Carbondale Swingers in Colorado

Other activities? - Do you only meet swingers for sex? - I\'d say that the closest friendship we currently *have* - has included both playtimes - and times when everybody was clear that we were *not* playing. We encountered the couple on a nude-camera page, so first contact was \"sexual intentions\" and we got to know each other and had a period of increasing sexual intensity. But then one of the people tired of the sex and we just shut it off - but spend lots of time together doing just about everything. The *best* relationships, I think, integrate playtime: what else *can* be as intimate as sex? But a good relationship doesn\'t depend on sex, either.

What sets you apart from other swingers - Lets see whos looking for what. - I think ironhorse needs to cum to UT for a visit....I LOVE the single men ;) Oh wait the thread....LOL What sets me out from the crowd: Well I dont think Im better then anyone else, but I do like to make sure everyone around me is having a good time. :) I have a "bouncy" personality. When I do get to go out, I make the most of it and have a GREAT time whatever I'm doing. What gives me an edge: I think because I am VERY expressive sexually. When Im being pleasured you can see, hear, feel, taste, and smell the enjoyment. I have been told that I am better then watching porn. I LOVE being on cam. I LOVE knowing that I can excite people just by them seeing me. Maybe it's a little power trip, but its fun, and I sometimes do pretend while I'm on cam but that's only at night after the little ones are in bed and I can REALLY show off. ;) My talent is the ablity to turn on everyone in the room. I am great entertainment. I love to make sure everyone is having a good time. I have also been told I give great lap dances. My weakness...... I'm not going to let out ALL my secrets hehe. My spot is my neck just below my ear. Lightly kissing and licking that area sends zingers down my legs and makes them quiver. Oh my. hehe Of course my G-spot gets me squirting like a faucet. Better have lots of towels handy around when you even get close to there. ;)

B_k_lovers - Getting over first-time jitters - ^^Most definitely Honestly, a large part of the lifestyle (in our experience) is figuring out what you want and how to communicate that with other couples. Personally, I would not just strip unless I'm sure all 4+ people are on the same page. They did a few seminars on this topic at Young Swingers Week in Jamaica last week. There were some good pointers there, such as using body language/touch (shoulder is casual, elbow is more interested, small of back is intimate) and gauging reactions. Or giving the other couple plenty of chances to say "yes" either through word or action by opening up opportunities to do so. One of the things that we like to do as a couple is invite another couple (or single friend, or small group) over to play naughty board games. Turns out you can turn any game into a strip game if you're creative enough, and that's a good way to allow people to ease into whatever their comfort level is. Every gets as naked as they feel is comfortable, then you can start swapping "favors" or "truth or dare" style challenges or whatever instead of stripping once you're as naked as you want to be.

Adulter or Swinger? - - I'll probably catch a lot of flack for what I'm about to say but here goes. SWINGING is or was started by servicemen in the late 50 and early 60's . Two MARRIED couples would SWAP wives for the night. Generally, the odd couples would repair to different rooms and play. The only thing sharred about it was that they had swapped... Then it progressed to parties and shoe parties or key parties and couples would go with the person whos shoe or keys they would get from the pile. Over the years single women were welcomed into the swinger ranks since swinging/swapping had evolved to simply recreational sex.... They were welcomed because women were looking for bi sexual experiences and men like the idea of 2 on one and watching women together. Enter the single men.... When I was younger we called young single men and women getting together dating... Now we have singles "dating" swingers???? Enter the married guy who isnot happy with what he has at home and thinks swinging is a legal/moral way to get strange.... Bottom line one needs to be married or in a committed relationship to cheat. Cheating is where one of the couple goes out and plays with someone other than their partner.... So for a married woman, not in a "relationship" to have sex with anyone, another single, randomly is not cheating but in a very broad sense, is in fact swinging. I would also say that one could also say that that person is dating.... regardless of the sexual connotations. One thing to note here is that swinging has evolved to something more than recreational sex. It now has the connotation of friends or friendship involved. In fact, there are actually people who wish to have closed sexual relations with one or more couples. Exclusive in nature where each couple involved only has sex with their partner and with ONLY people who have agreed that they willl do the same... So cheating is the only cut and dried issue... Non consensual sex with other than ones own partner of a committed relationship. The rest is either dating or swinging/swapping... I'm sure we all knew this but it needs to be reiterated from time to time...

Joking around with the wife - - Yeah, we know about them being upside down. She said she did it like that to not make it as noticeable to the vanillas that do know about it and for the swingers that do to wonder.

Do you cut to the chase? - What's your history - Question today is how likely are you to have sex on a first date as swingers? a. Never b. Rarely c. about half the time d. Often e. Always, if there is chemistry f. Always, and in all ways imaginable