If you went into the room, you could not turn down a request from someone else in the room, unless their request would be a health hazard (eg bareback intercourse). The idea intrigued us both (okay, me more than her, but she likes the idea). If we host such a party, it would be a little different from the South Africa swingers club. We suggest that it work this way. 1. We would have 10 couples maximum come to our house. We would advertise the party to everyone on Swingular, because it would be fun to have some couples we didn't know in attendance, just to make it more exciting. 2. We'd take a little time to drink, snack, and mingle while we were getting to know everyone else a little. During the mingle time, the two in each couple could talk about who they were interested in or not. 3. The women would all get together in private, and discuss amongst themselves who they were each willing to play with, what they were willing to do, etc. 4. Everyone would get back together, and for the next hour or so, each woman would tell her man what to do with whom, and the man could not say no. 5. After a break, the men would all get together in private, and discuss who they were each willing to play with, what they were willing to do, etc. 6. Everyone would get back together, and for the next hour or so, each man would tell his woman what to do with whom, and the woman could not say no. That's all the rules. The party could be as wild as those in attendance wanted to make it. Obviously it would be critical for each couple to state clearly their feelings to their own partner during Step 2, because after that, you can't say no to your own partner's instructions (but you're not obligated to do something that another person asks you to do). You'd have to really trust your own partner, wouldn't you? We'd like to know how many of you couples would be interested in that kind of party. The earliest we could host it would be New Year's Eve (or maybe in January), but we'd like to get an idea now as to the interest level. L&P

Curiosity - What pitfalls should I watch out for? O.o - The biggest pitfall is being a single guy itself. Just leave, get a girl and come back as a couple. It's just simple logic, allow me to explain: Why would a couple get with a single guy when there is an abundance of hot couples which include a guy and a girl? Unless the other dude is bi, then you are on your own. If you are over 30, male and single there must be something seriously wrong with you, no excuses. People break up all the time. So take a break, set a goal and come back to the real fun with a girl. Without a girl you'd just see how the fun goes in front of your eyes. Is like arriving a the track without a thoroughbred and then you'd want to ride everybody's mare. Guess what? No one would give a shit about what happened to you. And your X will be banging some douchebag while all this happens. On the other hand, this is a great time to be single. Younger men are flat broke and hot younger girls are going for older guys. Go get yourself into a serious relationship with an early 20's college chick. If you have 1/2 an ounce of game, are not a douche and a little something to show for (car, apt) you should have no problem. I've seen the dorkiest, dumbest white college guy, skinny and with facial hair with some hot yet shy asian girl at a damn classy swingers ball near JAX FL. Shit if I become single I would not last a week in the market with so much college pussy out there annd I'm 43. Also, it is also easier to turn younger chicks, especially nowadays, into swinging I turned my loving wife when she was 22 and she's been at it since then. Yes, I am a douche, but I have a hot wife, we get along well with other couples, love to flirt and party and we play with hot couples often, more frequently that we'd like to admit lol. Your X may be fucking some douchebag but she's gonna get upgraded. This is it. Go get em' big guy.

Swingers in Draper cause Super Dell to speed - - No THAT was f**king funny!

sending messages getting no response!!! - - And while we're at it, what's up with going to meet 'n greets and parties and people not lining up to fuck us? Talk about RUDE! I mean we're all swingers so why are people so cliquish that they won't just fuck anyone who asks them? We go by the motto "I'm a swinger, you're a swinger so let's fuck!" All this bullshit about wanting to fuck "attractive" people or people who aren't the same age as our parents (or our kids) is elitist bullshit. I'm ENTITLED, dammit, to my fair share of hot young poontang! [em]Emo_84[/em]

The unbearable burden of proof. - Congratulations! You have an opinion. Why does everybody else have to agree with it? - Well, this certainly seems like a 'diverted extension' to me. But, since you did ask (and publicly), here goes: People often tell others what they've done, to demonstrate that they have a certain amount of experience doing it. Simple enough. And, in remarkable contrast to your opinion, it's not necessarily to sound intelligent or to give credence to an outrageous postulations. Sometimes they actually know what they're talking about. Unfortunately, you can't assume that just because someone talks about their experience, they really don't know anything. As to your comment concerning years of experience...(and you immediately zero in on computers...hmmm...wonder what that's about?) 1. As T4REAL capably put it, the kid from college has 'book smarts', but often lacks the real-world experience to make that training useful. Give me the vet every time - and if you listen, you'll find many who will echo that. Probably a majority. Why? Because the vet's not only seen more real problems, but they've been involved in more real answers. I recall a quote along the lines of "The biggest fault of youth is inexperience". While the young grad *cannot* have the benefit of experience the vet does, it *is* possible the vet can have the experience and the (recent) academic exposure, as well. 2. My mom - an educator herself, with degrees in all sorts of stuff, told me once, "I went to college to learn what I didn't know". (Little play on words, there - she was a languistics teacher). What she meant was that, beyond high school is another type of learning - broad and still detailed. You really begin to realize how little you actually know about things when you're exposed to further education. You gain an advanced perspective, which in turn makes you realize you know diddly, in the grand scheme of things. (Happy Mother's Day, Mom) 3. "Any more than 5 years of doing something allows a person sufficient enough time to become calcified into a single-mindedness that allows the world to pass you by anonymously." Nice pile of words...but, sure - it does 'allow...sufficient time' - but, again, it doesn't guarantee anything. If a person does anything for *any* length of time, and doesn't work to keep current, they will fall behind what is current. But you have little way of knowing how current people are, just based on some post on an Internet swingers site. Five years of doing something doesn't automatically mean someone's fallen behind, either. And the 62.5% of all statistics you cite? Well, doesn't that mean 37.5% are completely legit? (No matter the fictitious percentage *you* make your point with, it's complement will always oppose you). Again, trouble here is you have no way of knowing whether a given citation is accurate or not - but you can't just assume they're all wrong. Again, as in our recent discussion elsewhere - I put my opinion out there, and I have no problem letting others read and decide for themselves. Some people (*ahem*) seem so interested in contradicting others, they get far, far away from the matter at hand. You may find it interesting to know, I'm not really formally educated much beyond high school and military technical training; I hold no degrees, and very few certifications, proper. What I know about PC's I've learned almost entirely on my own. To be honest, I'd prefer a guy who learned because he really had passion enough to learn on his own. This is one reason I have so many machines at home...it's a hobby, but it's also a huge test bed; a training apparatus. And I've been training for over 25 years (sorry, I'm sure you hate me saying that). On the other hand, with no more education and certificates than I have, I did actually run a reasonably successful business for a while. I've managed to support my family at a level *well* beyond the means you'd expect from my education alone. So, it's possible that I do know what I'm talking about, although I don't expect you'll ever acknowledge that. It's OK, I don't really require your acknowledgement. I do realize I'm making a few assumptions here myself. While this isn't necessarily about me, it damn sure smacks of it; not at all subtle of you. Still, I've tried to indulge you, without attacking you or being insulting. I hope you learn what there is to know from the responses to your post. And T4real - excellent points!

Key West - Lifestyle Friendly Places in Key West - [quote=TONYIRINA]The best thing to do is hook up with some local nudist/swingers that have a boat and talk them into taking you out to the sandbar so you can get naked and drink till your completely pickled!! :)[/quote] So, Ginger and I are planning on going down to Key West either this October or next... Do you guys have a boat?

A fine line. - - Trying to stick to the OP intent here. [quote=CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL][quote=EVILDOERS] we often find it difficult to walk the fine line between being nice, polite, and social with other people when we do not actually feel an attraction to them. If we had a week at desires it would be easier to be nice and talk with everyone. However adult hours are not easy to come by so we do find this line hard. My wife will talk with a friendly person or couple the whole night. Even if the couple is in some committed deal. I have been working on getting her to direct her time on couples she can see us doing something mor. Or limit the time she spends and move along. Do you at some point just say honestly that while they are nice it just ain't gonna happen? We only feel this is needed it they ask us if we want to get a room. At that time you just have to say something and it is never easy. Do you make some sort of lame excuse and beat a hasty retreat hoping they will get the hint? Do you move on to another couple that you are attracted to and look annoyed when the first couple follows you around all night. Of course some people just won't take a hint or take "no" for an answer and for those you DO have to be blunt. This is one method that does seem to work. It is easier if you do it early on in the timeline like the first 5 mins or less. So what techniques do y'all use in situations like this? How do you be nice to others without necessarily encouraging them? [b]Seriously? I mean, you don't know how to interact with others and carry on a conversation without having them believe you want to hop in the sack with them?[/b] Its not that easy.. How do you walk over to a couple and start to talk to them at a swingers party and not have them think you want the Mor?

Any Sci-Fi lovers here? - What\'s to describe? Either you like a good sci fi TV series or movie or you don\'t. - Okay, We are going to add our names to the Geek Squad fo Sci Fi Lovin Swingers here on Swingular! (applause please) I (mR.) am a huge Star Trek fan, and NO, there will not be any debate as to the quality of the Captains of the Enterprise! Every Trek fan worth his salt KNOWS that JAMES KIRK is the space pimp who started it all! I mean come on!?!? A green chick, a blue chick, a BLACK chick (that was a network television first!) and every other kind of chick there was. If it was a space chick, he's fucked it people. You cant but that kind of love anywhere! Now I love Picard, Janeway, Riker (of Titan fame now if you are a reader), Sisko, and yes, even Captain Archer, for whom the federation adopted many new rules because he screwed so many things up, is cool with me. I was a huge DS9 fan also, well..the last 3 years anyway when Worf came aboard. I am also a huge Star Wars fan. In fact, I am the OFFICIAL star wars fan. If there is printed material on Star Wars, I own it. For those of you who read, the NJO (new jedi order) was fantastic! And everything before it as well. Just finished the three book Dark Nest trilogy and man am I impatient for more! We both loved X-Files. Nuff said right? There were times that I wanted to bitch slap Scully for being a doubting thomas though. Even after the movie she would say, "I dont believe it." Stupid bitch. LoL. We love SURFACE, STAR GATE SG-1, Atlantis, and my absolute fav right now has got to be GALACTICA!!! Talk about a completely perfect remake of a cult classic with a few twists on the characters! Good television. Since I am gone from home so much, I dont get to watch a lot of cable, but you can bet that when I do make a date with the TIVO I am GLUED to these shows, and nothing, short of my wifes sexy ass smile and devilish little "come and get it" grin, can make me press pause! Luvbugs! (mR.) ;)

Is "Hot Husbanding" a thing? - Hot Husband - There are a way more single men, interested in hooking up with married women for no strings attached sex than there are single women looking to hook up with married men for the same reason. So yes hot husbanding is possible, but not so much in demand. Within the swingers community, where women tend to be quite a bit more liberated, and openly sexual than the social normative, you are more likely to discover hot husbanding in play. With that said there still seems to be a lot more Hot Wife opportunity within our swing community too.

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