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Calling all losers! - LS and club scene - We have said to ourselves before that 'we must be the worst swingers in the world'. We say this because sometimes we will get a text or email at 11pm and all it says is 'we are horny, lets meet and fuck'...hell we are already in bed and sometimes hubby is asleep. For us it is about friendship first..dinner to get to know each other...movies, bowling, etc, etc and than when we all decide to play it is really fun and you actually know the others you are with and want to see them again. Seems like a lot of pressure to always be on call to play. We have very busy with work and life, a friend or two would be great. Don't get us wrong, we have met some amazing people through the lifestyle. If you are close to us and would like to be friends...let us and let's met. Thanks T and B

becoming a poly couple - wanting another woman to join our family - [quote=MISSSMITHNSIRNEWBY]The Utah Polyamory Society is a decent place to start networking, if that is your thing. Not a big fan of the term, or of being labeled for who and what I am at any given moment in my life. As far as physical attractiveness, it is hit-and-miss in every community. Usually, one has to delve deeper than the loud and more public crowd. I've met a number of swingers on here who also view themselves as "poly," and even more who have expressed interest in pursuing such a lifestyle. I've met some who have branched away from swinging toward poly. Swinging for most couples I've known represents a passing phase toward messy divorce, and sometimes some form of poly -- though that also tends to lead toward messy divorce. In other words, your favorite label fails to insulate you from the consequences of life, and from your own choices. Therefore, being too proud of what you think you are today is rather silly. Daniel[/quote] Becoming self aware really can release us from a large measure of cognitive dissonance. Labels, and especially the determination to personify the definition of a label can inhibit self awareness. In the dance of neurons and mirror-neurons firing within us and all the accompanying chemical responses affecting our emotional state, etc., etc., we are in fact never really a centered being, or completely a separate entity buy really more an ever changing manifestation within a whole. If we think we are going to change and we are not capable of ever really controlling or even predicting exactly where the change will take us or what and how we will experience it then at least we are aware it really is all pretty mysterious. Marriage or a bonding or whatever you call it is as ever changing as the rest of the universe. We each and everyone of us are frankly a completely different physical manifestation every micro second that most probably has never existed before and will never exist again. Never-the-less, we all tend to have a self identifying life story or self image at least to some degree. It is at least somewhat based on our recollection of events that lay backward in the arrow of time, as we remember it, which in and of itself is sort of an illusion based on our limitations in perception. We also know a few peeps that are members of the site that are more Poly Light than poly in that they have been willfully enjoying a life partner as in just one for many years but that are open to deeper relationships that may include a measure of romance. Willfully enjoying a life partner seems to be the key. We are in the middle of that every micro second. Exactly who and how we will be in the future is impossible to predict. We willfully agree to keep doing it together.

Who is going to Younge swingers week HEDO? - anyone going? - From what I have heard Hedo is the most SM friendly resort, does anyone else know of any others? I am planning on having about a month between jobs this year and want to do some traveling.

Logan - Vasa gyms - [quote=Utahldscouple]Cardio theatre is where are most of the time 😀. Question is do you show porn or just have a camera showing what everyone is doing in the sauna in the screen?[/quote] Too many cameras in my gym for the adventures y'all are talking about! And a swingers only gym would be a great workout. Like a crossfit/HIIT gym but worse.

Young swingers party - sold out, who still wants to party ? - (cough*suckup*cough)

Nature at it's Finest - All Things Earth -

What are swingers really looking for ?Are they looking for frien - Has the happen to you. - Please read our Profile.. We are looking for Single Females for Girl on Girl. The only place it says anything about couples is at the very bottom and it says We will chat with couples and get together and become friends. (But no sexual stuff.) And we only did this because alot of couples always e-mail us.And we want them to know what we wanted from them before they e-mail us and wasted our time and theirs.We thought we were at the right place for what we are looking for (Single Females for Girl on Girl) so Please tell us what Sites or forums we sould go to if these sites and forums are not the right place. . :(

Swingers In Uniform - Pay your memorial day respects here. - I'd like to make a distinction here, if I might. I'm always a little disappointed when I read about Veterans on Memorial Day. Not to find fault, at all, mind you - but let me explain... I'm as grateful as anyone for our Veterans; the people who served (and still do) every day to defend our way of life. They are, without questions, this nation's very best. I was one of them, and my wife...so we know the very special sacrifices that every Veteran makes; every Veteran's family makes... But, remember: we have a day, just for remembering those people: It's November the 11th, and while it started out being called 'Armistice Day', it is now called 'Veterans Day'. That, my friends, is the day to show how much you appreciate what those people do. But what of today? What about Memorial Day? Well, as an honorably discharged Veteran, and a military brat...I'm very glad you all feel so proud, and I'd trade nothing for the privilege of serving this country as I did. But Memorial Day's not for me. In spite of anything I may have done for this country - regardless of whatever sacrifice I may have made...I did not pay the price that Memorial Day is intended to honor. I wrote a poem, and I hope you can understand the meaning... ____________________________________________________ Don't remember me today, for I didn't pay the price Shed a tear and say your thanks for one who sacrificed my time was short in uniform thank God I was not killed my fallen brothers wear today that which they always will My time will come, on Veteran's day and I will proudly smile if you extend your thanks to me for going an extra mile They gave their all so we could say we live forever free so for today, I ask you please to not remember me... ____________________________________________________ Finally, because I'm always compelled to remember the great sacrifice and honor with which some did serve...and page from history: ____________________________________________________ Lydia Bixby, November 21, 1864 Dear Madam, I have been shown in the files of the War Department, a statement of the Adjutant General Of Massachusetts, that you are the mother of five sons who have died gloriously on the field of battle. I feel how weak and fruitless must be any words of mine which should attempt to beguile you from the grief of a loss so overwhelming. But I cannot refrain from tendering to you the consolation that may be found in the thanks of the Republic they died to save. I pray that our Heavenly Father may assuage the anguish of your bereavement, and leave you only the cherished memory of the loved and lost, and the solemn pride that must be yours, to have laid so costly a sacrific upon the altar of freedom. Yours, very sincerely and respectfully, A. Lincoln ____________________________________________________ Folks, let's all please try to remember, when it's Memorial Day: "...to have laid so costly a sacrific upon the altar of freedom" Take care, now. 2

What would you do? - what does a person do when their spouse no longer wishes to paticipate - Well. How amazing that the "couple in question" just happens to be in my home town. And my wife and I are at a serious impasse about the same subject, but in the "traditional direction" i.e. I still want it. She still doesn't. I'm... very surprised that a bunch of Swingers are so unanimous that "No trumps yes": that swinging is just something you do - but are ashamed of enough that any "no" in the group instantly defines the partner's life as well. Why isn't "yes" just as valid? In our case, we've been married for over 25 years. We've had a very-good run. Our children are grown and gone. We're financially comfortable. And we're still physically capable - as we watch our parents be physically unable to walk, hear, see, pee, or do much of anything to enjoy *anything* - the point there being that I hear the clock ticking and to me, this is THE time of life to reap one's reward for the life one has lead - before it's too late to do anything but try to keep breathing. And for me, being honest, the ONE thing that is my reward - is erotic fun. Let me be clear that what I crave is *erotic fun* - not just madly try to find someone new to fuck and never see again - but partners who want to wallow in the erotic experience of "Truth or Dare" and Lifestyle conventions and teasing and games. That's IT for me. That's why "doing it" is called "doing IT". And I've been a great husband/father/responsible citizen for over 50 years. And I feel that there isn't anything else in my life that really gives me a "reason for living". And my wife, bless her, just has never had any passion. She enjoys it when I have sex with her. When I give her a nice massage followed by 3 or 4 orgasms. But she's happy with twice a month or less. And she had no need at all for my "erotic experiences". So here we are. And over the last 10 years we've tried pretty-much every possibility: traditional fidelity, me cheating, us swinging, me swinging alone with her permission... and it always ultimately winds up that the only way she is not *miserable* is if I'm following "traditional fidelity". And the only way I'm not miserable - is if I have the freedom to pursue erotic associations. Now. If my passion were bowling, there wouldn't be a problem. If her passion were gardening or shoe shopping, there wouldn't be a problem. Everybody would just tell us to do our thing without the other - and enjoy what we *do* enjoy together. But somehow sex is THE one that we have to do *together* or not at all. So we're very very seriously trying to figure out if we'd both be happier by tearing up a marriage and going our separate ways. We can all *say* that whoever does NOT want to swing - rules the day, but imagine whatever your very-favorite thing is to do. Then imagine your spouse telling you: "I don't like to do that, so WE won't ever do that and You won't do it without me - and you won't do it alone, either - ever again". Now what?

Friend collectors or swingers - - I too am guilty but only because most people don't like my body size, type, etc.