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Indiscretion - - we have a male friend we have known for years. he got a new girlfriend who seemed to be eager to try swinging, she had a few experiences, mostly with us, but then they broke up for other reasons. we still see him but didn't try to stay in contact with her. so just a couple of weeks ago we go to our favorite biker bar, where we are regulars, the band was playing and the place was packed. and there she is, all sexy and looking for a new man, and about half drunk, with horny guys hanging all around her. she was overjoyed to see us, the only people she really knew in the place. so she makes it a point to introduce us to all her new friends, most of them already knew us but not about the swinging part of it, they were just playing along with the drunk chick. then she announces in way too loud a voice "and they're swingers too!" it was actually kind of funny, 2 other swinger couples we know were there and started sniggering. it is a biker bar, so no real harm done, and some other couples that we barely knew have been making it a point to get more friendly with us lately. so we got outed at our favorite hangout and the skies didn't fall in and nobody even seemed overly surprised or shocked. I didn't want to spoil her good mood, but the next day we called her and let her know that we would prefer to decide ourselves who we want to be privy to that information.

Casual sex - Seems like good news to us. - We've found that its much easier in California to just "hook up" because most of the clubs who cater to swingers have rooms, beds, pools and jacuzzi inside their premises and you bring your own drinks. Most of the times there is food and a bar to serve the drinks you bring so its all there and all you have to do is show up and dance, get naked and have sexy fun (not in that order).

When was the last time you... - Wine Down Wed. Poll - This is a swingers site? Oh shit!!

The White Value System - - RIDERZ, I for one, nor any posts that I read were against "black values". You speak of a 70's mentality, however teh video I posted of Wright was from THIS YEAR 2008. On a side note, I have also been stocking up on ammo and magazines, not just because of the election, but because of the inevitable. I say we invade the Grand Cayman Islands. Only swingers will be allowed

Playing Alone - - Couples all have different rules. Many categorically refuse to play alone with ANYONE ever. This is their "security" place. They feel comfortable in the place where they can see each other and "protect" if necessary. It takes some people a long time to get passed this. It's kind of a 'control' thing leftover from the vanilla life. I'm not saying it's bad, good or indifferent it's just the way it is. Some people take longer to get passed their histories as vanillas than others. As they progress and get more comfortable with themselves, the lifestyle, their partners then they will slowly open up and begin to trust a bit more. Don't take it personally, that's the key. Many people still hang on to their vanilla background that their partners are their most 'valued' possession. I liken it to my $450 deep sea fishing reel. Sure I'll loan it to someone to use if I'm on the boat with them and can make sure they're taking care of it. Is there anyone I'd just let 'borrow' it out right for the day or weekend? Not a chance in hell. It takes time to let go of that 'she's/he's mine' get feeling. I think my wife and I took almost 6 years before we got there successfully. We tried many times before that but it never worked out well for either of us. We finally came to a point where it's okay to play separately everything from next room to next state it no longer bothers us. I personally prefer within 30 - 50 miles so she get's home faster for the "after play" sex you're describing (which I really like too.) You'll have to find a VERY secure, VERY established, VERY strong couple to fulfill your fantasy. They are out there, my wife and I for example but even though we're open to playing separately are we open to YOU playing with her or me separately? That's a different level of trust. Does it mean no? No. It means "maybe" in time it's a possibility. (I'm speaking hypothetically of course.) Don't worry your "couple" or "person" will come along. You might also try investigating a subsection of the lifestyle called "hotwifeing" while I know few swingers who are hardcore into only hotwifing, there are quite a few that tip toe in that part of the lifestyle (quick def, she plays he doesn't except with her.) That's the post play joy for you and the play and post play joy for her. Most people just bounce between that and swinging. There are people out there just be patient and don't expect it from any current playmates that you have established rules with, they need to progress at their own speed.

So... Where's Everyone Skiing This Season? - - [quote=TWONAUGHTYONES]For swingers what could be better than Beaver, or as the locals call it, the Beav! Beaver Mt, up Logan Canyon ;)[/quote] Be sure to ski Nasty (a run at The Beav, right by Ego Trip)...if you think you can handle it. [em]Emo_28[/em]

Lots of Flakes or Phonies? - - [quote=SAMEROOMONLY]I think we could have an entire discussion on what qualifies as being a swinger. Some people would say you have to fuck every couple you meet, regardless of attraction, because really, its just sex and you can take or give a dick to anyone. Some would say any act of sharing yourself in any form is swinging. I'm sure in Utah if you did a poll, a majority would say if you are kissing another person or feeling up their titties, that is swinging. Can I kiss someone with enough passion to basically be a sexual act? I think so. So to declassify people as swingers because they play less often, or hardly ever, or even because all they want to do is to have sex in front of another couple, or even just to watch, seems, well, a little discriminatory and pointless. There is a whole spectrum of people, ideas and values on this site and in the community. We have had MANY couples lose interest when we have told them we like to meet over drinks, go home alone and discuss it, and then go from there. They say either full swap, or no meet. Oh well. Maybe it is our loss as well as their loss, but we don't like to be pressured into anything. Do we make bad swingers. Sure, to some. Have we made a ton of great friends by looking around? Hellz Ya. We love our new friends, even the ones we have never, or will never, play with. Also, by moving slower, the people we have met tend to stick around longer, as opposed to being just another notch on the bedpost. (as poet_rayl mentioned) As far as parties, for us they have been a great, low-pressure way to meet people. Is it a way for some people to just dip their toes in? Absolutely. And I welcome those people. They have to start somewhere and it is much better for them than just jumping in and fucking the first couple they meet than having issues in their relationship because of it. We were both completely petrified at our first party and got so drunk I'm sure we made a few horrible impressions. But we can sympathize with people being unsure of the lifestyle and what it encompasses. We have avoided the parties where everyone has to get naked and play. Just not our thing. We must be too picky and for us it seems strange, and a little risky, to jump in a pile of unknowns and get our biznass done. So, basically, there is a spectrum from the super pushy swingers who want to fuck all the time regardless of whose hole or nubbin it is (yes, I am generalizing, I'm sure they might, possibly care a little) to noobs who want to just look around, see what is our there, and if they work up the nerve, play. Who cares? Don't get mad about it, don't get pissy and just accept that people are different and everyone has different needs. I don't think most people are trying to be deceitful or dishonest. They just don't know what they want or how to proceed. AANDR and Glitzy have a good idea. If it doesn't work, move on. Keep trying. But please, be respectful and polite when you do. Can't we all just get along? God bless us, everyone.. and all that shiz. The Mr. [/quote] We are spot on with your point of view. -C and J

Why do most cpls in the age range of 25-40 get so hung up on ag - - we love meeting new friends in the life style . but we dont want to play with everybody we meet . we go to alot of parties and hang out with a lot of different levels and ages of swingers . we dont rule one out more then the other for any reason . do we going looking for bigger people ???? or older people ???? no . but we really dont go looking for anyone . we enjoy our friends and try to make new ones .and we look and see each person for who they are and how they act . i am looking for friends to hang out with . and then i PICK MY PLAYMATES OUT OF THAT GROUP . the ones i click with and feel turned on i will play as much as i want to . do i rush faster to go up and say hi to a younger and in shape couple . hell yes . but i will also pull the oldest person in the club up on the dance floor and have a blast !!! i enjoy hanging out with older swingers . but alot of people that have been in the life style for along time are more in a rush and looking for fun . i love the new bies best . they are new and fresh and so creative and more into teashing and flirting WHICH IS MY BIGGEST TURN ON . but i also love to flirt and just make people happy . last party i asked an older woman to be my parnter in a contest . at a huge club with about 400 people . she was very shy cause all the other girls where DANCER LOOK ALIKES ... ( I DONT LIKE THE BARBIE LOOK ALIKE TYPE ) PERFECT ISNT MY CUP OF TEA . but i was teasing this older woman and i got to her lift her skirt and let me spank her ass . and she was spanking mine . and then she had to do a dance by herself . and i gave her a hug and spanked her ass and told her to go shake that hot ass and make them all scream . she did her best and she had a blast . she told me thanks so much for making her feel so alive and wild . and that made me so turned on and happy . and i love hanging out with people who are creative and fun . i look at peoples pics and see what their style is .i read their profiles and see how much they open up and what they have to say . yes i do look on the outside a bit to be with someone . but i also judge them by them for the real them . and what they like and dont like . and how they treat others and each other . iam so turned on by a few older couple that we know . one couple we did some things that we have never done before cause they wanted it like that we love to get wild , and take pics and make movies . i love body paints . i am turned on by people who are into what we are . young or old .black or white , married or single . alot of people talk about all the popel that dont like them cause they are older or not in perfect shape . but i also dont play with the hard bodies and try to look and act all perfect .that is a huge turn off to me . the ladies that all go to the club and they all look alike . blonde hair , tats int eh same place s , same cute matching outfits ,same size tits . and they think thats all their is about them . i cant stand that shit , people ask me why am i hanging out with the older ones and not chasing the pole dancer . i like to see people for who they are . and see the bad with the good and still like it . and want it . some people turn u on and some dont . if u are at a place where most people dont then u are hanging out with the wrong crowd . always be around fun people that u click with . and sometimes things that are bothering people about themselves can show . or just be in your head that is the reason . there could be other reasons about u that someone isnt turned on by . we hang out with alot of people . but play with only a few good friends . and thats what we are looking for . and we wont play with anyone that is just look ing for a play mates . so the best advise i can think of is ... to find a cool fun group that u can have a blast with and find what u want and need and dont worry about the ones that u dont click with for whatever reason . no biggie . have fun with the ones that do like u . thats what matters . naguhty dreams freaky kitty

On the road again - Frequent Travelers - Interesting thought It would be fun to meet other swingers on the road for the purpose of hanging out, not swinging....

Destiny's October 14th Halloween Motel Party at Quality Inn in K - Meet and Greet social party with On-premise, no pressures/obligations - Destiny's Private Parties Door Donation Gatherings Motel Halloween Party and Contest When: Oct. 14th, 2006 Where: Quality Inn on I-75 North 2nd Floor Meeting rooms Time: 8pm until 1:30/2am Party info: BYOB, On-premise with no pressures/obligations, fingerfoods and drink set-ups provided, coolers welcome, and NO DRESS CODE. More info on web-sites...... http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinyssocials/index.html http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinytw39/index.html Hostess: Tammy Williams Co-hosts: Samantha B. Jesse J. Rick and Sabrina R. Matt and Angie L. http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinyssocials/index.html http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinytw39/index.html http://www.swingular.com/JEFFANDTAMMY/ http://www.hometown.aol.com/tenaseestripper/myhomepage/profile.html http://adultfriendfinder.com/go/p49785c Ice on hand in a large cooler Black lights and disco ball in dance floor area, with 300 watt sound system. Private and open play areas, with air mattresses. Banquet tables with plenty of seating. Motel Rooms Are Available, for guests and members of Destiny's Private Party at a discounted rate, as long as you mention you're with the party group in the meeting room. I have 5 rooms on reserve, just let the front desk know you're with the party, so you can get one of the rooms for your overnight stay. You can also use AAA discounts. Just have my name removed and have yours put in it's place, if you decide to get a room. * * * * *You're not required to get a room to attend the party.* * * * * * Please DO NOT mention "swingers group" to any of the office staff. I rent the meeting rooms for a "Private Party", and that's all anyone needs to know there. We do not run around outside the meeting rooms naked, we are respectful and discreet in our playing, and we want to keep it this way, to have a place to meet at monthly, so please be dressed appropriately when you go to the restrooms, outside the meeting room, above the lobby. Take care and see ya'll soon. Have a great and wonderful day....your Hostess, Tammy Contact information: [email protected] [email protected] [email protected]

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