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Do you have be like Barbie to be wanted? - - what i will tell you is that on these sights lots of folks look at the pics and judge the book by the cover. I know for fact that alot of folks don't even bother reading the profiles some may read part. We have had more fun in local clubs ( swingers type clubs ) where you get a mix. Confidence is a big thing and it doesn't take much to shake it. Just remember this is a place to attempt to meet folks , try to find some local groups or clubs that get together and see if that works for you. If you do go to a club do not be a wall flower again nothing happens if you sit on the sidelines... I will agree with everyone else tho, most of us got into swinging as a couple and 99 % of the guys are gonna want to participate not just sit on the sidelines.

Hottest Swingular Couple - - Nope. Not joining this popularity contest. Suffice it to say? I think there might be a few Hot or Not sites still around. Better yet, someone could start a Swingers Hot or Not site and make a Fin or two! (I think Like my Nude Pic is one) But to answer the question...I believe whomever you're drawn to in the moment. Whomever your focus is on, wherever your lips are locked and your sex is drilled? THAT'S the hottest swinger. -K_T

Single males, do you wonder why??? - - I will just use this thread to reemphasize a truism. People that don't learn the rules of being an active, functional swinger (whether they be unsuccessful single males, couples, or single females) won't last long in the Lifestyle. If you want to be a popular player, an ability to read others and satisfy their desires is the key to getting what you want. Online swing sites offer a medium to the dysfunctional wannabees to reach out and figuratively touch (as opposed to actually touching) the real swingers. I get obnoxious messages from wannabees from time to time as well, but I just ignore them.

Important Info regarding New Year Eve Fantasy Ball - Hosted by Secret Desires and Utah Uncensored - We have no issues with single males that are in the lifestyle. Most we have met are very courteous and kind. We do, however, have issues when a security gaurd/ bouncer which has been entrusted to maintain the security of the party says "hey, you want to go upstairs and check out the swingers?" to people that are not part of the group. We are not a Zoo exhibit to be gawked at. I'll tell you what. IF you can guarantee that this will NOT be the case, then we will be there.

Swinger behavior at vanilla parties... - Where do you draw the line of appropriate? - [quote=WENDYBLWMEHARDR] Wow, where do you begin with this? 1. Your at a vanillia party = no flirting or flashing! 2. Children are present! = no flirting or flashing! 3. Most importantly how Dare someone say anything hurtful to a child or anyone else for that matter = no class !! 4. These folks should be Outted I would hate for someone elses child to be the next victim because some folks dont have the testicular fortitude to speak out against such attrocities !! 5. This makes you as bad as them . Look in the mirror and ask yourself why you even posted this drama . Did you do it just to stirr the pot because you like the drama ? Or did you really want some good to come from this? Do the right thing and Out them and then ban them from all events. Bad things happen when good people do nothing to prevent it! Take a stand and choose your side there is no grey area here .[/quote] As I said earlier, I am biting my tongue not screaming out who this person is...but as pointed out above, I would then be the one in trouble...so you ask why did I post this? No it was not to stir the pot or to cause drama (if I had outed them that would be causing drama)...of course I want good to come of this, I want people to realize that we as swingers have a bad rep as it is and we need to be aware that our behavior is seen by others and can affect everyone around us! I have chosen a side...it's the side of being an adult and abiding by the guidelines that I agreed to when I signed up...I CAN NOT name the person...she knows who she is and she reads these forums and she will see that her behavior has disgusted many and hopefully she will act accordingly next time...the fact that you see me as bad as her...well that is your own opinion, but I know that I did the right thing here.... Kisses...Naugh-Ty

2 new groups started - - Hi All, Just to let everyone know that there are 2 new groups (Sensual Massage and Oregon Swingers); just wanted to get the word out! Thanks...

Two faced lieing dumbfucks - - Hey we have had the same situation here saying that they are swingers then meet with them and find out that he doesn't play. On top of it they continue on trying to be friends

Advice needed - Are we ready for this? - Just a casual observation...based upon what I've read so far...the two of you are not in a place right now to be actively swinging. You need to re-focus on yourselves first...as a couple...before you have anything to offer another couple. Not to mention you will have difficulty recieving anything of value from another couple. There are concerns and unresolved issues apparently that you have not been able to address just between the two of you, much less without having to publicly seek advice from other swingers. Perhaps you should take a break from any active pursuits until you both understand where you are on sharing each other sexually, and what's informing his change in behavior. You have also had a turn-around on your views as well, which may also be affecting his feelings on the scenario. Swinging never, ever, EVER "fixes" or "spices" up a relationship. It only amplifies whatever dynamics are already present. It doesn't matter if they're "good" or "bad", "healthy" or "unhealthy", it's irrelevant; whatever dynamics are present are also going to be increased. Unstable couples who start swinging are more inclined to not only a miserable experience in swinging, but in their relationship will suffer as well. Conversely, stable couples, will often find that swinging brings a new level of enhancement into their relationship...both sexually and emotionally, because they already have the skills and tools in place to maintain a healthy, communicative relationship, and invariably are very aware of what they are looking for as a partnership in swinging. Best of luck....:)

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Reply or don't reply for requests to meet? - - Their emotional response probably has more to do with their over all experience with the lifestyle than to anything you said or didn't say did or didn't do. Here goes my thoughts..... People have a hard time emotionally disconnecting. People can be irrational. Sometimes we do not know why the react as they do but then we do not know the back story. They, or we may be associating something they, or we said with a whole lot of experience that had nothing to do with our or their intent. Our primitive brain functions which include release of the chemicals that color emotions have full access to our prefrontal cortex where we have the power of reason. With all the reasoning capability our prefrontal cortex manifest, it has very, very little ability to turn off our more primitive brain. The pathways just are not there. So our primitive brain has full chemical access to our bodies and higher brain but our higher brains do not have equal access to alter our primitive brain and emotional responses. So we have an emotional reaction, which our reasoning cannot turn off, so in order to try and make our minds match the emotion we are feeling we alter our reasoning. It is called making a mountain out of a mole hill. This loss of reason manifests as irrational behavior and can lead to resentment and negative premeditations such as revenge and violence. Sex drive is emotionally charged. Sex chemicals defy reason more than most and so do the chemicals associated with anger. So the brain function design flaw can make the emotion verses reason imbalance more dramatic when sex is involved. Knowing that, Swingers should recognize that just because you feel angry it does not mean you should be angry. If you let negative emotions color your reason you may be acting irrationally. Drama, drama, drama is what you get. Our rational, reasonable minds are capable of unbelievable accomplishments. Through the scientific method we have cured many, many diseases, we fly all over the globe, we travel and live beyond our atmosphere and under the sea, we share and communicate with small hand held devices and we even form internet social groups that revolve around specific shared interest. The sphere of accomplishments is too long a list to name let alone full understand. No one person can understand or master one, one millionth of all that has to be learned and mastered to make all this happen. So we are capable of incomprehensible collaborative efforts. And yet, we fight and we bicker and we accuse and we are sometimes unreasonably suspicious. Reason without emotion is perhaps safe but not much fun. We want to experience emotions with friends and lovers. The secret answer to successful social interaction almost seems to be to master the art of recognizing when something is positive and healthy and then let the flood gates open up jump in and be overwhelmed and if something is just not right to back off physically but to also emotionally disconnect. The something that is just not right, that may be leading you into angry, sad, or fearful paths may be more within you than without as well. If what is inside you is ugly or afraid emotionally and you let that color your reason then that may be all you can see in people and the world without and you get caught in a vortex of anger or fear. People think they become emotional because of their paranoia but in fact they become paranoid because they were negatively emotional and then the paranoia fed the emotions and on and on. I have attached a link to a video I found this week quite by accident that speaks to this and quite a bit more. For you that are into physics professionally or as amateurs, that will enjoy scrutinizing the math, as far as the math goes, to me I see where this is going but the statement is made

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