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Tournament species verses pair bonding species - How do you look at sex? - Pair bonded. But the more we study and learn about other species the more we realize that our old ideas of monogamy and life long pair bonding just does not hold true. We have observed that given the chance, a healthy percent of most pair bonded species have a tendency to wander. Not only are about 10 percent of the species gay but a good percentage wander in nature. It has only to be determined whether they are swingers or cheating spouses.

Gay people - Do they chose it or just born with it. - I guess you could ask the same question about swingers or any other lifestyle. There is no longer any question that some are born Gay and some born Straight and some born in between. Just like some are wired to be into BDSM. That does not mean that someone, somewhere along the scale, couldn

A Place In The Lifestyle - - We have a local swingers club in Tampa that is advertised as a swinger clubs and most seem to be in the swing lifestyle that is there and, we always have a good time while there... but here is what we see as a little problem. The bar part of the club is also open to non swingers(vanilla).And as we look around the room we notice more & more couples coming knowing it is a lifstyle club and loves the sexy atmosphere and loves to party but not to swap. We have talked to a few couples who told us they like the swinger club environment and how everyone is so open with their sexuality and love to play with each other, but they are not into swapping with other people. We know some will say couples likes this are not swingers and do not have a place in the swinger lifestyle. When you go to a swinger club, you expect people are there to meet and hook up with other swingers. Would you still call them swingers? And do thay have a place in the lifestyle? Would love to here your thoughts!!!!!

How can a single male stand out? - We single males have a (understandable) bad rep. - In light of one of the above responses I felt compelled to add that, first of all, not everyone wants a "stud". Most, in fact, want a polite, respectful, handsome and fit guy to enhance their lifestyle experience. If you are one of the all too frequent single males who mistakenly think that all or even most married guys here are basically cucks, to quote Thumper on South Park, "...you're gonna have a bad time." And yes, many women like confident men but there is a very fine line between confidence and cockiness. I guarantee that if you fall onto the cockiness side of the equation you're probably only going to hit it off with the very small minority of swingers who ARE into the cuck lifestyle. Also, don't talk or act like playing in the lifestyle is your own personal porno. The above advice goes for married guys too, by the way, but this thread is about SM's.

Sex drive!! - My wife has a extremely high sex drive - [quote=TATTOOCOUPLE11]My wife has a very high sex drive we have only had 3 somes with women which she and I love but I was wondering if I should include more sex driven men in our sex life to totally fulfill her needs ?[/quote] It works for us! It will certainly work for you two! Good hunting! Men, women, and couples, and all ethnic origins are all good for us. There are so many hot people and so little time to play with them. We go out of our way to reach out try it all with open arms so long as people are healthy and nice and there is some attraction. We are going to get the equal opportunity logo tattooed on our butts. Be careful, some old school right wing swingers might question your husbands

If you accept a friend request... - Is sex required? - I think you're running into the age old conundrum in swinging that people already have plenty of friends and what they're looking for here are friends with benefits...or at very least friends with the possibility of more should the stars align perfectly. Now if you don't ever intend for that to happen and are rigid in your stated preferences and don't believe in the old adage, "Never say never." then you shouldn't change your profile. There are, sadly, all too many profiles that don't cleariy spell things out and people feel deceived when ultimately they discover that you're just 'using' them for friendship. LOL If, however, you at some point in time decide that it wouldn't kill you to see your wife getting banged while you do the same to some other guy's wife maybe a rewrite is in order. If that will NEVER happen don't feel bad. You aren't alone. People who USED to be swingers and for whatever reason stopped often find they very much miss the excitement of hanging around with people who are sexy, fun loving and a little bit wild. Unfortunately they often find the same problem. People have plenty of friends they CAN'T fuck and don't see much point in using Swingular as a vehicle for find more. But don't despair, there are a few people out there who actually ARE looking for friendship first and sex, "If it happens."...or at least that's what a few say in their profile. We're actually one of those couples. We've told people many times that they don't have to fuck us to be our friends. And we mean it. So yeah, we're out there. We might be as rare as the elusive unicorn but we're out there. Good luck! ps- You could also consider becoming 'soft swap'. There are more than a few couples who only do that and have a great time without 'going all the way'. Just a thought.

Paranoia Strikes Again - - [quote=ILLUSTRATOR]Her security clearance level would be impossible for any of us on this site to predict. It all depends on what they decide she will know that they don't want the rest of the world to know. That will be determined by the unique particulars of the job she will be doing. Unless someone on here has done the exact same job, it's a rare person who will have the knowledge you're searching for from us. And Cheffette is absolutely correct. They will find everything possible on you, and mostly from those who know you. "Why don't you like pie? Your 5th-grade cafeteria monitor said you threw yours at another kid." Yes. They will check that out. They will scour all your social media, probably even hack your computer (maybe they're doing it right now as you're asking these very questions of us). Anything that can compromise your wife enough to make her give away secrets will be checked and they will ask you about it. That's regardless of a Secret or Top Secret status. Does everyone around you know you're swingers? What would you do to keep them from finding out? Sell secrets? That's what they'll be asking themselves. If she thinks she may not get the job by being on Swingular, You should probably delete the account, scrub your hard drive and stop telling people on the forums about your wife's impending security clearance background check. You may be doing more damage than you think, and, if they do find that you're on here, posting this in the forums, they will see that you aren't capable of keeping your own private matters under control which will make her undesirable and a risk to them. Good luck![/quote] That's why I'm wondering if anyone knows anythng about that job. Clearance levels are assigned to different jobs, whether someone's military or a civilian. Although it isn't too unusual for somone to start with one clearance then have to get a higher one if their job or resonsibiities change. Like they start out as a worker bee on something with just a Secret but some years later become a supervisor over others doing that same job, and have to have a Top Secret. Or like when I reenlisted in the Army in '79, all I needed for my job was a Secret. Then they later sent me to a school in Monterey for a different kind of job, and I needed a Top Secret with a Sensitive Compartmented Information endorsement, so they did one of those Special Background Investigations.

420 - - [quote=LEHICPL4FUN][quote=VAGABONDS]Are drugs really only a concern when they are illegal? Where do we draw the line on the other side of things? We know plenty of people who have had major addiction and personality issues with drugs they were prescribed. Are they drug free? I'm sure many people on this site have issues with alcohol, but I'm guessing they take a pass purely on syntax. Alcohol is legal, so it isn't a SCARY DRUG right? We all use different substances in our lives, some are more concerning than others. Someone who has Chlamydia is obviously not disease free, just like a cannabis user is obviously not drug free. I would expect someone who was told someone else was drug free only to find they are a pot smoker to feel lied to, because they clearly were. Maybe a more clear question to ask might be "Do you consider cannabis use a downside when searching for swinging partners?" rather than the literal "Do you consider marijuana to be a drug?".[/quote] The answer there is yes, absolutely I consider the use of pot a downside when looking for other swingers. The reason for this is because I do not want to be put into a situation where it is brought out and I get annoyed and leave. House parties are one thing because you do not always know the people coming, however searching out people we are in more control of running into this issue.[/quote] We all place certain restrictions on what we will or will not accept in our play partners. Over half the profiles on Swingular say they won't play with smokers. Others show preferences in sexual orientation, race, etc. What would be so difficult about keeping yourself from being put into a "situation" when all you have to do is voice your concerns to either your host or your guests? If a potential host says there may be pot smoking - don't go. If a potential guest can't refrain from smoking pot against your wishes - don't invite them. When searching for a potential swing partner, there will most certainly be other issues addressed in advance - why not marijuana? Surely that can't be your only deal breaker. If you ask and they admit to being pot smokers, don't swing with them. What could be easier than that? OK, so marijuana is a drug - I'll give you that. Would you be equally offended if someone were to take their asthma "DRUG" at the same party? What about oxycodone for the pain from their recent back surgery? Drugs - all. We're all adults here, and I would HOPE no one is or will be offended by anything anyone has to say in this open exchange. I'm certainly not - nor is it my intention to offend anyone else.

what if I want to but he doesn't - - [quote=NU2THEGAME]the worst part is that I consider myself intelligent with good common sense, so why can't i repress this- why is this so important to me right now? my hormones are taking over my common sense!! don't want to ruin a marriage for a cheap thrill- but also know that sex is a very important part of a marriage... part of it i'm sure is that I've been with him since i was 14..... i know this.[/quote] There are many little things that we all do without that do not really affect our lives to any degree. But sometimes the little things turn out to be really big things. I would say that you have found one of yours. I sounds like you are telling us that you everything your husband wants sexually. But there is something you need that you are not getting sexually. We could guess as to what that is but it would not help to guess. You need to examine and define what it is that you are lacking. Otherwise all we can do is talk in generalities. Some people only feel safe when things are neatly defined and unchanging. I think that most swingers will tell you that sexually we get into a rut or pattern with any lover and that for many of us that is like the end of life. Most will also tell you that this lifestyle helps to keep you feeling alive and part of the world. You learn knew things from different people and your world opens wider. Marriage changes how many think or act. Why that is would take many pages off topic. A marriage like good government should be one of give and take and compromise. Once one side had decided not to compromise or find a solution that makes their partner happy, then they have decided that the marriage is no linger important. As an example: A woman once told me that after marriage her husband only touched her once a year on a specific day. The rest of the time he was a cold fish. That is all he wanted and what she wanted did not matter. In a way that was sexual abuse of the worst magnitude. To choose a celibate life for one

Vegas Questions. - Tips, good deals, things to do? - There are the standard Swinger haunts, Green Door and Red Rooster, though I'm not a big fan. You can also go out to Parumph to some swinger club, which I've heard is much better. But nothing in Vegas compares to what you can find in California. There is a place called the Hush Club, but it's just a hangout for hookers looking to score some easy cash with some dumb swingers. Private parties are the way to go. I'm not sure if the Admin of this site is still throwing a party every weekend. I know Pure Parties has something going in Mandalay Bay, kind of a meet and greet in one of the clubs, then they have a private room in the hotel for those invited. My wife and I have burned out on these places. If we're going down with another couple, then it's a nice two room condo/hotel and often it's off the strip (Thank God!). I'm not sure they've heard there is a recession in Vegas, but corporate Casino's think they just can charge an arm an leg for everything. Not worth it anymore. Quality has gone down at locations we used to love visiting. Hard Rock Casino is still a fun place to hang out. I hate the Las Vegas club scene, too crowded and you can barely breath at these clubs. Give me a Jazz bar or lounge now over any of these clubs. We were just down there twice in the past 3 weeks. Ended up spending most of our time off strip, and didn't bother with the swinger clubs and still had amazing sex. My advice, take someone down with you. You like gambling, hanging at the pool, and you can find it down there. I've not been to a strip club since last April, seems that prices are getting a little more reasonable in certain clubs. But have no idea lately.

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