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Poly-Swingers - Moving beyond FWB relationship - [quote=T4REAL69]I for one am still not clear what the input is the OP is seeking (and yes I realize he asked this of poly couples)? OP are you asking how you should proceed in the relationship seeing how feelings have developed to a deeper level then just the casual? [/quote]
Just curious as to what other Non monogamous couples' have experienced when strong emotional bonds to people other than one's spouse has emerged.
Who is going to Younge swingers week HEDO? - anyone going? - We are going but will be there for Secret Crush Week. Feb. 4th-11th.
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - I would like to point out one thing, when you are a single male you and you are straight and you want a couple then you bring nothing to table. You have nothing to offer the husband of the couple aside from a show but you are asking the man of the couple to share his wife with you with nothing more then a thank you in exchange, in most cases single men have a gf or wife but simply do not want to risk sharing them because they are afraid of losing them, having them leave or know thats what you want to start doing or will be trying to do or they do not want to take the effort and risk and time to get their partner involved.
There is also the point that alot of people have fetish's but I do not know alot of white couples that are interested in black men, not every woman like a cock over 8" either, there are some but we have not met very many and it seems to be a very select group and type of swinger. We have had single men in the past but those single men had the highest respect for our relationship, they also did not get anything right away and had to show their merit as a sincere person that wanted friendship but no emotional attachment. In this day and age of disease we also are very selective with the people we swing with for obvious reasons.
As a final note, if and when you find a female partner and she lives with you in a commited relationship if you are already not in one will you be willing to share her with another man with nothing in return? Ill be willing to bet like most couples you will seek only a single female to join you in a threeway.
Swinger & π¦ Bait - An experiment to attract swingers and unicorns. - So I see the posts with the black ring and the comments that you have worn them that way for years with no luck.
May I point out that you have them on the wrong hand. In the lifestyle the black ring goes in your right hand. People probably just think your marries with a job that wonβt let you wear gold π
Why are there so many swingers from Utah? - - There are a lot of Utah members on here because it is based here in Utah and Rob does a great job of promoting it locally.
Required info for swingers - - I learned alot...,.thank you!!! lol
Swinger & π¦ Bait - An experiment to attract swingers and unicorns. - [quote=Himheryou]Im still a newbee, and could some one explain the pinapple? And what is kik? Thx so much. Im off to buy black rings, bracelets and a pinapple lol.
Hopefully Ill get initiated...[/quote]
Don't forget about
Lawn gnomes
2 pink flamingos
White yard gravel and
Pineapple doorbell ringer
Just watched a tom and bunny YouTube video about stereotypical swinger signs on my way into work today and seen this thread. But the items you and others described are thingd that people/websites came up with as a way to make it easier to find other swinger couples in public. Though most of these are unsubstantiated, it's still a fun topic nonetheless. And kik, though I'm not an expert for we're still quite new as well, I believe is a chat service (like messenger). But I too, would like some more info on kik.
Now, a question I have is, why don't people ever utilize the Swingular chat? Me and Lady Fire try and get to talk with people to become more comfortable/familiar with the life style but there's literally never been a single person in the chat room in the few months we've been on here (at the time we're logged in of course).
asking your swinger friend if you can join them. - - Tell him you would be interested in seeing what might be possible, because you are interested, but that if he is uncomfortable with any potential swing possibilities that you are okay with that and it never needs to be mentioned again. Just be honest about your interest. Fuck trying to be cool and just be honest. He probably needs to know that your friendship is not in jeopardy if he would say no. In the end if his wife is not sexually attracted to you, it may well be a mute point anyway. If she is then who knows. If they enjoy swinging then like most swingers, they probably already know that they enjoy watching each other getting properly fucked. I would rather watch a friend that I already respect and trust having sex with my wife than a stranger. The wife feels the same way when it come to watching me have sex.
With all of that said remember that most, not all, but most swinger women, just like vanilla women, only want to have sex with men they are sexually attracted to and that they feel they can trust. If they would not have considered having sex with you, were they not married, in the vanilla world, they would not consider having sex with you in the swinger world either. Swinging women are typically not afraid of going to hell for sex or offending their husbands for having sex. Swinger women typically do not devalue themselves for having strong sexual appetites. So more guys can and do have sex with them because those obstacles to sex are not so apparent, but in the end just because they know that you know that they swing does not mean they want to fuck you. If they want to fuck you it can happen. If they are a secure swinging couple in a healthy relationship and she already knows you, then maybe, all hubby might have to say to her is "you know (Insert your name here) if he was cool in all other respects do think you would be interested in having sex with him?" and if she says, well maybe, then it is a maybe but if she says "Hell yes. Why is he interested?" Then the ball is already rolling and it is up to you to not blow it.
Our Family knows... Now what, any advice? - - Recently our family confronted us about swinging. All our family meaning both sets of parents, and siblings plus spouse confronted us. We didn't deny that we are swingers. They were concerned for our health and well being. They also gave us an ultimatum to quit because they said it
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